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Got cancer surgery tomorrow morning could use some prayers
Carl 151575715-Aug-24 08:43 pm
I was recently diagnosed with testicular cancer.the wave of emotions that just hit me are like nothing I have felt before.im not a sentimental guy ,but dawm this sucks!.50 is to young to go!if anyone got any pointers I sure would like to hear them.i can't look at myself in the mirror cause I don't want to see me giving up.but I think I am imso tired.
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  • Dada WA
    Keep on mate. I know the feeling. 20+ years ago I had breast cancer and the emotions were the same. Mastectomy and survived. That year had 2 sets of stents. prostate rebore. Thought the world would end but still here and kicking.
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    • Pat C 618241
      Hi Carl, do hope we can help - tell us how it went, if only to spread the misery!
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      • Scarlett2020
        Praying for you
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        • Debra D 624780
          Prayers continue as you go through the recovery process.
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          • Carl 1515757
            Thank you all ! Surgery went as well as I could hope for.No surprise is good surprise huh.Your thoughts and comments really did make a difference.Sometimes it gets to be very hard indeed to stay positive amid all the bad news,hate,mean people and unbelievably unfair way life treats us all .Take it from me,a guy who was on the edge of just giving up you all brought me back if any of you need my help,I'll be there....thank you
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            • Liane H
              Good for you Carl , glad you got onto the other side and back safely ! Hoping the next steps and recovery go well for you 🙂
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            • Robert F 1161011
              🙂👍 Here's to a speedy recovery.
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          • MARGARET p 388156
            We all been through it you must stay positive. When I was going through with my health and the drugs was hard on my body . I go to church and have a one and one conversations with the man upstairs and do lots of walks which I still do today that was 30yrs ago. My thoughts and preys are with you.
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            • Susan KTC
              A very challenging time for you and your family, sending love and healing. Louise Hayes books are a very good, helping you to heal through positive affirmations.
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              • Grommie
                I recently had bowel and lung cancer followed by heart problems and then chemo. You can see this through, it takes lots of will power and acceptance of help where you need it. Run a diary of all your experiences. Your doctors will thank you for it and it will give you something to concentrate on. You WILL come out the other side.
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                • mary c
                  oh Grommie...what a lot to go through..hope you doing better xox
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                • Grommiemary c
                  dear Mary thank you for your concern. I'm doing ok but frequent scans, blood tests etc to catch it if it comes back. You might think this is strange, but Grommie knew I was unwell. He acted strangely., he was shy around me. As soon as the chemo was over we were best friends again.
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                • Liane H
                  Best wishes Grommie , Mary is not wrong there ,.that sounds like an awful lot ! Hope you're feeling better now all the chemo's done 🙂
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                • GrommieLiane H
                  It was and first time in a hospital since I was born.....I had no idea what to expect. I was staggered that 2 surgeries were totally pain free afterwards. lots of pills of course. The chemo experience I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy.
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                • Liane H Grommie
                  I'm amazed too pain free post op. Chemo ,never good news week ,I had a young friend who went through lymphoma non Hodgkin's. He's fine now too ,all treated after 6 month's but I do wish they'd hurry up with some other options.... Cures!! I did hear a patch for mouth ulcers instead of the old lignocaine gels is now out, so one good thing ....
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                • Robert F 1161011Liane H
                  Lucky for your friend... Chances of survival are pretty good if diagnosed early.
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                • Liane H Robert F 1161011
                  Thanks Robert yes he was only 19 and found out at stage 3 . Pretty well very lucky it's one once treated it's done with. But very hard to diagnose so he'd been having a lot of different symptoms prior. He's doing well now thankfully. :)
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              • sherrydp
                Sending prayers and positive healing thoughts your way!
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                • Debbie
                  Hi Carl here's hoping the surgery went well yesterday, hang in there and try to stay positive, hopefully it's a good outcome. My husband has had various surgeries in the past 3 years and 6 weeks radiation after being diagnosed with head & neck cancer. He wouldn't be here today if he wasn't operated on that's for sure. But he's been a trooper through it all and his positivity is great. He's 50 now still has regular CT and PET scans. The team will look after you, wishing you all the best Carl 👍
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                  • Debra D 624780
                    My husband has prostate cancer since 2002. He did radiation, it failed but backed it off significantly. Now he is on the lupron shots. We are sending prayers of healing.
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                    • frannie 1554322
                      Sending prayers of peace & healing!
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                      • Nancy P 114688
                        Praying for total healing and your health be restored in the mighty name of JESUS. AMEN
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                        • Elizabeth J 447888
                          Of course Carl; a few prayers already prayed. I can imagine how you are feeling. There have been great advancements in the treatment of all cancers in recent years. Now down to the practicalities, eat broccoli everyday, get rid of all sugar from your diet and have a bit of bicarbonate of soda in a glass of water each day. I am not a doctor but these are things that I have picked up over the years. All the best Carl.
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                          • boy blunder
                            man that does suck hope all goes well and you stay strong,,,,i will leave you with a wee joke two guys walk into a bar the next guy walks over it...I wish you well bud
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                            • Pat C 618241
                              I'm from an earlier generation Carl and some of my male friends have been in the same situation as you. Most of them have found that the skill of our surgeons these days and the after care mean that life DOES return to normal. Some of us here will I'm sure send some thoughts upwards on your behalf. Just keep thinking positively!
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                              • Barbara T
                                Stay Positive Carl. That is what I did when I was diagnosed with a Stage 4 Melanoma - I joked about it whilst everyone else was carrying on.....lucky for me - no radiation, no chemo .......
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                                • pam rae
                                  HANG IN THERE AND WISH YOU THE BEST CARL AND DON'T GIVE UP..!!!!
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                                  • Linda 3
                                    I'm sorry to hear, Our family has been no stranger to all kinds of cancer so can understand your emotions at this time. A prayer sent.
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                                    • Jacqueline 1552991
                                      Thinking of you. ❤️ My husband was diagnosed with Prostate Cancer at 49. Radical prostatectomy, a few changes but has adapted well. He is 66 now, loving life.
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                                      • matthew f 520557
                                        don't run from the cure... ask rick simpson
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                                        • Liane H
                                          Hi Carl , well that's not good to hear . I'm sorry I'm not a religious type for you , but think positively. You've got surgery which is a good thing ,, they haven't said we can't do anything for you. I'm not sure if you're in Aus or where but there's many new treatments available and coming for all types of cancers. I hope they look after you well in house tomorrow and I wish for you all the best of luck that they get it sorted for you in one main go. You are young as well which is also something to be positive about ,you have a much better chance than being in your 70s or 80s . You're allowed to be tired so rest up while you can ,but once the op is over with and results done , you'll be able to work out your fight plan with the docs . You may just have a better result than you're imagining right now :) I'm keeping all crossed for a great outcome 🤎
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