I’m in my second childhood.

You may be your getting too much attention, just be yourself and don't worry what others think

The phrase "Act your age" can carry various meanings and implications, and it often evokes different emotional responses depending on the context and the individual. Here’s a breakdown of what this phrase might mean, why people use it, and how it can affect those on the receiving end: ### Meaning and Interpretation 1. **Societal Norms**: The phrase suggests that there are certain behaviors deemed appropriate for specific age groups. For example, society may expect a 66-year-old to behave more maturely than a 15-year-old. This reflects cultural norms about aging and maturity. 2. **Judgment**: When someone says "Act your age," it can come across as judgmental. It implies that the person is not meeting societal expectations, which can feel dismissive or critical. 3. **Self-Expression**: The phrase can be confusing because it challenges an individual's self-expression. If you feel that you are simply being your "normal" self, being told to act your age can create internal conflict about your identity and behavior. ### Emotional Reactions - **Anger**: Some people may feel angry or defensive when they hear this phrase, as it can feel like an attack on their character or choices. It may imply that they are being immature or irresponsible. - **Confusion**: Others may feel confused, especially if they do not understand what specific behavior is being criticized. The expectation of how one should act at different ages can vary widely, leading to uncertainty. ### Why People Use This Term 1. **Cultural Expectations**: People often use this phrase because they have internalized societal norms about age-appropriate behavior. They may believe they are helping someone conform to these expectations. 2. **Concern for Maturity**: Sometimes, the phrase is used out of concern that someone is not taking their responsibilities seriously or is behaving in a way that could be seen as immature. 3. **Peer Pressure**: In social situations, individuals may feel pressure to conform to the behavior of their peers, leading them to use phrases like "Act your age" to encourage conformity. ### Navigating the Situation 1. **Self-Reflection**: Consider whether your behavior aligns with your values and identity. If you feel comfortable being yourself, that is what matters most. 2. **Open Dialogue**: If someone uses this phrase towards you, it may be helpful to engage in a conversation about what they mean. Understanding their perspective can provide clarity. 3. **Embrace Individuality**: Remember that age does not define who you are or how you should behave. Everyone has their unique personality, and it's okay to express yourself authentically, regardless of age. ### Conclusion In summary, "Act your age" can be a confusing and potentially judgmental phrase that reflects societal expectations. It's important to navigate these situations with self-awareness and confidence in your identity, recognizing that there is no single way to "act" at any age. Embracing your individuality and understanding that everyone has their own way of expressing themselves can help alleviate confusion and frustration in these situations.

The phrase "Act your age" is often used to suggest that someone should behave in a manner that is considered appropriate for their age group. It implies that there are societal expectations regarding how individuals should conduct themselves based on their age. Here are some insights into the meaning and implications of this phrase: ### Meaning and Interpretation 1. **Societal Expectations**: The phrase reflects societal norms and expectations about behavior at different life stages. For example, people might expect a 66-year-old to act more conservatively or responsibly than a 15-year-old. 2. **Judgment**: When someone says "Act your age," it can come across as judgmental. It suggests that the person being addressed is not meeting the expected standards for their age, which can feel dismissive or critical. 3. **Personal Identity**: The phrase can be confusing because it challenges an individual's self-expression. If someone feels that they are simply being their "normal" self, being told to act their age can create internal conflict about their identity and behavior. ### Emotional Reactions - **Anger**: Some people may feel angry or defensive when they hear this phrase, as it can feel like an attack on their character or choices. - **Confusion**: Others may feel confused, especially if they do not understand what specific behavior is being criticized or if they believe their actions are appropriate for their personality. ### Why People Use This Term 1. **Cultural Norms**: People often use this phrase because they have internalized cultural norms about age-appropriate behavior. They may believe they are helping someone conform to societal expectations. 2. **Concern for Maturity**: Sometimes, the phrase is used out of concern that someone is not taking their responsibilities seriously or is behaving in a way that could be seen as immature. 3. **Peer Pressure**: In social situations, individuals may feel pressure to conform to the behavior of their peers, leading them to use phrases like "Act your age" to encourage conformity. ### Navigating the Situation 1. **Self-Reflection**: Consider whether the behavior in question aligns with your values and identity. If you feel comfortable being yourself, that is what matters most. 2. **Open Dialogue**: If someone uses this phrase towards you, it may be helpful to engage in a conversation about what they mean. Understanding their perspective can provide clarity. 3. **Embrace Individuality**: Remember that age does not define who you are or how you should behave. Everyone has their unique personality, and it's okay to express yourself authentically, regardless of age. In summary, "Act your age" can be a confusing and potentially judgmental phrase that reflects societal expectations. It's important to navigate these situations with self-awareness and confidence in your identity, recognizing that there is no single way to "act" at any age.

it don't mean squat to me, I don't care what people think of me, if it's fun, I do it,, if I can still do it, i'm acting my age,,,, not anyone else's concern as far as I see it,,,

Someone once said "What others think of me is none of my business". I always say: "Remember compliments 'cause the rest is just crap"

Missy Wyld, do get excited or mad about it if someone doesn't like how you act then it's time for them to move on just keep doing your best you always

If you worry too much about what other people think all the time, you'll never truly enjoy yourself.

You’re only as old as you feel and enjoy

No, it is just someone's way of complaining because I can do something easily when I am 76 (Last Tuesday was my 76th birthday) than they could now that they are older but still younger than me! I always tell them- 'You are only as old as you feel and I still feel like I am 15. How about you?'

It's funny how people say 'act your age', but when it comes to gender it's "make up whatever you want". Pft. No.

I think if someone said to me that is a hateful word. I act my age and I don't think I care what everyone says.

lol i am at a age where you tell me 1+1= 5. You are 😂 absolutely right enjoy

You should act how you feel no matter your age

I only ever act whatever age I feel at the time.

Who cares when they say "act your age" especially at 66! Maybe said to younger people who are not emotionally mature . I'd laugh if someone said it to me! Why listen to other's opinions

Age is just a number. I don't think it should be anyone's business but our own what age we act. It is more important to act ethically and kindly.😉

When telling you to act your age what are they really trying to tell you? Are you behaving like a younger person or a much older person? It's a rather odd statement to say to someone other than a child.

yes, mind said as 15 and body passing 65yrs

Heart and mind always said "still i am young"

TELL THE PERSON, I AM STILL YOUNG. MIND YOUR OWN BEES WAX.

That person saying it has the problem

I always act the same way and at 92 will not change

If I hear that saying it always seems to be a wife telling off a husband for playing the fool with the grandkids and getting them too exited - me usually!

at 76 I acted by age for respect and told young ones to do just that

To be honest ..... I think it is a bit nasty to say that. My answer would probably be "I will act what age I like. People like that wouldn't really last around me for long ...... they would get a very cool response. I DO NOT LIKE CONTROL ... and being told to "Act my age" is a form of control.

I always reply never been this age before so how am I supposed to act.I am 75 so I own up to being 5

I always reply never been this age before so how am I supposed to act.I am 75 so I own up to being 5

My thinking is be yourself and letting the inner child out occasionally is good for the soul. However, I have seen some adults act very foolishly or dress inappropriately for their age but to tell someone to act their age is not something I would say. I have never had it said to me but if someone did I would ignore it unless it pulls me up from actually acting inappropriately which is something a bit more serious.

When people said that to me my response was that's what my mother always said

just act/do to please yourself

At my late 60's I still get excited about fun things, then others I'm quite jaded...hmmm life's experiences I guess.

I don't mind, because many people thinks I'm younger than I looks like or my age.

Age is but a number! And as you head toward your senior years, you have the right to act as you wish 😉

Some people never laugh, what age is that?

not good would like to be younger but not to young

I think it's a horrible expression

I've come across this more in the workplace and usually its aimed at those who are not acting in a professional manner

I suppose I would feel confused , it depends on what they were referring to , an immature behavioural response to something or just being generally young at heart and having some fun ?

very hard, never been this age before

I don't mind. It can be a little confusing though. I look younger than my age so if I act my age people get confused.

I have a T shirt that I got which says” I don’t know how to act my age as I have never been this old before “ which describes me perfectly!!!!

Yup a totally judgemental phrase

What is NORMAL? what one person thinks is normal another may not, what is act your age? we are all different we all act differently to others, no one uses this term with me, as I would say what age do you want me to act like, a 15-year-old will act differently to a 66-year-old as they haven't lived the life a 66-year-old has. A bit of a strange question really when you think about it. Good luck and have a wonderful day all xx.

Age is only a number, act however you want to There is no law saying you have to act your age Enjoy live however you want as you only get one chance at it Cheers 🤗

I get a little ticked off because I am quite sure they don't know how a 68-year old is supposed to act.

its just to make you think, some people think that you havent learnt how to take it as a grownup ad to make you look childish

I hope it would me to understand how to not overreact to certain situations a 15 year old is usually over dramatic and has a fit if disappointed, a 4 year has a temper tantrum a 2 year is in the no stage. If you are not doing any of those things then you can respond how you feel but some people just cannot handle no or not getting their own way then you are not acting in a calm mature way

It means I have to act old and frail, at 70, I'd say stuff off.

Some days I’m 15, some days I’m 95…………lol

Don't be confused. The 'demanders' are just afraid of trying to do what you do. They are cowardly control freaks.

Wishing I was younger ~!!!!

i tell them where to go....it means to stop acting like a child..........

On ne m a jamais dis ca. Je pense que je prendrait ca comme une insulte

never had that said to me

O never going to act my age thank you!

When someone says that it is an insult.

I'm 77 and a kid at heart.

My Mum was always saying that to me when I got older and I used to smile and say I am acting how I feel age has nothing to do with it. I was enjoying myself but not at the expense of others just being ME.

Physical or mental age?? I choose mentally every time.

Sad that society has become so fragile that age appropriateness is no longer tolerated. Says a lot about where we are going, methinks!

Next time just say to them "Hwy! What makes you think that I'm not?"

“Act your age” is often more about the speaker’s discomfort than your behavior. It’s a phrase rooted in expectation, judgment, and often an outdated sense of decorum. You, being yourself—at any age—is not only valid but important. Life doesn’t come with a personality timeline. Playfulness, curiosity, humor, and even rebellion don’t expire at 40, 60, or 80.

Seeing we haven’t been this age before how are we to know how to act!

I am acting what my brain says. My body usually protests the next day. :)

My sister say act my ages them I called her mum as a jokeEdited 18-Jul-25 09:56am

Tell them it's National act your shoe size day!

Yes, we need to act appropriately, show young people we are adults, not hissy fitting.

Who are they to judge YOU?

Hmm, I don’t normally get that, but I DO get “I can’t believe you’re 60, so energetic blah blah”. I guess everyone’s standard is different, but it’s almost rude to say that unless you are very close

Not confusing. "Act your age" says you should have gained some wisdom by the age you are at present and dealing with whatever.

That they are trying to distract you with antagonism’s from the subject you have an issue with.

No one has ever told me to act my age. I think it is just common sense to do so. What kills me are these women who are 40 and 50+ who still think they're 16-20 and try to dress in those age brackets. Women - it only makes you look OLDER and STUPID! Sleeveless tops and short shorts & mini skirts are for ages 2 - 45 at the most.

Unless you are a young person, if you’re retired “who cares”. Enjoy yourself n dressed up whatever you like “who cares”😝 Most importantly enjoy while you can. Let them jealous🫣😘😘😘

My first question is define age. By the time he first question I then say, age is as you feel, not numbers. By that time they are so confused I just laugh and walk away

I always say that I would but I've never been this old before ( 64 )

No one has said that me in many years, so I guess I'm already acting my age.

Could be referring to anything.For example your sense of humour,the way you dress,your personal interests. Do as you will,do what you can. Usually it's a demeaning remark made by people that Can't or Won't do what you are doing now. Regardless you make you happy,other's opinions about your lifestyle shouldn't matter. As far as I am concerned ,use it or lose it. At some point there are things we are incapable of doing,life is to be lived,not watched from the sidelines.

It all depends on who is being addressed as well as the circumstances that brings on the statement. And if someone is just being deliberately juvenile and acting like a brat or if they are just goofing around. There are a lot of factors that could be involved. Also if it is anyone else's business or not. And the person who is making that statement and their motive or purpose in making the statement

Ask them and yourself why they made that comment. Think and address the comment and do what is best for you - at whatever age you are.

At 105 yrs how can I.

ACT AS YOU MATURE

Age should never come into having fun and being happy. If your happiness comes at the expense of others perhaps it is necessary to settle down abit

Have not had that said and if I did I would not give a damn about what they say. This is my life and I shall live it as I want. But will always remain courteous and respectful at all times.

Act your age, not your shoe size, haven't heard this expression for years.

Growing up I used to hear it a lot I guess around the elder ones? Tbh..I reckon it depends on the tone right? From my end or receiving end However, if I was to mention it to somebody it ŵould be because I'm upset. So I would be offended if I was told to grow up today age 😆 🤣 😂

I just act how I normally do. I don't worry what others say.

hi ty JANN R

I have never been told to act my age and like you I just act normal it might be for younger people that act like little kids I dont know

People around here in Canada say it a lot, especially to those who are acting like children, when they are adults. It pretty much means for the most part, in my opinion, that if say, you're 45 years old and you start throwing a hissy fit/tantrum, then, in other words, grow up, act your age, you're not 2, etc.

I don’t think anyone has ever said that to me but someone did say it to a friend of mine and he asked what should that be and why which was very funny and the person had no answer and walked of swearing so we wondered who should have acted their age just saying

Act your age usually just means ‘act how I think you should.’ There’s no rulebook. Be yourself that’s age enough

I have never had anyone say this to me. But, this is projection from the one saying it, they are jealous you are able to have fun, while they're miserable.

usually that the person making the comment is uptight and has no sense of humour. Act your age - never been this age before and I will act how I want... thank you.

Some people are jealous be happy Missy

They say you have a chronological age that doesn’t necessarily reflect the age you feel. My brain is stuck feeling like I must still be in my late 30s or early 40s. People are generally surprised to find out I’m a good 20 plus years older than that. So I suppose, I never ‘act my age’. And I’m not sorry;)

Nobody ever said that to me. I also treated my elders with respect.

To me, this statement means I am acting immature in the eyes of the speaker. Usually I understand why they are saying it as I often act immature. However, I do believe it is a putdown about who I really am. If I wish to act immature, let me. If, however, they mean that I am not treating another person with respect, then I need to sit up, listen and change my behaviour.

Yes annoying comment. When you are older you want to act and appear younger. When you are young you want to appear older and wiser. Greatest compliment you look good for your age.

I think it may be used when someone who should know better or is acting silly to act their age. Sometimes our inner youth comes out and we go with it.