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Work Life Balance
Elizabeth 135418720-Jul-23
Doing Shift Work I find it Really hard to have that Balance .
On my day off I am so tired I never get to catch up on what needs to be done.
Anyone else feel the same?
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  • lulu
    I wish I had a job
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    • Dsmiles2U
      make use of my mornings got walk in !
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      • Pam G 449028
        Do small little jobs every day so that you can find a couple of hours to do the most time consuming jobs on your day off.
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        • Edith v
          Yes I have done shift work 1 week 6am-2pm the next week 2pm -6pm the worst one 6pm-6am however the money was very good.it was in UK in the 50's.I earned double the wage my uncle earned & he had a wife & 3 kids to support .I was the only Australian in the whole factory.Any time I had off I visited other counties. Only 2 weeks holiday but then it was over to Europe The factory girls were fabulous We went to Liverpool to the Cavern because a new group were there called "The Beatles"It was a great era & for me "I had the time of my Life"
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          • Danielle R 478487
            Ever been to Blackpool tower. My grandfather worked there as a barman at that time.
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        • Paul B 522937
          Every days a Sunday when you retire
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          • Catalina
            I did shift work when much younger. Strange, but all I remember earning a living - nothing about how tired I was.
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            • Joe B 288252
              Did shift work for 41 years and loved it but the toll was high. Almost permanent fatigue, it’s taken 8 years for my blood pressure to finally come down. I’ve got the balance right now, work 0% life 100%…..lol
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              • LESLEY S 385154
                People that work in shift work placings seem to me that their hours are much longer and Im sure they must be getting fatigued because of it. They must be inclined to go home and feel exhausted from all the extra hours that are being done. It is really sad to see the 40 hours week not the same as when we were employed .
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                • Elizabeth 1354187
                  So true Lesley
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              • Brian L 387567
                I am a pensioner. There is no balance physical, emotional or mental.
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                • Greg B 520364
                  You really need 3 days to catch up.
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                  • Elizabeth 1354187
                    so true
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                • Danielle R 478487
                  I believe I know have Narcolypsy because of my previous work /life balance. I had always worked long hours ,but didn't bother me to much. But as I got older,got married had kids I had to juggle,so I worked around the kids,retrained so they could be with me in year round school programs. So at one stage I was a fulltime carer for my grandad* he had mobility issues and profoundly blind and deaf,worked 50hrs per week and had a full time course to update skills. Didn't sleep more than 3hrs at a time. So by the time I had my second child I was,exhausted. I was diagnosed 5years after he was born. My body's way of making me slow down. So I guess what I am saying is you can push yourself,but take note of what your body tells you, there are consequences. I should know,I can't work anymore.
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                  • Elizabeth 1354187
                    I am going to have to try and listen to my body more.
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                • Jania S
                  The world has changed, Shift work used to consider the workers, you had 3 shifts day, night, avo, with day off in between, so you could catch up, and after the three shifts you had a week off. Today the powers that be dont seem to are for humanity
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                  • Elizabeth 1354187
                    definitely not for humanity anymore I'm exhausted but need to keep working cause i also think at 57 who will employee me now
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                • Paul J 94868
                  Yes. I used to work nights. The best thing for me was trying to arrange my days off in a row. It gives you a chance to catch up. Night shift is really tough on the wellbeing. It throws out your circadian rhythm...
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                  • merricat
                    I am retired, so I cannot relate to this issue.
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                    • Sonya F 68771
                      Sorry never worked shift work but it is hard my dad did it
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                      • Wendy Q
                        I can imagine, I've never done it myself.
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                        • Jenny L 591463
                          Suffered a lot of this when the girls were little as I worked in a business the ex owned. No longer work these days and hubby used to do shift work and we are just so much happier now we don't have to work. He's retired (renovating our old house so he's still working but for us.) and we make do with what we get, sure times can be tough every now and then especially when unexpected costs come up. Cat going to the vet was our last huge unexpected expense but we will manage like we always do. So what if there is a little dust laying around, life is too short to stress about the little things. If you need sleep or to relax just do it and don't feel guilty about what you need as it is better than being sick trying to do every thing and that could happen if you don't look after your self. Don't forget you are number 1, don't be a shamed of putting your self first once in a while.
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                          • Elizabeth 1354187
                            Love this
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                        • Larry S 382961
                          No problem for me as retired
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                          • Grommie
                            I used to do a form of shift work, namely bridge watchkeeping at sea. 4 hours on, eight hours off, occasionally it would be 2 on, eight off, called dogwatches. this break up ensured you never ran for weeks on end doing the same sets of 4 hours. Nevertheless, whenever I stepped ashore for a few weeks, I'd find myself waking up at ungodly hours. After I retired from the sea it still took time to get into an awake in the day asleep at night pattern. Tiredness was another aspect
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                            • Shawn B 1061185
                              Work life balance is somewhat like beauty: It’s in the eye of the beholder (or the mind of the worker).
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                              • Cathy S 315728
                                everybody, no matter what there is never enough time to do what you really should or want to let along have the energy
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                                • APB
                                  I don't work
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                                  • IdentifyAs
                                    We are just working to live. The devises we have stop us from sleeping well. Make your room really dark, find a comfy spot in your bed, take magnesium and NO devices.
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                                    • Catharina 1274733
                                      I have done shift work. Ensure you must have at least 8 hours sleep after each shift. We loved to have 4 days off. Though the first day off was to catch up sleep. But. the rest of three days off is a beauty. Got my studies and assignment done. Loves it. Most shift work, their type of work involved 24/7. Just remember, you are at night but the other part of the world is the day time. I am happy to help the other side of the world when they needed a helping hand. : ))
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                                      • Mike 825525
                                        We are not meant to spend most of our life working, a work life balance in modern society is a load of crap.
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                                        • Elizabeth 1354187
                                          It really is crap
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                                      • Colin L 88398
                                        What is Work Life Balance?
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                                        • GrumpyBsd
                                          Why do people moan about their jobs just quit and get another, oh thats right there aren't any because Australia doesn't make, do or create anything except office workers.
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                                          • Matt Black.
                                            I stopped working 25 years ago. I am still bloody tired.
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                                            • Poppy
                                              why
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                                          • TUBZY
                                            NEVER TELL ANYONE YOU ARE RETIRED
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                                            • Gunter L
                                              No, Elizabeth, not everyone else feels the same. When it comes to Work Life Balance I find it very easy to find that balance. I think it is because my life is my work and my work is my life. There is no competition between those two, rather a Co-Operation. Anyone else feel the same?
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                                              • Carolyn K 714554
                                                My son is a shift worker and its 2 12 hour day shifts and 2 12 hour shifts. I can't understand why it isn't 4 12 hour shifts 1 week and 4 12 hour shifts the next week. This would make more sense and much easier to adjust to.
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                                                • Bugalugs
                                                  What is wrong with actually Working 8 hours a day, at hours which most suit our Employer? We still have 16 hours left, 8 for rest and 8 to do all the other chores. The problem today is that people simply don't want to do the hours but still expect to get paid as if they have.
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                                                  • Mary M 329762
                                                    Me too but sometimes we needed steps back and do something for ourselves
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                                                    • Pat C 618241
                                                      I do remember how great it was when "flex" time was introduced and you could work if you had accumulated "extra hours" for a day off.
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                                                      • Pat C 618241
                                                        Fortunately I was an office worker but we still had times of the year when work was highly challenging.
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                                                        • Bugalugs
                                                          I have always been a Shift Worker. Yes, I have had to miss the odd party or two but other than that it has never impacted me in any adverse way.
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                                                          • Jeanine R
                                                            I have a husband that does shift work and it is no fun for him or me for that matter. I am glad he does this as it keeps the family afloat but it is difficult. I want to say thanks for all that do this for their families.
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                                                            • jeff e
                                                              yes
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                                                              • Dottie 1043512
                                                                Yes ,I know exactly how you feel.
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                                                                • Farah 1360165
                                                                  had a toxic work life and worked non stop. chose to quit and studying now for 18mths. :)
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                                                                  • Gaza
                                                                    I used to work every bit of overtime I could, but not like some, I keep my lawn and garden tidy and clean.
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                                                                    • Elizabeth 1354187
                                                                      I keep everything tidy and clean as well but exhausted at the same time
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                                                                    • GazaElizabeth 1354187
                                                                      I'm 75 and retired but still have pride in my home, not like some people. They bring the neighbourhood down.
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                                                                  • Susan R 1248787
                                                                    I have never worked shift work. When I was teaching, it took all weekend to get caught up! Am happily retired now!
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                                                                    • boy blunder
                                                                      I worked nights for nearly 20 years,i haven't worked for about a year and a half still haven't slept a full night still wake up tired, had a friend who did night talkback radio his recipe for beating the chang from night to day was to work his but of through the day eat well at tea time and it took him about 6 months but he is now pretty good
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                                                                      • Jane M 438289
                                                                        Shift work is so hard on family and social life. The increase in pay for shift work is not enough at the present time. I believe that it should be a 25 to 50 percent increase not the around 5 percent that I have seen in my area. There are many disadvantages to shift work so much so that the pay should be drastically increased. I have so many thoughts about what people lose by working shift work and they are mostly negative. I would be willing to pay more for services that are provided just because I couldn't or wouldn't do the jobs during the times that shift workers work. Bless those that do because I did some shift work when I was younger and would never do it again.
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                                                                        • Shelia C
                                                                          Nothing's perfect. In my life/work there seems to be one or the other is off at times
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                                                                          • Sandra C 12043
                                                                            Working shifts is always hard. Your body finds it hard to balance to the different hours. Only thing is to see if you can get a permananet shift. Maybe some one who would like to do the same and will swap with you, or get another job.
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                                                                            • Paula J 395266
                                                                              My life balance was fine until I retired, now I never seem to have enough hours in the day or days in the week. I need at least one more day each week.
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                                                                              • Zahir M
                                                                                Too much and getting busy and difficult interest to relate with
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                                                                                • kristian s 513441
                                                                                  I always try to balance my work and personal life the same way in order for me to not get stressed out from my work and personal life.
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                                                                                  • Tammy 1343894
                                                                                    I don’t work now, but when I did, I worked way too much. I worked more than I had to, but felt like I needed to work more. I missed out on a lot of family time because I spent more time at work and at home.
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                                                                                    • Kathy 1270954
                                                                                      I don't work now, but when I did, the older I got, the less I could keep it balanced.
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                                                                                      • Elizabeth T 396096
                                                                                        This is a problem for shift workers and it is also a problem for non shift workers when employers make you work 10+ hour days (with less than 8 hours recovery time between shifts) and when they roster you on to work a ridiculous amount of consecutive days in a row.
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                                                                                        • Linda C
                                                                                          It is illegal in our country to roster you on without more than 8 hours between shifts. I forget what it is now as I have been out of the work force for a few years. Shift work is tough.
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                                                                                        • Elizabeth T 396096Linda C
                                                                                          Yes it is but employers do it because they know they can get away with it (larger companies are generally more careful but smaller businesses do it all the time). There is also a clause to do certain hours "by agreement" and this circumvents the law.
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                                                                                      • Glenys H 310155
                                                                                        I make sure I get some me time each day, I do my braintraining word games each day, read at least a chapter of a book, and do some knitting.
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                                                                                        • allin
                                                                                          i was always lucky in that respect, i never had that problem, now i get up when i want, unless i have an appt, and i no longer wear a watch, i don't care what time it is,, i'm now retired, i watch the fields grow from my porch for a living,, pay sux, hours are great, luv the boss,,, i shoulda retired at 17,,,😇
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                                                                                          • Rhonda D 522615
                                                                                            It is hard. I work from 9:45 am until 7 pm with no breaks nor lunch time.
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                                                                                            • Linda C
                                                                                              Not sure what country you are in but in Australia it is illegal not to have breaks and lunch break.
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                                                                                          • Chosen
                                                                                            Work is life.
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                                                                                            • Elizabeth 1354187
                                                                                              your 100% correct
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                                                                                            • ChosenElizabeth 1354187
                                                                                              Agreed.
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                                                                                          • JANN R
                                                                                            I was the same when I did night shit it was hard but i got through it
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                                                                                            • Sheree T
                                                                                              When I worked at my last job for 30 years I was on at 9 hour day shift with no problems at all. I don't think I would have liked night shift though.
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                                                                                              • Robert A 853384
                                                                                                I am on a 4 day /10 hr. shift. I have no work life balance until weekend...
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                                                                                                • Linda C
                                                                                                  Sounds like a good work time to me.
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                                                                                              • Tiffany L 690503
                                                                                                It depends on the situation
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                                                                                                • SueM2
                                                                                                  Shift work is really bad for your health, unless you are on the same shift all the time.
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                                                                                                  • Asesh S
                                                                                                    Luckily I have never had to but my wife did a few years back and she had the same problem but she only had to do it for a few months and after that she was very clear of never doing shift work again.
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                                                                                                    • Claude H
                                                                                                      What rubbish. I did shift work for 40 years with no problems. I have been retired for 32 years & my balance is perfect.
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                                                                                                      • Elizabeth 1354187
                                                                                                        good for you Claude? Remember not everyone is built the same we are all different and cope differently
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                                                                                                    • Susan KTC
                                                                                                      Shift work is very challenging on the body and mind, and is not for everyone. I did it as a nurse, and like everything in our lives if we choose this line of work, for whatever reason ie more money, there is sometimes consequences, and we do have to decide if it is worth the toll it can take in our bodies. I think balancing work/life can be challenging no matter what line of work you are in…
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                                                                                                      • Elizabeth 1354187
                                                                                                        HI Susan, I can definitely relate to you I am not a nurse but work at front Reception in Emergency.
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                                                                                                    • Jackie 1314106
                                                                                                      Tough balancing. Whatever else take care 9f yourself or you will have a lot less to give
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                                                                                                      • david j t
                                                                                                        get up with the go down with the sun on the farm
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                                                                                                        • Deborah 1314174
                                                                                                          That is why I never liked working shifts.
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                                                                                                          • Cynthia D 1209850
                                                                                                            Shift work is hard to have a good work life balance
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                                                                                                            • Shalonda 1284283
                                                                                                              Yes all the time but you just have to make a list and paste yourself to do just a few things on your to do list and not try to over work yourself more. Then what happens you don’t have the energy to get anything done now.
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                                                                                                              • Linda 3
                                                                                                                My uncle worked third shift (otherwise known as graveyard shift) his whole working life. he said it was rough at times but got paid more
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                                                                                                                • BLACK LIVES MATTER
                                                                                                                  Never did Shift Work - my job (the only job I ever worked) - was a federal civil service job (which involve passing a written test with a very high score) - no overtime and got holidays off (automatic with pay) - and I did not work weekends.
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                                                                                                                  • Cher
                                                                                                                    🤸‍♂️balancing act
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                                                                                                                • pam rae
                                                                                                                  I WORKED EVERY NOW AND THEN A DOUBLE SHIFT BUT FINALLY SAID THAT'S IT, TOO TIRING AND STUCK WITH MY NORMAL SHIFT...
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                                                                                                                  • Ernie 67
                                                                                                                    I agree I have so many ideas on what to do on my time off but most never gets done
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                                                                                                                    • Teri 1282723
                                                                                                                      I've never worked night shifts myself but know several people who have or still do. It is hard on every single one of them. It's hard on the digestive system, and it's hard emotionally, mentally, physically. You never get used to it. It's a little easier on you if you can get a year of night shift so you can adjust to the sleeping hours and stuff, but most places switch back and forth every two weeks. I suggest that you change jobs if at all possible. Just make sure you have another job in place before quitting.
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                                                                                                                      • GRAEME W 313058
                                                                                                                        Change your job, simple!
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                                                                                                                        • Elizabeth 1354187
                                                                                                                          at 57 any suggestions on who would employee me?
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                                                                                                                        • GRAEME W 313058Elizabeth 1354187
                                                                                                                          plenty of jobs out there for those who actually want to work
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                                                                                                                        • Elizabeth 1354187GRAEME W 313058
                                                                                                                          Ummm excuse me ? I have been at my job doing shift work for 20 years in Emergency Department how about you come and try it see how long you last?
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                                                                                                                        • GRAEME W 313058Elizabeth 1354187
                                                                                                                          So!
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                                                                                                                        • Elizabeth 1354187GRAEME W 313058
                                                                                                                          wow just wow
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                                                                                                                        • GRAEME W 313058Elizabeth 1354187
                                                                                                                          😎😂
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                                                                                                                      • mike B 1066235
                                                                                                                        THAT IS SO TRUE I DID SHIFT WORK FOR OVER 25 YEARS.AND THE HARDEST PART IS I MISS NY KIDS GOING UP IT WAS ALL MY WIFE GOOD BLESS HER MIKE
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                                                                                                                        • Tammy 1360401
                                                                                                                          Absolutely!
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                                                                                                                          • Karen J 429574
                                                                                                                            yep i defenatly agree
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                                                                                                                            • Linda C
                                                                                                                              I used to do very long hours in the office from 4am to around 5pm and then take work home each night and on the weekends for just a 35 hour a week pay. To keep the job and my kids and home I had to do this being a single mum and never say boo. At times I was so exhausted. My father worked 3 different shift hours. The cross overs were the worst for him. He worked really hard and in the open air come hail or shine and although he has been gone for over 40 years I do hope he knew we appreciated it. We often forget to say thankyou to our parents and sometimes our children and other family members for their support. I am not sure there is ever the right balance.
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                                                                                                                              • Chin C
                                                                                                                                I feel so sad reading your story. Hope you are doing well now in your retirement. Or are you still working?
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                                                                                                                              • Linda CChin C
                                                                                                                                Thank you but yes it was hard but I came through it OK. Yes I am retired now although I have a mortgage which is a bit tough in the conditions of today. I'll get by though
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