You have to have trust in a marriage. If you don't have that than there is a problem.

Maybe she loves him in a different way but if you don't like that tell her to blow off.

I have to say I would laugh in her face . because well HE is my husband.. get it..he too would have a plesent chuckle .. LOL LOL

cut hoim away he must of not luved u as much start fresh find new 1 im free 0459394248 rex

Was she joking around or was she being serious? Normally people say stuff like that lightheartedly if they care and are friends.

As of today, he is still in the Rehab center, still unable to walk without two people to help him. I see him and do things he needs done every day for him. He calls me his angel.

Tell the old bag to do one!

I would tell her he isn’t house trained ,but if she wants him there is not manual,what you see isn’t what you get ,lol he been in pasture for a long time ,Edited 19-Oct-24 18:48pm

Maybe you should just tell her you have a lovely block of land that she could live under

Too many variables there to form an opinion..I would need a lot more info

sounds like she has mental health problems, get a restraining order on her? (before that confront your husband and ask him whats going on) 'constantly causing problems' what does that mean?

Maybe your neighbour has lost her mental marbles and thinks she is someone elseEdited 19-Oct-24 15:25pm

TYVM Debra D

🥹Let it be 🥹

TAKE HIM HES URS

I'd laugh! You love him? You take him then!

Not well at all!!

I would not take this well at the very least!

i would tell her that i am aware of her crush, she will need to maintain her behavior and know that there would never be anything to come of this, because i have a solid marriage, now if husband uses this to his advantage then i would worry,

I am loving some of these replies ! lol

Good luck in finding out what is the truth and in looking after your husband if that's what you decide to do. Cheers

I see Red , I see Red , I see Red ( Lyrics from a song by NZ band Split Enz ) :)Edited 18-Oct-24 21:29pm

She can have him.🤣🤣

There is no smoke without fire!

I'd move

This is like wheels within wheels! First, your husband should get well! You please come out of shock becuase, this looks like just a statement from your neighbour (may be she's off) and may not have any foundation. You please take care of your husband first, then you can deal with the neighbour's love episode. This is hilarious actually! Please don't go off your head about this statement and neglect your husband. Once he is well you can take care of the neighbour's issue! I would ignore her completely, not worth!😊

I'd say to her, you want him, take him!! But don't bring him back to me. I don't want him!!

If she was my neighbor and said that to me, I would have said, ok but to get him, you would have to get some real good glue to put him back together., unless you want to go to the same place he is in, if she said yes to going to same place, I would put her in the car and drove her to the cemetery, and leave her by his grave, place were his ashes are Edited 18-Oct-24 18:46pm

It's up to you but I would wait until he's well enough to tell him. He's got enough on his plate at the moment.

To be quite honest - I WOULD DO ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. I certainly wouldn't tell him. If she has already been causing problems - this is probably just another one of her little games. In future I would have nothing to do with her. Hope your husband is okay soon.........

As long as it was his Mum, no problem!

it was a great shock &recommend that you discuss this with your husband

I’d say to her ‘good luck with that’ and laugh Edited 18-Oct-24 17:32pm

. This neighbour is a trouble maker. I would be avoiding her & cease any contact with her.If she comes to your house do not ask her in 'If she comes to the house when your husband comes home telL her your husband is resting & not to visit .Give your husband all your loving care & when he is 100% then tell him you want nothing to do with this woman

I'd laugh but I certainly wouldn't tell my husband, he has enough on his plate recovering from the fall so no need to give him anything else to think about. Once at home you want things to be as normal as possible but if he thinks the neighbour is in love with him he wouldn't be able to act normally. I'd laugh and forget all about it.

I have a neighbour and I love him but I am not in love with him. A big difference. Depends on what or how it was put. If she is in love with him then she would be told in no uncertain terms to back off.

I wouldn't. I don't get it bc I don't know or surround myself with women who would voice that, let alone feel it. Some things are just "no go", and this would surely be one. How desperate and indecent.

I would say i am glad someone does.

I would say " I would tell him,but he probably would prefer to stay in hospital".

This person may not be thinking clearly, let it go and just watch to see what happens first.

I want to think she meant loves him as she loves people in general, but that would be naive. Women don't usually tell men they love them, even though I tell everyone that I love them because I do as a Christian. However, people know that's how I am, and think nothing of it. Have you noticed any odd behavior from her concerning your husband? Is she married? Did you tell your husband? I definitely would and watch his expression. Now is not the time for her to cause problems between the two of you when you are dealing with his health issues. If it had been my ex-husband, I would immediately think they were having an affair because that is what he did. You and him need to have that conversation. If you are sure, he is innocent, then I would address her and tell her where the bear shit in the woods! I would probably rip her a new one! If he is involved with her, I would not play any games. You can't make him want you if he doesn't. I just accepted it and let my husband go. I wasn't happy about it, but it was obvious that he didn't love me, and I caught him so many lies that the trust was gone. I wish you the best, and I hope it is just a fantasy that your neighbor is having. If he is true to you, he will avoid her at all costs! A broken marriage is not fun, and you probably have grandchildren. God bless you and keep your self-esteem. You are better than she will ever be! Fight to keep your man!!

I would actually check my husband before I check the neighbor and I don't think that's a good idea she love my husband not good she will have to be removed and I will put her in her place. And a good way

Laugh then call the Mafia and place a Hit out on her.

Laugh

Id leave him she can have himb

My first response would be "That's Nice. What did he do to deserve this great bit of luck?" Regardless of her response I would tell her "If you wanted my broken old spouse and you're too lazy to find your own then have him." Then I would tell my spouse about the adventure and we would have a good laugh over it.

It's human nature to love and care about people you know and like. It would have been said in a truly caring and supportive manner.

Just talk to her directly

I would tell her i don't have a husband...

I would tell him what she said and both have a good laugh about it.

Dont talk to her and just ignore her

ignore her. . .

she's probably got mental problems. pray for her and get a restraining order

Fight her

I have neither husband nor wife, or to be disgustingly PC, No partner of either gender

Maybe this person feels bad for the trouble that has happened and is trying to make amends. She probably should be more careful with her wording though. I hope your hubby gets better soon!

WOW REALLY

Tell her I’ll rent him out

Tell her to find her own man and keep her paws of yours!

Next time she calls tell her to stop being ridiculous and make sure your husband feels she is crazy too. Glad your husband is on the mend and have you ever had a feeling your husband has been unfaithful on you? If not and he thinks she has a loose screw too then yeah tell her to back off after all he's your husband not hers. Put her back in her place and you should be looking after him not her.

As long as you the one leaving under the same room and comes to you every night ,then worry not

sounds a bit soggy.. Tell her you told him and he laughed. That should do it.

talk to your husband,if he is not interested in her, tell her you need to back off

maybe an - albeit awkwardly worded - neighborly greeting, you know, to um bolster spirits. Sounds like a bad accident happened with your husband, and maybe it jolted your erstwhile neighbor, too. Glad he's on the mend btw ... if not this, then yeah, weird. I'd definitely be keeping an eye on that one.

Since I do not have a husband, and am not gay, my response would probably be WTF, am I in an episode of the Twilight Zone

Smack that biatch, put her in her place

She sounds like a trouble maker.

They both are made for each others making good decisions in their lives.makes them better feel

We have been married for 56 years and have never ever had a problem , we look after each other

I don't have a husband thank goodness.

If I was in that situation, I wouldn't worry about it because I know my husband and trust him. I would probably just joke with the woman and say, "well, we've got something in common, because I love him too, and thanks for your well wishes." I live in a senior complex so it might happen sometime except although my husband is civil to our neighbors, he's not friendly with them like I am. (Some of them knock on our door to see me because I'm nice to them and help them and he's not thrilled about being woken from his naps.) Things are the other way around here: there is a man here who is my dad's age, and whenever he sees me, he professes his love for me and tells me not to tell my husband but of course, I do tell my husband. This guy begs me to come over to his apartment, but I never do. There have been other men here who've tried to flirt with me, but they've all died or moved.

Don’t know what problems she has caused but I sometimes think the “love you” is too commonly said!

More to this story than we are being told me thinks...

If it was my husband right now I would say good you can have him but there's no take backs.

I am aware that he said "I do" during the marriage. and SHE declared, I DO! and your neighbors claimed that THEY DID, so what leads you to believe that? For 28 years, if you truly loved your spouse, you would not have missed a thing. Well, you might as well make a backup call to the police and ambulance.

Since you stated that she has been constantly causing problems, I think you know what to do. Is your husband at fault too? Ask yourself. Like Lady Diana said, 3 people in a marriage is too crowded!

So do I and have done for years and will do for years.

I think your neighbor might not be able to communicate her feelings very well , I thinking it's more a term of endearment,

I would tell the heffer to meet me outside right now because it's about to be some smoke in the city!!!!!!

I would welcome it...then the neighbour could put up with all the nonsense I have for the past 40 years!

Wow thats odd

Strange....

Rack it up to, that she means well. She has some big time problems in her life. Or she is a trouble matter.

WHAT? GET A LIFE and this is not days of our lives, this is supposed to be a survey site, not dear abby or is it?

Wow I would ignore it.

Comes across as inappropriate but without knowing the context of how it was said makes it difficult to comment. You be the judge, and perhaps knowing what kind of problems you had with the neighbour would help to make a judgement.

Who cares? Does it matter? If your husband loves you then this does not matter. A normal person would not leave someone that they really love just because someone else says that they love them (there are different degrees of love, too and different types of love, not all is romantic or sexual). If he leaves you for her then this is on him and it shows that you never really mattered so why let it worry you?

With Caution!!!

Give her his soiled underwear for the next few weeks.

It takes all types. That's the reason for the problems in the past that she has caused, now that is her problem not yours.

Two sides to this - The funny and the "WTF". WTF - What has been going on???? Funny - He's broken and maybe its time to TRADE UP and give him to the neighbor.

Perhaps she didn't mean it in they way we are interpreting it, but if she is constantly causing problems I would definitely put her in her place big time.

love thy neighbor but leave her husband alone..

I would not take that well. I might also punch her in the face.

interesting thing to do/say. Personally I would well take him :)

Well I’m of the mind that she needs to stay on her side of the fence and mind her own business, especially if she has been causing you and your husband problems in the past. Some folk are just so needy…

It may have been more of a friendship type of love and she was worried about his fall to and just wanted to give some support

whats not to luv... but f off b outch

Luckily I came to my senses and got rid of my partner (female). Some would be like you and be shocked but are you certain it's infatuation love rather than he is a good guy friendly love. I love some of my friends and my pets but I'm not in love with them.

ty Ricardo J.....