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Beggars who smoke
Jay02-Apr-24
I get often asked, when I'm in town, if I have spare change. I get asked by beggars. Now, I'm usually one who would spare change if I have it :). Like to do a good deed now and then.
Yet lately I've noticed these beggars smoke cigarettes all the time.....so how is it they can afford cigarettes but don't want to put money towards food etc....
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  • Lee b 979050
    Cigarettes suppress appetite. But seriously give em a break. Do you seriously think that someone living day to day because we are spending billions of dollars on road and infrastructure so that more chinese can move here, here really gives a crap about his health. It's just survival for these guys. So let it be let it be let it let it be .... If you don't wanna help dont. If you wanna help and don't wanna give them money buy them the food yourself but ask first. Or get the a carton of smokes and let them live a little.
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    • Busyasabee NZ
      Why not just give without any judgment? No one knows what their circumstances are, and they are obviously in need. Who cares what they spend the money on at least you have brightened someones day even just temporarily.
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      • whatdoyouwantfromthestore
        They are addicted, try showing some empathy for those people who have that and other addictions instead of condemning them.
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        • Missy Wyld
          probably disgarded butt ends they have picked up from others...
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          • Danielle R 478487
            Not related to smoking. I once gave a young teen $20. He was at the station with a trolley filled with his clothes and other items. We got talking,I found out he lived with his older brother. His older brothers girlfriend moved in,they didn't get along so he was told he had to leave. He didn't ask for money. He asked me why I would do this. I told him it was because he didn't ask.( and he looked like he needed help).
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            • Danielle R 478487
              I suppose food isn't a priority when you have any sort of addition,be it cigarettes, alcohol, gambling etc. You know there are alot of people living rough now that used to have jobs,homes and probably did those things when they could afford it. The thing is this could be any of us. The thing I find disturbing is watching councils take tents from people that have no means to afford rent ,give them 1 hour to collect what they can and then they are told to move on. WHERE? No offer of help,just get lost. And if your own a car ,you can't sleep in it,you get fined. There is no compassion.
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              • Erik 1611244
                We smoke because you lot want to keep us down
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                • APB
                  It is when they burst into flames...that's when I get really annoyed ....and the smell is terrible.....
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                  • Danielle R 478487
                    😆
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                  • Danielle R 478487
                    If that happened where I lived the whole town would burn to the ground lol.
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                • The ghost
                  I was once asked by a bloke on the sidewalk for $2 which he said he needed to by a pack of cigarettes, when I replied that this would be a good time to give up smoking, he got real upset. I will not give money for smokes, if you can’t afford it, give up, I did.
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                  • Debra D 624780
                    Where I live, thieves live nearby who take our things always. They smoke too. Go figure. I say let them afford their own smokes, not steal from me.
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                    • Anita D
                      Many a time I drive by a food bank before it opens, and there are several people outside waiting, smoking cigarettes and playing on their phones. Some need food banks, but a lot don't. One time I came out of a grocery store, a man asked if I had any money. I gave him the last $5 I had , he said is that all you got nastily. Ungrateful wretch.
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                      • Terry 1550339
                        Maybe they are not using it for food .
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                        • Debra D 624780
                          A lot of people today that smoke, are also thief's where I live. Wonder if any others notice this anywhere else?
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                          • Terry 1550339
                            How do you connect the two.
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                          • Terry 1550339
                            Debra, where do you live so I can visualize this. If I give a person a cigarette or money it's on them what they do with it and some people don't use it to smoke some people actually need it especially now in these trying times.
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                          • Debra D 624780Terry 1550339
                            Well, easy, they live on a fixed income, cigarettes do not come cheap. I choose NOT to smoke as does my husband. I do not think I should have my things taken so they can afford to smoke their cigarettes.
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                        • Janet H 854956
                          If they didn’t smoke then perhaps they wouldn’t be beggars!
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                          • Carrie 1475823
                            Are you saying that all smokers are beggars? That's like saying you wipe your butt first before you 💩
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                          • Janet H 854956Carrie 1475823
                            No it’s not! They could then spend their smoke money on food.
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                        • Danielle R 478487
                          Yes in Melbourne it's a big problem and not just in the city,other big towns as well. All ages. Alit get those cheap imported;;and illegal cigarettes. A l I cal shop printed t.shirts that became quite popular. They said" No 8 don't have a cigarette or $2 " . Trains are the worst,some of these people get very aggressive towards people that say no.
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                          • Terry 1550339
                            Stand up to them and say no, or if you can afford it why not give them one and I would like to know why would it hurt us to help someone every now and then.
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                          • Danielle R 478487Terry 1550339
                            it doesn't hurt to help people in need. But be prepared to be mobbed. This has happened to me. I gave a man my change,from my pocket and ended up with a group of people angrily demanding me to give them money. I kept telling them I had no more. They wanted me to open my bag,which I wouldn't. Thankfully a security guard came to my rescue. That was the last time I gave money. But I do offer food,which is almost always declined.
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                          • Terry 1550339Danielle R 478487
                            Not all people mob you but it does happen from time to time just follow your heart while giving. Your Awesome!
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                          • Danielle R 478487Terry 1550339
                            It doesn't hurt to help now and again. But be selective as they either have friends who smoke that will approach you assuming that it's a free for all or every time they see you they will expect the same.
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                        • Katzeye
                          Rarely carry any cash on me these days so I would just buy some food/drinks for them but if they choose to smoke,well that's their business and not all of them are smokers.
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                          • Terry 1550339
                            Right on Katzeye, great answer
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                          • KatzeyeTerry 1550339
                            Thank you Terry 😊
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                          • Terry 1550339Katzeye
                            your welcome
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                        • Jennifer H 722364
                          Buy them a drink or a meal eg sandwich ,pie ,sausage roll that way you know that you gave help where it should be required and needed not your money .
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                          • Holly Cat
                            There's an area in CA where the people begging have signs up that actually say things like, "Need money for Beer", "Need Money for Weed."
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                            • Terry 1550339
                              How about this one, PLEASE, spread some cheese on this broke cracker.
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                            • Carrie 1475823Terry 1550339
                              🤣🤣🤣🤣
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                            • Grommie
                              great. a spot of honesty.
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                          • BLACK LIVES MATTER
                            Smoking or drinking is an addiction which does not affect my decision whether I am going to give them spare change! However, I don't give spare change. I will buy the individual a sandwich!
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                            • Holly Cat
                              I've been to Venice Beach in CA years ago and some people begging had signs up like, "Need Money for Beer", "Need Money for Weed!"
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                            • BLACK LIVES MATTERHolly Cat
                              Did you visit Rodeo Drive ln Beverly hills, CA
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                            • Holly CatBLACK LIVES MATTER
                              No, even in my younger days, was not much of a shopper, just wanted to go near ocean when visiting CA :) I did check out San Francisco.
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                            • Debra D 624780
                              I totally agree with you, buy them something to eat, do not give them money to buy smokes that will do them harm.
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                          • Carrie 1475823
                            Cigarettes are a stress relief. But not all beggars smoke. That's a misconception.
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                            • Terry 1550339
                              I know you're right Carrie
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                          • Chosen
                            Tell them to get off the drugs and get a job. Simple.
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                            • Grommie
                              watched a bloke get out of his car, with his dog, pay for the parking meter, then on with the scruffy coat, out with the cardboard sign, and off to his begging gig.
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                              • The ghost
                                Their have been numerous current event shows, where people begging in Melbourne can earn up to $800 a day, then go home and repeat it the next day, a good wage for a sidewalk gig, but only serves to do more damage to the homeless. A walk up Russel street at night show how bad the situation is. Governments and industries failing the population. Not all homeless people started out as drug addicts, alcoholics or abused youth, some simply made bad choices and got ripped off by the system’s.
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                            • Daniel 1493619
                              Stop smoking if u need $ but addiction is hard
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                              • Teri 1282723
                                There are a lot of reasons people find themselves on the streets. It is not our right to judge any single one of these people. Do you know anyone living paycheque to paycheque? What happens when they get sick and can't work for a week or 2? Or get fired or laid off? The bank or landlord start calling. Or you go hungry. Or you go without heat or medication. It's a very humiliating experience to find yourself losing everything you had. If someone is out there legitimately in need, and NOT A SCAMMER, I'll give a meal or a bag of food and sometimes even money. It's not up to me how they deal with getting through their day or how that money is spent. If they choose to drink it or smoke it or crack it, that's how they're dealing today with their circumstances. Those of us who have are supposed to share with the ones who do not. We are blessed to have what we need and a lot of us have struggled but not quite found ourselves homeless. Give the person in front of you in the grocery line the money when you see them removing items because they don't have enough. Pay someone's phone bill when they need the help after missing some work. Take a jacket to a neighbour you see in just a sweater on a cold day. We see it all around us but what do we do? Do we ignore it? Feel that little tightness in your chest or throat when you see someone in need and give what you can. A meal, a little time and conversation, a little human to human interaction goes a great distance for someone struggling and you will feel wonderful for giving them that:) Again, instead of judging them say a prayer for them and give what you can.
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                                • Terry 1550339
                                  Teri, THAT WAS BEAUTIFULLY SAID, and I agree with you 100%
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                                • boy blunder
                                  If you can do something to help someone in need, whether a scammer or a genuine hardship case, you should do it. Helping people, however you can, is a great life experience. The ability to raise a smile makes my day. No matter who the person is, I have countless stories, and have met some amazing people over my lifetime
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                              • Pennye R
                                Offer food instead of money. So many use money to purchase alcohol, drugs, etc.
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                                • Stephen Q
                                  You hit the nail on the head.
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                                  • Shanette 1398300
                                    I'll get them something to eat and pray for them and If they refuse them that is on them!
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                                    • marni k
                                      Smoking is an addiction not just a habit. And like all addicts they are going to make sure that from one payday to the next they have enough smokes to see them through to the next payday. Some food was probably bought also with remaining money left over but not enough so that is why they now go out into the street begging money for a sandwich. A friend of mine years ago refused to give a beggar money unless it was for a meal (we had a takeaway shop next door) the beggar refused and left but he came back a couple of hours later and asked if the offer was still open which it was and my friend took him into the shop and bought him a lovely hamburger with chips and a drink and anything else he wanted. He said it was the best meal he had in ages. My friend never gives beggars money but will buy them what they need nutrionally. She knows then that her money isn't getting wasted
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                                      • Stu J
                                        In certain areas of NZ "professional" beggars earn up to 500 - 600 dollars a day so no wonder they can afford the odd "fag"
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                                        • Grommie
                                          yep, in Rotorua.watched a bloke get out of his car, with his dog, pay for the parking meter, then on with the scruffy coat, out with the cardboard sign, and off to his begging gig.
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                                      • Leisa J
                                        If you are of a generous nature it shouldnt matter what the " beggars" use the money for. If it bothers you that they dont use the money as YOU think they should then the giving isnt heartfelt, and maybe your good intentions arent as good as they should be. Just my opinion. I give " beggars " money all the time. I hope if Im ever in a situation like that I won't be judged and someone with a good heart will give me change whether i smoke or not. ❤
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                                        • Katzeye
                                          Perfectly said and I agree with this.
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                                        • Leisa JKatzeye
                                          👍😊
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                                      • Dimitri T 100433
                                        Usually, I don't give to street beggars like to donate to reputable charities like salvation army
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                                        • Anna Rogers
                                          The same, I prefer to donate to organisations that offer not only wrap around help but refer people in need on to other organisations,
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                                      • clifford 1465946
                                        they are addicted just like drugs ,when i smoked may years ago i had to have a cigarette and i would lie and cheat to have that cancer stick in my mouth rgds
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                                        • Bigbee
                                          I don't give beggars anything anymore, I really only donate to dog rescue places because they get so little help and the dogs have been screwed over by pathetic humans.
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                                          • Michael B 384408
                                            A lot of those beggars probably make more in a week than you do from generous people and they probably get the dole on top of that!
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                                            • Grommie
                                              watched a bloke get out of his car, with his dog, pay for the parking meter, then on with the scruffy coat, out with the cardboard sign, and off to his begging gig.
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                                          • Mark 1293037
                                            Life is an addiction, rich people make drugs for the pore to make money, thank this human race and government be humble and kind to them its not there fult , it's your problem creating it and not caring about it.
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                                            • Judy T 470524
                                              I never carry cash any more and don't have any to spare but I do feel for these people as I gave up smoking after a 40+ year habit a few years ago and I know how addictive it is.
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                                              • Helen 1370203
                                                They usually want money to buy drugs or cigarettes. If you feel like doing something helpful, buy the person a piece of fruit and a drink.
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                                                • Farmgirl22
                                                  I don't give them money I usually buy them some food from the bakery, kfc, etc.
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                                                  • Colin L 88398
                                                    Judge not and ye shall not be judged.
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                                                    • P F
                                                      I once gave a beggar $20 cause he looked like he needed it. Then while waiting in my car at the supermarket for my mother to finish her shopping, he went across the road to the pokies. He didn't get a meal cause he was only there for 5min. Came back and started begging again. He did this 3 times in the half hour I was waiting for mum. I do not give $$$ to beggars anymore. You can't tell who is real and who is faking it.
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                                                      • Diane W 1001943
                                                        He obviously had a gambling addiction which was probably why he was on the street in the first place. I had a boss once that was stealing money. I had done a huge overnight shift. I was going to be about 3 hrs over my time. My boss offered to finish my banking. I was extremely grateful but she stole it. I found out later that she had already done this once at another branch but she had been given a second chance. She was a lovely lady and I liked working for her but she had a problem.
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                                                    • Paula J 395266
                                                      I'm tired of beggars, I'm tired of people asking me for money and I won't donate to Go Fund Me. I have charities that I regularly donate to and I pay my bills with no help from the government so I ignore hands held out.
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                                                      • JANET R 328390
                                                        Sound like me.
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                                                    • debra j 18701
                                                      I do not go up town ,, I stay away , but my husband has said that people have asked him for money ,you see we are struggling just to keep our bills paid<
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                                                      • kristian s 513441
                                                        I am glad I don't smoke at all.
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                                                        • Glenyse H
                                                          If they smoke ,they don’t deserve. Handouts
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                                                          • Beryl M 1009442
                                                            Hard life out there but I will not hand over money. In Australia people not working are given money enough to just survive.Smoking is very expensive, is up to them what they do with their money but I am not paying towards smoking or drugs. A crowd often live together or on the streets, yes I have a Grandson who lives like that, smokes and all things not good but I refuse to give money. I know where the money goes.The way things are, people can't afford to give away money
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                                                            • Linda 1473555
                                                              I dont like money wasted on smoking nor what it does to our health and environment but the homeless have a lot to deal with and who are we to judge. Better than hard drugs and alcohol.
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                                                              • Helen 1370203
                                                                Buy them some decent food, not filthy cigarettes, if you want to do a good turn
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                                                            • LEANNE B 221779
                                                              I’m pretty sure they would also ask for a smoke. I’m not against them smoking considering what they’re going through
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                                                              • Grommie
                                                                watched a bloke get out of his car, with his dog, pay for the parking meter, then on with the scruffy coat, out with the cardboard sign, and off to his begging gig.
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                                                              • LEANNE B 221779Grommie
                                                                Well how else does he pay for the metre and food for his dog? I’m only half joking for all you know he lives in his car. Don’t make assumptions!
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                                                              • GrommieLEANNE B 221779
                                                                my mate followed him home and no, not sleeping in his car. If he's doing it then he is also in his garage. The dog raced up to the front door.
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                                                            • Pat C 618241
                                                              It seems from what I see around my local area that we have quite a few people looking for a handout. Most of them do thank you and the ones I've seen lately are getting much younger. I confess I'm a softie - if they have a dog I always say hello to the dog. I don't smoke but if I have a little change I do give it to them hoping they will buy food not smokes.
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                                                              • Vicki S 484904
                                                                I agree its a problem but in a lot of cases, they are addicted to it and maybe other substances as well, in which case they are living a very unpleasant life because to them there is no way out of their misery and they feel hopeless. If you are sick of being approached for money just say a quick sorry and that you just gave out your last bit of cash. Wish them a good day because I'm pretty sure you wouldn't like to be in their shoes.
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                                                                • Robert T 597718
                                                                  Correct Jay
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                                                                  • Bugalugs
                                                                    You will soon find out how needy some of these people actually are if, instead of giving them CASH, you offer to take them into a nearby Cafe and buy them something to eat and a hot drink. The reaction is usually to tell you where to go and what to do. I am no longer faced with these requests because I now pay for everything using a Debit Card. and no longewr carry any Cash.
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                                                                    • Tania NSW
                                                                      If they need money get government assistance and budget like everyone else! Might sound cruel but everyone else has to do it
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                                                                      • Missy Wyld
                                                                        dont judge....
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                                                                        • Liane H
                                                                          ' These homeless people often have mobile phones' as well as smoke? Wow so how little then would you like them to have ? The phones are probably nicked anyway or second hand. Possibly a well meaning gift to keep them safe on the streets and in contact with at least someone,and services. It's the equivalent of them having a car. And smoking as others have mentioned is an appetite suppressant and a way of dealing with their daily stresses , not ideal of course but that is not for us to judge with a roof over heads.
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                                                                          • Sarah 1325723
                                                                            Sometimes they do that to get through, they know they don't have enough for much so spending some money on alcohol or cigarettes keep them from feeling to much, or they can relax just a little bit, you do what you do to live
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                                                                            • Greg 1018018
                                                                              love you,very good
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                                                                              • Sonya F 68771
                                                                                i dont give beggars money
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                                                                                • Samantha M 495335
                                                                                  Having been in their shoes, I know what it's like to have an addiction. When you have nothing else to live for, you rely on your habit even more. As much as food and accommodation are important and well and truly needed, a cigarette can help you immediately solve any cravings you might be having. I was lucky in a way that if I was out begging for change I had the occasional person who preferred to hand over things like milk, bread and other things I may of needed. The best thing you can do for some beggers is to stop and ask them if they need anything in particular. Just having someone acknowledge them as a human being is enough to make their day.
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                                                                                  • Kaye C
                                                                                    Get a job
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                                                                                    • Amy B 1078427
                                                                                      I just don’t give money to people asking for it. I would rather give money to a place that helps children.
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                                                                                      • Lizsandra 1480508
                                                                                        I'm a smoker I just feel sometimes people put their habit first before themselves they chose the bad
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                                                                                        • Gary P 1194496
                                                                                          I was a casual smoker. A pack lasted three days. I love the taste but they just got too expensive. Haven't had one in 17 years. I can't see how anyone not working can afford to smoke.
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                                                                                          • Wendy Q
                                                                                            When I was visiting my husband in hospital every day nearly, I was asked for money or cigarettes.
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                                                                                            • Deb 1493372
                                                                                              They pick up dumpers from the ground and reroll them.
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                                                                                              • Pato Lo Duck
                                                                                                When I was still working in the city and had to go to work early each day I came across this guy that was hanging around the traffic lights near my place. When the lights were red he would run around from car to car asking for $20 for food and a train fare. I saw people give him money. After about the 3rd day when he was still there harassing people for money, I got out of my car and threatened to thump him if he asked me again. He swore profusely at me, threatening to call the cops on me, then told me he didn’t need my stinking cash as he had plenty already. He pulled a roll of twenties out of his pocket and waved them at me. Judging by the size of that roll there must have been about 2 grand in there.. After that he never turned up at those lights anymore.
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                                                                                                • Robert T 597718
                                                                                                  Well done Pato
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                                                                                                • PhyrephlyRobert T 597718
                                                                                                  $20.00?! he was asking for $20.00 "donations"? and as you said, apparently getting plenty of them... Wow, guy should be a Politician.
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                                                                                                • Pato Lo DuckPhyrephly
                                                                                                  He would stand in front of the car and not let it move when the lights changed, that is why I threatened to thump him..At least that is what he did to me when I refused to give him a 20 dollar bill the final time he tried.
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                                                                                                • Helen 1370203
                                                                                                  It's not being judgemental as some have suggested here .. to say no to people asking for money or cigarettes. This person you mentioned is totally dishonest and acting in a bullying and intimidating way. I would call the police about them as they are harassing drivers at traffic lights, which is breaking the law. No one should have to put up with this when on the roads. Drug and alcohol abuse is why many of these people end on the streets, which is evident by their behaviour. There are also homeless people through no fault of their own, Brent's going up, being evicted despite paying their rent when it goes up, fleeing domestic abuse. These are the ones who deserve help and who you won't see on the streets harassing people or behaving badly.
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                                                                                                • PhyrephlyPato Lo Duck
                                                                                                  lol, brazen, so like I said, guy should go into Politics. Off topic slightly, my sister-in-law is Indian, and she said some of the professional beggars there, are darn near millionaires; they actually physically scar their children's faces, then send said children out to areas near, usually airport terminals, to beg. People tend to basically throw money at the poor little ones. To me, there's a special room in Hell, for parents - especially mothers - like that!
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                                                                                                • Pato Lo DuckHelen 1370203
                                                                                                  He actually threatened to report me to the police for saying I would thump him if he didn’t move..
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                                                                                              • Rachelle 1472965
                                                                                                I do have a few people where I live and ask for smokes all the time .I'm not a smoker and I wish they would stop asking me ,I guess they're hoping I'll buy them smoke. I won't be doing this anytime soon.It's a bad habit from what I hear it's very hard to quit smoking ,I hope that one day they will give it a try to quit,
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                                                                                                • Darren S 116121
                                                                                                  smoking is probaly one of the few things in life they get enjoyment from,if you feel that they dhouldnt be spending on smokes,dont give them any money,seems to me you dont mind giving them a little bit but want to control what they do with it,as you know here in australia the government has made smoking incredibly expensive,smokers are an easy target
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                                                                                                  • Shawn B 1061185
                                                                                                    I have no idea. When I was in university I always seemed to have cigarettes and booze, but no cash. I don't know how I did it then and I still don't know. I have managed to quit both, though.
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                                                                                                    • DruidsTree76
                                                                                                      in australia, where im from, the charities that .are supposed to help those in need, no longer do so. last year my self and my children ended up having to move from a very bad situation, and had used the last of what money i had to pay for a moving vehicle. after we moved i went to a local charity to ask for help, i explained my circumstances , and was told that they no longer help mothers with children.
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                                                                                                      • EILEEN W 310556
                                                                                                        It amazes me how anyone in their right mind smokes. As a non-smoker who has had lung cancer probably caused by having parents who were heavy smokers and then having to work among heavy smokers in days before we knew the harm, I then had to have the cancer removed , along with part of a lung, it just shocks and angers me to see smokers. I even speak to adults who I see smoking over their children, even mothers with little ones in strollers. It is a disgusting, selfish and dangerous habit. If you were only killing yourself I wouldn't care but I would never want another child to suffer the hell I went through because of parents' ignorance. It is child abuse.
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                                                                                                        • Roy R 1009866
                                                                                                          Along with the need to bum smokes these people are often tattooed and maybe have a dog to support and feed. I would not trade places with them however.
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                                                                                                          • Rebecca B 614374
                                                                                                            I used to strike beggars all the time when I worked in Adelaide years ago, but not now in the country. They'd often pester people waiting for buses, and I suspect any money they received from anyone probably went on anything but food.
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                                                                                                            • Jania S
                                                                                                              "These Beggars"????????
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                                                                                                              • Gaza
                                                                                                                Because people like you give them money to buy them, I'm retired and couldn't afford them.
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                                                                                                                • Rosemary E 383382
                                                                                                                  I know one lady who offered to buy one a pie, pasty or sandwich. He hurled pretty bad language at her. He was in a wheelchair which may or may not been genuine. Another person in the mall said he does it every day then goes to the hotel, drinks and smokes the money away, then starts again.
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                                                                                                                  • P F
                                                                                                                    Yep, that happen to me. Instead of $$$ I offered to buy someone a chicken roll and a can of coke. Told me to get f***ed.
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                                                                                                                • Mooi
                                                                                                                  If you give or donate to people or organisations then from then on you have no say what is done with that donation. If you don’t like what the donation is being spent on, give to another cause
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                                                                                                                  • boy blunder
                                                                                                                    I was asked for 35 dollars when in the shops last week, I said that's an odd amount, and he said it was to buy credit for his phone, a week or so ago I guy asked me for 4 dollars to buy food I said to him where can you buy food for 4 dollars I will come with you I am hungry also, apparently woolies were discounting their pies, cold woolies pies i think not,so I gave him a voucher I had for a meal at the local which I hope he enjoyed, but I have helped many in others when I have the opportunity they don't have to be homeless to need help I have always lived by the motto BE THE REASON SOMEBODY SMILES TODAY. to be able to put a smile on a face / change someone's day is one of the greatest things you can do, and no I didn't buy the guys phone credit, I loaned him my phone it turned out he had broken down and was trying to reach his wife to pick up his daughter
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                                                                                                                    • farhat 1398541
                                                                                                                      Because when they see someone smoking they usually ask for a smoke as it is the rates of cigarettes have gone up a lot.
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                                                                                                                      • marianne c 540572
                                                                                                                        There are too many street beggars, dressed better than me, have an upgraded phone better than mine, etc. Our policy in our town is to support the missions rather than give handouts on the street. WE EVEN HAVE OFFICIAL SIGNS POSTED ON STREET CORNERS STATING SUCH. One hot day I felt sorry for someone standing on a street corner and had just come from home with an ice cold bottle of water, so I gave the man the unopened bottle of water and he thru it back in my face, giving me a black eye. Never again will I give a handout for whatever reason to someone on the street corner.
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                                                                                                                        • Elizabeth 1354187
                                                                                                                          I never give spare change I usually ask them if they would like a coffee especially if I see there homeless
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                                                                                                                          • Wayne Wilson
                                                                                                                            It really annoys me when beggars ask for money when they smoke tailor made cigarettes, at the prices they are these days if they can afford to smoke they don't need any help from the public.
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                                                                                                                            • Matt Black.
                                                                                                                              I live it a country that is classed as third world. There are pockets of absolute poverty here. Smoking helps keep the hunger away. It is a necessity rather than a luxury.
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                                                                                                                              • heather 1477746
                                                                                                                                this is so hard - there are people less fortunate than us - i however do not like being intimidated. i am no goodie two shoes but if i can help i will but please dont take advantage
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                                                                                                                                • Paul B 522937
                                                                                                                                  They are addicted to nicatine
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                                                                                                                                  • Larry S 382961
                                                                                                                                    I see them and most have mobile phones and other comforts. I don’t give money to anyone in the streets.lately I see charities after money. Same goes with them as well. I walk in a straight line but bypass them.
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                                                                                                                                    • Jenny L 591463
                                                                                                                                      The cost of smokes is outrageous. I am so glad I don't smoke any more. I wouldn't be able to afford too. We also can't hold that they smoke against any one either as I know how hard it can be to give up. It's like leaving money to some one and then controlling how they use the money. It just can't happen. Plus how do you know they haven't eaten but smoking does suppress your appetite. Let them do what they need and help when you can, if you don't want to see the beggars then maybe you need to change where you walk or cross the road.
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                                                                                                                                      • Cher
                                                                                                                                        Give when you can with no expectation and judgement. You are not walking in this life in their shoes.
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                                                                                                                                        • Branda H
                                                                                                                                          Pray for them
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                                                                                                                                          • Phyrephly
                                                                                                                                            yes, or maybe, with them...
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                                                                                                                                        • Shirley H 391879
                                                                                                                                          How about this? I am a retired clinical nurse. Have seen people dragging their oxygen bottles to the smoking room!!
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                                                                                                                                          • Luv ur
                                                                                                                                            MIXED UP BODILY NEEDS!!! Their addiction suppresses the need to eat. Everyone is sparing their change and dollars and trust me, they eat. You just don't catch it. I CALL THEM OUT ON IT AND I DO IT WITH A CARING ATTITUDE. I THINK IT MAKES THEM THINK, INSTEAD OF ARGUING THEIR ACTIONS...... BECAUSE I'M NICE ABOUT IT. BUT I TELL THEM I CAN'T HELP WHEN THEY USE MY MUCH NEEDED CHANGE AND BASICALLY DISRESPECT MY KINDNESS.
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                                                                                                                                            • Laura W 363255
                                                                                                                                              Got to have some pleasure in life & I think the same thing plus have money for alcohol. From a non smoker who hates the smell etc
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                                                                                                                                              • JenniferO1982
                                                                                                                                                Ok
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                                                                                                                                                • Rob G 106430
                                                                                                                                                  Professional grifters
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                                                                                                                                                  • P.P.R
                                                                                                                                                    I SMOKE FOR MANY, MANY YRS...I QUIT, COLD TURKEY 2 IN A HALF YRS. AGO...I ALSO NEVER BEG ANYBODY FOR MONEY OR CIGARETTES, I SUPPORTED MY OWN HABIT.......
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                                                                                                                                                    • Angie
                                                                                                                                                      I once bought a guy (who lived on the streets with his dog) a meal plus extra meat from a local kebab shop, to give to his dog. He was so grateful and gave it all to his dog. I asked what he needed and all he said was "nothing now. I am happy my dog has eaten." I then gave him $20 and quickly walked away... not wanting him to see the tears in my eyes
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                                                                                                                                                      • Phyrephly
                                                                                                                                                        Bless you, Angie. You sound like a truly sweet-hearted person.
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                                                                                                                                                      • Teri 1282723
                                                                                                                                                        This is what giving with a loving heart is. God bless you and all the others out there like you. And God bless this man and his dog and all the others out there like him; wherever they are now.
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                                                                                                                                                    • nina m 212027
                                                                                                                                                      they can afford smokes and got a mobil phone but can,t seem to bye food they beg and no that some one will help i was in a supermarket and a young women with a kid in front of me never had the right money and just looks at us behind her we never would have paid for her in her shopping was smokes drink some nappies and a bit of food sorry i,m no paying for your habit
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                                                                                                                                                      • Bruce 1274521
                                                                                                                                                        What I would like to know if the beggars are so poor that they need to beg money, why do a lot of them look as if they eat very well. I have heard stories of some generous soles giving food to beggars rather than provide money that may be spent on booze and cigarettes only to get abused by the puzzled Beggers.
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                                                                                                                                                        • Christine M 323842
                                                                                                                                                          Because food is accessible through many charitable organisations.
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                                                                                                                                                      • Victoria 315341
                                                                                                                                                        A lot of us got hooked on smoking at a young age, it is worse trying to kick the habit I have heard, than hard drugs. There are a lot of homeless people who still smoke,but they are not alone. I will, if I can buy food and a hot drink, but no money for smokes or drug, or alcohol.
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                                                                                                                                                        • Sheree T
                                                                                                                                                          It has been a very long time since I have seen someone who is homeless. And when I did I always dropped a few dollars for them. While smoking is not a good habit to have, as I myself did use to smoke, it probably provides some help for them mentally.
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                                                                                                                                                          • Sindhu 1439439
                                                                                                                                                            Addiction is terrible
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