Discussions of the day

I always reheat our leftovers from last night diner and have it for breakfast and then still some leftovers. I always put in the fridge to eat later, but my other half finds it and throws them away. My issue is those are still good food all it needs is good reheating. What do you think?
Teri 1282723
Tell your 'other half' to knock it off. If they don't want it that's fine. But don't throw out what you were looking forward to eating. This person needs to show you some respect and not be so wasteful!!
3 hours ago

In Queensland, Australia... when you hit 75... if you want to keep your driver's licence, you have to take an annual test... not to see if you are still able to drive... but to make sure your brain is working properly... they give maths tests... observation tests and memory tests... I am told they are pretty hard... I wonder how many 19-year-olds would pass those?... not many!
JoLongLegs
We, don't have it in Victoria yet. But I think a driving test over 75 and memory test, should be done. I have seem a lot of elderly people crashing lately because they have mistaken the accelerator for the brake and crashed into house, shops and people, seriously injuring and even killing people, with no charges being made.
But I also think that a person of any age coming from another country, should be made to sit a driving test. Every country has their own road rules and some don't have any rules.
22 hours ago

Some of us need to be thanked for the things we do for others. It doesn't seem to be enough to just do whatever it is and leave it at that. When I come across someone like this it suggests to me that whatever nice thing they did, or said, was not an entirely altruistic or genuine gesture in the first place. There's an agenda behind it. It's all about them. Make them feel good. Tell them what a good person they are. Tell them they are kind. Pat them on the back....
Nel
Your thoughts are absolutely right if someone who does a good turn to another person is completely non egoistic! Nothing expect in return for doing such good deed! Or just not the person/persons who want to boast about how much good they do to others!
No money can buy a good deed done to someone! It\u2019s a pure feeling!
1 day ago

Why should we have a cashless society? Does the tooth fairy never come to our kids? Why don't we have money boxes for our kids to learn to save? And what about the elderly who only use cash, and cannot when they go somewhere that only accepts cards and charges you a fee to use them? How backward have we become.
Roses
I always have cash in my wallet and if a store won\u2019t accept it then it doesn\u2019t get my business \u2026. Then we have the Telstra fiasco a couple of weeks ago where the mighty tech went haywire and people couldn\u2019t use the mighty plastic
3 days ago

Yesterday, a Ryanair Boeing aircraft had one of its windows totally blown out shortly after takeoff. The unfortunate person sitting in that seat was sucked halfway out the window despite still wearing his seatbelt. It was caused by one of the engines exploding and shrapnel being fired at the window. This passenger is not dead... yet. The last one that had an identical experience on a Boeing fairly recently was not so lucky. BUT don't worry, because thousands of...
keimanzero
Of course they have although it is a rare occurrence. Lucly this chap still had his seat belt on since may folks wait for the stews to yell at them to fasten their seat belts. We know from Airport/Airplane films that if a window blows in mid-flight, the cabin is depressurized and Kami alone help anyone not wearing their seat belts and even with the belts on, the winds are powerful enough to suck out passengers, belts, seats, ceilings, floors and when that happens, it is safest to be at either front or aft of the cabin(s). My first airplane ride (Paid for by Uncle Sam as I was going to Fort Knox KY for military training) was a bit scary. The stews assured me that the pilot and co-pilot had things well in hand and then we heard this over the loud speakers accidentally: 'Have you ever landed a jet before, Mike?' (Mike was the pilot and John was the co-pilot) 'Your first time, John? Mine too but we all have to start somewhere, don't we?' We did a couple of false drops before the tires finally hit the runway and we slid to a stop. Ironically, one of the passengers was a Catholic priest and the Catholics aboard and others were asking for his blessings! One thing I wondered re these surveys we do. The clergy especially Catholics are celibates like I am but it is rare indeed to see 'Celibate by Choice' or just 'Celibate' or 'Other' with a slot to answer the question re sex prefs. I am a member of the oldest religion on Earth- Shintoism yet how many of you have ever even heard of us? OK if you know Oriental history and/or if you know anime, you do but the rest-?
4 days ago

What has happened to service? It dropped off during the Covid lockdowns, but it seems to have become a lot worse since. I had problems with an online pharmacist and, when I complained, was told they understood my frustration. Then there was the company that sent me a voucher that didn't work, sent another voucher that also didn't work, and when I enquired, was told, "It works for us." Now it's my dryer, which at not even 3 months old blows the fuses. The company...
Pato Lo Duck
The only reason an appliance blows fuses is because it draws too much power, meaning there is a fault somewhere inside it, a short or shorted component. While a power surge can damage your appliance, and cause it to short out, if you experienced a power surge a lot of other items in your house would likely have been damaged as well.
Demand that the dryer company fixes you dryer and if they don\u2019t go to the consumer ombudsman or threaten to take them to VCAT or an equivalent court wherever you live. It\u2019s not expensive to do. Oh, and another good idea is to buy an individual surge buster to plug into your socket first before you plug the appliance in to protect it. Available at Bunnings or any good hardware store
5 days ago

My 21-year-old granddaughter came to live with us. Rural area, she has a boyfriend who lives in another country, and they decided to meet up in a city a few hours away. He booked and paid for his airline tickets online, booked her a bus ticket to the city online. They both had to download the apps. He prerented a vehicle at the airport, just scan and get into the vehicle, no counter personnel involved. She had to present her phone with the ticket for the bus driver to...
Julie 1792212
This is going to dumb down young ones as they will not understand the basic and if technology is down they will have no common sense about the basics.
6 days ago

I have travelled all over the world... using "unsmart" cars... you just drove them... there was no theatre... bells, whistles, or attempts to drive the car... I used maps... and I realise that a lot of people now cannot use a map... I find that scary... they find my ability to know where I am funny... so be it... we are being drawn into a position where we are fairly helpless with technology... and nobody cares or is listening... don't say I didn't warn you...
writerrochelle
Not me, APB! This old lady prefers a paper map, paper book, and talking to a person on the phone, or face to face! When someone tells me to 'use AI' to figure out a problem, I grab a pen and paper and figure it out myself! I'm keeping my brain! I'm smarter than technology because I refuse to use it! Oh, Yeah, Your Brain: "Use It Or Lose It"! \ud83d\ude02
1 week ago

There are a lot of things I regret that I've done or more so that I haven't done, but I am still proud that I somehow managed to train in an area that I am still able to work in. That was now some 30 years ago that I qualified, which makes me feel old!
BLM
I would have made an 'UNBELIEVABLE' lousy father (never learned to care for my fellow human(s)). I got 'LUCKY' and never impregnated a female. When I turned 26 - I got a vasectomy (which made sex more enjoyable for me for the rest of my life)! The 'only' accomplishment I am 'truly' PROUD of - I never become a FATHER!!
25-Oct-23

There is so much going on at the moment...and most of it is either crazy dangerous or insane I don't know where to start ... please, tell us what you think needs fixing first...because it's a mess....and we need to start somewhere...
Secret Squirrel
I will start by apologising to our American rewardians. Usually I don't comment on specific political figures. That said,I was gobsmacked after reading Donald Trumps solution for the Gazza strip. Does he really think America will be allowed to take control,displace thousands,expect neighbouring countries to take in these people. As well as turn it into a "waterfront paradise". This is getting really scary,if you haven't read the news article or seen him make this statement please watch it. Rumours about Ametica leaving U.N and blatantly ignoring all other country leaders in the Middle East( except Israel). And proclaiming he will be the unifying force for the Middle East. One word comes to mind "Crazy". Again this probably won't be a popular comment among rewardians ,I say this out of deep concern .
05-Feb-25

Has immigration affected your job or your chance to get a job, or has it made a difference to your job?
allinyourNCbc
Cherokee Indian heritage here, if you do not have native american blood in your veins, you are all immigrants, get off my land and go home,,,, as you sure have ruined mine,,,
27-Jan-24

I volunteer for a specific charity for a couple of hours, once a year and have been doing it for over 10 years. I have other commitments, but it doesn't stop me. However, others of similar age will say they don't have time for it. Would you volunteer some of your time for a good cause even if you have other commitments?
JoLongLegs
What is wrong with this person. My 1767339, read my post on everyone's comments. How rude of a person are you!
If you can't be kind, then don't comment.
18-Apr-26

I was reading a story where 1 YouTuber is in court and the Supreme Court in Florida is looking into censorship on social media. As much as I hate social media, I thought freedom of speech was part of the First Amendment. To me this is a big deal, I also wonder why mainstream media isn't mentioned in this case, is mainstream media already censored we know generally it is, are you worried by this
Teri 1282723
I believe all media is already censored. From what we hear on the radio to what kids are allowed to read in schools, we surely don't hear the truth about vaccinations and what's good for us to eat. Big oil, big pharma and big food. They mislead us with fake shortages in gas or food so prices go up and keep making them richer, big food is in bed with big pharma because if our food can make us sick we need to be on drugs for life. For example, diabetes. How many people suffer from heart disease because the Heart & Stroke foundation put red meat on their recommended diet website? They totally contradict themselves. How many people in food and drug safety are actually investors in the meat, product, dairy, etc. industries... and let infractions go ALL the time?!! We're censored from A to Z. I saw a documentary on Netflix where this company was allowed to sell children's pyjamas knowing they were full of chemicals that were quite flammable. They got away with it because the list of their chemicals was under the heading of 'secret formula' and kids died because of it. The chemicals and 'flammable' weren't required to be put on the warning label. They had to warn that the bag they came in could be a choking or suffocation risk, but not that the pyjamas themselves would kill or seriously harm your child if they got close to a flame. It's crazy what we don't know because 'they' don't have to tell us.
As far as social media goes, YES, there should be censorship when it comes to bullying or lying. But, NO, when it comes to Mark Zuckerberg getting away with censoring what people were able to read and forward during covid. Pretty much only things Gates and Fauci wanted people to read was allowed to be spread, and Zuckerberg made multi-billions because of it.
02-Mar-24

In short, the Second Amendment states that as an American citizen, you have the individual right to arm yourself. The amendment also firmly establishes that the government cannot infringe on that right. Why should our guns be taken when there is so much more going on in the world? I think if our guns were taken, we would have more crimes. We would not be able to protect ourselves in our homes. We would have people coming on in our homes, and we would have no one to...
Rabbitohs
No one should have any Firearms that has a Criminal record for a start. There is no need for anyone to own a firearm that doesn't work in Law Enforcement or a Security Officer or a Registered Collector or a licenced hunter or a Farmer. Here in Australia we don't have kids Murdered that are going to school or at school. One trip to America I got stopped by Police in Ca, the first thing the officer said was, how many guns do you have and where are they ? The other officer had his gun in his hand. I said "We are Aussies why would we want guns ? He said "your not from Texas then" I said "We are from Australia we don't have guns" The 2nd Officer put his gun away. The issue was the number plates on the hire car were from Texas.
03-Jan-25

When you lose someone dear to you, there are several stages most people go through. I'm told that you grieve, you get angry, you try to forget, and you feel sorry for yourself. For me, it has been self-pity. I found it hard to quit thinking about what I had lost. Some seem to handle this better than others. What do you think would be the hardest phase to get through? And, my condolences to everyone who has suffered this loss.
Wendy Q
My Mum passed last week, it was a shame but we knew it was kinder for her as she had fallen and broken ribs and then she had a stroke, with the pain of her ribs and the stroke making her basically immobile and hard to swallow, so couldn't eat much except pureed food, she was helpless, so it was a kinder thing for her to pass. Love you Mum forever.
02-Jun-26

I read recently that you can block a Member if you don't like their comments. Do you have any tips for the Rewardia site? I like to play and earn whilst I wait for some suitable Surveys to load. These keep my brain sharp and I compete with myself. What are your Tips?
JoLongLegs
I don't understand how alot of people get really good points for doing the same thing as I do and I will only get 1 point for the same thing. Some have said it is about your points balance, the higher it is the more points you get, but that is so not true.
I start my rewardia with the 5 point email reminder, then weather 1 point, picture poll, 1 point, discussion of the day, 1 point, recipes, 1 point, polls, 1 point. Then move onto surveys and play some scrabble or some other games for a couple of hours each day.
14-Jun-26

What s a totally irrational thing that instantly annoys you? I'll go first. There is a creator on YouTube who I follow who tells stories about real life events, crimes, unexplained happenings or as he puts it "the strange, dark and mysterious in story format". I really like his channel and have been listening to his stories for a while. All creators will ask viewers/ listeners to hit the "like" button to boost their engagement stats. He does it in a rather unique...
DAphne 1604241
People who still support Trump . He is destabilizing the whole world and they just don't seem to understand how extremely dangerous he is .
18-Feb-26

Laws in New Zealand have become a little more sympathetic to the idea of persons not wanting to continue living. On what grounds do you believe that euthanasia should be permitted?
WonkyandProud
I am really surprised at the comments below, and I agree whole-heartedly. I saw with my own eyes my father struggling to get out of this world! He had absolutely no rights! In my eyes, he was tortured more than any animal would EVER be allowed to be tortured. He had prostate cancer that led to bone cancer which I heard is the most painful of all cancers, and I believe that to be true! He was a gentle soul his whole life. He made trouble for no one, was a great husband, father, grand-father and provider! His family was all he cared about. For the last two years of his life, he was in the hospital more than he was out. They even castrated him to give him a couple more months of life. The family misunderstood and thought it would give him a couple more years! My mother was devastated at the thought of it. They took even his manhood from him. He had nothing left! All he asked for was to be able to sit down at the dinner table one more time! He never complained except when the pain was unbearable for even the strongest of men! I heard him scream in pain and felt so helpless. My heart was shattered! My sisters stood outside his door while the urologist tried to insert a catheter. There was no room for one because of the tumors! My dad cried out in pain as the doctor attempted to force the catheter into somewhere it couldn't go! I heard him scream then they took him out of bed for the last time. My mother and I looked into his pitiful eyes as he begged for someone to shoot him! I'll never forget that day! Because of it, I am not the same. I know it has produced PTSD in me in some form. He could NOT do a damned thing to end his pain--nothing!!! He was at the mercy of those who kept giving him treatment for something that could not longer be treated just to get that almighty dollar at the price of my dad's suffering! Looking back, I wish I had sued them for torturing him! I found out recently that he had also asked his grandson to shoot him! I doubt I could have pulled the trigger because I was his youngest daughter, and the light of his life. Maybe for that reason, I should have. Prison time would have been worth it to know I had done the ethical thing! After he finally, died, he looked absolutely gorgeous! His hair had come in curly, and he looked like he had never been sick a day in his life! That was the dad that I longed to see all of that time he was sick. Yes, his mental capacity was stable, he knew there was only one end, and he was a Christian wanting to be with the Lord! The tears flow as I write this! No family should ever have to go through this! Please get this legislation passed. We don't want our animals to suffer, but we let people suffer! Don't love animals more than your family!!! PLEASE!!!
28-Nov-22

Are you certain that as you walk amongst people you believe we are all equal regardless of race, colour and beliefs. That their opinions and beliefs are equally important as your. Do you have an open mind and respect the person nest to you? Can you be a person with no hate or resentment? It would be a wonderful world if we could just say I respect your opinion and I know you'll respect mine. Will it ever happen? Not in my lifetime but hopefully in my grandchildren
APB
I cannot believe I'm reading this discussion page...Rewardia CHOSE this?...what is WRONG with you?..we have a little racist who is unaware she is... scuttling around....please take this page down.....and fire the person who approved it...
23-Dec-24

Do you believe climate change is caused by humans? What if anything do you do to counteract the affect of climate change?
Terry 1443234
Please, look at the Statue of Liberty and the sea level around it, hasn\u2019t changed in over 50 years. Al Gore said the polar bears would be extinct in 2012, nope. Ice caps in some areas have actually increased. 500 wildfires in British Columbia in the summer of 2023, 450 were set by climate activists trying to claim the fires were caused by climate change. The arsonists have been charged, some have been convicted, others still awaiting trail. Mainstream media refusing to cover this. There hasn\u2019t been one climate change claim that has been proven as fact in the past 100 years, remember the ozone layer and the attempted fear with that story?
06-Jan-24

If obesity is such a high percentage in people today, and it is a leading cause for other maladies that will cost the person, hospitals and government agencies tremendous amounts of money, why is the government not giving medical personnel the okay to give these GPL1 (like Ozempic and Wegovy) to their patients for free?
Missy Wyld
Wudnt touch those with a ten foot barge pole. aside ftom the side effects, they teach you nothing about eating well, nor adressing why u r eating crap foods. Stay away from them!!
24-Jun-26

Do you think Rewardia members have a right to be downright rude to or make fun of other members opinions they share in the daily discussion forums? Or should there be respect for any answer or opinion shared, whether you agree with it or not?
Glen O 298805
Define what you consider rude. Respect is earned not granted. If someone has a ridiculous opinion they deserve ridicule. Lets face it some opinions are illegal, immoral, unethical and downright wrong. I will not respect such opinions.
Having an opinion that the Earth is flat or humans were alive alongside dinosaurs will not get my respect just for starter examples. I believe most people here would not respect some ones opinion that say one race is superior to another. A mantra I live with is when arguing with an idiot make sure the other person isn't doing the same.
25-Sep-22

Canada has very strict entry rules for applying for citizenship there, & a 5 year process. Australia s is much shorter with a basic, simple multiple question test. Shouldn t the gift of being able to come and live in peace and with all the chances and freedom in the world be a prize to work hard for and appreciate? These days people are being let in who don t hold the same values, and it s changing our society. I think the tests should be harder and the wait times longer, and...
PammyG
I agree, look at the horrible demonstrations we have had in Victoria that always end in riots.
I am assuming that most people that choose to come to Australia to live are looking for a better life. DON\u2019T BRING YOUR WARING SHIT HERE!
02-Mar-25

Would you trust the corona virus vaccination?
allinyourNCbc
damn,, the nut jobs still with the conspiracy shit,, give it a break, this poll is 3 freakin years old, go find some other crap to lie about,,,\u2660\ufe0f
28-Apr-23

What is it about men and their use of noisy garden tools like chain saws and leaf blowers? I m aware that I m making a huge generalisation here, but the vast majority of people who use these things are male, and I genuinely don t understand why it s necessary to rev these machines in the downtimes, when they re not actually doing anything productive. Please explain?
Rob G 106430
I'll make a another huge generalisation on why men use garden tools - nagging partners too lazy to do it themselves.
16-Jul-25

A fair while ago now... Australian scientists discovered that feeding a limited amount of a certain seaweed to cows stopped them from burping and farting...and nothing happened (it has just been rediscovered in the UK!!)...we have a functioning pig farm that is carbon NEGATIVE...it generates all its own power AND supplies the grid...why aren't they all like that?...we already have a paint that actively removes carbon from the atmosphere...breaking it...
Andrea R 192957
This is all BS. Climate change is created by elites in private jets to bring about your obedience due to fear. You've never even been on a farm I would guess. They don't want farms they want to feed you insects instead. Wake up.
08-Mar-24

Nowadays, everything is apps. Is it right that seniors who built this country have to rely on younger relatives to book doctor's appointments and so on. This sounds like rejecting those people as expendable. What are your thoughts?
Peter H (ACT) www.valleyfm.com
I have no problems with apps,BUT I wont pay for them.....I make my own appointments and I know what I am doing.....I am not that stupid
06-Jul-26

A relative was issued with a new amended license after having two eye operations. Despite being given a medical clearance by his specialist, a condition was imposed for daylight driving only. It has taken three months to cancel this condition. Medical reports were submitted, but the authorities kept saying a doctor somewhere had imposed this unwarranted condition, but no further details were forthcoming. This has been a frustrating and time-wasting experience, but finally...
Liane H
Yes ,try dealing with fhe Victorian housing people. I was asked to fill out forms and get back onto their endless wait lists as they had taken me off and not even notified me.
Dr filled them but then they wanted me to go back and get another letter to explain exactly why i would need proper heating and cooling ( l have a medical condition well known for requiring this) ln fact i already have medical cooling concessions on my power bill .
But no.., i was then told i needed to go back again for another letter explaining in more detail. And a complete new form as the other one is now obsolete??? So i have to run around and jump through hoops. The Dr gets paid 3 times ..
. And they've now taken me off the lists again ( l was not told this i had to inquire by a third party channel who found out for me )
This how people with disabilities are treated .
All i got was " l'm sorry you're in this situation and i wish you all the best" .This from the main housing group that are supposed to help people in crisis. I'm so fortunate my landlords have currently put a hold on selling this place as the bureaucracy in govt depts is gobsmacking.
12-Jul-26

Go back a few years, you were able to purchase a block of land, put up the garage & live on that as you built your house slowly, as you could afford it. There was a level of how much you could borrow depending on your wage & the spouse's wage did not come into it. Young people today do not seem to want to go without: two cars, going out, a lot of technology, which makes it difficult to save. We went out to dinner twice a year, which we saved for, other...
Pearlz
One of my daughters-in-law wanted a dishwasher in their first home. I had been married for 12 years, had 3 children and the cash to buy my first dishwasher. Then I had to get a carpenter to cut into my kitchen cupboards for a place for it. We started small, 3 bedrooms, separate toilet and one bathroom in a location we didn't really want to live in, but today they want everything all at once. We went without eating out and we didn't have a phone. Coloured TV had to wait until the old one broke down. However, we didn't feel we were disadvantaged or hard done by. I think it made life simpler.
10-Jul-26

It is all over the news lately that the President of the USA wants to annex Canada. I think this is taking it a little too far in his dream of conquering the world. Canada may not be as populated as the USA, however, it can hold its own. Canada has participated in many improvements over the years, and it is well liked all over the world. Everyone wants to wear a Canadian patch when they are visiting overseas.
WonkyandProud
I am an American, and I did NOT vote for Trump and will not bow down to him! Many of us are outrage and are protesting against this. It is all over YouTube that Americans are on the side of the Canadians. We support you, and I feel I should cross the border to Canada and fight the US to defend you. However, I love my country, but this is not the country thopat I am proud of. You would not believe the people who are Trump supporters and thinks he is accomplishing great things! He cares only for himself and his power. We are terrified! We love Canada, but we are stuck in the middle and if war breaks out, we could be killed for what we don't even believe in. He thinks presidents do not have to abide by the law, and he can rreign as he wishes. Our only hope is that the people and congress stops him! He has already ruined our reputation. I called him Hitler because Hitler had followers also with mind control or whatever the government is using to control them! Their common sense is gone. There is no way Trump could get elected by people with good judgment with all the things he said during his campaign. He insulted women, blacks, Jews, immigrans and veterans. Virtually anyone that he thinks isn't as wonderful as he thinks he is. I even saw a picture of him with a crown! I will not be ruled. We are losing our rights, and he appointed Elon Musk to audit the government so he has access to everyone's personal information! I did NOT vote for that. They don't care what the average person wants. You should read Project 25! They even wanted to monitor women's menstrual cycles! How scary is that, and supposedly he won the election! I have a friend who read Project 25, and saw nothing wrong with it! When push comes to shove, he backs down, but the damage is done because Canada now hates the US! We need Canada and love Canada and the peaceful decades we have had with Canada! My dad said years and years ago that Canada has never caused problems! That is a huge benefit being so close to us. Trump has lost his mind, and everyone is afraid because he would have his "people" do his dirty for him and keep his own hands clean. However, he has so much blood on his hands that it boggles my mind. If he hadn't run for president, he would be in prison! That's who we voted into office, or did we? He was not going to lose, and we all know with his money and power, he couldn't lose! I am so sick of all the chaos that started on day one. If was the same way in his previous term. Everyday he bitched about something and how bad he's treated. Now he wants revenge and doesn't care about Ukraine and in his mind, the Panama Canal is now the American Canal. We have no legal right to it, and it is not run by China! He's nuts, but tomorrow it will be a whole different story! You can tell how upset I am, and I'm sure people are turning over in their graves. I'm 72 with no children so I don't fear anything he can do to me. People with children should consider moving...seriously! I could write page after page, but it's all out their on the Meidas Touch on their website and YouTube. Trump's neice Mary Trump has a podcast against her uncle. That's pretty bad! We need to band together and fight if need be. I can't see everything I'd like to say, but you can guess what I'm thinking. Congress better see the light and do something. He blames everything bad on everyone else and everything good is because of what has done. It's all lies! I've been praying for the world. It is not a US problem, but a worldwide one. People in power don't care about us poor people. Look at other countries with dicators. They were moving here, but they probably won't now. Immigration problem solved! Great tactic, Trump! Make the US so horrible no immigrants will move here! What an ass!!!
21-Feb-25

I often wonder why a lot of them talk about loneliness especially among older community! If you really analyse, what is loneliness, it gives you several answers! One is fear of facing by yourself, another is unable to think what supposed to be done with one s time, and the other is someone needs another person to sit around and chat to them. If we can get over these 3 elements using our mental faculties to work on something better, there won t be any loneliness feelings I...
BLM
There is a big difference between alone and lonely (and you are deliberately mixing the two of 'them'). ALONE refers to the physical state of being by oneself, which can be a neutral or even positive experience. LONELY, on the other hand describes a feeling of sadness or isolation that rises from a lack of social connection or emotional support. FYI: You completely 'lost me' when you used the word THEM in your SCENARIO!
23-Mar-26

Not the big achievements - the small, almost-invisible wins. Maybe you handled a tricky moment with more patience than usual, fixed something you ve been putting off, made someone smile, or simply got through a hard day. Everyone has at least one quite win, even if it doesn't look impressive from the outside. What was yours?
Lynn
A huge achievement for my husband when he went to cardiologist and was told he now has an ecg of a 45 year old.
This is after a few years of worry.
He is a lovely gentle man.
05-Mar-26

Have you noticed the celebrity outfits are getting more & more daring! Same as swimwear with bikini bottoms that leave nothing to the imagination. Am I being prudish, or do you agree some things are better covered up & looking glamorous without showing too much flesh? What do you think?
Von
Yep, You're being a Prude.
If a person is comfortable in what they're wearing....makes them feel good about themselves...then go for it, wear whatever you like.
AND....
who gave you my photo ? \ud83d\ude05
26-Mar-25

I recently read a book written by groundbreaking psychiatrist Dr Brian Weiss titled 'Many lives, Many masters.' In short the books talks about reincarnation, past lives and miracles and how he came to practice past life regression therapy. I started looking for a serious hypnosis therapist to search my previous lives. Does anyone have an idea about hypnosis and regression therapy? Any experience you would like to share?
Roeli L
Don't got there. Turn your life over to Jesus Christ. He died for your sins and when you become a child of God Almighty you will have Heaven too.
Read your Holy Bible and get Born Again. Don't wait too long or you will miss Heaven all together. Then where will you spend eternity??? One life to live and then Judgement. PLEASE heed, Salvation is today.
20-Apr-25

Just seen an advert for vegan dog food....are they serious?.. I suspect that dog food is mostly made up of all scraps and weird bits of animals that might be thrown away otherwise....if you want to be vegan that's fine... I'm not too happy about you making your children vegans...but it appears to be still legal at the moment...but PLEASE just leave your dog to live a long happy and healthy life...or just don't have a dog in the first place...it's not a fashion accessory...
Teri 1282723
I am what Linda C will be calling a fool, and proud of it. I haven't eaten meat or meat-based gravy in over 20 years. I stopped eating it because when I started working in a major grocery store I saw how much meat was being sold. I looked into where it was all coming from and discovered factory farming, and what really happens in growing/feed lots, on factory farms, inside and outside of slaughterhouses and the crowding, freezing or extremely hot conditions in the packed trucks to go from 'farm' to slaughterhouse, how cruel the people are to the animals in all of these places. I've read one person's account while getting information working at a slaughterhouse and he said he was witness to cows being pulled by machine after freezing noses and even thighs to the side of these trucks. Yes, noses and thighs were left frozen and stuck to the sides of the trucks and living cows were pulled out. Sick and injured and unable to walk cows are pushed into the slaughterhouses with bulldozers and fed to you. They are called "downers". NO, there is NOT someone going in and making sure the animals are treated kindly or respectfully. Nobody makes sure the animals are even dead before the screaming pigs are dunked in scalding water to get the little hairs off your bacon, or before cows are sliced into. The stunners don't often work the first - and only - time and the animals are 'processed' so many per hour they don't have the time to make sure an animal is dead or unconscious. A LOT of them are feeling the pain. A LOT of them see the pain and fear of what's happening in front of them and knowing they're next in line. It's truly horrific!!!! And I will NOT BE A PART OF THAT CRUELTY!!
The dairy industry is almost as cruel with chickens being crowded to death. For meat or for eggs. They live in battery cages where they can't move unless they all move at the same time, or 'free range' barns where you're shown pictures of baby chicks with lots of room but unless you look for it you don't see how crowded they really are when they're all close to slaughter age. Super-size-them-fast so their skin explodes and dead birds are thrown out every day because of that. Cows being made pregnant and making babies so they make milk. Those babies are taken away immediately after being birthed while the mothers scream for them. Videos show men throwing said calves to hurt their legs so they can't run back to the mothers. And what happens to all these babies?? Yes, they are killed. These milking cows are fed hormones to make them give 5 times the normal amount of milk.
There is so much pain in the dairy industry emotional and physical.
THINK ABOUT WHERE YOUR FOOD REALLY COMES FROM AND STOP PRETENDING IT'S OKAY.
13-Feb-25

I get often asked, when I'm in town, if I have spare change. I get asked by beggars. Now, I'm usually one who would spare change if I have it :). Like to do a good deed now and then. Yet lately I've noticed these beggars smoke cigarettes all the time.....so how is it they can afford cigarettes but don't want to put money towards food etc....
Pato Lo Duck
When I was still working in the city and had to go to work early each day I came across this guy that was hanging around the traffic lights near my place. When the lights were red he would run around from car to car asking for $20 for food and a train fare. I saw people give him money. After about the 3rd day when he was still there harassing people for money, I got out of my car and threatened to thump him if he asked me again. He swore profusely at me, threatening to call the cops on me, then told me he didn\u2019t need my stinking cash as he had plenty already. He pulled a roll of twenties out of his pocket and waved them at me. Judging by the size of that roll there must have been about 2 grand in there.. After that he never turned up at those lights anymore.
02-Apr-24

What a difference in today's society, compared to the olden way of life. People of today, were clothes that they really don't fit them properly. We never used to have today's fashion that jeans worn torn/ripped, Pants when you bend shows your bum crack, tops are so short & overweight people still want to wear them or so low cut that your boobs are about to fall out. Skirts/dress so tight & short, not made for heavier people. Don't people realize what impression this...
Bex
Wow, that is extremely judgemental. If a heavy woman wants to wear a skirt, a bikini, or a midriff top, more power to her. Stop the body shaming, and let people wear what they want. If you don't like it, look away.
12-Feb-24

Has political correctness gotten to a stage where it is more harmful to society than it is helpful. Everyone seems to be so easily offended by the most silliest of things and people seem to be bending over backwards to appease what are often minority groups.
BLM
It is not political correctness that got us in this MESS - it is racism and sexism that got us in this MESS!! Everybody says honest is the BEST policy - but nobody actually practices honesty.
11-Apr-21

I know times are tough for restaurants but being extremely stingy or skimpy with main ingredients or toppings will just drive people further away. My favorite submarine sandwich place now has tomato slices that are so thin they are almost paper like. A tiny line of shredded lettuce, not even a tablespoon worth. We went to our favorite Italian franchise eatery last night. The sausage penne pasta dish had 3 slices of sausage the size and thickness of quarters. It used...
writerrochelle
My favorite 2 restaurants in Oak Harbor, Washington are El Cazador and the D&H Mongolian Buffet. Although the prices have gone up a few dollars, for $15 you can eat all you want at the Buffet, which has everything anyone could want, and on Monday El Cazador offers a Senior Citizen's discount of 50% off any Combination dinner, and the amounts have NOT decreased! That means a 3 item (including refried beans, Spanish rice, and a serving of avocado and sour cream on lettuce, + chips and salsa to start), $20 combo is only $10! I eat half there, and bring half home, which I eat for dinner! Find gems like these and you'll be able to enjoy your time eating out! \ud83e\udd17\ud83d\ude0b\ud83e\udd2d
30-Jun-26

I am unhappy about some people in there that think that everyone has to say congrats, well done, etc. Some people just want to sit and play without chatting. You think it's rude that if someone does not acknowledge your win, you take offence. YOU!! DO NOT know what is going on in someone's life. Maybe they can't type, maybe they are shy, maybe they have a mental illness you know nothing of. To turn sour on someone just because they do not comment is just plain...
Morenita
Just don\u2019t reply when we comment. I wish people would chat with me. I do get lonely sometimes and have no friends. You sound mean.
05-May-24

It seems like these days that nearly all levels of Government don t really care about the average person. They promise us things that sometimes sounds good but nothing seems to come out of it ! Other levels of Government seem to make things so much more difficult than what they should be while they look after themselves and their over inflated egos ! How can we find a way to make them listen to the people and HELP THE PEOPLE?
BLM
because we don't care about ourselves - we keep electing the same people (personalities)over and over (again)
17-Jun-26

So much has changed over these years with children at school. I believe all schools should bring back the basics for children to learn from when they leave school. This used to be Home Economics is one example were they learn to cook, sew etc. Woodwork, & classes for basic economics that has a bit of finance, how to do a resume, etc. They also should have a driving class at 16-18yrs on basic car needs like change a tyre, oil etc. These children are not at all learning...
Bugalugs
Reading, Writing & Arithmatic, Home Economics including basic money and its use. The teachers should also teach them some manners. A "Please", "Thank You", "I am Sorry" are the sort of Manners which can take you a long way. However I do NOT think that Teachers and Schools should be required to provide Breakfast for the Children. That is the Parents Responsibility, nor should they be expected to provide Pre/Post School Care, Holiday Care. They are TRAINED to Teach and that is what they sould be allowed to do.
01-Jun-26

When you're using public transport, regardless of where you hop on from, I believe you should be dressed appropriately out of respect for other people and children. If you're near a beach area, these days especially, some people - particularly women - feel it s acceptable to hop on public transport wearing just a bikini. This is rude and embarrassing for whoever has to see it. There are so many quick cover garments you can throw on, like a beach top or dress, etc. There s no...
Norman PSBHRJ
I don't agree with this discussion, people wear what they wear, if you don't like it, stay off public transport. I wouldn't mind at all. Everybody has the right to wear what they want. People are just to effended these days. I enjoy looking at people and I don't judge them by what they wear or lack of. I don't judge people period. If you don't like what people wear in public then the problem is not them, it's you.
02-Mar-26

To get into my car, I touch the handle, and it unlocks automatically with the mirrors opening out. Getting in, the screen said "Hello Paula, we have a surprise for you" and when I pressed the starter the screen burst into fireworks and wished me a Happy New Year. My car is pretty clever. It has electric heated seats, a heated steering wheel, auto parking and reversing, heads up, sat nav, self adjusting headlights, auto wipers, sensors front, rear and sides, cruise...
Klanger
We haven't gone far at all. In fact we are going backwards. I always want to have full control of anything that isn't alive. and make decisions by myself. It is dangerous and will damage a lot of people. Thinking for ourselves is the greatest gift of all.
12-Jan-26

Not old exactly, but I realised I m not as young as I feel when I see how much older the actors, singers, and celebs I grew up with have gotten - or when I hear they ve passed. I still picture them as they were, so it hits hard when reality catches up. Aging isn t a bad thing - it brings perspective. For one, I don t tolerate BS like I used to just to keep the peace and I genuinely don t care what people think anymore (aside from those who matter to me). What s...
Angie
Ok so just yesterday, I went into work as usual believing \u201cyep, just another day\u201d and I was literally thrown to the floor by a student who obviously started his day on the wrong side of bed (or worse)\u2026 anyways, this severely traumatised, autistic non verbal kid wasn\u2019t happy when the \u2018ants go marching two by two Hurrah Hurrah\u2019 stopped playing (not my fault\u2026 the internet froze for a bit)
And he totally attacked me\u2026 I hit the floor, (15 year old M\u0101ori kid giving everything he had to an exhausted 54 year old menopausal pakeha lady who has given her all to the tamariki of Aotearoa Nz for over 16 years)
I\u2019m here tonight, reading this, covered in scratches and bruises, barely able to function, due to the mental, physical and emotional stress I endure, day after day\u2026
Yeah nah
I\u2019m done
I am officially an OLD woman
21-Oct-25

I have a neighbour who wants to replace a boundary fence. I have gotten two quotes, one was rudely overpriced. He has a friend who did nothing but criticised the quotes and wants to build the fence. His friend, I have found to be a know-it-all, and wants to build the fence cash in hand. He has put a roof over a couple of containers next door, but after a year is yet to complete it. He won t listen to any suggestions about materials, etc , and says he will supply a...
Tina
If your neighbour wants his friend to do it, then he can pay for it. If he wants you to help pay for it, then he and you need to agree on who should do it.
23-Oct-25

You work hard all of your life to buy what you want & what size of your living quarters. This is from 3 bedrooms onwards. No one can tell you how to live. You paid it all off & it s all yours. So you re so happy & eventually it is just only 2 people living in a huge space. So be it, it s your castle, now how dare your government wants to introduce a tax for having a spare bedroom unused, because he chooses to bring in more people into your country & no more spare...
Virgogirl
This sounds suspicious to me. Where is such a thing happening? I doubt the gov't can force you or tell you to rent a room to a foreigner or anyone for that matter.
12-Sep-25

My ex-boyfriend had left me and went and married a woman. Now they married are not working out his starting to text me and say he was sorry, but he texts me to give him 400 dollar to get his car out of the shop I had felt sorry for him and I did give him 400 dollar but after that I didn't here from him, I was so hurt. So what should I do if he asks me again when his married not going to work out.
Mary G 409440
I think you know the answer to your question and are just asking for confirmation. He is a loser and will never change - you sound like a very nice person and can deserve much better than him.
23-Apr-25

Hi I would like to discuss climate change, I am really sorry for bringing up this topic, I realise everybody is sick of all the news about this problem, but if man does not get it together in this lifetime recycle, garbage in our oceans, littering, cutting down our beautiful forests just to built luxury homes, protect our waterways for our water fowl, just think about what we are leaving the next generation GOOD LUCK with that.
Len G
I believe climate change us being blown out of proportion. Yes there are some issues tha definitely need to be addressed but it's not the gloom and doom certain people are saying. Look at the Al Gores yhe John Kerry's and the Leonardo De Caprios. They go around in their private jet's burning mor fossil fuels the u can imagine.period.
31-May-24

We used to have milk bottles that were washed out, refilled and used for years (delivered on electric floats to your door) TVs, fridges, computers, household appliances ... shoes and clothes ... that were easy to repair and lasted for many years, if not forever. Now we have very cheaply made rubbish (often from our friends in China) that has to be thrown away when it stops working or wears out ... it is either impossible to fix or just massively cheaper to buy a new one...
Rod R 101788
The 2 are not necessarily the same things. Many houses used to reuse supermarket shopping bags as rubbish bags. Now we buy rubbish bags that can be made of recycled materials but still can't be recycled.
The laminate on the kitchen & bathroom benches in the house we rent are fading where they get wet, but my parents' kitchen benches were solid wood & lasted for more than 40 years.
I still use my Dads electric drill & it still works because the only plastic parts are the trigger & handle cover. It has outlasted 2 rechargeable drills.
The handsaw I use has a wooden handle & I sharpen the blade with a file.
Apparently I recently "upcycled" an old solid wood door we bought to replace a broken modern one. It's still being used as a door - it's been refurbished & reused, same as my Grandmothers' dresser made in 1908.
Some things are made to last & some aren't, it's all about money, sometimes for multi-national multi-million dollar companies yet most people reading this rant aren't millionaires.
15-Mar-21

I can't talk about everyone, I can talk only about myself. Marriage has proven itself as a dangerous institution to me. It puts me in a situation in which my boundaries are not honoured, and I lose control over my salary, I am expected to accept someone else s religion, and do everything he says. But my needs are not respected. Men claim ownership on me what I marry them. It feels like I sign my rights away when I get married. What is your experience? Why people don't believe...
Sandra H 2204 NSW
We celebrated our 54th wedding anniversary in January. I have never experienced any of your issues, though marriage is something that needs to be worked on. Unfortunately I lost him in August.
01-Nov-24

Anyone ever had friends over that ask to use the toilet, yet when directed to the bathroom afterwards they tell you 'oh no it's fine' ...and just continue on with the conversation? It's a bit awkward to really insist, isn't it? Especially if others are present. Have you been to a good friend or family member's house and seen something completely unhygienic, yet thought it best not to say anything out of politeness? If so, does this alter the way you thought this person...
Sandra C 12043
You are lucky you had a toilet to use. In my day it was the dunny down the yard. They didn't have toilets mostly, it was a hole in the ground. Then came the little house down the yard with a wooden box over a hole in the ground, which was filled over with dirt & a new hole made. Then came the big drums in the hole & the Dunny/Sanitary cart came along & exchanged the drums over. My life goes a long way back. We used torn up paper (usually the phone pages) or newspapers for toilet paper.
02-Jul-26

I adore my grandchildren, but I am tired of furniture being wrecked, food being devoured not just by them but by the parents as well. We love them, and if they are in need, we are happy to help. We have stereos wrecked, carpets wrecked, fridges wrecked, paw marks everywhere, and we can't go on holiday in case we are needed for babysitting duty. They are 9, 7, and 4.
Old sheila
Well sorry but I would not allow them to do that , Tell the parents you will come to their place from now on lol See what happens
01-Jul-26

Good ole David Crisafulli, had the right line to suck in all those not sure on who to vote for. He's about 500 election promises in front of that one by now. Heard another voting crap line today. Break Bail go jail. Yeah you wish, the lil kid who just stole your new car and wrapped it around a tree, killed all his mates in the passenger seats just got told by a high court magistrate, bend over for a good bum smack, and I'm going to point my finger at you until you cry...
Razz
Start with the parents, ask why a 12 year old is out at 3am. Why courts are letting them out on bail and then they are arrested that afternoon on the same charge. Why criminal gangs are getting away with paying kids to steal cars for them to use in Fire-bombing business that are operating on their turf. I don't have any solution except make Youth Crime a federal offense as it's not being solved at state level.
26-Jun-26

I am a diabetic. Had gout so bad I was in bed for 2 days/screaming. Thank god I have a good friend... It went to ambulance stage. Ambulance came. And they made me wait 11 hours in emergency. Put a medical sock on. Called a taxi to take me home. It was 1:00 at that time. The taxi driver had to help me get into my place. Gave him a $10 tip. Should have been more. Has anyone got stories this? Or I am the only one?
Razz
I have no experience with Emergency Department, but they are understaffed and underpaid. The fault lies with the government and has for years; it took Covid to bring it to everyone's attention. They do the best with what's available. Sorry for your experience but it happens every day.
02-Apr-26

What day is it for you, today? Is it a holiday? Or a birthday? Or is it just another day? Was it a good day? Or was it a bad one? Was it dark out? Or was it light out? What was the day like for you? What day is it for you?
Hanno.
I have been retired for 6 years and every day is now a holiday for me. If I feel like going out I can, but if I am too tired I just stay at home and relax and work on increasing my Rewardia points. I am hoping to earn enough to buy a large screen TV.
22-Mar-26

Long term changes of constant scrolling include eye strain, brain fatigue, difficulty focusing, and a negative effect on sleep. So, why did our grandparents start doomscrolling?
Nel
Almost all scrolling on the phone aren\u2019t doomscrolling Nafka! Except a few negative effects, there are heaps of positive benefits of this act! Knowledge seeking, creativity, meeting like minded people, expressing ideas, and experiencing professional content you never came across before are some of the positives! For any elderly person, it\u2019s far better time being spent meaningfully (whether it\u2019s night or day) than logically, I believe! Especially, at your mature age there are no hard and fast rules to be followed! It\u2019s your time and your law! No one can dictate terms to them! Most of their stressors generate positive energy which helps more brain power and a greater awareness in them! \ud83d\ude00
21-Mar-26

What things that are done these days and even accepted as "normal" do you think are ridiculous or unnecessary? Here are some that I can think of: "Save the date" notices Wedding rehearsal Wedding dinner rehearsal
Lachelle B
Those 'named days' such as bubble wrap day, talk like a pirate day, pancake day, extraterrestrial abduction day.... yes they exist and are pointless.
09-Jan-26

There are discussions on here about vaccinations when you are old...and why do you not do them lots of questions by enthusiastic young people...they mean well...but society moves on... I walk around with a generation who barely understand one single language cannot spell...need their phone to explain things to them...self entitled arrogant...when I am eventually forced to have a smartphone just to exist... I will string myself up on a door...hopefully I will not need to........
Andrew396
This sounds like incoherent rambling to me, like an old man yelling at a cloud. Times are always a-changing. I get that the older you get, the harder it may get to adapt, but if you're having challenges to adapt, there's younger family to help you out, most likely. Not all of us "younger folk" are arrogant or too dependent on our phones, I have one but I can get by without it too.
10-Dec-25

Sometimes we re so busy worrying about what might happen tomorrow or regretting what happened yesterday that we forget to enjoy what s happening right now. Living in the present moment helps us feel calm, grateful, and truly alive.
kittle
I am just thankful that the Lord Jesus gives me each day and the blessings. I am 72 years old. Each day is a gift.
20-Sep-25

My husband and I have been married 28 years. Recently, he ended up in the hospital due to medical issues and a serious fall due to low sodium. After leaving the hospital, he had to go into a rehab facility for physical therapy. Around this time, a neighbor who has been constantly causing problems, called to tell me to tell my husband she loves him. She tried to say that would make him feel better. I was so shocked, I had no idea what to say or do. I am just now coming...
Jania S
WHAT? GET A LIFE and this is not days of our lives, this is supposed to be a survey site, not dear abby or is it?
18-Oct-24

Why does the government not insist on lowering grocery prices? The fuel cost went down the groceries went higher and what ever happened to the Canadian quality food control and. Where is our prime minster, he has spent more time in New York and Europe on our dime, bet he is having a lovey 3000 meal.
BLM
Corporate greed (profits over people) aka capitalism lack of (business) ethics. Furthermore, grocery prices are NEVER going down and all other aspects (cost) of living life (housing, utilities, etc.) are constantly going up (make the necessarily adjustment - aka get used to it)!
19-Jul-25

Yesterday, there were 4 deer here, would have been so easy to get, however, an elder friend of ours came today, don't see any deer anywhere today. The four yesterday were not afraid at all, they ate here all day, but today the guy is here, and we have not seen a deer all day. Are the deer intelligent or what?
BLM
Hi Debra D 624780. Should there 'still' be a deer hunting season...NO. Unfortunately, human beings have not evolved from our hunter-gather past as deer hunting season is unnecessary and inhuman at this point in humans' fight for survival on this planet. However, I have a bias viewpoint. I am 95% to 99% of the time (when it comes to food) - a VEGAN!
08-Dec-24

Regarding the elderly people, should they have a donated time slot to do their shopping? In me opinion definitely no, but I can t believe the polls are asking normal people in a survey to separate the elderly, because they are slow and very talkative, which slows everyone else through the isles and checkouts. To me, this is really discrimination for them. This people need to be treated with respect at all times. We all will be in this position one day. How would you feel if...
BLM
Equality has NEVER existed on this planet - you will FACE some form of discrimination (ageism, racism, sexism, sexual orientation, religious beliefs, lack of religious beliefs, social economic status, etc.) - before you DIE on this planet!
26-Nov-24

Recently I bought a shirt. As usual, there was a spare button attached. It had me wondering, in this day and age, how many people still would use this feature. Is it mandated? Would it be better to not include this feature and pass on the savings, seeing that the percentage would be quite low.
Nite-Owl
I don't think I ever needed that spare one, but I have several in my 'button box'. (I'm 75) I think most young adults today haven't been taught or wouldn't have the slightest notion or knowledge to sew a button on. It's a throw away society. Very sad.
03-Sep-24

In the past five years, I've noticed my city has become more populated. It is causing congestion with traffic. Also, the grocery stores are over packed, and I'm finding that the foods I usually purchase are becoming less available. Is anyone else living in the Hamilton area noticing this?
Benz
The elites can make you believe anything when they claim to control almost every global media outlet.
The flood of migrants is a deliberate method of the elite to cause division amongst people so they fight one another.
Why would they want this?
They want you so distracted with all the problems like cost of living, housing crisis, business failures, destruction of the food chain, global warming lies, overpopulation so they can take your land and then lock you up in "smart cities/prisons".
These smart cities are run by Artificial intelligence and track and trace your every move to ensure you exist within their strict carbon efficient guidelines every second of your life.
If you step out of line you will be punshished through the digital social credit system. They may choose to reduce your food allowance, travel restrictions or maybe force you to be re-educated in a strict facility......who knows?
These smart cities are already in operation in China.
23-Jul-24

My granddaughter and I pick up rubbish, and I also taught my children to do it when we were younger. I believe it s each person s responsibility to keep the community clean and look after the environment and also because it is polluting our environment. If u buy yourself treats make sure the rubbish goes in the bin and treats our community right too!
Grew
Is this even a question? It's a no brainer...I've recycled since I was a child. I'm now 48 always have always will do. My family does the same. It's a privilege to walk on this earth we should treat it as such. Just my opinion
15-Oct-23

I'm a 60-year-old grandfather and along with my wife we share guardianship of our 3 grandchildren with my daughter, we have a total of 8 living in a 4 bedroom, our house is uncharted chaos, every day is a new direction, and we 2 people high on the autistic spectrum one is 6 and 1 is 40, my daughter has a tumour in the brain, there are multiple issues we deal with daily, my problem is this why do people say how do you cope, why do you live in chaos, why do you...
Sago
I take my hat off to you. There is no way I could do what you do. I find it hard managing life on my own. I\u2019m 44, left home at 15 as soon as I could. Home and family life was intolerable. Constantly being told that I wasn\u2019t wanted. Lots of violence and disharmony. I thought I I\u2019d be truly over it by now but without the proper and normal support networks, it\u2019s really hard. I have to keep telling myself that life could be a lot worse. I feel lucky that I\u2019m in Australia and not in some war torn or dirt poor country. I just feel like my upbringing has left a lifelong legacy on me that is insurmountable and affects every facet of my life. Deep self esteem issues and feeling like everyone hates you. As they say, what doesn\u2019t break you makes you stronger. Thanks for reading. Cheers
25-Mar-23

How do you feel about cyclists who insist on riding two abreast, even when other cyclists and/or pedestrians are also using the shared path?
Lindy
I have a daughter who rides on shared bike ways, and she had an accident because a pedestrian who was walking two dogs spread out over both lanes and had headphones on and could not hear her repeated bell warnings. My daughter moved off the path and her wheel got caught in between the the path and the grass and she broke her ankle. So its not just the cyclists in the wrong.
1 week ago

Telstra, a national phone company in Australia, had an "outage" that affected parts of New South Wales, so the trains could not run. Apparently, train drivers need to talk to each other; luckily, bus drivers don't, so they used buses instead. My question is: what did train drivers do for hundreds of years before they had mobile phones? Anyone? And what other things can they ruin for us? I am sure the list is endless. I didn't think the trains would stop.
Alix
Sometimes the old tried and true is the best thing. I think in our fascination with what is new and fancy we get caught up and forget that it has to reliably work. The new gadget is not useful if it is not reliable. My children call me an old fuddy duddy but I believe that everything exciting and new is not necessary.
14-Jul-26

I was standing in the checkout queue in a supermarket, all the staff were wearing T-Shirts that said "this Shirt is made from 65% recycled plastic". Is that supposed to a good thing?.....what is the remaining 35% made of?.....why use plastic at all in a shirt?...just use cotton...every time the staff wash those they will release more micro-plastics into our drinking water... Everyone is keen to be green...or appear to be green...but we need to think all these things...
BLM
"Everyone is keen to be seen as green...or appear to be green" (great moral stance and great for business). Unfortunately, plastics is used in everything from airplane windows to surgical tools, packing, in interstructure, etc. Limiting use of plastics would raise prices and force costly substitutions (which the 'consumer' will pay for in capitalism (as usual)). Death by plastics - hoist by our own petard - a fitting end for a lack of humanity shown by humans to other humans (La vie est une garce puis tu Meurs)!
11-Jul-26

Grandparent Daycare - This title has been said to me many times, I've 10 grandchildren and all their parents work full-time, note: the grandchildren are spread between 3 states, so travel is always involved. The benefits for me: Travel Quality time with grandkids Developing a real relationship with them. Parents happy and secure in the knowledge that their kids are well taken care of. I don't get paid for this, any costs are covered by the parents and I...
blunder boy
government doesn't do much right and I'm afraid this would be another thing they would botched ,I look after my 3 grandkids fulltime and its a privileged and an honour ,all 3 are on the autism scale and i couldn't imagine doing anything else, it is the greatest thing iv have ever done in my books and getting paid to look after your own blood seems to me outlandish
08-Jul-26

I always pause at the door and ask, "Should I take my shoes off?" This polite check is the safest approach, as households have highly mixed opinions on indoor footwear. If your hosts take theirs off, follow suit. How do you handle it?
Lynn
I follow the rules of the home. We have friends that do this so we follow suit. At home we do not but I like walking in bare feet at home.
29-Jun-26

One of the big signs you've got a toxic boss is when they take credit for your accomplishments. They might say your work was a team effort or not give credit where credit is due when presenting data on key metrics. What would you say? What is the red flag of a toxic boss?
Von
Yes, I've had one. A DON who sacked me after being called to his office. He said he was sacking me for being cruel to a resident. I have never been cruel to any of my patients or residents.
I used take two elderly sisters (who had no family or visitors) once a month, in my own time, to buy them a Cornish pasty. I had to get the DON'S permission to do that because he was their NOK. He gave me permission but I wasn't allowed to take them to their bank.
One day, one of the sisters wanted to go to the bank. I thought, why not...it's their money.
To make a longer story short, that DON was syphoning money, every pension day, from their accounts into his.
I reported him to the owner ( who I'd worked for previously) The DON was confronted by the owner...and he made up a story, paid a carer to be a witness and say she'd seen me being cruel.
I had 30 days to take him to court. So I waited for 28th day then had my union serve legal papers to take him to court for wrongful dismissal.
I won that case, was compensated and given my job back. But in a small town, mud sticks, so I didn't go back and found a better job.
He was sacked, he was doing the same to other residents.
And to think, I saved that b#stards life when he was kicked in the head by his horse...
25-Jun-26

Elon Musk is about to float SpaceX. The resulting float will make Elon the richest person in the world. I did think about buying shares but they will float at about $135 US each which is a bit too much for me. What does being the richest man in the world feel like? We're told money doesn't make you happy, I'd love to find out if that's true. I would buy a house for each of my children then build a hospital and a nursing home. So what do you spend your...
Eva
I would probably give most of it away to the poor and hungry, as well as my children and keep just enough to live comfortably for the rest of my years
11-Jun-26

Have you ever broken a promise? To a friend, to a sibling, your spouse maybe? Some broken promises are understandable. Things happen, totally out of your control, and you can't do what you promised. It happens. It's not out of malice, just out of circumstance. But some broken promises are not so easy to get past. Even if you had no control over the situation, and you didn't do what you promised you would, it can be something that stays with you. Something you would give...
lys
When we put my mother into palliative care she said to me...you promised you wouldn't put me in a home. I had to explain to her that we couldn't look after her properly anymore. She lived with me for some weeks after a cancer operation even though I had, had a major workplace injury.(siblings couldnt stomach her condition).It was like the blind leading the blind but we laughed our way through. She only lasted a couple of weeks after that. I had to break the promise because more medical help was needed than I could give.
04-Jun-26

Who has it and why? I've had it twice, once in 1985 from a horse roll over, I've constantly got balance problems, aka one leg is shorter than the other. And a crocodile attack in 1996 when I was commercial free diver. Even having shower scares me because I think a croc us going to jump out of the floor. I've strong pills to put me to sleep. Only the good die young, so I must be bad lil mother
'smee,SWQ!
OK, for those in Australia my Wife is the 65 year old grandmother stabbed 17 times by her granddaughter a few years ago, she was not expected to live but is still here in constant pain and jumps at anyone entering a room where she is, has to keep herself shut securely inside and cannot sleep...she too is on a raft of strong medications whereas before this she would only ever take a paracetamol if she was really in severe pain!
29-May-26

A survey shows for 21 percent of people, their resolution is saving money, making it the most popular goal for 2025. Nineteen percent aim to eat healthier and 17 percent seek to exercise more. Do you plan to make a New Year s resolution for 2026?
Len G
Absolutely nothing doing. Why \ud83e\udd14\ud83e\udd2f waste my time on things I'm never going to follow thru on. Just going to take 2026 lone i have always been doing. One day at a time . Happy New Year \ud83d\udd5b\ud83c\udf8a to all my fellow rewardia members
31-Dec-25

We have always instilled the best possible manners in our children, however continue to notice a decline in the use of manners and chivalry that men should have and show to women, despite a so-called equal society. Please let me know if do you still believe manners have a place to play in today's society. Many thanks!
NotFriedLikeMost
Have you been awake the last decade?!?! Men got DEMONIZED for taking interest in women...now, women realizing they were WRONG...they are whining why MEN won't acknowledge them anymore.
Has nothing to do with the decline of manners or chivalry, and EVERYTHING to do with the radical leftist feminist brainwashing lots of women have undergone the last decade or so, conditioning them to be narcissistic sociopaths, degrading men at every opportunity and chastising men at every chance when they took an interest in them. Men couldn't even LOOK at a woman for a decade without that woman ASSUMING he wanted to do something evil to her, and, naturally, they posted these all online for the world to see, to justify their delusions.
Great men are everywhere...sadly, MANY great men are simply DONE with women, thus, they don't get the OPPORTUNITY to experience kindness, chivalry and manners FROM these men. They made their bed, now THEY are laying in it.
p.s. Even though this is the overwhelming truth, I personally still hold doors open for women, assist if needed, smile IF THEY look at me and so on...but, I do ALL of this because I am kind, but, I also do it WITHOUT HAVING ANY EXPECTATION OF IT BEING ACKNOWLEDGED.
18-Nov-25

In 1985 most people would have not known what Gluten was or lactose...or A2 protein...they all drank normal dairy products...ate peanuts...and nobody died...AND now there are a massive range of problems that we have ...what is going on?...no-one seems to question all these new health problems...are they real?...
Timtam
Allergies didn't just 'appear' spontaneously after 1985. Simply because you don't know anyone who was allergic to nuts or had coeliacs before that time doesn't mean they didn't exist.
Better medical diagnostics has certainly made diagnosis easier, so people who had been sick all their lives now had a name for their condition & guidelines for how to avoid symptoms from occurring. My friend is 58 & has been coeliac all her life, as well as having allergies to other food items. She didn't suddenly become coeliac in 1985, nor did her mother who is in her 80's.
My sister is in her 70's & has always had digestive issues in regard to milk. She's only known in the last 10 years that the reason is she is lactose intolerant. Prior to that she was just bloated & and felt sick if she drank milk etc.Now, she avoids symptoms by choosing lactose free milk. People certainly did die from anaphalysis due to nut ( & other allergies) before 1985. For some people exposure makes them feel ill, others it can be fatal. Better access to epipens has increased survival.
Has the rate of new allergies increased or are more people who have intolerances etc being diagnosed? I'm not sure. I would need to look at actual scientific studies to see what the conclusions are on that one but allergies & intolerances did not just suddenly appear, they have been with us for a very long time.
09-May-25

Do u wear? Do you wear makeup daily? Will u leave the house without makeup? Are you a cheap makeup is good enough, or do you like the more expensive brands? Do u purchase products for UNDER makeup? (Like primer) Do you use a setting spray afterwards?
P F
The only "make up" I use is sun lotion 50+, even on mild days. There is a reason why Australia has the highest skin cancer rate and it's called ozone depletion. And being Australian, I much prefer the natural beauty of a person to one that is "painted" up anyway.
26-Apr-25

There is a housing crisis across this nation and if you fall into certain categories it is even harder to get housing Women over fifty have less super sometimes as they have stayed home to raise children, later becoming divorced or widowed, young families, low income earners Empty nesters, and older couples The governments are trying to fix this problem, but this should've been thought of forty year ago, not now What do you think could improve this crisis and would...
Sylvia Y
It is not the banks that are at fault it lies at the feet of the state and federal governments they need to put a halt on immigration and stop housing refugees etc and put our own people first, also with older women it is not only those who stayed at home back even in the seventies and early eighties a lot of women werent covered by superannuation and that fault lies at the feet of employers at that time, that was one good thing which is due to unions.
01-Aug-25

Should Nuclear be in the mix for our energy moving forward? The debate over nuclear power's role in our energy future is far from settled. Proponents highlight its reliability and low-carbon emissions, while critics raise concerns about safety, waste disposal, and the potential for nuclear proliferation. As we grapple with the urgent need to address climate change, the question of whether to include nuclear power in the energy mix becomes increasingly complex.
Eric 1286034
My take, global warming is a political way by our politicians to collect taxes, started with Gore over two decades ago with all his scare tactics, that truly never happened, because I believe God put all these energy resources for us humans to survive, period, we just had to figure it all out., nothing to do with politics or fear.
Anything Gore said, has never happened, these frauds will always scare the masses. God will protect us if we get back to Him, and believe, this is what I believe, but people are afraid, thank you for allowing me to express my opinion, Eric.
27-Nov-24

Not everybody knows what they're calling in life is, for most of us it's not until we're much older and much wiser that we stumble upon it and if you're one of the lucky ones, you've found it early on, but nonetheless we all have one, a calling, a purpose, a thing we're really good at and that we really love doing. If you've found yours, write a few sentences about it and share it with the rest of us, I'd really love to hear how your story impacted you. I'm sure there isn't...
Michelle S 553303
Mine, IMO, is kind of unique. I had been working in marketing for McDonald\u2019s and I was overseas opening up the first store in New Caledonia. There was a female staff member who was having a threatened miscarriage and she was taken to the white hospital in the capital. She didn\u2019t lose the baby but that experience led me to look at the hospital for the indigenous population and I was very disappointed in the difference of care and the infrastructure which the Kanak people had access to in comparison to the French speaking population. After returning to Australia I made the decision to apply to University and study Nursing and become a Registered Nurse instead. That career choice was the best decision I ever made and although I earned less money the satisfaction was far greater than selling hamburgers to 3rd world nations. Thanks for reading.
04-Sep-25

If you could have one hour with your Head of State or Prime Minister, what topic would you like to bring to the table and why?
Woodster
Give up on renewables and give us affordable electricity. Mind you own business about international affairs. House the homeless and young people who can't afford to buy a home. Get your act together! You are only PM because of preferences.
15-Aug-25

The government want us to save for our retirement. Great, we are doing that. A little in the bank, a little invested, stocks and bonds ect. We have managed by not having holidays, not going out and working hard to pay off our home. Now they are pushing to have interest rates down at very low amounts. So we aren't getting any interest on the money we have in the bank. I feel for the ones with mortgages at the moment, but we have all gone through it if we own a...
BLM
The rich continuously get (income) tax cuts. Corporations continuously get (income) tax cuts. These tax cuts contributed SIGNIFICANTLY to rising income inequality! FYI: It has NEVER been about interest rates (a myth). It has ALWAYS been about WHO gets ongoing (income) tax cuts (reality)!
12-Jul-25

Should we still have the death penalty for people that commit horrendous crimes like murder and rape?
Sandra H 2204 NSW
I know I am opposite to everyone else, but I say no. I would rather someone die in goal than the smallest chance of killing someone who may be innocent. It is not unheard of that people have been found to be innocent after having spent time in goal for a crime they did not commit. The cost to keep another person in goal instead of killing him should not come into it.
13-Jun-25

Surgeons are usually very keen to operate on you it is their job, and it pays very well...excluding things like cancer... I have several friends who have all had surgery to fix problems...but recovery times are a way lot longer than promised one was botched completely...and nobody really thinks that they are really better off (apart from the surgeon involved!)....what does everybody else think?...has ANYBODY got a great story about surgery?..and how it changed their life?
Terry 1550339
Yes I do, I had back surgery in 2017 and it was a lower lumbar fusion and it went wrong from the start and when I got out of my 4 hour surgery that ended up taking 10 hours and after this I could not walk because I felt like I was walking down hill and falling to the right so I went back to the doctor and asked why this was happening and he said that sometimes the nerves in their canal get pinched or blocked so I had to have a second surgery.
Well I went through the second surgery and now I felt like I was just walking down hill so it's half way better and then I went to see a neurologist and they said that I have had a stroke, I guess it happened in my first surgery, so anyway I am walking down hill and after about a week or two it started to fix itself and I started walking better.
Then my surgeon said after x-rays were done that I had 2 discs in my neck that were blown out and it was a simple surgery so I said ok, let's do it. Well, when they do this surgery they go into your throat and make a small cut and remove a disc and replace it with a new metal disc then they closed that up and had to make a second cut to replace the second disc I didn't know this and when I went to get my surgery done there were a few things that I did not know about this, like the doctor never told me that they go into my neck to do this so when I got there I got a shock, I had to shave my beard in order for them to do this (LOL), Hell, I really didn't know that is what was going on anyway I got the surgery done after I shaved and all was good so Ii thought, after staying for 2 day's in the Hospital after the surgery the doctor decided to release me and so I left the hospital to go home and it was 110 miles from the Hospital to the house and I really felt great and happy to be at home finally and then it hit, my throat started closing up and I wasn't getting any air so I was rushed 20 miles to a local Hospital and that was the wrong hospital that I was supposed to be at so the Ambulance drivers gad to turn around and drive me 14 miles to where the hospital was and guess what, This Hospital was only 4 miles from my house again I'm still not getting proper air so they rush me inside the ER and attempt to put hoses or tubes down my throat and they ended up knocking out my two front lower teeth to do this and I swallowed them.
So I laid in that Hospital for 4 more day's to get test done and on day 4 I decided I've had enough because the doctor has never came to see me , so I took the tubes out of my throat and pulled out my wires and needles and I told them that I am getting the hell out of here so the staff called security and they tried to keep me there and we started fighting and I kept saying I"M leaving, so I left and got home and I had an appointment with my neurologist and I went to that appointment and had a MRI done and they said that with all of this, I had another Stroke. I went home, I just gave up.
I wrote all of this because it is a true event, But, my point is is that my Doctor got paid very well and I still am in a lot of pain and I can't work anymore and life has become a real BITCH and I also need to say that I have tried to go and see my back doctor and no one knows where he disappeared to. This is just some mucked up shit that I have been living with and I am not crying about , I hope you folks learn what you are up against prior to letting a doctor do any work on you and pick the very best qualified doctor before getting any surgery done.
I hope you all have a good day!
07-Apr-25

Sometimes I wonder why I can't just change my life I lost my dad 9 years ago due to cancer and just a year ago my younger brother took his life because of cancer he couldn't stand the thought of his kids seeing him in pain and really sick life our dad was. I wonder why god didn't take me instead or why he can't take the bad people, why the great ones. I guess it's a mystery that I will never understand. My life is like a lifetime movie no joke and I have tried changing it, but...
Gigi
We will understand God's plan for each of us in due time. That time isn't now. You need to rely on your faith in God and realize he's not the bad guy. On the contrary. God knows and loves us and will have us understand everything in due time. This life is a testing ground for us to grow and learn and to learn to control our bodies and souls. You aren't the only one who has lost loved ones, young and old. We'll understand when the time is right. We aren't God. We don't decide. It hurts and God will make it right when the time comes and is His decision. Kudos for sharing heartbreaking experiences. We all have them.
11-Mar-25

Have you ever been told you wouldn't be able to accomplish something you were passionate about? You may have been discouraged by parents, other family members, friends and even teachers. However, it was something you felt passionate about or had confidence to accomplish it regardless of what others said. What is something you were discouraged from pursuing, but you went ahead and accomplished it anyway? I was told a number of things. The naysayers were surprised...
Pearlz
I suffered a spinal injury leaving me an incomplete paraplegic which means I had one paralysed leg. I had to wear an orthidic which kept my foot at a right angle so could only wear sneakers or lace-up shoes. If I wore a dress the orthidic strapped to my leg would snag it so I stuck to pants. My surgeon referred me to a neurosurgeon who told me that not only would I never get feeling or use back in my leg but I would also get much worse as I aged and one day I wouldn't be able to walk at all. I was so upset as I left his office and as I watched a taxi coming close I momentarily thought about jumping in front of it, but at the last minute I felt it probably wouldn't kill me but give some other injury. I decided to go back to my GP and discuss the matter with him. He said he felt I would improve over time but my leg would never be normal again in either full feeling or use. I saw a physio who gave me exercises to do telling me nerves can grow back if stimulated and my surgeon told me the best vitamins to make nerves grow. I went to the local chemist to buy the vitamins and the young girl there told me I needed acupuncture but only from someone who was taught in China. I managed to find a real GP who learnt acupuncture in China and he agreed to see if there was anything he could do for me. I went to physio once a week and had acupuncture once a week all the while taking the vitamins recommended. It didn't happen overnight but it did improve so that I was able put the orthidic away underneath the stairs. The injury was 1997 and I now have 80% use of my leg and 70% feeling. I can wear flat shoes or sandals but not thongs or high heels, which I don't miss, and I can walk some distance if I wear sneakers. I went back to the hospital to show them my recovery, they rarely get to see how people cope once they leave hospital. There are things I can't do and I have to be careful because I can't tell if I am standing on uneven ground or flooring which can be dangerous, but, the neurosurgeon was wrong, I did get better and I can walk unaided.
06-Feb-25

After the first long term study of using gas cookers...the researchers have concluded that 40,000 people a year, in Europe alone, die as a consequence of using gas cookers (twice the number killed by cars)...it also says that the connection between using gas and heart and lung problems...had already been well established "over many years"...(DW News story)... All we get in Australia is adverts for and by Gas companies telling us how wonderful they are! When...
lys
The is always data somewhere that will tell you something will hurt you. I paid $16,000 for solar panels and now only I get 3c a kw feed in and still have electricity bills. I am not getting rid of any of my gas appliances only to have nothing as a back up during furture blackouts when too many people go over to overloaded, unreliable renewable systems. They are not nice I lived with organised black and brown outs in Qld not doing it again.
06-Nov-24

We are all human beings, we are all equal, we all need the same things to survive. Water, food and shelter! Peace & happiness is what we all long for. How can we all contribute to world peace?
writerrochelle
Only one person can bring world peace to this earth. His name is Jesus Christ. He is the son of Jehovah God. Soon God will hand over the kingdom rule to his son, who will then cleanse the earth of all wickedness, and peace will reign forever! Please read Matthew 6:10; Matthew 24:14 and Psalm chapter 37 in your Bible! ;-D
16-Oct-23

Most of the planet seems to be saying "its OK... happy Christmas" and then slamming the door again on boxing day....in Australia we are opening up the door to a massive flood of covid...with a fair bit of enthusiasm...New Years Eve massive super spreader parties and celebrations could be the turning point when every part of Australia looks like the developing mess in NSW...are we all ready for this?...is it too late to exercise a bit of common sense?....
Timtam
Yep common sense has gone out the window with a govt who is more concerned about the next election than the health of the Australian people. The new rule changes are absolute bullshit and have no basis in science, purely politics to hide the real number of covid cases. Rapid tests are an important tool, but the lack of a mechanism to report the +ve cases detected by rapid tests smacks of the desire to cover up the true number of cases.
The 4 hour exposure rule and household only as close contacts is absolute, unscientific, political rubbish.
31-Dec-21

Normally this is a host country event...if you go there you can see every event...this year tickets are at least three times more expensive...(2 small ice creams cost one little British girl $18)...Spain is being investigated for match fixing...as is one referee I believe...the VAR is wrong...fouls are being ignored....it looks like one massive ripoff by FIFA...they need to be stopped...what do you think?
NotFriedLikeMost
Been a footy fan since 1990. $18 for TWO ice creams...convert that to POUNDS...and you know that is on par with prices in the UK. Second, Spain is not being investigated for match fixing, LMAO...they do NOT need to fix any matches. Next, the VAR is ACTUALLY very correct. The issue in football PRE-VAR was people wanting a replay for correct calls....so they got that and now they say its NOT right, lol. NO, it is 100% correct and people get butthurt. Fouls are NOT being ignored...you need to know the game to know what is a foul or not. If players make an attempt AT THE BALL...and get the ball FIRST, any contact after is NOT a foul. This is common knowledge. Anything BLATANT...like the US player Balogun getting a red yesterday...IS called because there was ZERO attempt at the ball and he stepped on the guys ankle which COULD have been dangerous. Red card, blatant foul. The refs have done quite well in every match. There has been NOTHING suspicious whatsoever, and I am always critical of refs. I WILL agree with the ripoff part...THIS IS ALL ON FIFA, not the venues themselves. FIFA themselves are corrupt as they come. Everyone knows that. People pay still cuz this won't happen again, most likely, in their lifetime. The OVERALL rhetoric from ALL 3 host countries has been overwhelmingly positive, no matter HOW the media tries to say otherwise. Also, this is more of a US world cup, with Mexico and Canada having a few games as ANYTHING quarterfinals and forwrd is ALL in the U.S. This has been one of the best world cups...play wise, reffing wise, and atmosphere wise...in my lifetime. Kudos to the U.S....they have done it proper. As a Canadian, the ONLY two places we CAN host games happen to be in the MOST leftist and expensive cities...Toronto and Vancouver...which sucks, but, that's all we can offer. So it is what it is...TSN here in Canada has done an excellent job at broadcasting the pre-games, post games, the Canadian matches, and showing all other matches. The fan fests in each city are always packed for every match. All in all...the only gripe is the ticket prices. But, that's always a gripe because inflation is insane. At least in Atlanta, people can get food for the cheapest because the Falcons owner says HE WILL NOT raise concession prices just because FIFA requests it...so, kudos to them.
03-Jul-26

AI is taking over boring stuff...like talking to you on the phone...sending you mail and email...it is already telling you what to buy...next it will be doing your shopping, having it delivered and putting it all away. Who needs to go shopping? Who needs shops? Just massive warehouses like Amazon...it will transport you around...it will clean your house, cook your meals...organise your holidays...all the boring stuff...and you will have so much free time too...because...
Teri 1282723
We should all watch Colossus: The Forbidden Project. Or The Terminator. It's here. It's there. It's dangerous. I'm not so worried about it in my life because I can try to limit it to a point. It's the AI in government and military hands that makes me a little frightened.
21-Jun-26

When my alarm went off this morning I told my Google speaker to stream the radio. It said something, but I didn't hear because I was still half asleep, anyway, there was no radio, so I got up. To my surprise the TV was on and it was showing ABC radio. How on earth did it do that? My husband and I had no idea, but it took us ages to get it back to being a TV. I want the TV to turn on when I turn it on, not the Google speaker. We are losing control...
Brick
You have a choice! Nothing forcing you to use it - anything involving technology relies on power - have an outage and you have problems - reset this that and the other - why do you need technology to run everything in the first place? I have a key that opens my front door and if the power is out who cares! it will come back on sooner or later.
15-Jun-26

Lets help each other out..we all have some product that is fantastic, you cannot believe how good it is..and you tell your friends and relatives...I've got a few..so why not help all of us and share your knowledge?..I used to buy coffee machines and they would break in a few years...and when they got too expensive...I bought an ANKO one...in Kmart...the price on it was $129...but at checkout I was charged $69...and 10 years later it is still pumping out great...
Chosen
My wife. Was not on sale but my best choice ever. Reliable and hard working. Gets better with age and looks outstanding.
10-Jun-26

Is it ever OK to gaslight someone you say you love absolutely not so then why after 10 yrs of marriage my husband started gaslighting me ... do i think he's cheating
Whitehawk
Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation and emotional abuse. The manipulator deliberately distorts the truth, denying facts or the victim's feelings, to make the victim doubt their own memory, perception, or sanity. The ultimate goal is to gain power and control
16-May-26

Do you talk to yourself? I often do! Have full on conversations with myself. LOL, but I ve read in several places that it s a sign of high intelligence!
Sandra H 2204 NSW
I often chat to myself (and occasionally to my husband - he passed a couple of years ago but I still like to tell him when something happens that he would be interested in).
03-Mar-26

As we all know, life is getting more expensive. With ridiculously high rental prices, mortgage rates going through the roof & profiteering supermarkets constantly raising grocery prices & crazy energy prices - many are struggling to make ends meet. What are your best money saving strategies? Share the love !
BLM
One, buy generic (not brand name) - when it comes too food. Generic is as tasty as brand names! Two, stay away from microwaveable (convenience) foods (too expensive) and you pay for convenience in a grocery store. Last, set up a monthly grocery budget and (tried) to stay within your monthly grocery budget!
16-Jan-26
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