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Overall ... seriously. How are you coping now?
andrew 119-May-21
I know, I know,...we have all the drama...its going to be MUCH worse than the Spanish Flu...isn't it?...America has rallied..the rest of us are lucky....My relatives overseas have all survived...we are going through a MASSIVE part of history...this is a community...talk to us about you are coping
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  • Beth 348992
    My mental health has slowly been improving after probably decades of suffering, I have autism and terrible adhd, both of which went undiagnosed until late 20s so i struggled greatly in adolescence. But think i've turned a bit of a corner now, coping much better. Got a job after not working for many years which has been great for purpose. But I have a rare, difficult-to-treat chronic nerve/pain condition that is in a terrible flare-up at the moment and was really not coping physically or mentally with that for a while. Calming down a bit now but can really impact my daily living/working, very sad as it first emerged just as my mental health was starting to improve. All i can do is my best and chuff on, I could be coping a lot worse I think so am thankful for that
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    • Mrs 1541596
      CancerJust sucking it up, It is what it is. Get to the gym, eat healthy and keep a smile on my face, cause Summer be here soon. Yay Cheers Crissy
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      • Gunter L
        I am coping because I can't afford not to.
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        • MARGARET p 388156
          I just had covid and getting over it I think I doing O K
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          • Carolyn7 P
            2 of my grandchildren lost their Nana and Tata. 3 of my older grandaughters lost their Mother and I lost my cousin and his wife to Covid. It has been hard. I just wish something could be learned by all this. Maybe those who worked well from home could continue that. Less traffic, less pollution. Less personal contact. Things could be realized because of Covid but it seems everything is back to no so normal.
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            • Edward S 497347
              Carolyn P I am so sorry to hear that you have lost so many relatives from the Covid-19 pandemic, you have been hit very hard by this horrid pandemic and my heart and prayers go out to you and your family. I do not know whether you are Christian or not, but rest assured that ALL of your dearly departed are now at peace in the spirit world and are watching over you and the remainder of your family. I pray that you have peace of mind and strength to be able to cope and fight on through this horrid period of time in your life. May God Bless YOU and your family
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            • Carolyn7 PEdward S 497347
              Thank you and yes, I do believe.
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          • Christine M 323842
            I’m already nostalgic about last years hard lockdown in Melbourne. It was so peaceful. Now all the clowns are out and about again, on the roads ( they think public transport is too dangerous), yet it’s safe to squish up at Noodle Box and Hungry Jacks. A hard lockdown everywhere for a while, to give nature a chance to catch its breath would be great.
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            • Mary M 329762
              This happens each 100 years big flu. We never questioned n the bird flu or pig flu. What will bw next goat flu. As they say questions history questions life questions everything around you
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              • Edward S 497347
                We have different variants of the common cold and flu each year. We have had the bird flu, Sars, and other bad viruses over the past centuries; HOWEVER; the Covid-19 virus is a combination of BOTH the flu virus ( Coronavirus ) and the Sars virus, which is why it thrives and spreads in both cold and warm weather. We are dealing with 2 different viruses which were combined and would NOT have combined by themselves, which proves that the Covid-19 virus was created by humans.
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              • Mary M 329762Edward S 497347
                someone saud each 10 years a new flu came out viriants. But alway a peaceful way to vaccination peoples without pulling its
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            • Carol C 465698
              I have more problems than Covid-19.
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              • roger l 315504
                According to my GP I'm vulnerable and have several morbidity issues. The social distancing and uncertainty of not being 'fully' vaccinated has had significant impacts on my usual habits and consequently on my physical and mental health, In a word I'm not coping all that well
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                • mary c
                  have you had a vaccine yet?
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                • Edward S 497347
                  Roger I am in the same boat as you. I have emphysema and lung cancer and those things plus my age which is 64 places me at very HIGH risk of catching the Covid-19 virus, BUT at the same time, these things also put me at very HIGH risks of blood clots from AstraZeneca or side effects from other Covid-19 vaccines; therefore I am at very HIGH risk of dying whether I get vaccinated or not. IF our government allowed people in my age group to have a choice of vaccines then I WOULD get vaccinated, but I refuse to get vaccinated with AstraZeneca
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                • roger l 315504mary c
                  yes, my GP organised them for me, the first AV shot was set up for the first day his practice started scheduling them and the second one was 12 weeks later in the middle of July, the thing that amazed me was that I experienced no side effects at all, not even a slight headache or sensitivity around either injection sity
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                • mary croger l 315504
                  Glad to hear! i was v scared of some bad side effects but totally felt i had no choice but to get vaccinated. Delta is here now in NZ though contained in another part of the country but i feel very unsafe again even though i am vaccinated. Delta is so infectious- its like wildfire.
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              • Priscilla R 316016
                I have more pressing issues to help keep my partner alive than COVID and have had for the past three years - this doesn't really affect us at all.
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                • Kim L 88315
                  Am coping great, just wish the media would stop with shoving it in our faces 24/7
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                  • Edith v
                    Our secret of coping is !! we live in Western Australia The safest place in the Southern Hemisphere
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                    • Dimitri T 100433
                      doing OK now ?
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                      • Imperia S
                        I am rather a bit of a panic merchant, so I am always on edge, and with all that is going on in the world, I thank my lucky stars that I am or rather seem to be coping, however this latest argument between Isreal, and who ever plays on mind as I don't want our kids to be part of any wars
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                        • mary c
                          Same re being a panic merchant. When we were in full lockdown last year i spent most of the time thinking i was getting covid..its was terrifying. (i didn't and didn't personally know anyone who did) And that i would spread it to my husband in care and all the people at the resthome. Haven't recovered mentally from that and still very on edge that covid could get back in our community at any moment.
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                        • Melinda B 311794mary c
                          I am the same, Mary. I think there are quite a few of us who like this. Better to be safe than sorry! We live in the country, so our exposure is limited in comparison to the cities - you can't be too careful, though. The restrictions are there for a reason but I am still getting used to them - frustrating but worthwhile!
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                        • mary cMelinda B 311794
                          i feel bad as i have become so phobic..my daughter had a wee girl she was watching for a few hours- she had to pick something up from home and had to bring the little girl with her. The wee one had a cough and snuffle- and i didn't go near her. I felt so cold and mean..and realized how scared i have become. I knew the child only had a cold but i still didn't want to be near her.
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                        • Edward S 497347mary c
                          Sadly the "Delta" strain has been affecting young children as young as newborns. Many children under 5 and under 10; as well as teenagers and in their 20s. In recent weeks in Australia a 15yo boy got Covid-19 and died.... You becoming scared is well-founded
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                      • Carolyn H 146141
                        I live in New Zealand and although we did very well in containing the virus something has gone horribly wrong with the vacine roll out. I am in a Care Home and we haven't been offered the vaccine yet. The government is lying to us and it's terrifying.
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                        • mary c
                          i agree..am in nz too. my spouse is in a care facility and is a high needs tetraplegic- i so want them to Hurry the hell up and vaccinate them!!!! apparently it was meant to be friday- but has been delayed. Though a large group of people were getting vaccinated just nearby who can walk and talk and feed themselves. Sigh. Good luck to you and hoping you get vaccinated very soon :)
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                        • mary c
                          just replying again!! i'm not sure that the Govt are lying..worse i think they are not sure what the frig is going on and the MOH are the same.
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                      • Glenyse H
                        I am happy also , the reason being is that I live in wa and the State Government here has done a grea5 job in keepin* our borders safe. I also support Aust. Govt in not letting any people from India get in to Aust. It is diabolical in India that there are so many people dying from this pandemic and rightly so that no one gets in without a clear medical outcome
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                        • Ivan S 396292
                          Happy because more problems in society come to surface. Hopefully something will be fixed before something else like Covid comes.
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                          • Val B 69099
                            have not coped for some time. Take one day at a time and just try to get through each day. Lucky I have good support
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                            • mary c
                              yes..i am a one day at a time person too..:)
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                          • Peter M 273033
                            There's a roof over my head, food in the kitchen and the utility bills are paid. But wait - there's more! Had my first Covid jab _ Pfizer - a couple of days ago and the second one is booked for 3 weeks away. Things could easily be worse.
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                            • mary c
                              and you feeling ok after it?
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                            • Peter M 273033mary c
                              So far so good: Left arm feels bruised: slight runny nose and that feeling you get when you are about to come down with something as the southern hemisphere winter draws in. we will see what happens after #2.
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                            • mary cPeter M 273033
                              All the best :)
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                            • Peter M 273033mary c
                              No worries: no after-effects. Glad I did it.
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                          • lulu
                            Im cheesed off at having to clock in everywhere i go as they say big brother is watching you
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                            • APB
                              If you don't own a smart phone, you only need something that is black and about the same size...hold it up to the barcode thing, frown and press a few times and then just walk in...I have never seen anyone check that you are actually using a phone....
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                            • mary cAPB
                              love it...and maybe wear dark glasses and carry a clipboard...
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                            • APBmary c
                              Yes!....wear a suit and carry a large clipboard and it is really surprising the places people allow you to wander around
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                            • mary cAPB
                              and a lanyard with a key on it or maybe that is going too far.
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                          • Cam J
                            Oz seems to have it under control
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                            • Frank N
                              We are lucky here in New Zealand. The government has done a good job of containing Covid-19.
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                              • Bugalugs
                                We are all fine and have no problems. The Biggest Problem of all has been the Media - in all it's forms. They started a campaign telling everyone how stressed, how deprived we all are as a result of Covid19. They just never let up telling us how dreadfgul we should all feel. They even publicised a 5-year-old child who was suffering from Mental Issues as a result of Covid19 - a child who's parents admitted they had had no family members, friends etc, who had contracted Covid19 or, other than not being allowed to go to the Gym, Pub etc. - which no child should be going to in the first place - and social distancing. "We, my husband and I, had to stay home and as Child care was closed we looked after her" What sort of parents are they that their 5-year-old develops mental health Issues when they are looking after it? The media loves to turn everything into a Massive Disaster - if you won Lotto and made the mistake of telling the media they would turn that into a disaster as well!
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                                • Paul J 94868
                                  I'm going ok...
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                                  • Melissa M 548472
                                    Life is pretty much normal where I live at the moment - waiting on vaccine roll out to increase..
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                                    • Wendy Q
                                      No issues where I live. No infections and no problems, Doing everyday stuff as normal and as usual.
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                                      • Luke W 72035
                                        There is so much uncertainty in Australia. The vaccine roll out, political bickering, airline dramas ect ..I'm sick of hearing about it to be honest.
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                                        • Patman Newcastle
                                          I am doing fine thank you.
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                                          • Maree C 80174
                                            I am coping well
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                                            • beverly w 540992
                                              i am a pensioner living in nz, i am doing ok, go ten pin bowling twice a week, so i am one of the lucky ones and have not been hit by covid.
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                                              • Henry W 362692
                                                I’ve coped very well riding my bike 5 days,golf & table tennis 2 days a week.Have travelled overseas each year but quite honestly I’m concerned many countries are still dangerous to visit due to Covid infections best to stay home & travel in our beautiful country
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                                                • Katzeye
                                                  I have lived through 2 major earthquakes,millions of smaller earthquakes,a terriorist attack and a pandemic yep doing just fine thanks :)
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                                                  • Phyrephly
                                                    you're tougher than you know! lol
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                                                  • mary c
                                                    Go Chch xox
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                                                • Joe B 288252
                                                  Getting ants in my pants having to stay home. Really keen to get globe trotting again but the vaccine roll out is damn slow. On the bright side, didn’t get the lurgy or any other form of curse so …….just waiting …lol
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                                                  • Barbara T
                                                    I would be coping a hell of a lot better if I didn't have to wear this damn mask at work every day! ........ so over this .........
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                                                    • Matt Black.
                                                      Life is still awesome. In the last 9 months I have been in Jakarta, Perth , Darwin and am now in Bali. I wander along the beach every day and drink cold beer. Okay we have to wear a mask when wandering around but that is no big deal.
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                                                      • John Smith
                                                        Wait. You cannot leave Australia due to COVID-19 restrictions, how do you fly to Bali from Perth or Darwin whatever?!?! I have heard that it's not easy to get an exemption for international flights. Is it for your business?
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                                                      • John Smith
                                                        I know, I know - your travel is in the national interest! Or you are travelling on humanitarian grounds
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                                                      • Matt Black.John Smith
                                                        , I actually retired 23 years ago. There are weekly Garuda flights from Perth to Jakarta. It is then necessary to quarantine for 5 days in Jakarta. A visa for Indonesia is easy to obtain. The only hassle is getting permission to leave Australia. A friend is flying in tomorrow.
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                                                    • Gaza
                                                      Just normal, doing the correct thing and getting on with my life.
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                                                      • Natasha J 548361
                                                        Good
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                                                        • 'smee,SWQ!
                                                          All fine here in Sunny Queensland, Australia! - Come and join us when you can!
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                                                          • MoB
                                                            I live in Queensland Australia so don't have too much experience of COVID. Some of the other States suffered but fortunately we were okay. I have saved a lot of money since we are not permitted to holiday overseas. Lucky with mental health, but totally aware that even in Queensland some people are suffering. We do need to learn to live with it just like we live with the flu, once we do that we will get somewhere back to normal. Whatever that normal is for you.
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                                                            • James B 70778
                                                              ok
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                                                              • dale k 247571
                                                                New Zealand here, We have been very lucky with the decisions made by our government which has kept 99% of us safe, Yes some have lost jobs family and other things etc but on the whole we are doing fine, This is the new normal
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                                                                • Keith L 485431
                                                                  Smile and carry on
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                                                                  • Smiley
                                                                    I found out yesterday that the Australian man who most recently died in India was one of the Dads from our Junior Sports Club. Our children were in the same team. Yes it is a very sad thing that happened, but he knew the risks involved of travelling. The government has been telling us to stay here and not travel abroad- he chose to go overseas. Yes, he went to be with some of his family (some members had already died of covid before he left the country), other members died after he got there. I just hope his wife and teenage children are given the time and space to grieve and continue on with their lives. On a more personal front- the pandemic hasn't affected me too much although it did somewhat change the way i do things now. Hubby & I lost a very good friend to suicide last year (they were a musician and Covid was the final straw in the string of bad luck they had gone through and had thrown at them), My Mum was starting chemo so i made the decision to stop physically visiting her. We only live about 25km away, but live in two different areas which both were hot spots throughout last year at different times. I still haven't been to visit her and am not sure when i will resume doing so (we had a difficult relationship to start with). 1 other thing that changed last year was how i shop. I used to love shopping, going out at least a few days of the week, not always to buy things but more to get out of the house for a while, go walking, have a nice lunch (something different to what i'd usually eat if i was at home). Since we were told it was best to stay home, i have barely gone out- mostly only going out in the evenings/at night after the regular shops are shut, just to go to the supermarket to grab some groceries. The amount of online shopping i did increased a bit. I didn't buy for the sake of buying, but i did find out that i can get better sales online than what i could in-store. I feel extremely lucky living in Australia. The pandemic did reach us, but we are so fortunate we have had so few cases compared to other countries. I guess that is one of the benefits of living on an island (even if it is a big one). Take care everyone as i know it's not over yet.
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                                                                    • Tupulua S
                                                                      three simple little words. "listen, trust, and obey. Follow these three little words, and you will find " hope"
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                                                                      • Stephen F 84899
                                                                        Everything is ok here in Sydney
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                                                                        • Smiley
                                                                          Yes, we have been very lucky- even when you take into account the cases we had pop up with individuals working within the Quarantine Hotels getting Covid themselves. Some of their movements may have been a bit unneccessary i think, but i guess they were doing things by the rules that were set for them. (If i worked in that line of work, i may have chosen to limit my movements/interactions with others outside of work.)
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                                                                      • JANN R
                                                                        WHERE I LIVE WE HAVE BEEN SAFE BUT OTHER PARTS OF THE STATE HAVE BEEN EFFECTED SO NOTHING HAS CHANGED FOR ME
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                                                                        • Sonya F 68771
                                                                          doing ok
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                                                                          • Helen E 469767
                                                                            fine
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                                                                            • Rifat H
                                                                              I think the Situation is best summed up by a poem about Hope and Survival called '“Hope” is the thing with feathers (Emily Dickinson - 1830 to 1886). 'Hope’ is the thing with feathers – That perches in the soul – And sings the tune without the words – And never stops – at all – And sweetest – in the Gale – is heard – And sore must be the storm – That could abash the little Bird That kept so many warm – I’ve heard it in the chillest land – And on the strangest Sea – Yet – never – in Extremity, It asked a crumb – of me.
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                                                                              • Paula D 17598
                                                                                Same as always
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                                                                                • StaceSteele
                                                                                  Could be better here our landlord needs us out so that they can sell but with a rental crisis we haven't found anywhere to go and to find out that the homeless rate in Australia is now at an all-time high of 14% there are a lot of people fighting over one house. I'm going through each day, trying to be hopeful for my kids but at the end of the day there is only so much hope that anyone can have.
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                                                                                  • Smiley
                                                                                    That seems a bit rough that they want you out of the house to sell it. I have seen real estate listings where it states that there are tenants living in the property that are happy to stay on. Hopefully your landlord will consider that option too. It would mean that they can still sell the house anf the new owner would have an option to continue getting an income from your rent until you both agree to a new agreement or find a new place. I hope things work out for you Stacey.
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                                                                                  • Christine M 323842
                                                                                    And you won’t get any help till you are actually on the street. The wait for social housing is 10 to 20 years depending on the area you live in. Unfortunately Stacey you are not alone in this situation. Housing is a basic human need. It simply isn’t good enough that so many people cannot find a home to live in this country.
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                                                                                • Claude H
                                                                                  Just surviving
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                                                                                  • Robert nsw
                                                                                    with close friends and family to speak to makes it easy to cope
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                                                                                    • Kim N 285099
                                                                                      We are wonderful. Far away from all the chaos.
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                                                                                      • Ned M
                                                                                        We are doing okay
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                                                                                        • Sheree T
                                                                                          Doing ok all my family are well so very thankful for that. Have just had the first covid vaccination. Going to visit my son and family in New Zealand soon so am very excited to see my two granddaughters who I haven't seen for two years now. Feel as though everything is starting to return to some sort of normality.
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                                                                                          • mary c
                                                                                            Lovely... how nice to see your son and family again xx
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                                                                                        • kristian s 513441
                                                                                          I am doing very well.
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                                                                                          • Chosen
                                                                                            Had the Covid virus, been tested over 20 times, had vaccine. Never better. Onward and upward.
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                                                                                            • The dog house
                                                                                              Doing alright. Sometimes I feel stressed but not with what is happening due to the virus. Sometimes going out makes me feel unsure and want to put the mask on even though we do not have to. I experience panic leaving my suburb in the car after not leaving my area for months but pushed on and over came it. Try to keep busy as I used to but am wary. Compared to overseas we are excellent in that the virus is under control and most of us do what is right to keep the virus at bay.
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                                                                                              • Smiley
                                                                                                I also feel uneasy going to different areas. I barely left the house when masks were mandatory. I have masks and wear them when needed, but i don't cope very well. My anxiety peaks and i get all hot and sweaty and find breathing much harder than usual. Because of that i find that i just don't leave the house when masks are mandatory and ask other family to do any shopping for me.
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                                                                                              • mary cSmiley
                                                                                                i have to admit i still get really stressed when i hear someone cough in public...
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                                                                                              • Smileymary c
                                                                                                You'd hate to be around me then Mary. :P I have had a chronic cough for about 16 years now (all the medical tests under the sun still can't find a reason for it and i have never smoked in my life).
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                                                                                              • mary cSmiley
                                                                                                yes i understand. I am a carer for my tetraplegic husband and he coughs all day (and occasionally chokes)..what gets me is when i am in public like a supermarket..random coughers still freak me out!
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                                                                                            • BLACK LIVES MATTER
                                                                                              I am still above ground - not planted in the ground - no complaints!
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                                                                                              • Aisha A 379399
                                                                                                Doing okay but really miss some of my family members.
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                                                                                                • mary c
                                                                                                  sorry to hear that. We are so lucky where we are in NZ. hope you get to see everyone special soon xx
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                                                                                              • Linda C
                                                                                                Here in Australia we have done well. Even with the infection sometimes breaking out of quarantine either due to some idiot or some unforeseen event or that the infection did not show up till the week after they left quarantine we have been very fortunate our health department have been able to control it extremely well and people have gone en masse to be tested so any outbreak could be minimalised. I have coped well and life has gone on pretty much the same with just a few tweaks which have not affected me too much. I wear a mask if required, I social distance which suits me, etc. I have family in Victoria who were locked down for weeks and had to wear masks for months including their children but they coped well also. I guess it is a matter of this is how it is so just accept it as this is easier that fighting it or complaining about it because ignoring the restrictions is not an option anyway. Some family members have had loss of income but we all soldiered on. We are healthy and hope this virus is kicked in the butt real soon.
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                                                                                                • Disie
                                                                                                  Just lost my border for medical reasons, so very poor
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                                                                                                  • Priscilla R 316016
                                                                                                    So sorry to hear this - hope you are OK
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                                                                                                  • DisiePriscilla R 316016
                                                                                                    Thanks Priscilla, Got another one today, LOLOL
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                                                                                                • Rhonda D 522615
                                                                                                  Loss on income, like everyone else. School at home. We are all healthy. So, overall we are doing well.
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