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Why does every Tom, Dick and Harriet (and their children) have to own a car? Isn't the world full of too many cars? As an older person that no longer owns a vehicle, it seems ridiculous why 17-year-old Junior must have a car and Mum/Dad will get it for them. Many households in NZ have multiple cars, this is excessive within the cities when buses run and people can carpool. "Must own a car" for my independence mentality is wrecking the planet What is your...
nobody
everyone should ride motorbikes - less costs, less congestion, easier to park. They would be better car drivers at the end of their time on a bike too, through more awareness of other road users
17-Apr-25
I am wondering, as I live way out in the country, and I was seeing drones flying at night. What concerned me is I also saw the medivac in the same area as these drones. I let the Sheriff know seems for now the drones are not flying. My Blink door cameras were picking up all the activity, and it was going on night after night after night. Do others see drones this often in the country?
Alison B
No I don't see them. I would have thought that unless you have a special permit you wouldn't be allowed to operate them at night. It sounds like there might have been an illegal activity going on.
05-Jun-25
Education is something that can never be taken away from you. Once upon a time, someone said to me, Your education is something that no one can ever take from you." That has stayed with me all these years and I realize why this is one of the most famous educational quotes. It's not only true, but also yours to own. What would you say? What is something that can never be taken away?
BLM
Here is MY list of a few things, society cannot take from you (but will try). Your fire, your life skills, your effort, your ideas, your common sense/street smarts, your reactions, your perspective, your life experiences, your determination, your self-respect, your knowledge, your uniqueness, and your poise under pressure!
29-Apr-25
Most people live on high credit that will take forever to pay off due to living on higher means than what we can afford. Bad enough having one credit card, but many have a few, which make you go into a spiral life of credit & you never can get out of. I believe one card is bad enough, you shouldn t be able to obtain any more to stop you from getting out of control. Do you feel banks should stop this to stop people s lives from getting out of control?
Vicki2026
I honestly don't know. I am trying hard to pay off our cards, but our debt did not come from living too well, but simply having to pay bills. My husband had to have operations & could not work or get unemployment because he had his own business, so we accrued debt from medical & other bills. I worked, but it wasn't enough. I can't wait until it's all paid off!! I look forward to that freedom!
05-Mar-25
The price of cigarettes in New Zealand has now hit $50 a packet., of which 80% is tax. Successive governments have pushed the tax up to try to reduce the incidence of smoking in the NZ population. It has spawned a black market, some of which is illegal importation, others have come onto the market as a result of corner shop burglaries. What is the experience of other countries? Are your smoking stats reducing? Why?
Andrew C 287196
The number of cigarette smokers is dropping, but the number of smokers is actually rising thanks to the silliness of allowing sales of electronic cigarettes / vaping (which are not any safer nor healthier than regular cigarettes). \ud83d\ude44
04-Apr-25
Do you agree with this? In my opinion, if AI can't do even simple things (distinguish between genuine emails and spam/scam emails and Microsoft is the WORST OFFENDER for not being able to do this even when you tell it this one is ok and this one is not) and giving wrong answers when searching for things (not just search engines but within sites when you are looking for specific products, and you even give it the brand, product name product code etc). ...
BLM
AI is in its learning phase of its usage - which is not an excuse (just a fact). However, operating on the assumption (you presented in your 'discussion of the day') - if AI is DUMB - then how 'dumb' are humans (including me) for using AI??
12-Apr-25
Being the polar opposite of my siblings in every way shape and form and never having the dad/daughter connection, I always wondered if me daddy were indeed me daddy. It ate away at me for years. I asked my mother many times. I got to a point in my life where I needed to know I did Ancestry D.N.A .BOOM! my gut instincts were spot on Finally got my truth At 70, I found another brother I don t regret any of it, but boy, what an emotional roller coaster.
hiasprdude
I understand your need to know but it's important to realize you are likely not the only person whose life may be upset needlessly with any disclosure. There may be many reasons you weren't told, including your mother having been the victim of rape, incest or long-denied or hidden indiscretions.
How badly you may need to resolve this has to be weighed against the hurt the truth may cause, wounds re-opened and marriages undermined.
11-Apr-25
Certain TV shows and movies are sexist, unrealistic, ridiculous or something else that is awful about them, yet they are popular, WHY? Why do some disgusting food and drinks become popular or a certain ingredient all of a sudden is deemed in so it is put in everything? What are some things you have noticed that either are popular now or were popular in the past, and you are surprised they are or were?
kittle
Nothing is whole some any more. Can't even watch a TV series where they promote homosexuality. Not every one is for this.If it wasn't for my husband would not have a TV !
05-Apr-25
If I want to protest, complain or even compliment I put pen to paper and send it either by snail mail or email, but others glue themselves to roadways, make a racket at a function, block waterways or interrupt speeches etc. which inconveniences others. When I write they have my name and contact details, someone reads it and in 99% of cases I get a reply. This does have advantages because I am then on their list of contacts, so I get newsletters as well as information as to...
blunder boy
If the pen is mightier than the sword why do actions speak louder than words, personally, I take action if I feel wronged by never using the service or company again, I have walked out of jobs for wrongful accusations,i have stopped shopping at certain shops because of management changes, would I ever stoop to violence no, I've written letters before never had a reply, i once wrote a letter to the minister of housing here in sa because they were paying me to clean house that they were demolishing, that cost me my job ,
27-Mar-25
Research shows that certain strategies can help build up self-control around spending and saving money. The advice is to make one financial decision at a time, to track your spending. What else? How do I train my brain to stop spending money?
blunder boy
I have all my money in jars, I don't touch them until they are full, I don't have any credit cards and there is never money in my bank, it isn't the Bank of Pop it's the Bank of Jars, I have 17 different jars all different sizes all different purposes, it is amazing how much you can save by putting your change away and I also save my 5 dollar notes for the bigger purchases
19-Feb-25
You may feel lonely because many of your friends are at work. You may be bored. The activities you try may not challenge or engage you. Many retirees feel they have lost their sense of purpose. What are your thoughts? Why is it so hard to retire?
Jennifer
Many reasons mainly the cost of living. I agree with a panel member that the Govt don't want you to retire so change the goal posts as frequently as they can get away with. The Govt needs our taxes more and more as people either choose not to have children or can't literally afford to with housing and cost of living. A totally sad state of affairs as it changes peoples' lives so the rich can get richer and tell the middle class which will become almost extinct that they are lazy or didn't work hard enough. Totally unjust and immoral. We absolutely have to choose the best Govt in May this year to serve the ordinary working people of this country. Let's unite together there is absolute power in numbers!!!
02-Feb-25
The joy to cost ratio can be a way to get a clearer perspective on the relationship. Likewise, many joys are unrelated to money, too. What does it mean to you?
APB
and now all the Christians have joined in too...even though this has nothing to do with them..nice!,...how about some bible quotations?...cannot get enough of those suckers...apparently...
30-Jan-25
There is some scientific evidence indicating that even moderate alcohol consumption can increase the risk of several types of cancer. What are your thoughts on this? Do we need cancer warnings on alcohol bottles?
Tipps
we all die one way or another, sickness, accident, murdered, run over by a horse. I grew up in the alcohol {home Brew} enviroment for sixty years, and started drinking at the age of 12, and still not out at 70
27-Jan-25
On the one hand we hear on the news that children are conducting more crimes such as ram raids, teenagers deliberately serving half cooked chicken nuggets (raw on the inside) to kids in fast food restaurants etc. On the other hand, mental health issues are on the rise, and it seems as though people are less resilient now, with more depression and anxiety. Do you think we are raising our kids to be too soft or too uncaring?
BLM
Do I think people are raising their kid(s) to be too soft or too uncaring (good question) ...hm. One, I always 'thought' kid(s) were carbon copy of their parents when it comes to pernicious behavior. Two, if kid(s) are too soft or uncaring (that is not on society, but on their parents - aka parents not doing their job - since their parents got the kid - HERE). Last, I don't have any kids (not my issue or concern)!
21-Jan-25
I don't care for sports other than the Olympics. I don't follow sports of any kind and do not watch them. I certainly would not pay an outrageous price for tickets to see them live. It is absurd what they pay professional athletes; they could do so much good with that kind of money. Many athletes end up broke and don't know how to earn a living any other way.
Peter L
i like these singing shows butt i don't like how the show the background story it always show how something terrible happen in there lives or got a sickness in their family it a bloody singing contest not a contest to see who got the worse story
18-Jan-25
In our family, every year we would give the same presents. My Dad would wrap up a potato in lots of newspaper and put it under the tree, one for me and one for my brother. He then did this for my daughters as well. We always had one fun gift, One daughter always got a coffee mug, she has quite a collection now. The other always got funny underpants. I would search all year for both. My husband still gets a cigar (his one a year) and I get good chocolates. ...
MIKE 1
WHAT I DO NOT UNDERSTAND ABOUT CHRISTMAS WHEN SOME PEOPLE HAVE TO HAVE A TREE THAT HAS BEEN CUT DOWN.EVERY TIME I HEAR WELL MOST OG THE TIME GROUPS OF PEOPLE GO OUT TO PLANT TREES TO HELP CLIMATE CHANGE SO WHY NOT BUY A TREE THAT CAN BE USED FOR YEARS
22-Dec-24
I am an only girl in a family with four brothers. My mother lived to be 88 years old and had dementia. I moved her in with me and cared for her for the last three years of her life. Only one of my brothers came to see her, the others didn't even call to check on her. Mom was a good mother and took good care of us growing up. We had an alcoholic father who cared more about his liquor than about us, but Mom made up for it by giving more of herself. I know of other families...
BLM
Gender is not the issue, more like family dynamics is the issue combined with the stereotyping of males. Furthermore, your sample size is too small to draw valid conclusions on gender. In addition, under the scenario you described you can draw invalid generalizations about males. Which has led to the 'myth' of girls (women) are more responsible than boys (men)...hm - even in these politically correct times - males are winning custody of their child or children from their ex-wives - for the first time - in the history of democracies!
21-Dec-24
Has anyone noticed that the weather outside is colder than usual for this time of year, especially here in California where I live? It feels like I m living in Wisconsin, where it s not sunny most of the time. Even when the sun comes out, it s not hot. Winters in Wisconsin often reach 50 below zero, and the weather can change dramatically it might rain, then shine, and then snow, which is quite strange. Also, I really dislike group homes and their regulations....
Nel
Hello Lisa thank you for the Californian weather perspective. In Melbourne the weather is similar, it's colder and hotter during this time of the year, than the past few years. Climate change and its effects are quite obvious. Regarding your plight of living with house mates is a bit daunting, but what can you do? When you cannot afford a home by yourself, some sacrifices have to be made. I pass a positive compliment to you. If you are the one who is appearing in the photo, you look quite young and smart, why not try a career advancement to buy your own place? Just a suggestion! This is what I did when I was young: work harder to climb the ladder to achieve career development. It was hard but, it solved a lot of life problems. Good Luck! \ud83d\ude00
03-Dec-24
I am sitting over here in Adelaide Australia and the sun is shining, and believe me, I know how lucky I am, I want to send as many blessings as I can chalk up with the big fella upstairs and send them over to the hurricane-affected areas, all I can say is Hellene is a [bad word], and Milton is an [another bad word]
The ghost
We should all consent to politicians having a sabbatical trip to form a barrier to areas that are about to be hit by hurricanes, volcanic eruptions, earthquakes and any other natural disasters, with only a bottle of listerine to sweeten the smell of bullshit coming out of their mouth as they get hit by nature.
11-Oct-24
It is something that Brands REALLY want to know...you know brands, right? They used to make things and were responsible for them...now they outsource the manufacturing process to someone else ... make MASSES of money ... sell you T-Shirts with their name on them (in the 1970s these were given away) and try desperately to make themselves cool and trendy by spending millions of dollars on sponsorship and advertising. Vacuous...like the Emperor's...
BLM
It is called 'a fool and his money syndrome' only available in capitalistic countries at premium prices aka Pourquoi folie persiste-t-elle - Je ne sais pas pourquoi.........
24-Oct-24
Should offenders be jailed for the rest of their lives without parole, leaving the bill to the taxpayer, which amounts to over $100k annually? Or should we just implement the death penalty? The only reason offenders receive these sentences is for the protection of the community not financial protection. If the death penalty were applied to severe life-without-parole offenders, both the community and the taxpayer would benefit. In either case, the offenders aren't stepping back...
sunflower
you are forgetting those who are wrongly imprisoned and later found not guilty. once you kill someone it's not possible to fix such cases. and there are too many of them these days.
05-Sep-24
What do the men think about woman boxing? Is it a man's sport? And shouldn't be practice by females?
BLM
Women boxing (women) and men boxing (men) is not a sport (under any set of twisted circumstances - PERIOD) and should have been permanently banned in all countries - decades (or is it centuries) ago (so much for humans capable of the doing the 'right thing' under any circumstances when capitalism principles are involved aka always about the money - LOL)!
17-May-23
I went into the city for an appointment and stopped into a Cafe to get coffee. It was a tiny place with a big, heavy glass door. I noticed from the 6 customers crammed in there, one man was needing to take a lady's mug of coffee to her outside (in her wheelchair) So I went and pulled the door open and held it for him to go out to her I may well have been a door stopper. He didn't even glance sideways, let alone thank me. Yes, I was all in black And I am only small...
ShawneeBaby
The worst experience I've had with being invisible was a few years ago. I had recently been released from hospital after an accident. I was on crutches and struggling to get into a local mall to do some Christmas shopping. Well, some jerk actually pushed me out of the way so he could go first. Talk about angry, but what was I to do?
18-Jun-24
Do you think seniors cause more car accidents than young people?
Robyroo
I received my licence at 19 & am now 82, I have never had a speeding ticket, only a small dint in my car in our car park misjudging how close I was to a pole. Another scratch on the front must have been done by someone else when my car was in the shopping centre. Will have to go for my license in three years & not looking forward to it, my husband is due for the second time he passed there last one in flying colours. How many young people with have a record like this, all my children & now grandchildren have been picked up mostly for speed limit fortunately not drink driving, one G Child lost his license for three months after loosing all his points, was rather expensive , fines as well as difficulty in getting to work.
05-May-24
They are so big and car parks are designed for cars not 4WDs that are virtually as big as a truck. Look at the Ram or the LandCruiser
Cleopatra
Maybe it's time to remember that country people need bigger vehicles to successfully run their farms, be they meat, fruit, vegetable or other. Without our rural industries the NZ economy would be in a total mess. And of course you are right, big vehicles don't fit in little car-parks and rural people do not go out of their way to annoy town-people so let's just be a little more tolerant please
28-Apr-24
2023 has been quite a ride for most people, but what are you looking forward to in 2024? Maybe a job change, or a trip? Perhaps retirement for some people?
CILLY0
I am hoping that 2024 will be better than the last few years and I will find a purpose for living again.
31-Dec-23
Some places around the world have Army on the streets. We have that here in Australia (Sydney). What is your opinion about that, is it OK to have it in Australia but not OK in North Korea and why?
Grandma
If all people obeyed the lockdown rules there wouldn't be need of extra law enforcement. So sad for NSW friends who are doing the right thing but are subject to more and more lockdown.
21-Aug-21
Australia is in dire need of workers. From healthcare and teaching, to farms and the factory floor, the country is in the grip of a national labour shortage. Regional towns like Griffith, in central NSW, are crying out for more workers while those still in jobs struggle to shoulder the burden. Across the country, 470,900 jobs remain unfilled, and job vacancies have jumped 40 per cent in the last year. The federal government has promised to speed up...
Maureen M 941354
Hi I am 70 years of age - was in an IGA store a few weeks ago - noticed signage mentioning CHECKOUT OPERATORS NEEDED - went home made a phone call - have done 2 four hour training shifts and today I am now on the pay roll. HIP HIP HOORAY FOR IGA??
21-Nov-22
You can't tell the difference....it is saving the planet...it stops animal cruelty.....and this runs against... you can taste the difference...it is made of vegetables, so why does it cost twice the price of meat...if you are going to stop animal cruelty there are better ways...........surely being a vegetarian means eating no meat, so why do you need a meat substitute? Are you missing your dead animals? What do we think?
WonkyandProud
I see no point in humans becoming vegetarians. What do we do with the animals that we have on the planet? Cows have to be milked, and there's nothing better than beef in my opinion. People are not herbivores. Why do we think we are so civiilized that we are too good to eat meat? God put them here for us to use, but not to abuse! There are humane ways to slaughter animals. I think it's more important to focus on people slaughtering other people! What the hell is going on there? We need to figure that out ASAP! Get rid of the drugs, cults and mental illness and automatic weapons. The founders of this country did not mean for us to be armed like the armed forces. The US is the worst country for murder, why? Are we too spoiled that we are bored and are looking for love instead of drugs or material things? I think it's a combination of drugs and working and divorced parents. Homes are broken!
01-Jul-22
Many Huge Multi-national corporations claim to be very concerned about Climate Change, Sustainability and that they are addressing these issues with their products. But are they? They seem to be endlessly releasing products which, if anything, do little to nothing to help. An example is those plastic capsules which you toss into the washing Machine, but after it has dissolved, what happens to that Plastic? Another is Those Water, literally hundreds of litres....
APB
No-one is doing anything...and it is for most part photo ops...and talk fests...anything that is being done that is worthwhile is too little and far too late...I'd like to lay into all of them...in their nice suits..with a baseball bat...useless worthless greedy people who are not only lying to us.. but locking us into a future where we will at first be forced to endure a terrible planet that will in a very short period of time kill us all....the clowns and idiots involved are guilty of crimes that are far worse than any war crime...but nobody will be left to punish them...may they all rot in hell
...was that a bit heavy?
01-May-23
As the Government continues to try to force us to buy expensive Electric Vehicles, I am at a standstill. Why? 1. We don't have enough dams to service the electrical Grid. 2. The batteries are EXTREMELY expensive to replace 3. I chatted with a professional engineer that measures Electro Magnetic Fields. He told me that you will never find an EV at his house. I wear hearing aids and have a TV, laptop, cell phone, etc. which all contribute...
CILLY0
I think the world is being led by the nose by "greenies" who have been taught at school how wonderful and pollution friendly EV's are without sufficient knowledge to think things through for themselves and make rational judgements. I hate to think what will happen to all the worn out batteries in the future, let alone what will happen during a black-out, or a severe dumping of snow on major highways. No way will you stay warm in a car that can't continue turning over. The future possibilities just don't bear thinking about. Common sense and rationalism has gone out the window.
24-Apr-23
A huge range of Easter chocs are now out there, 5 varieties of hot cross buns, Happy Easter cards - what next, rabbit costumes? Oh, wait... yes, there is! (Children's size) Has Easter marketing got out of hand, or just meeting consumer demands?...
Raelz
Annoys me they bring in so much rubbish yet I can't find the Easter Bilby around anymore, which is an AUSTRALIAN animal and raises money for the Bilbys! I used to buy them every year and nothing else. Now I can't:/
07-Apr-23
Conversations surrounding political correctness and wokeness are buzzing on the internet. Do we have the right to say what we want, even if it offends others? Does a push for diversity lead to tokenism? Have the ever-shifting boundaries of political correctness gone too far?
Craig S 1050522
Yes it has gone too far and plans to go even further.
But then I'm nearly 67yr old and came through the 70's and 80's which were not PC at all.
03-Apr-23
It was announced this morning that the NSW Premier is expecting his seventh child. I think good on him. The country will need lots of well educated, high earning tax payers in the years to come. If you can afford them, as well he can, I think it is a wonderful thing. I always found the more the merrier. Children just love having other children around all the time. With no nappy washing and all the modern conveniences it would be an absolutely delightful family to...
APB
While I am very grateful that Gladys has gone....and even more grateful to have left NSW for good...I'm not sure Elizabeth...my impression of "Whats his name" is that he is a slightly camp, right wing stick insect...with an ego so massive even Scott Morrison has been surprised...someone else pointed out that he holds out his "mass of children"... "like a human shield" to prove that he is straight...I don't know...but if that has any credence at all..I find that very sad...and he shouldn't be trying hide his true feelings....I personally find him just so very deeply creepy and strange...Yuk!....is that just me?...I wouldn't like to be one of his children or any part of his family...but I think its fine if he wants to adopt you....
28-Oct-21
Some medical expert in Australia has just been saying that the days of a fat happy Santa should be over (Channel 10)...and that Santa needs to give up the cookies and milk and eat carrots like the reindeer ... come on guys ... this should be a good one ... what do you think?
Katzeye
I would much rather sit on a fat soft jolly Santa's knee then a bony hard knobbly one..Oh wait I forgot you can't sit on Santa's knee anymore because that too has been taken away thanks to the woke police.
21-Dec-22
Joe Biden has pledged to raise America's national minimum wage to $15 an hour. Economists traditionally believed that minimum wages actually hurt workers, but recent research has led to a rethink. What do you think - does it hurt workers?
NZTiberius
In New Zealand the minimum wage is $21.20. What has happened is that all essential businesses where staff earn minimum wage (eg petrol stations, supermarkets) have put their prices up. This means that the minimum wage earners are not any better off and those of us earning a little more, but not a lot more than minimum wage are significantly worse off as the prices go up. And, our tax brackets have not moved in years, so if you earn more, you pay more income tax.
11-Jan-23
We have a stand-up comedian who is Indian to make jokes about Indians...a Trans Gender one to make Trans Gender jokes....a disabled one to make jokes about the disabled...the Fat who makes fat jokes....the list goes on....what happened to Stand-up Comedians who were actually JUST REALLY FUNNY in their own right?
darsol
because if a benny hill or paul hogan or dave allen came out now they would be hung drawn and quartered
09-Aug-22
Some people enjoy living in a big city, while others prefer a small town. In my opinion, living in a big city is better because there are more job opportunities, schools, hospitals, and places to visit. People can enjoy shopping centers, restaurants, parks, and many kinds of entertainment. Public transportation is also usually better in a city. However, big cities can be crowded, noisy, and expensive. Small towns are quieter and safer, and people may know each other better....
APB
It depends on what you want...your age...your work... and your interests...everybody is different and that is part of what makes life interesting...you just need to organise your life so it fits in with where you live and your goals really...
08-Apr-26
Over the last few years I have been growing my own vegetables and raising chickens in order to become more self-sufficient and limiting processed foods I consume. Not only do I enjoy the choosing of vegetables, growing the seeds and canning or freezing the finished product. But also the proud of producing enough vegetables to feed my family for 1 year in less than 5 months and saving money. I was wondering if anyone is gardening because of high cost of foods in supermarkets...
Lovey
I've been a gardener all my life, and currently have a small home garden and oversee a community garden at my church, where we have 68 plots of 100 sq. ft. each. There we have raised produce for local hunger relief - with this being our 25th year!
13-Apr-26
Ok, 2 working parents would get approx. 2 to 3 weeks annual per year of leave, so between them, they could have available 6 weeks. This needs to cover the following leave: Sick leave because child is ill. School holidays - currently if you count all the pupil free days, public holidays etc would be 10-12 weeks give or take a day. Vacation care costing is ridiculously high and spots few and far between. Not to mention with the cost of living going up,...
Kitty Cat NSW
The thing is why should people pay for childcare who don\u2019t have children. I know it\u2019s tough but you have the kids- you look after them
06-Apr-26
Children nowadays want everything handed to them. We didn't get that when we were young. I don't understand how our parents approach has changed from our generation to our kids.
Lachelle B
My youngest (22) applied for a chef apprentice job 2 days ago. Them: Do you have any work experience? Him: I'm in my 4th year at KFC. When I lived at home I'd cook dinners and now I do that for my flatmates. Them: What would be a downside working here? Him: Mum won't be around to clean my mess. He got the job! \ud83d\ude02
20-Mar-26
The hardest part is implementing healthy boundaries and not hurting each other. What to do if I would want to talk to my mother less often?
Poppett
I find this upsetting as I lost my beautiful Mum to cancer and wish everyday that I could speak to her one more time, be lucky if you have a loving mum
09-Mar-26
Around the world, rising petrol and diesel prices have led to panic buying at the pumps with governments urging calm. Have you already taken any steps to reduce fuel usage?
Woodster
Hmm, governments urging calm and doing nothing! Typical. In my opinion the first thing they should have done was ban people filling jerry cans. Fill car - that's it. Now we await rationing I expect.
19-Mar-26
Compared to my younger days kids today are more selfish, out of control and basically entitled brats. What's different? I believe it's the 'power of the parent'. Government, Wokeism and the Education system has stepped in and overruled the parent. How's that working out? Time to take back your children, stop giving in, stand up and say no to your child once in a while. Your child needs you to set their boundaries, not the government or education system. What do...
Barbara T (Koondrook Vic)
Bring back discipline to school and stop teachers sprouting woke nonsense ...... let kids be kids ......
13-Mar-26
For me, it's health. Being healthy is the single, most important part of our existence - without good health, our lives can be cut short. What is most important in your life right now?
Tip
I lost my wife of fifty-two years last fall. My two daughters and five grandchildren are helping me get through this very difficult time.
08-Mar-26
There is a trend in Australia for most public schools to be co-educational. When it comes to learning and concentrating on classroom teachings, do you think single gender schools or co-educational schools - primary or high school - are most likely to get the best academic results?
Missy Wyld
Co-ed. Yes agree with Jennifer. Too much testosterone in all male school, too much PMS/bitchiness in all girls school.
We dont live in all female society or an all male society, so why we do it in schools?
20-Feb-26
How old is your oldest household appliance. I remember going to my grandmother's funeral in 1983 and we inherited her Whirlpool fridge. It is still going perfectly. Can anyone beat that. I really have no idea how long she had it for, but it was not anywhere new when we got it. It must be around fifty years old. It has never been serviced since we have had it. That is practically antique; completely unheard of today.
Helen H 533852
It\u2019s sad that appliances don\u2019t last like they used to. I bought a toaster but it only lasted 6 months! This all contributes to too much waste and bad for the environment!
17-Feb-26
OK... My neighbour is weird....yesterday...... I walked past the house with my dog at around 11.30 in the morning...the car is in the drive...the engine is running and the male occupant is slumped over the steering wheel...like he is dead or asleep or something... I look in the car he is not moving... I take on board everyone's advice from the last discussion page and just walk on by...not my problem, right?...and the next day the car is gone again...what is going on? Is it...
DMac
It's good to be aware of your surroundings it's not a problem it's a necessity, if the person is slumped over they may be exhibiting exhaustion or a medical problem or so many other things. If you feel safe I would think a quick conversation with the neighbors would help give you a piece of mind.
31-Jan-26
Anyone else have lovely neighbours who think they can come and slice branches off your favourite tree? I have a beautiful well cared for Frangipani which I just noticed is missing at least 4 new branches for its summer show of flowers!! I know they all want to grow their own cuttings but really? It's also the wrong time of year to take them Now I am without shade and extra privacy in the front.
Angie
Those thieving dumbarses! \ud83d\ude21 This pisses me off that people think they can just destroy something that someone else loves. Hence why I hate humans! Except you of course lovely Liane.
I too love Frangipani, my daughter\u2019s favourite flower, and I\u2019m so sorry your neighbours are so inconsiderate and ignorant!
This sux.
And as far as Elizabeth T and FriedLikeMost leaving their heartless comments\u2026. They can sod off!
26-Jan-26
Just made my list out for food at the Christmas lunch table and beyond. Got much appreciated help this year, with our visitors, who will be staying with us over Christmas ... this year will be Extraordinarily simple catering for 6: All good. Doing Roast Beef, and salads galore, with hot sides of Roasted potatoes & garlic; tomatoes & zucchini; Pumpkin, Carrots and Brussels Sprouts. Dessert will be dictated by the all-important weather - ice cream, custard,...
writerrochelle
What's happening? Nothing... Who's doing what? I'm relaxing with my puppy, Lacy... To whom? Just me and Lacy! Where? Home, sweet home! At my place, staying in, out of the weather, and out of the crowds? Good Day! ;-D
23-Dec-25
How did the initial energy come into existence? The expansion began only after the universe already existed in a highly condensed state. So, what was the origin of that first energy before the expansion started?
NotFriedLikeMost
You can NEVER have "something" come from "nothing".
It is why it is called the big bang THEORY for a reason...not proven or truhful AT ALL.
Why do the elites push this lie? Simple...if we can be made to THINK we are so insignificant and RANDOMLY came from NOTHING...then it is easier FOR THEM to justify how they MUST HAVE "been chosen" to rule over us. When, in reality, NOBODY is insignificant and NOBODY should be ruling over ANYONE else.
Yet, here we are...lied to about this, lied to about our earth, lied to about EVERYTHING during 'satans little season', or, the age of deception from 1776 thru to 2026. The jig is up, folks!! The Millenium Reign already happened when Christ returned in 70 AD.
"Christ" returning for a THIRD TIME is ALLEGORY for TRUTH COMING BACK TO SOCIETY!!!!!! This is why these globalists are rushing to get us under their digital enslavement asap...because, as TRUTH comes back, their LIES GET EXPOSED. I have been at this since 1999...and yet most have been so asleep and unaware, but, thankfully, the truth is so strong and real that folk will NOT be able to deny it anymore. EVERYTHING WE KNOW HAS BEEN A LIE TO FIT THE GLOBAL ELITES NARRATIVE...so THEY can work to enslave US ALL.
Thse elites beLIEve to be "chosen ones"...but, remember, as per Revelation, these people SAY they are a certain group, BUT ARE NOT!!
It's BEEN proven they have deceived humanity for thousands of years, especially in this last 250 year period, aka satans little season. These deceivers are the evil behind EVERYTHING in our society today. Just remember...the BLACK CUBE of SATURN is what they worship. "Kabbalah" is what they practice. It's no COINCIDENCE they also created Islam...which has fools worshipping satan as well...as they worship at the KAABA of ALLAH. It's LITERALLY in the words, yet most CANNOT SEE. ANYTHING in this 3D realm that is "religious" IS against God. ALL OF IT...TO DECEIVE YOU!!!!!! You awake and aware yet? Get rid of them 'smart'phones and as MUCH tech as possible...a REGRESSION technologically is the answer...and STOP getting jabbed! They are LITERALLY changing your DNA and ANY AND ALL injectables post-Covid fraud ARE ALL THE SAME TECH DOING THIS. Homo borgensis is your new term if you get these transhumanist shots.
Stop complying to these LIARS and FRAUDS.
19-Oct-25
Hey, so life's a bitch, and then you die! Is this your reality? Have you spent your life doing what s right? Giving to those less fortunate? Putting others needs before your own? Living a life of kindness and caring for others? And now you re healthy, happy, wealthy and wise? Living your best life? No problems? No stress? And most importantly, you ve spent your life staying positive, giving generously, sometimes giving everything you ve got? Putting everyone else...
Cher
Well Angie, I will give this a shot. Hopefully, this helps someone. There are waves of ups and downs in life. Some people have more of them and others less. That is the unfairness of life. We all do not arrive on this earth plane on the same playing field. However a good attitude towards one another and our self is critical if we want to evolve as better human beings. Hopefully there is enough time to learn this. Find your loving purpose and intention and spread it to others as much as you can. How do you want to be remembered by others? Best wishes!
23-Nov-25
Christmas is coming, and once again I'm discussing gifts on the sibling group chat. Whenever a new message pings in, I'm already boiling. How can I deal with that?
writerrochelle
You should be asking, "What makes me so angry? Why do I feel this way?"
Are you envious of your sister's wealth and success? Why can't you be proud of her success? If this is something you want too, work toward it like I'm sure she did. I doubt if it was handed to her. I'm sorry you felt you had to ask this question. There are much more important things in life than wealth and success, Andrzej, trust me! ;-D
20-Nov-25
How many actors turned singers or singers turned actors have made successes of both pathways, or overall do you think it's a line that shouldn't be crossed?
Sharon R Clovis CA
Many people have multiple talents, but few have the opportunity to use them the way famous people do. If the opportunity AND the talent are there, then why not?
13-Nov-25
Have you ever done or said something you had regretted? Why did you do/say it? How did it lead to this? When will things change? Who caused this? What If I if they And so on and so forth of the endless questions that we ask ourselves to figure out all the reasons and circumstances that lead to the final outcome of the situation(s) we find ourselves in. We all know it's in the past, set in stone, things will not change. But you can use that regret and never repeat...
Pongo
no point in living in the past its gone and tommorrow is another day
Enjoy your life its the only one you will get
05-Nov-25
Swearing may occur occasionally in informal or high-pressure environments, but it is generally unprofessional. Swearing at workplace - do you find it acceptable?
blunder boy
swearing is part of our culture today, its all over the little box we watch so often, our kids are often exposed to bad language wherever you go, do I find it offensive, no, do I swear, rarely ,depends if you talk to a swearer you tend to swear because they do, but tv allows all kind of profanities, I think it starts there, the gov have relaxed all kinds of morals that was once controlled , and as a result morals and standards have dropped, its amazing that kids first words are not profanities
06-Nov-25
They say time heals everything. But it's been 8 years and the pain from betrayal still lingers. Family, friends, spouse. How does one cope with this? Any advice is appreciated ...
Vesta
It's all dependent on the person and science has shown that everytime you revisit a negative memory you actually reinforce its presence in your brain and make it stronger.
Humans are wired to look for negative patterns as it used to potentially save our life.
So there comes a point where you have to CHOOSE to move forward and force new better habits, memories and pathways in the brain. Yes this takes time but consider the alternative. You get older and the realization that you will die one day starts to hit. You look back at your life and what did you do with it...sulk, sit depressed over the past. That truly is a life wasted.
It always takes two to tango so when you say that you have been betrayed by your friends, family AND spouse then I'm sorry but you definitely contributed in some way. False memory is often instant especially for those who suffer trauma so no doubt the past you're remembering is not entirely accurate and more forcefully negative from your own presumptions. No person is ever so innocent that the world completely dominates them through no fault of their own.
Like attracts like so start by focusing on your OWN actions and be the change you want to see in the world. If someone has betrayed you it's because you let them. Learn to be your own champion and put yourself first but be kind to others along the way without compromising your truest values.
There are few true victims in society but by choosing to be one especially after so many years and not moving on you are not only actively creating a life of misery for yourself but you feed it to those around you making their lives harder and repeating the cycle.
Most of you will deem this harsh but if kind words were going to help then they would have worked by now...8 years already! You have so much more life to live... don't feel guilty at what's already passed just savour what's left. Move forward and refuse to let any actual betrayals continue to ruin your life or they win. It's your choice so make it.
03-Oct-25
What does it mean? I hear lots of talk about open marriage. To my mind, you might as well not get married, or just get divorced. Would you really endure the pain, knowing your partner is having a relationship with someone else? What do you think?
blunder boy
39 years in a few days , marriage is a commitment , if you cant honour the commitment don't make the deal
09-Oct-25
Recently, a child was discussing different ideas for a family pet with his mother. The child rattled off, "bird, fish, cat and dog". All ideas were met with a resounding no. Finally, the child could be heard saying 'axolotl'. The mother's response was priceless. "That's not even a word!" In life, we may have heard or seen something that has made us pause, smile or relate to. What is your moment of "you can't be serious!" *Please be kind to each other with...
P F
Actually an Axolotl is an amphibian that looks like half a lizard and half a fish. 10 out of 10 points for him asking for that!. Kids are amazing, they soak up facts and information like a sponge. They must have seen it somewhere on TV or in a book. The response of "That not even a word" is 0 out of 10. Don't put the ideas of children down. They missed a wonderful opportunity for an interesting conversation. NEVER put children's ideas down. We are adults/so what? Nurture a child's growth and never stunt their imagination or ideas.
30-Sep-25
This invites reflection on friendships, family, or relationships, and allows people to share personal experiences or thoughts about loss, change, or distance in life.
Michelle S 553303
There\u2019s a miriad of answers for this question. I think, personally, that we often don\u2019t appreciate what we have until it\u2019s gone and relationships break down when you don\u2019t take the time to nurture them. People don\u2019t like feeling that they are being taken for granted and we can do this without realising the effect it has on those we genuinely care about until the time comes when they feel so undervalued that the relationship falls apart. I would love to be able to go back in time and spend more time with the people that I loved who are now gone out of my life but I can\u2019t. I just try not to make the same mistake again and every time I talk to my adult children I tell them that I love them as this might be the last time I get to say it. I still care deeply for people whom I have had no contact with in years yet it is too late to repair the damage. Be kind every day! Thanks for reading.
30-Aug-25
The Government is talking about a cat curfew again. A lot of people are saying it won't work. Why not? Cats are responsible for killing a lot of wildlife. I have quite a few friends who have cats, and we had one when we were living on 5 acres. None of them go outside unless on a leash. Our cat had an area which it could run around and would have a lot of fun. But not kill any wildlife. I have seen some great cats runs and if I had a cat would build...
Bugalugs
Just how are they going to police this? Are Councils going to employ people to stay up all night - which is when cats are out and about, entereing people's properties without warning? If they do are they prepared, and take Full Responsibility if some of them get killed by Property Owners? It should be remembered that in some countries they have almost non-existent Gun Laws (the USA springs to mind), where mass killings are now the norm, people are allowed to have virtually any type of Military Weapons they fancy which they claim they need to protect their homes and families - its all nonsense but then that is what we expect from Trumpland! The death of these unannounced invaders of people's property will be inevitable, people will shoot first and ask questions later. In Australia where we are not supposed to have any firearms , but many do, if someone started poking around my property in the middle of the night I would turn a high-powered hose on them. The whole idea is based on sheer stupidity, is unworkable.
13-Sep-25
Fall is near in Canada, and the signs are already beginning to show. The air is getting cooler, the days are shorter, and the leaves are slowly starting to change into beautiful shades of red, orange, and yellow. It s a magical season filled with cozy sweaters, warm drinks, and scenic walks through colorful forests. As autumn arrives, Canadians get ready to enjoy harvest festivals, pumpkin patches, and the peaceful beauty of nature preparing for winter.
Peter H (ACT) www.valleyfm.com
Spring now in OZ.....cant we tell the difference
We have a saying here in Oz........Spring has sprung and the grass is riz,we wonder where all the birdies is!!!!!!
07-Sep-25
In recent weeks I have heard of a lot of people I know, either directly or indirectly, having lost a lot of weight with the help of these drugs. I am finding it hard to believe just how common they are. They do seem to work. I have refused them. I am only slightly overweight and sugars aren't too bad overall. Do you know anyone who has had success with them?
ShawneeBaby
I used Ozempic until it threatened my life. I lost almost 100 pounds in a few short months. I suffered through almost all of the listed side effects.
I started randomly passing out and I finally just quit using it. It's been a couple of months now since I stopped using it. My weight is coming back (I don't need to weigh 125 lbs. I should be about 140 or 145.) My breathing is stabalizing and I'm starting to eat regularly.
The drug certainly helped me lose weight. If you're going to use it be very very vigilant about any feelings of ill health.
05-Sep-25
"Overspending" or a "spending crisis" might be a contributing factor for some, the broader issue is a widespread increase in the cost of essential goods and services, making it difficult for individuals and families to afford basic necessities. What would you say? Are we having a cost-of-living crisis or spending crisis?
Jania S
SORRY, I sometimes wonder why so many seem to have problems. Do they have extra commitments or credit, debts or what that are not mentioned? MAYBE it is a combination of living on credit, no money to live beyond means. makes price rise hard to adjust to.
I am on a fixed income around double what pension is, I own my own home, no debts whatsoever. No credit cards for decades. YES I notice prices have gone up. BUT I mainly buy fresh fruit, veg and meat, fish. I never buy anything in packet. I find money doesn't go as far as before, but we are not struggling YET. Those day a mose likely ahead of us, with all the lunacy in government world wide
30-Jul-25
Attitudes will never change so long as entertainment writers keep doing the same old things. Why is it that if a man kisses a woman who is in a relationship it is considered that the woman cheated and the man has every right to dump her and be angry at her while when a man ACTUALLY cheats on a woman, it is not a big deal and is expected because, after all, this is what men do. It is also annoying that when a woman is portrayed as having a career, she is...
BLM
Does AGEISM exist in the 'real' world (not just in movies or tv shows)? Yes! Does RACISM exist in the 'real' world (not just in movies or tv shows)? Yes! Does SEXISM exist in the 'real' world (not just in movies or tv shows)? Yes! However, you gave outdated examples (not valid for the twenty-first century) when you were trying to make your point on sexism. FYI: Humans (all of us) are incapable of making changes - which is why history KEEPS repeating itself (ageism, racism, and sexism still exist in the twenty-first century)!
31-Jul-25
Social media has been accused of being a cause of what's wrong today, with all the self-centered, narcissistic videos, dating apps making relationships trivial and shallow, and one too many people yelling, crying, complaining, and giving "expert" advice from their cars. But is it the tech or the times? If all of today's social media were available in that decade that's often idealized, the 1950's, do you think there would be the same results? Would people have used them...
Bru Tele Fare
I was there in the 50s. We would have taken it up and we would have missed the best of all times. Rock and Roll was King and we lived with joy and hope for the future. Now look at the world.
23-Jul-25
Tell me your favourite movie? Let s give each other an idea of good movies ?? Maybe we could each leave a brief description and an idea or two ... of what your favourite movie is all about What do you like watching on your own or while cuddling up with your partner on the ? or With your kids or with your mates & your girlfriends or With mum and dad
Lokma
There are so many but I\u2019d have to say \u2018The Green Mile.\u2019 It\u2019s a powerful, spiritual experience and Tom Hanks leads a stellar cast.
06-Jul-25
I am a full-time mama to 2 busy boys, and we decided to homeschool. A lot of my concerns that most people raised have really become non-relevant when I look at the actual research and statistics. Let s discuss the pros and cons of homeschooling versus mainstream schooling, and maybe other alternatives?
writerrochelle
Homeschooling eliminates bullying and diseases, but it may also eliminate socialization skills and playing with other children. But, I know families that home-school, and the children are just fine! They have closer family relationships. ;-D
10-Jul-25
To us, McDonalds is a treat, but we were taken aback recently to see how prices have increased & the size of the buns, for all meals have shrunk considerably! Anyone else notice this? Is it happening in other fast food outlets?
Sharon 1447185
I buy a pack of ground beef and a loaf of bread and make my own burgers at home....with all the fixin's!
28-Jun-25
Worried about whether the person you are chatting with online is a Chatbot?...well worry NO MORE!!...you can get an app now that is guaranteed artificial...she is gorgeous...she is crazy about you and neatly fits in your pocket...she pouts and teases...she gets jealous (what of wasn't explained...other chatbots?...real people?...the toaster?)...and is very popular with "lonely men in Asia"...you had better make sure your phone is charged up or you will be in BIG...
Meggie
Sick world we live in, God gave Adam Eve, not a robot or a phone...this technology is bad, getting out of hand
18-Jun-25
Most mornings, when I go out for a walk with my dog, I like to say good morning to people I pass. Sometimes people will stop to talk to me as a result. Would you say 'Good morning' when you are out walking?
BLM
I do not say good morning when out for a walk (saying good morning will trigger and bring repress, painful memories into my conscious)!
12-Jun-25
Common sense requires social interaction. Common sense is usually connected to universal truths. If you don't have regular social interaction, you might not learn what constitutes common sense and how to use it. This is why very smart people who spend a lot of time by themselves might seem to lack common sense. What would you say? Why has common sense disappeared?
NotFriedLikeMost
Common sense is not that common anymore because it pairs well with CRITICAL THINKING.
Nowadays, most are completely brainwashed by all things mainstream and they don't even realize this. They have SLOWLY had their ability TO critically think eroded to the point that most ONLY REACT, instead of stepping out of their indoctrination to actually think critically. Technology has played a massive part in this because everyone is a so-called expert when they can "google it" on their personal GPS tracking device, that has internet, that is invisibly chained to their wrist all day.
But, and this is the kicker, those who CEASE to critically think will rely on those "google" results as 100% TRUTH....and we know, or we SHOULD know, that most of the actual truths have been suppressed on purpose, search results purposely skewed to fit a certain narrative and so on. So now we have a plague of people so far brainwashed...without knowing it, but, also, these same people are SO SURE of themselves as well.
And, to counter the statement in the question posed by Natalia...if you think "Very smart people who spend a lot of time by themselves might seem to lack common sense"...then your perception of WHOM is "very smart" is way off because those who SEEM "very smart" to the general populace, are just the ones who are best at memorizing their brainwashing and regurgitating it on command.
As for myself, I am highly intellectual and DO NOT CARE to be around most people in society BECAUSE I use common sense and possess keen critical thinking ability and discernment. This comes with years of experience, observation and the one thing most lack....PATIENCE.
06-May-25
For me, the refusal to share your location, at any stage of the relationship, is not a "red flag". What about you? Is not sharing location a red flag?
Bex
For me, it's the other way around. Asking your partner to share their location is the red flag. It shows either mistrust, or jealousy. It's borderline stalking to have to know where your significant other is at all times.
01-Jun-25
Whether you believe in climate change or not, most folk think that there is pollution. Common ground. Let's start out with basics: don't flush your coffee grounds put them in your garden, or somebody else's. Recycle plastic bags at the very least once, like your life depended on it. This is the really easy stuff. If we all try, even a little bit harder, we will make a massive difference ... Hey, I like living on this planet ...
Denise C (Qld)
I get a little furious the way some family members use the incorrect bins provided. I'm sure it's just laziness or couldn't careless attitude. Also a recycling/materials site would come in handy for rubbish your not sure about.
02-Jun-25
Social media can be a double-edged sword. Sometimes it's used to create lasting connections, inspire new ideas and share accomplishments. However, social media can erode relationships, create distrust, cause miscommunication issues and act as a breeding ground for envy. What would you say? Is social media killing romance?
Ek M
Our definition of romance, is quite removed from the younger generations definition, perhaps the question should be: is social media killing personal connections?
27-May-25
Are you sick of all the World Whatever days, weeks or months and find most of them are just ridiculous or just geared towards selling something/marketing? Let's make the world a better place by inventing a new BETTER World Whatever Day. What would be your idea?
Larry S 382961
Easy TRUMP FREE DAY. everyday he opens his mouth all we get is garbage. What next. Now he wants to change the name of the Persian Gulf. Now he wants to change names what about New Mexico seeing he wants the Gulf of Mexico changed.
07-May-25
I love jewelry don't take me wrong who doesn't, but jewelry is meant to be worn in the right way & a certain amount of it on you. I find the many people go overboard with it in all the wrong places. It makes it look ugly & also makes the person unattractive wearing it in the wrong places. Earrings are for ears, rings are for fingers etc. why do people go overboard & wear so much on their face or other places where it doesn't belong. Here you have as example an attractive...
Norman PSBHRJ
To each it's own. Stop judging others because they like jewelry. You might think it makes a person ugly, but did you ever consider they like and love the way they look. The problem here you call these people ugly and judging them. Theres enough hate in the world and thats because some people judge other and forbid that they might be diferrent.
13-Mar-25
While we are used to electric scooters blowing up and killing people (no-one seems worried about these)...electric cars bursting into flames....we have just had our first commercial airplane destroyed because of Lithium-ion batteries stored in the overhead luggage racks...WHAT'S NEXT?...they are introducing Smart Luggage...it monitors itself and tells you where it is etc...and every bag has a Lithium-ion battery inside it. All it takes is ONE to explode on...
writerrochelle
I refuse to own any so called 'Smart' anything in my home. If it talks, moves, or thinks on it's own, there's no way it will ever be owned by me. I have a 'Smart' brain, 2 arms and 2 legs, and I choose to use them and do everything myself! ;-D
03-Mar-25
I recently went to Dr Sunil in Bangkok with my husband. I had 7 filling at $970 for them and very happy. My husband had all teeth removed with implants 4 on top and 6 on bottom implants, $32500. This included all dental work, X-rays, medication, false teeth, accommodation for 14 days, pick up from airport and drop off with daily pick-up and drop off to dentist. To return in 6 months for the teeth to be put in. People amazing with everyone with...
Peter H (ACT) www.valleyfm.com
I have found that here in ACT nothing is free BUT I had dental work done at 'pensioner' rates and it was NOT expensive...I was able to afford the work and due to being on a govt pension I was able to get top and bottom dentures for $350:00
04-Feb-25
Should adults be paid to exercise in order to improve their health and fitness, or receive s rebate from their health fund for exceeding?
Nel
No! Every adult should initiate exercising themselves to protect their health. Why should someone else take that responsibility?
26-Jan-25
Getting really sick of being screened out of surveys for no reason. We come on to do surveys to earn points, not be screened out even on surveys of lower points values. Enough is enough. Some of us are barely earning any points for the day or night. It's unfair. Also while we are talking about stingy points, one point for losing on Bingo games is not good enough and some points for winning are very stingy. Please sort this out so we have more members playing
Terri
I did a survey today that went for 20 mins got to the end an was screened out, this is happening all the time so no point even starting. Plus why ask you your age PC more then 1 time.
30-May-24
Have you ever been scammed online? Did you know what to do? Did you successfully get your money or goods back? Do you have any advice from your experience/s to give to others here? The only way to stay safe online, is to share your knowledge of online safety with others, so everyone becomes more aware of scammers and the way they try and scam others. Share your story, tips and suggestions.
writerrochelle
1. Yes; 2. Yes; 3. Yes; 4. Yes! Password protect your bank accounts, freeze you credit accounts, put fraud alerts on your credit reports, and ignore unknown phone calls! ;-D
08-Jan-25
Parental/carer mental ill health can, in some circumstances, lead to an inability to look after the child's physical and emotional wellbeing. This is often for a short temporary period, however for some individuals it can be more prolonged. What is your experience? How does a parent's poor mental health affect a child?
Bugalugs
Of course it does. it can lead to neglect, wsexual, physical and mental abuse. Of course things like alcohol and drugs don't help do they? We have an increasing problem in which children, some as young as 9 years old, are roaming the streets late at night committing crimes, being arrested and then the bleeding hearts come out and accuse the Police and all but those responsible for the problem!
The Police and othes are so scared of being accused of racism that they dare not ask the Most Important Question of All.
Where are the Parents whilst their children are running amok?
I'll tell you where they are. They are at home blind drunk or drugged, both are mental health issues.
16-Dec-24
As I have got older, I have sometimes felt that I haven't been "successful" at anything throughout my life. I am not a lawyer, or a doctor, I don't have a University Degree, I am not rich, I have no specific "talents," have won no awards for anything, don't own property or flash cars. I am just an ordinary human being, who tries to live a "good" life (whatever that is!) as I move along this journey between birth and death. How do you define "success?" Do you measure...
Saara F
I guess we all think that way at some stage in life. We have not moved mountains so we think we have not achieved success however success is not based on what we have not done. Success is being happy. Success is confidence. Success is raising healthy kids. Success is much more than being top of the class. Success is getting through life in one piece and so much more.
18-Nov-24
Debt can be a double-edged sword for many young adults starting their careers. With lower wages, fewer savings, and limited access to safety net supports, young people often struggle to achieve financial stability. What do you think are the main reasons why young people are struggling with debt?
Tippy
Because their money is paid into an account it is only a number. They never actually see the cash as in the old days when your pay was in an envelope and you could see it!!
08-Nov-24
Life is very different now than it was in the past, when leaving your children an inheritance was common practice. I still see many adult children who seem to consider an inheritance an "entitlement" whether or not their parents can realistically afford to leave them one. People are living much longer these days, and many find themselves needing to move into residential care of some kind, in their latter years. Some choose a retirement village setting, others need a higher level of...
Dee Jay QLD Oz
Neither of our children communicate with us, so they won\u2019t be inheriting what they think they are \u201centitled\u201d to inherit.
02-Nov-24
Christmas is coming... Soon enough. Only 2 months away and the final countdown will be on. There are certain Christmas items that are a must-have for the stocking every year, for some it may be a certain candy treat or a favorite chocolate bar, perhaps socks and underwear the possibilities are endless. My thing is a 3 pack red package lidor chocolates, they are delicious. I have already picked them up, 1 pack for each stocking. What are your favorite stocking stuffers that...
Jania S
It is amazing how money wasting the western people are. Christmas is not about stockings or wasting money. BUT to each his own.
29-Oct-24
With the way things are so different today, would you push your children to go to University or College versus guiding them on becoming their own boss? If they choose to go to post secondary, they accumulate a large debt and are not guaranteed employment. As well, artificial intelligence is taking over so many areas that the chances of securing a good position in your related field of study are lessened. However, if you follow the trends today and utilize social media...
BLM
I think college, trades, and university will become a thing of the past - when AI reaches its full potential. I think going into the military for twenty years and getting a livable pension will become the norm - as their will be more wars over dwindling natural resources and ever-increasing population. Also, becoming a police officer will become your second mandatory option for twenty years which will give you another livable pension - crowd control will become an issue as the fight for dwindling natural resources will become more intensified with an ever-increasing population. The not-so-distant future will be a dark and ugly place for the overwhelming majority of people - not because of AI - but because humans are incapable of learning from our past mistakes and our luck as a specie will finally RUN OUT!
19-Oct-24
I just finished Lucinda Riley's series of books called "The Seven Sisters" and enjoyed it very much. I am looking for a new series of books to read. Furthermore, I am not interested in science fiction or books with too much violence. Do you have any suggestions?
Nan
I recommend The Clan of the Cave Bear. It is about early man and the struggle to survive. Written by Jean Auel. There is about 5 books in the series. Not to be missed.
13-Oct-24
When my kids came home one day from School, they were both REALLY worried...the teacher had told them the icecaps were melting, and sea levels were already rising..." Are we going to be OK, Dad?"... I said that the people on the seafront would have to move...but we lived at the top of a massive hill...so we would be able to go fishing in the back garden, and I'd buy a boat to go shopping...the look of relief on their little faces...and them falling about...
IdentifyAs
The school system and newly trained teachers have a lot to answer for. Teach your own kids the truth and have discussions.
27-Sep-24
My question is: Should seniors choose large dogs vs 20lb and under? I was walking my dog and I often see seniors walking their dog. What I am surprised to see are seniors walking huge dogs - like German shepherds. Great Danes, boxers, golden retrievers- and others. I often see elderly unable to manage their large dog - due to strength - mobility, etc. should seniors stick with small dogs that are more manageable?
writerrochelle
Meet my newly adopted dog, Panda! I'm going to pick him up after I log out. We think he's dachshund and terrier mix. He is a tiny little guy, but way overweight, so I'll be working on getting it down. Panda is 7, and will be a great companion for both Sadie, my toy poodle who is 12 1/2, and myself! ;-D
05-Oct-24
Are there any games you'd like to see added to Rewardia? If so, which ones? Are there any games that frustrates you or you'd be all too glad to see removed? Tell us, below! Thank you!
bw
oh rewardia, why does the scramble puzzle not recognise words that are in the dictionary but give us stupid slang words that do not make sense half the time.
09-Jul-21
People always talk about the BEST advice they've gotten - I want to hear the BAD ones so we can all laugh together!
matthew f 520557
cannabis is bad for you and you should not use it as it is an evil drug, you will go mad and loose your mind and destroy your health...now i get it from the doctor as medicine...the times they are a changing
11-Aug-24
I am a ten-year survivor of stage three bowel cancer. It seems every second person has some type of cancer, or someone has just died from cancer. One day doctors will have answers for this the water, soil, plastics
Katya
Believe me, they have a cure. They just don't want us to have it. It is a multi billion dollar cash fall for pharmaceutical companies. They would lose it all, if it was cured
02-Sep-24
Things happen, and you may never receive a valid explanation why. However, the sooner you quit dwelling on it, the sooner you can bounce back. What about you? What is the hardest truth you had to accept that made you stronger?
Anna K 32662
I had to except the fact that I had a Stroke. At age 39 I Stroked as my daughters and I were getting ready for the day. My daughers were only 12yrs and 7yrs old at the time. It did not happen right away, I was very angry, I spent 2 months in the Rehab Hospital. Every1 I knew except for 1 person avoided me like the plaque. After many years I finally gave in and excepted that I had Stroked, Im now a totally different person, but it took quite a few years for me to be where I am now. They do not know why I stroked, but I truly beleive that it saved my life. Without getting to much in to it, I was drinking all the time, getting into fights etc. I am now though a much happier person. I am now 62yrs old, and I do not think I would of made it this long if I was the same person I was right after I got out of rehab.
31-Aug-24
My husband decided to tell me on my way back from a work trip that I was not welcome back into our home. I don't have any family, as I had just lost my mum over a year ago. We share a daughter, and he has restricted my visits with her. This breaks my heart as they were the only people I have in this world. He comes from a family with money, and he has said that they will fight me until I'm broke and leave me with nothing if I dare challenge him with custody of our...
Sheree T Princess
Speak to a lawyer you have rights also and are entitled to see your daughter and also a share of assets.
29-Aug-24
While growing up during the Cold War, I was repeatedly taught that a big difference between us and the USSR was that the USSR banned books while we, in the free world, wouldn't do such a thing. Today, we are seeing many books banned in parts of America. Personally, I never thought that I'd see the day when books would be banned in America!
Steph
Books should never be banned. However, some books should not be allowed in public schools for minors. Adults should have access to all books.
24-Aug-24
Vandalism is an act of violence, does the political situation warrant a violent response? Or is it just silly humans being silly humans and love the act of violence? What is your opinion on the use of vandalism as a form of a protest?
Brick
Make them clean up the mess and pay for all costs no slaps on the wrists and bail or 'public service duties' - then jail them for a year. They need to learn respect.
26-Jun-24
We used to buy records (that we owned) and cassettes and videotapes we used to buy software that we owned too...the software got way too expensive...and people were making copies of tapes... videos and software so they just very gently removed the equipment AND technology. You used to have a DVD/CD burner/player in your computer, everyone did, where did that go? Cannot afford $2,500 for Photoshop or AutoCAD? Don't worry you can now rent...
Daffodil
I remember living in a wonderful world where everything was just perfect the way it was..NOW it's all gone down the shoot! I'm not saying change is not good but it'd just become ridiculous and sad..
25-Jun-24
You know...the one where they ask you what is the most important issue for Australia....but there is no box for "climate change"?...or they ask you want you drink, buy or eat...but only give you a limited choice...and you have to pick one anyway?...these are the ones that never have a box at the end to explain what is wrong...because they already know...what do you think?
Uncle Peep (Robert F)
I tend to give them what they want. I've successfully completed surveys in languages that I don't even speak.
12-Apr-23
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