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What really does forgiveness mean to you? It's subject to experience and belief systems, so I don't believe in a wrong answer
PammyG
I can forgive without forgetting once trust us broken it’s extremely hard to win back. I am also a big believer in karma, what you give out will come back to you.
08-Dec-22

Sometimes you will see a lady that you do like, but you can't tell her that you love her, and she feels the same
AMUSICALTONY
IT TAKE A LONG TIME TO FALL IN LOVE. YOU HAVE TO BE FRIENDS FIRST, OTHERWISE IT DOESN'T WORK. WHEN I FIRST MET MY WIFE 45 YEARS AGO I DIDN'T EVEN LIKE HER. TODAY, I COULDN'T IMAGINE LIFE WITHOUT HER.
02-Feb-21

I disagree with the idea that parents are unwilling to listen to their children s trauma. No parent is perfect. However, if you bring a child into the world your first priority should be, always being present. Stop telling your kids that even if you were absent through their childhood, that you invested into them financially. Kids have no sense what the value of money is. A child will rather have their parent present than have a million dollars present. Anybody else feels...
Sammi
I feel that you shouldn't have children unless you are going to be there for them. I was a single mum and refused to work until they were school age.
10-Dec-22

I have recently started using the new Laundromat that has opened up down the shops. Wow, just like everything else, the prices have risen. It's now $6 for a small washing load and $8 for the larger machine. I have no idea what the dryers cost. Luckily, I only do a load of clothes and a load of linen once a fortnight. Do you think they are fair prices or too steep?
Tom S Qld
If you go to a laundromat once a week for 2 years
($8 x 52 wks x 2 = $832)
A good new washing machine will cost $800, then after 2 yrs the washes are free. The machine will probably last for 20 yrs.
If you go to a laundromat once a week for 20 years
($8 x 52 wks x 20 = $8320)
Buy a washing machine!
11-Dec-22
World War 1 started in Europe. World War 2 started in Europe. Do you see a pattern (history repeats itself)? Ukraine is not a democracy or Ukraine would already be in NATO and European Union. Ukraine is an authoritarian government. Russia is an authoritarian government. Why is USA and European Union countries pouring billions of dollars in military aid into Ukraine - an authoritarian government? Ukraine is in Europe. Will World War...
Dada WA
While armament production is such a prominent industry there will always be a need to have war to use the products.
11-Dec-22
Is there more to anything physical sometimes? Could it be a meeting of the minds or a connection you have found online that finds you more curious than you would like to be about someone you've never met? Interested if this has ever happened to you or someone you know had even met up in reality ...
allinyourhead
does shaky pudding on top of a laptop on a desk constitute falling in love online?,, if so,, yes, hi Liane, yes it is i, the wandering vagabond on return,, but i been looking around, and it seems that you and Mary have been passing out mushrooms to all the participants in our club,, strange shyt going on, people's names changing, A has the covid, Brad has changed his name folks disappearing, well i did that twice, once rewardia's fault ,and the 2nd time was my fault,, so lemme know if i fell in love online or not, laptop was on, had internet connectin
08-Dec-22

Would anyone else love to see the return of the Pizza Hut All-You-Can-Eat sit down restaurant which consisted of Pizza, Pasta, Garlic Bread, Salad bar, Dessert Bar and Drink refills for a set price. You would go there for a night out with your family or friends, or even have birthday parties there. God, those were the days
Jania S
NOPE< never ate as so called FAST FOOD as it was proved to sell rubbish, LOOK at al the change in health and size of people before fast food and after, tells you all you need to know, when u put rubbish in you body, you end up as rubbish. U R WHAT U EAT
09-Dec-22

I am listening to many mention "New Normal" among getting back to the old normal. Does everyone even have a normal? My life is consistently in motion and changes like the wind. So, what's your thoughts on normal? Does it exist for you?
Amber 22
Not me any way I cry every day and wish I was dead I just wish I could be normal but people are always meany to me I have no real friends I love cats I wish people would be nicer to other I think it would be normal to not be called a bitch all the time and to have an idear of where your life is heading I do not have much of them I must keep going I have a beutafill son have to try and help him and any one I can I think it is a good life some times have to keep trying for better f everyone you have to believe in your self and in god
17-Jan-21

How old were you when you found out that Santa was not real, and you had been putting out cookies and milk for him and carrots for the reindeer all those years as a kid without realising. I was about 8 if I recall. I was shattered, ha ha ...
Klanger
That is terrible, I am 77 and you are telling me that he isn't real. I won't be able to sleep tonight (but I'll still put my stocking out. Just in case.
06-Dec-22
On January 6, 2022. The President of the United Stated organized a cue on the Congress. Now the same man has asked to terminate the Constitution. He has shown he wants to be Emperor of the United States. What do you think about this?
darsol
i dont think anyone cares now,the US is imploding like all empires do eventually,as an Australian looking at the US from a far,its very sad to see but the lunatics have taken over the asylum
07-Dec-22

I find that the word 'love' has become so exhausted that it's value as an expression of feelings or emotion no longer has any worth. Where it was once used in context of your emotions towards family or intended family, has now been thrown around as a throw away line. For example, I Love that colour or music, hairstyle or article of clothing etcetera. I find myself cringing whenever someone uses this word in the wrong context that I say then what do you feel for your...
Reva D
Learnt loves be hurtful at times.but family is supose be love of family but learnt not all family same learnt family meambers can hurt worse than stranger
02-Dec-22

Sometime point of your life you want to relax, feel the nature, eat buffet, and release or your stress, but when you think of your responsibility you have no choice but to work work... and work. But you have a toxic working environment, and you can't find a replacement job. So what you will do? Work or not to work?
Wella
Relax. Find a job you are passionate in and enjoy your abundant life without anything toxic interfering into your life.
01-Dec-22

I was just thinking today and I have definitely noticed that every time it rains there doesn't appear to be any flies around at all. Why is that, I wonder, do they not like the rain.
BLM
I don't MISS not having flies around and I don't care if flies don't like rain (for whatever reason). Who cares?
03-Dec-22

Have you ever noticed.. whenever there is a person who has a sudden death, or major illness, that some family member runs to media, like on new-sites, to tell their sad story! Sometimes it ends up with the family member trying to raise money for some one or family left behind. Do you think this is appropriate? Life has it fair shares of sob stories, for many people. But do you think it's fair to beg money from the public? Most people don't do this!
APB
I can show you how to be very wealthy...its easy...just send me $1 and I will explain it all to you..........
30-Oct-21

He should stick to rapping. The sad thing is, anyone thinks they can join politics now regardless of whether they have any former experience or training. Today s political world reminds me of the Adam Sandler film, Idiocracy.
Sapphire Princess
as I understand it it was not intended he was going to run. it was a publicity stunt from what I understood.
30-Aug-20
I am "feeding" off foodie discussions by some of you dear folks at the moment and discussion's with a Learned friend here.. So my recipe du jour is Caramilk No Bake Slice.. whats not to like?? Apart from the fact it sounds incredibly sweet and would prob make my remaining teeth ache! Anyone have something decadent or deliciously desirable they would like to make? or get someone else to make and they just eat it!
Christina C 466456
Alison Holst recipe makes the best citrus slice - loved by all. It's my mums book so don't have name of it.
Go to Mac n cheese is from Brian Lagerstrom. It's lighter than the traditional rue recipes and is very quick to prepare - YouTube 10 min Mac n cheese Brian Lagerstrom.
Tahini choc chip cookies from David Lebovits - best cookies I've ever made, such a good recipe. His lemon cake is a crowd pleaser too. Highly recommend any of his recipes.
02-Dec-22

What do you think of the GoFundMe fundraising trend? Do you think some people are misusing it for their own benefit, when it is not absolutely necessary? For those people who are in a desperate situation due to circumstances out of their control, this is a good way for others or strangers to help them. However, other greedy people are ruining it for them. What are your thoughts?
Therese M 73305
I think it should only be used for life threatening things eg operation over seas for children that needs a very large amount money .but should have proof that it's for a genuine reason .other wise I think it's begging for money and in some cases it has been proven that people have defrauded the public .when I lost my two sons I remortgaged my home for their funerals and not using people's sympathy
04-Dec-22
Has anyone completed a Red Survey?
mary c
Oui oui!! Said with great gusto as it's always unexpected. Have completed and received tasty points for 2 this very week. "Celebration Time Come on!".
29-Nov-22

Why are the elders of millennials constantly talking about how "messed up" we are, when they were the ones who raised us ...?
Disie
You can only teach a child, not tell them how to think. Have Millennials thought about that? It's called taking responsibility!
24-Jul-21

At my workplace, I have noticed a change in how staff culture has changed around sickness and taking time off work to recover, has anyone else? Before the days of Covid, staff would come into work with colds and coughs and "battle on" to get the work done. Now I find the staff where I work are more likely to take sick leave for colds and practice more self-care despite ever-increasing workloads. Has staff culture changed in your workplace?
Lynn
No, it has always been that way where I work. The doctor insisted. It has made no difference the Covid. I only work 1 day a week now as am retired. However, the doctor has always said if you are sick stay home as it is not fair on the patients....or him.
07-Nov-22
I live in a quite suburb where there are not any high rise building. Over 8 years ago, this family move in, built a new home with no space for a car. This family is a builder so any given day they have up to 9 vehicles at one time including vans, small trucks, SUVs, station wagon, people movers. On top of it almost every weekend they have parties or at least many visitors which put more more pressure to street parking, to the point that the neighbourhood do not have street...
APB
Time to move I think......as an aside...I used to live in Paris on the fourth floor of a tall building...ratbags would park their cars up on the (tiny) pavement in front of my front door (the road was small)...so I had to wriggle around the vehicle to get out...THEN I started to drop full wet coffee filters from my "dripolater" coffee machine..from my window, onto any car's roof who parked there...you would hear the odd swearing down below when they got back to their cars....but it only took a week or so...and then NOBODY ever parked there again....not sure that helps...but it was effective..
17-Apr-22
We know that plastic is bad for the environment and that is why we pay council rates for recycling, now councils introduced cash for recycled items (instead of having the bin chicken we now have bums looking for recyclable items in our bins) my question is why we have to be penalised for plastic waste if we are already paying the council rates for the so-called recycling
APB
Not sure what a chicken bin is...The "bums" will probably sort out plastic waste and make some money out of it...I hope that you never become one (but you might be)....I'm not sure about what the last bit is about entirely
16-Nov-22
Does each color signify a different kind of survey? Or is it just random?
2026
This has been asked too manytimes.
Go to the technical info and click on the link.
Its on your page menu.
It means that different survey companies have different colours.
Tho sometimes they overlap and can be in two or more different survey colours.
The colours usually have their own different payment structures.
Red, blue, green,....
Blue surveys do usually pay 1000 pts=$1.00
Sometimes the purples pay $1.00
Reds, greens, pinks, and others vary.
02-Dec-22

In a cost of living crisis, if you are a parent that has children under 5, would you reduce your work hours so that you pay less in childcare, or find a new job that pays more, so you can afford childcare? If you reduce your work hours, the risk is that you might have to change to a lower paid job, which risks your future career development. If you look for a new job to afford childcare, you risk adding more stress to a busy family of young children. What would you...
Bugalugs
If you have a partner why don't one of you stay home and look after your own children? I, and I think many others as well, get sick to death of hearing parents complaining about the cost of Childcare, that it should be Free - which simply means that other Taxpayers - some of whom have chosen not to breed - are expected - or rather it is considered their Duty - to pay for the rearing of other people's children.
If you want children then make up your minds to bring them up yourselves and put up with the inconveniences BUT do Not expect others to do it for you. If you are not prepared to rear your own children then don't have any - there are far too many people in the world already so that could be part of your contribution to addressing Climate Change!
30-Nov-22

"Oh my God!" came from blasphemy through to a shocking outburst about something really important to initials only to be used in general conversation about just about anything ... valueless. LOL were the initials of "Laugh Out Loud", a simple condensed form to show something was REALLY funny, now it too is sprinkled everywhere, meaningless and worthless. I went to the shops lol ... its like its like its like...no it is usually not like anything else ... it just...
Julie K 348980
Apropos your last sentence I heard today the new abbreviation is “mpox”.
A few years ago I heard of a woman who was mortified when she found out the LOL she put on a “with sympathy” card did not mean “lots of love”.
29-Nov-22
Who wants me to do a reading for them? Just gimme your real first name & ur star sign...& I will pull a card from my deck, after concentrating on you, and give your reading. (Be patient though, I'm not here very long every night during the week, cos I work every day). Go....
Afro
Honestly I had reading done many years ago some of it went to ass however a lot didn't !!!the lady who did it taped it but unfortunate it didn't record properly!there's a reason for that!I wasn't supposed to listen to it again!!Living in presence is better than future you become more aware of what is going on around you without being distracted by worrying about future
24-Nov-22
Four friends, Sally, Olivia, Naomi, and Dana, were each born in different months - September, October, November, and December. "This is terrible," said Olivia. "None of us have an initial that matches the initial of her birth month." "I don't mind at all," replied the girl who was born in September. "That's easy for you to say," said Naomi. "It would at least be cool if the initial of my birth month was a vowel, but no." In which month was each girl...
Smooch - Vic
Dana - Sept/ Sally - Oct/ Olivia - Nov/ Naomi - Dec.
Moose, Bear, Lion, Whale, Boar, Deer, Toad, Lynx.
Three.
Thanks Lachelle!!
Haven’t cheated by looking at other answers, so when will you be posting the answers?
26-Nov-22

Australia s agricultural industry is booming, forcing small farmers to get big or get out. What do you think does this mean for smaller farms and the communities they help build?
Jan H 753322
Multi purpose croping is the way to go and opting for native croping as well. We need to change with the times
27-Nov-22

If you could go back to when you were just starting out, what would you do differently, knowing now what you didn't know then. Would you marry the same person, buy your house somewhere different, have kids, go for more holidays or train in a different kind of work?
APB
Its a tricky one...you don't just know more now...you are probably quite a different person too...I don't know how I would get on with myself when I was 23....radically different to now....your life experiences have contributed a lot to who you are at the moment...if you tinker in the past you will be different in the present...its all connected and hopefully a learning experience
25-Nov-22

What is it like to become bald? Do you happen to know people who've experienced baldness? Do they change how they date and socialise? Would you treat or accept the hair loss?
Nan
My fathers hair was receding and he said that his brain needs more room and pushed the hair out of the way.
20-Oct-22
I'm a huge fan of the Netherlands, followed by France and Germany, but I'm already tired getting up at 1.30am NZ time to watch 2am games. Just wondering.
Mr Grumpy
Not watching yet, but following the results closely. Aussies are out of their class, unfortunately. I will probably watch some games in the later stages.
24-Nov-22

I think the pros are you not going to waste money on something that other person don't like/need/want, but on the other hand there is not any personal input to it anymore. I know some people from my family would get really mad if I give them gift voucher for Christmas, but some would be really happy about it. Where are you at? Gift voucher yes or no?
mary c
Yep- got one for my daughter at her fave Beauty Salon where she gets all her nails, hair, lashes things done. So different from her mummy at same age.
23-Nov-22

What do you think of those people mouthing off about how certain sponsors should not be used in sport? Netball Australia has just lost a 15 million dollar deal with Gina Rhinehart and as far as I can see, over a lot of misinformation. I think almost everyone in this country is doing the best they can with being ethically responsible. I think we should get back to that old saying - do not mix sport and politics.
CILLY0
Personally, I don't know why anyone sponsors sports especially if they are going to be bad-mouthed over it. I never notice who is sponsoring anyone anyway and I doubt that I am the only person.
26-Nov-22

Although farming generally isn't entirely environmentally friendly, is it as bad as the media portrays? Have you done your research? Have you weighed up the environmental impacts of farming vs cities? Most farmers, especially in New Zealand, care about the environment and animals and feel misunderstood by people who don't understand what we try to do for the environment or how much we care about the land. What have you heard about farming? What do you think about it?
Travel
Farming is an ancient and noble profession. David was a shepherd and Jesus was a figurative shepherd.
31-Oct-22

Australia and the UK share to a certain extent that the local pubs and bars are HUBS, where people get together and socialise. The increasing massive taxes on beer in both countries...and possibly elsewhere too along with covid have resulted in a massive shut-down of pubs. People cannot afford to drink...owners cannot afford to stay open...and aside from other issues...this is going to radically change our society and how we live what do you think?
Gardenia
There is more to life in communities than just drinking. There might be less domestic violence for instance. there are hundreds of different ways to socialize than getting together for a drink. Some communities are being destroyed by excess drinking. Aboriginal women are being killed more often as a result. Publicans have exploited customers for far too long. It is time to enjoy each other's company without the effects of liquor.
22-Nov-22
We all eat emotionally, actually we do this lot and don't even know it. But what is your favourite comfort food though, when you really need a food nurture. I try not to comfort food eat, as I find it is very addictive, however I have not yet mastered the art of not using food as a comfort as yet, when my emotions are in distraught mode (like now). It is an interesting topic when you delve into it deeply at the scientific level, why we comfort...
mary c
mmm great topic..where do i start haha.
If i have the shakes from a bit of low blood sugar- because i've actually used some physical energy which my lazy body not used to- i have to snaffle a peanut butter and honey sammie. If i'm just feeling piggy then chip sammie, cake cake or cake, and of course choc. I used to wolf down hot chips but lately i can't do that without suffering later. And everything with a cup o tea n sugar.
21-Nov-22

There are more women in Australian prisons than ever before. And once they're out, they're very likely to reoffend and end up back inside. Why are so many women going to jail these days?
Christina C 466456
Never heard about this. Maybe it's mental illness on the increase? Perhaps alcohol and drugs? Is it really increasing or is it just increase in population (more people = more criminals though the proportion may still be the same).
16-Nov-22
Do you have any good ideas for a funny, reasonable, and mature prank to pull on someone close to you? I'm not talking about the teenage types we ued to pull back in the day. Just something simple and harmless, but nevertheless, FUNNY?? I need a good, clean, idea that isn't too "out there" and won't hurt or really offend the person getting pranked. Please no vulgar or meanspirited ideas. Thanks.
Chosen
Roll up and put a lotto ticket in each Christmas cracker and don't tell anybody you have done it prior to Xmas lunch/dinner. There then will be a few surprised faces when at the table the crackers are all 'banged off' and then opened to get their hat and small toy AND surprise , surprise a lotto ticket.
21-Nov-22

My name is ***. I am from the country termed "the giant of Africa". Hope you know the country? Guess you know. Just relocated to Canada, and been a black and a visible minority, how will I blend with the norms in Canada. I need your advice.
Thylas
Just be you, be polite and honest, and you are sure to find friends soon enough. Most people are quite happy to accept others as they are. Any that do not are the ones with the problem, not you.
19-Nov-22
What are your beliefs? I think we would be foolish to think we are the only living form in the universe & beyond...& that have the 'smarts' to space travel to other planets/galaxies. 'We are not alone'.
Tom S Qld
Not only are they real, but governments around the world are officially preparing for the first alien contact.
The university of St. Andrews in Scotland has established an alien contact research center.
The Pentagon estimates that there are a possible 4590 extraterrestrial civilizations and are researching the best way to contact and communicate with them.
So, you are correct 'we are not alone'.
21-Nov-22
I should probably be able to figure this out myself, but I don't trust my math skills! So can someone tell me what the points here equal in real money? Like for instance, how much money is 1000 points equal to? example: I like to redeem for Amazon cards, but that's the same as cash for me since I know I'll always be buying something on Amazon. So if 30,000 points gets me a $15 Amazon card, what's 1000 points equal to?
Tom S Qld
If 30,000 pts = $15 Amazon card
30,000 / 15 = 2,000pts per $1.Not sure if that's good value.When I redeem 50,000 pts = $50 into my bank account
50,000 / 50 = 1,000pts per $1.
Best to do your math's to make sure that you get value for effort.
21-Nov-22
How long do you play for here, & what have you earnt over what time frame? Seeing how long it will take, till I can retire lol (jks) :P What do you play / interact with for most of your points? TIA
Liane H
Hi Missy, usually the blues pay the best and then purples . What you can earn all depends on if u work ,own a car ,have a mortgage etc as you have probably noticed alot get screened out from by age or other reasons . Payment into your bank is totally safe ,I have used and I'm a real nervous nut about technology! In fact the transfer is within 30 mins amazing! Gift cards in the mail 4 to 6weeks . P.s thnx for the explainer for the above ,I also did not know what:P was or TIA and err not that old !!! Lol
15-Nov-22
1. What has to be broken before you use it? 2. What has 13 hearts but no other organs? 3. What is the centre of gravity? 4. I have been around for millions of years but am only a month old. What am I? 5. What eats a lot of iron but doesn't get sick? 6. What is black when you buy it, red when you use it, and gray when you throw it away? 7. You have a glass of milk and a glass of water. You have to put them in the same glass without them...
Liane H
No.1 an egg
No.7 drink one first then pour the the other one into that glass.
No.10 the wind
No.9 one side ( continous)
19-Nov-22

If for whatever reason, it became necessary for you to surrender your pet because you could no longer have it where you live or couldn't take care of it any more, what would you do with your pet animal?
Crazy Chef
I've been told that our cat might need upto 1500 dollars of dental work, which is rediculous, we can barely afford our own dental work, so I think when the time comes and he shows signs of pain, we will probably do the humain thing and have him put down.
18-Nov-22

We seem to have an aggressive funeral market that isn't making enough profit from people dying currently (how much money do they want?)...they are making you feel guilty for dying and saying that it is a burden for your family...pay in advance...and IF we ARE here when you die.... it is all covered...but now we have BPAY and all the other little companies scampering about trying to strip extra interest out late payments...in a totally unregulated market (the...
The dog house
It might be easier if you put the insurance you would pay in a separate account and watch it grow every year.
17-Nov-22

How do you see the inflation in the next 5 years? How will it affect you in the long run, and do you think things will ever get back to normal as they were before the pandemic?
Edith v
Most people will get by "BUT"they just have to forego some luxuries.Grow their own vegies (even in pots if no garden)don't eat out get the kids helping with home cooking.Go for walks & play (supervised) in the Parks & on Beaches.Collect shells & get kids painting .Show the kids how to manage money & budget .Have friends get together ,work out a menu & each take a "plate "Our parents survived "The Depression"& so will we .
15-Nov-22
It has been a year from hell for everyone, especially for the people in or from Ukraine and for the people who have suffered severe floods, cyclones, hurricanes, fires, and much more, Also, think of the people across USA who are having to put up with many massacres at schools and other locations every year because their governments are too afraid to change the gun laws. To these people and their loved ones, my heart and prayers go out to you all. We live in an...
Chosen
That's all gloom and doom. How about helping all those you can and look forward and not backward and have a Happy and a Rewarding Xmas.
14-Nov-22
I was riding the morning train from Town Hall to Martin Place earlier approximately before 7am. As I entered the carriage there were four men sitting on each corner of the seating area, two of those are reserved for disabled people as a priority. Both of these two seats were occupied by two rather big men one wearing "work labour clothes". Neither of them had the decency or courtesy to offer me or at least ask if I want to sit down. Am I special? No but I...
Hoop
Just sit on the most convenient seat. What's the problem here? Jeez. What do you expect from a tradie? It's Labor I think.
14-Nov-22
1. I have keys, but no locks. I have space, but no room. You can enter, but can't go outside. What am I? 2. A sundial has the fewest moving parts of any timepiece. Which has the most? 3. What five-letter word becomes shorter when you add two letters to it? 4. What disappears as soon as you say its name? 5. What belongs to you but everyone uses more than you do? 6. What is harder to catch the faster you run? 7. What can be swallowed, but can...
Tom S Qld
1. How can a man go eight days without sleep?
2. How can you drop a raw egg onto a concrete floor without cracking it?
3. What goes up and down, but remains in the same place?
4. What is your body's largest organ?
13-Nov-22
Answers on Tuesday. No points are allocated, this is just a quiz. 1. Before Mt. Everest was discovered, what was the highest mountain in the world? 2. If you were running a race and you passed the person in 2nd place, what place would you be in now? 3. A farmer has five haystacks in one field and four haystacks in another. How many haystacks would he have if he combined them all in one field? 4. What's special about the words polish, herb...
APB
1. mount everest...2 .2nd place....3. one...4. Glass (or plastic)
...and I didn't cheat by looking at all the answers from Kaz!
06-Nov-22

What would you spend it on? Would you save it or give it away? What would you most like to buy?
Grandma
After I came around after fainting I would just quietly bank it until my emotions settled down and then I would carefully sort out the best way of using it to benefit my loved ones.
13-Nov-22

If you grew up in a fairly cold and wet place....holidays involved going somewhere hot dry and sunny ... palm trees, beaches ... but living in a subtropical climate ... holidays involve the cold and snow ... somewhere DIFFERENT from what is usual, and that makes most of the planet an ideal tourist destination for someone. What do you think?
John Smith Very-Old
I'm dreaming of a white Christmas, just like the ones I used to know. Where the treetops glisten, and children listen, to hear sleigh bells in the snow, the snow ...
14-Nov-22

What addictions do you have? Do you think it is a good addiction or a bad one? What do you do to stop this addiction? My personal addiction is tea. I drink about 15-20 cups of black tea a day. I love it and nobody ever told me that it is bad for me, so I don't think it's a bad addiction.
Katzeye
Chocolate! My biggest weakness but so far this year I have not had any,it's my journey to start eating healthier and look after myself better so as I age I won't be suffering like my mother is.
15-Jan-21

Why are the Hospital Insurance Funds pricing us out of being able to afford the insurance? Is it deliberate, because as we get older, we need more medical care, or do they just not care about us older, loyal customers. We have been loyal members of our Hospital Insurance fund for over 50 years and are now paying over $400 per month on a pension. This to me is so wrong! When we become pensioners, our payments should be adjusted accordingly, especially for anyone...
Pongo
Save the money and invest it in a term deposit then if you need it it’s there for medical expenses if your not sick use it to have a holiday
08-Nov-22

Someone in Victoria said that she missed the last lockdown...the peace and quiet..the pollution...my wife was going to take me all over the world..to see all the things she missed in her youth...thats not happening now...I've had a chance to look around me...address what matters..take care of myself...pre-covid I was run down and aging...now I'm exercising..weights...stretching bending...I will extend my life by a great deal...I missed out on drinking a pint in...
Sandra H 2204 NSW
I have been working from home and loving it. Will continue to do this mostly when things get back to 'normal'. I actually like my own company and apart from buying food and essentials have not been too concerned about having to stay home. Definitely don't miss the 2 + hours of time on the train that was pre covid.
08-Oct-21

I do believe the technology era is making us part of it too. How will people feel in the future when machines replace essential jobs? And then not essentials, but as many as machines would cover. Can you imagine coming to school without a teacher? Can you imagine coming to a supermarket without the usual counter stuff or people who sort out all food on shelves? Can you imagine buses and trains without drivers? No doctors or nurses, no postman, no barrister or...
Lyn A.
There is a place for technology. Personally it has spread my "social life", Can chat with people I have met from other countries. Some people deserve to lose their job to machines, at least machine might be polite and actually try and help.Maybe a machine will not indoctrinate child to their own views as many teachers do.There are pros and cons. Guess maybe if/when a machine could show artificial emotion [as many people do] they may work in better
12-Nov-22

It just happened today, around midday. Waiting in a bus stop. Another woman was waiting as well, for the same bus. Exceptionally cold, windy day. The bus came in time - we waved, and the bus simply rushed by! Deliberately, without hesitation. The driver would have plenty of time and distance to stop. Shocking. I felt that we are invisible, two older ladies, for this bus driver. Not every driver is like this, drivers usually stop at the bus stop...their job is to...
blunder boy
are you sure it was his route ,was it the correct bus, my dad was a bus driver and he would take you to your door,that was 40 years ago ,but i know they are /were really good guys
11-Nov-22

What do you prefer for your pets? Store branded foods or food that have real ingredients that are healthily braised on each pet's needs?
Larry S 382961
My late boss had Afghan show dogs and he used to buy chuck steak in bulk and freeze it in 1 kg bags. He went to the butcher and was asked the usual chuck steak for the dogs. A woman near him was shocked and said. You feed chuck steak to dogs. He replied,doesn’t everyone.
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Lachelle B
You can't add videos but you can add links. To start a topic click on Forum boards, on the left column scroll down until you see 'New Forum Topic' and click. Then off you go.......
12-Nov-22

Recently I saw an article that a woman calls for "only adult flight" after she experienced a few hours flight with a screaming child. Well, it was a bit brave from her to say that. Yes, it's not fun when a child screams on a plane, but what parents actually can do? They never know how the child is gonna react, and sometimes it can be unavoidable to fight with a child. I do have small child on my own he is 4 y but never been on plane because I don't want to go thru any...
Crazy Chef
I have 4 kids and when they were under 5 Flying with them was extremely challenging, especially from New Zealand to Texas. I personally think rather than complaining about the kids..why not offer to help or invest in some decent ear plugs!!
16-Sep-22

Regardless if it was a paid job or volunteer work, what has been the most memorable job so far in your life, and what made it memorable? For me, I guess it would be volunteering at my children's Primary school. I was fortunate enough to be trained to teach children struggling to keep up with their fellow classmates the MULTILIT Program. Once a week I would take the children one at a time and give them a MULTILIT lesson. The speed at which they...
Jan K (Central Vic)
Riding for Disabled - its the best thing - esp those riders who are unable to go bushwalking...they just love the trail riding days. We also play games on horse back, giving them eye and hand coordination, strengthening their core muscles, and generally giving them something exciting to look forward to each week.
09-Nov-22
Has any long term [20 years or more] smoker used vapes/e-cigarettes to stop using tobacco? I have been smoking for 60 of my 70 years life, now the cost is getting prohibitive so am trying vapes, to some success but not totally.
Denise C (Qld)
Vapes just dont compare in my books. To cut the expense I buy duty free cigarettes which are approximately $10 cheaper. Your far better off if you can quit altogether but after trying most cessation products myself and having COPD I still havent managed to quit.
07-Nov-22

I became a caregiver 4 and a half years ago. I had to give up any chance of working. A caregiver is on call 24 hours a day. There are flexible hours, but I needed to be at home all the time. Especially in the beginning. If it wasn't for survey sights, I would have gone broke and crazy. Why don't governments help caregivers? What can be done to give them a living wage?
Pearlz
Some years ago I sprained my ankle, 2 weeks later I broke my knee, 2 weeks after that during a routine X-ray the doctor found my ankle was broken. My cast was getting bigger but just as I was starting to feel better renewed pain in my foot sent me for another X-ray and the other side of my ankle was broken. As I was very incapacitated my husband had to take time off work without pay and we felt it very unfair that we weren't entitled to any form of Government assistance. So no pay and loads of medical bills while other people manage to get heaps of assistance. All caregivers should get some sort of assistance.
06-Nov-22

If so, what did you see hear smell or feel that couldn't be explained by the five senses. What was your response? Did you share your experience with others?
Pearlz
I have never had a Paranormal experience but I do sense things. I will go to the letter box and know that a certain letter that was not expected is in it. I also know who people are despite never having met them or even seen them before. I used to know who was on the phone when it rang, now it tells me so I don't know if I can still tell who it is. My daughter and I would go shopping in different places but when we got home we would find we had been in the same stores but in different suburbs, and bought the same things. There are other weird things like knowing what people are going to say on TV or know the plot way ahead of time. I don't think it's supernatural or anything like that, I just put it down to being super attentive and noticing things other people don't.
03-Nov-22

There are a lot of different ideas when it comes to what age a child is old enough to have a pet of their own to care for and be responsible for the needs of the animal. What is your best guess as to when a child is old enough to take on that responsibility? All kids mature at different rates, so keep that in mind and if you have a personal situation in your family or a family you know of going through it, please share what's worked and what hasn't. The last thing a parent...
Christine M 323842
An animal joins the family. They are not toys to be left at the mercy of a child to learn how to look after. The child learns to take care of the animal by others in the family teaching him/her, leading by example.
The animal will bond with someone, and it may not ne the child.
If you are not animal lovers I would not suggest getting any pets at all.
30-Oct-22

Where might you go to have "alone" time if you really needed some time and space to yourself? A place that is special to you, or you find peace or is just a spot away from others......when you need to take a time-out and think or have a moment to yourself? What place or spot is that for you? I've heard some people say "their closet" and yet others like a cove on the beach by their home. How about you? I've locked myself in the bathroom to be alone and take time to think or let...
TERRIE K
I'm never alone because I suffer from manic depression, wherever I go my dog comes with me. Since my husband passed away I have suicidal thoughts but my dog Soxy, helps me through it.
05-Nov-22

My mother was living in a nursing home for 4 years but in all of that time my brother and his wife visited her only once and the rest of his family didn't visit at all. Neither did my mothers nephews or nieces. I visited weekly and even during the lockdowns I would stand outside and wave to her. I took my grandchildren as often as I could and some family friends also visited. My mother's funeral was last week, but my brother and his family didn't attend the funeral, but I...
Elizabeth A 807208
I must say I see this happen so often why turn up at your funeral when
you haven't seen them in years. I don't understand it - I would rather
see them for five minutes while I can enjoy their visit than they wait until
my funeral and I don't even know that they are there.
01-Nov-22

Recently I found something in my corn chips from Coles. It was large, thick and dark brown. I kept thinking, please do not let it be that. I have to return it to Coles and get a refund. Four weeks ago, I found metal in my mouth after eating Asian noodles. I still could not believe that might have been in it. I have not reported the noodles. Have you ever had something like this happen to you?
Paul J
I once had a bottle of bourbon that was subject to a recall because of glass fragments...I carefully strained 3/4s of it then took the remainder and exchanged it for a full bottle...I was very happy...
27-Oct-22

Many of us submit a topic for Daily Discussions, in hope of receiving the 1000 points added to our points balances. I'd like to know, what about submitting a topic for Daily Polls? Would anyone like to have this for an option? And, if so, how many points would you think it should be worth once it is approved by Rewardia's Staff?
BLM
I would prefer rewardia. com increase the amount of points and/or reward amounts for participating - right now - 2000 points equals $1 and you need 10,000 points to cashout!
14-Mar-21

Every time I check the balance of my retirement savings and kiwi-saver, they are heading south. I am over retirement age but still working, so find the current situation very distressing. Don't own a home and honestly wonder if I will ever be able to afford to retire. Considering closing my kiwi-saver and other retirement schemes and putting the money into a bank deposit account where it at least eRn something What are other people's thoughts?
Glenystas
After reading some of the comments below, makes me realise How lucky I am. We own our home, I have a Dept of Vet Affairs pension, Hubby is currently on jobseeker kind of payment but is experiencing ill health (nothing major). We don't drink or smoke, we enjoy a few hobbies: I love crafts like knitting (make some presents or sell items) we both like reading (library) He is into golf (Budget allows a regular game) He likes jigsaws... had so many and they didn't sell on marketplace so we have started up a jigsaw exchange at a local hall. I guess that retirement comes down to if you are self funded or if you can manage on pension, have a good budget and stick to it.
29-Oct-22
Prince Harrys memoir is being launched early next year. The title is Spare. Will you be buying or reading a copy? I'll be reading it, as I want to know what hes got to winge about. Its a royal reality show that keeps on giving.
Edward S 497347
Meagan Markle married into the British Royal family just to increase her popularity to promote her Hollywood acting career, with no intention of performing Royal duties as she always intended to return to acting.
She then set about brainwashing Prince Harry, to support her and to turn him against the Royal family in order to cause as much controversy as possible to keep the media's attention on her and Prince Harry.
To add to the controversy she brainwashed Prince Harry into leaving the Royal family after she deliberately caused problems within the Royal family.
Once she succeeded in that, in order to promote her career even further she and Prince Harry ( who was brainwashed by her ) began spreading lies about the Royal family to enable them to make many millions of dollars through interviews, book deals, and their own television shows and podcasts.
She, Meaghan Markle set out to gain more fame, riches, and a famous husband, then after brainwashing him she set about destroying the British Royal family to prevent them from taking Prince Harry away from her because if he divorced her, after a while, she would get much LESS media attention which would affect her career, fame, income, and lavish lifestyle.
Now no one needs to buy and read his book and the whole story is above
31-Oct-22

I bought my Samsung washing machine in 1993. It's still going strong, has some rusted panels and stopped spin drying about 10 years ago. Probably slipped or snapped the drive belt. I'm not worried. I live in Queensland, where the sun always shines, so I just hang my washing out to drip-dry. The other thing I learned is to use a laundry disinfectant, Canesten, Pine O Cleen or Dettol when you have an old machine. Works well. How is your washing machine...
blunder boy
have a Simpson twin tub that was a hand-me-down from my parents have no idea how old, gotta be older than me, still works a treat
26-Oct-22

Do you think this should be bought back? I think that if a school-leaver has not found a job within 6 - 12 months, then joining the defence forces would not be a bad thing. It would get these people off the dole, could train them in specific areas and as well as this, you can never have enough trained forces people to protect our country. I know many people would say that this takes people's freedom away, but in the long run I can see the benefits.
Warrior
Isn't it interesting that some narrow minded people think that solving the unemployed youth issue is as easy as throwing these kids into the armed forces.
Endemic societal issues cannot simply be solved by handing a kid a gun. The root cause needs to be addressed. That cause starts in the home the school the social group and the online barrage of garbage children face every day from the likes of online forums such as face book.
Do not use the armed forces who do a fantastic job of protecting our democratic freedoms as the channel to fix issues that need to be addressed by all.
The ADF does a great job encouraging people from all walks of life to serve and protect.
And to Bob F...below you say use diplomacy? Tell that to Putin and his mates in Iran North Korea and China.
We enjoys freedoms that so many others do not.
Our military forces need to be the best there is. They are there to protect and serve. God bless these people.
23-Oct-22

I think most people have a Hobby a Passion or topic that once you get started.... could just keep talking for hours. What's your thing or things? For me, it's Mercy Ships and similar other organisations, I just go on and on for ages. I'm sure it annoys people, but oh well.
APB
I complain a lot about how Rewardia continues to cut down on points all the time..and how it gets harder and harder to just get 50000 points...does that count?
25-Oct-22

With house prices continuing to rise, are units a reasonable alternative and are there any advantages?
diane c QLD
units have their down side, as no gardens for people loke me i like a garden. And a house you can please yourself ,myself i enjoy growing vegies and pottering around the garden.
28-Oct-22
Hey there fine Rewardian Geniuses..this is a dilemma for a close family member of mine who is very important to me. Their spouse has retired a year or so ago- made Redundant. They have continued to catchup and stay in touch with a Colleague since then. The Colleague is of opposite sex. They text and meet up for coffee etc. My family member feels threatened and uncomfortable- though the spouse says there's nothing going on- (of course). I'd like to hear people's...
Lachelle B
Hi Mary, I have a good male mate, I spend nights over there, he comes over here occasionally (he lives in the wop wops). 90% of my mates are male (less hassle lol). I don't hide my phone, say where I'm going and who with, etc. There needs to be proof, acting on suspicion can break a relationship with no substance to back it. Get your family member to meet the colleague, if the spouse has nothing to hide then no worries. My partner is fine with my friendship with my mate. It's called trust (insert happy emoji smiley face).
25-Oct-22
In the days leading up to this Federal budget, I heard the media stating that the Pensioners are one of the biggest groups to benefit the MOST from this budget. I thought oh yea get your facts right... Upon listening to the budget, the announcement was that pensioners would be able to work and earn more before losing part of their pension payments (precisely what I thought it would be ). This only benefits a very SMALL percentage of pensioners who actually...
Christina C 466456
I'm not retired and definitely do not believe elderly people are a burden. I feel similar to you about pensioners having paid there fair share of taxes. I also think that elderly people add a lot of value because they offer unique insight due to growing up in a different time. I've knoticed that Western cultures don't treat their elderly as nicely as Eastern cultures and this should change.
27-Oct-22

Have you ever been to a nude beach or the nudest colony? Is it something not acceptable to you, or do you find it to be natural?
Nan
In Tasmania an American came and saw a beautiful valley, bought it and arranged to have some cabins built. With a big privacy fence. He returned to open a nudist camp in May to find snow and freezing wind. He never opened his camp.
21-Oct-22

It s getting that way now if we need to see a doctor, and you have only just moved to a rural town, you have to go on a waiting list. Old doctors are retiring and generally not being replaced. We are on a waiting list of at least 300. And we have only been here for nine months! All the fines that the government manage to collect through their revenue raising schemes should be put towards the health/hospital system and if anything is left over, fix the bloody roads!
Thylas
It can be a nightmare to see a doctor in rural towns. And to make things worse, in our town the clinic insists that if you need to book an appointment, you need to ring up at a quarter to nine in the morning so they can slot you in. Any other time you ring up they simply brush you off and tell you to call at that specific time the next day. Trouble is, you try to ring at that time, and every man and his dog is also trying to ring through, and the line is so busy you can never get through. It's crazy. And now even pensioners are asked to pay a gap fee to see a doctor. There's no bulk billing anymore. As if everyone is not financially stretched enough at this time due to inflation!! I can see many people not bothering to see a doctor at all now when they really should be, and then getting really sick, perhaps even dying. Clearly $20 might not seem a big deal to politicians and to those running the clinic, but it's a lot of money to pensioners. And if you arrange a consultation via telephone the gap fee is even more - $27. How do they work that one out? I thought the whole point of tele-health appointments was to encourage people to take it up, especially with COVID over the last few years. But why do this when it's cheaper to physically see the doctor?
22-Oct-22

As you age, do you find yourself reminiscing on your earlier years? Do you look back with fondness or regret? Would you change some of your choices, or are you happy with your outcome? What would you do differently?
Michelle S 553303
I'm almost 58 and my dad is 83 years old. I was emailing him on Monday and I told him how sorry I was that it was a very difficult day for him. You see it would have been my brother's 56th birthday except that he died 3 years ago in a car crash. As it was just my mum, dad, brother and myself growing up it is now only my dad and I who survive today as my mother passed away nearly 20 years ago. He said to me "Michelle, every day is a memory day". I told him that I'm finally old enough to understand that each day you find yourself reflecting on memories from the good, the bad and the ugly things that you've experienced in life and I find myself starting to play the "what if" game! What if I hadn't gone out to the disco and met the man who would have become my husband and the father of my children when I was supposed to be staying at a friend's house and not going out at all or what if I had been content to stay at the house my family had been living in, paid that mortgage off and reduced my full-time work to part-time and stayed home more often with my kids, instead of insisting that we renovate the home that I had inherited 75% of which was really my dream to do and to honour the memory of the ladies who gave it to me, but ultimately led to my husband going off with another woman he met while I was at work doing night shifts as an RN and then led to me ultimately having to walk away from and go bankrupt. I could do this all day but the nights are the worst. I don't think when I was younger that I could perceive of me at 57, hardly able to walk, with very little money and without an ability to do the things I used to love, including my job, and existing in constant pain. THIS me was abstract like a Picasso and bore no resemblance to who I am today and I think that we all reach a point in our lives where we can reflect on the good, the bad and the ugly and some of us can find peace in that, but I look back on my life, on my kids and EVERYTHING else and I ABSOLUTELY wish, with ALL my heart, that I hadn't ever been born! Thanks for reading.
19-Oct-22
Points on this site for surveys can be exceedingly generous - I have seen surveys worth 1000 points which is great, however what is annoying there are some surveys that will give you a small portion like 5 points for trying the maximum for red surveys is 50 points if you don't meet the requirements. If people don't meet the requirements for that survey they should be at least compensated for a minimum of 10 points or 20 for taking the time. Members of the community...
Chosen
I think it generous of Rewardia allocating points even if you do not qualify. No other survey sites do this that I am aware of.
27-May-21

Aside from World Peace and Justice for All, (no, really, I do want that), I'd like a comfy pair of slippers/loafers, a good box of gooey chocolates and someone to help me tidy/arrange my house - so's I can keep it that way. Too much? Looking about me now, I think world peace would be easier to achieve, lol. We can only hope!
Dang Ling-bits.
Up all night! Be damned. The fat free loading bugger sneaks around peeping through bedroom windows to check on kids. He then breaks into houses to drink all the beer and snack on a few biscuits. I got arrested when I tried doing that type of thing. No one wanted me to come back the following year.
23-Dec-20

More jobs seem to be available to work from home. Is this a good thing or does working from home cut people off from everyday people to interact, and it's going to be a negative change. Is working from home better for mental health, or do we need to interact with people in person to stay mentally healthy?
JP
I have worked from home for over 5 years, At the beginning it was hard but once I got into a routine I found that from a productivity perspective I was much more productive. I was able to manage my increasing workloads and I have had no mental health issues as I still get to interact with colleagues via TEAMS and ZOOM. I appreciate that working from home is not for everyone but I think that COVID has brought home the possibility for employers and employees to work together to make sure that both benefit from the arrangements.
18-Oct-22
What is your opinion Flemington Racecourse building the flood wall back in 2007 to stop the flooding going into the racecourse knowing the Melbourne Cup Carnival is just around the corner.
Edward S 497347
What about the GREAT WALL OF ECHUCA ?
The levee built along one side of the river is going to redirect their share of the flood water to the hundreds of homes on the other side meaning their homes could possibly completely go underwater as we saw in parts of QLD and NSW earlier this year.
Thier council has had more than enough time to build a levee on BOTH sides of that river but chose NOT to protect the hundreds of homes on that other side.
This is therefore NEGLECT and ignorance by that council, therefore the residents of those hundreds of homes that are not being protected should be able to take "Class Action" against that council for costs of damages to their homes and personal property ( but of course, if they did that and won the court case the council will massively increase rates to cover the cost of the compensation payout
20-Oct-22
I've noticed that Rewardia have recently added lots of new games, which is Awesome!, What do you think of them?? do you play the new ones, or stick with what you know ??, and which ones do you find give you maximum points for your time and effort?
APB
none of the new ones work on my machine....after extensive research this seems to be my fault apparently...but I don't complain (much)
15-Oct-22

I don't know if it's universal, but where I'm living (Australia), it's getting harder and harder to buy a house young. Does anyone have any tips?
Bugalugs
Isn't the problem today that people want their McMansion, a huge house with 6 bedrooms, 7 bathrooms, 3 car - they must, of course, be BMWs, Mercedes 4WDs - Garages, the obligatory Pool, Top-of-the-range BBQ, A kitchen with the latest hi-tech, most expensive equipment, a den, an office, a rumpus room, a formal lounge or two. Yes, you can have all trhat straight away IF you win Lotto but you know that is in all probability not going to happen.
Our parents started Small and gradually over the years moved into, if not bigger, certainly better houses. Today's younger people want, no they Need, Instant Gratification, they think they are Entitled to it - despite not having the money to pay for it.
As we have seen in Australia, and reportedly overseas as well, there was a huge spike in the price of houses in recent years, Interest Rates were low, and Yes, Australia's Reserve Bank told us that they would remain low until at least 2024 which was wrong but it was inevitable they would start to go up sometime. Young people kept on borrowing huge amounts of money without giving a thought to the future. They wanted and "Must Have" everything. Interest Rates started to rise and have kept rising. House Prices are dropping, wages are remaining stagnant and now people are in trouble. Their houses are now worth less than what they owe the banks, eventually people won't be able to keep up the payments, the banks will foreclose and then what? People will start demanding that "The Government does something". I make no apology for writing this, but people have brought this on themselves. Greed and Self-Gratification are now the God Kings.
17-Oct-22

Recently as I scrolled through Instagram looking at my friend s holiday activities, it struck me that we all have different interests and hobbies. One family I know makes time to plan a family backpacking adventure every summer. Another one travels across the country to attend a sporting event together. Others love the beach, or watching musicals, playing board games or exploring their hometown together as a family. So there s no one perfect family activity your ideas for...
Gigi
Being together without contention and not having to be doing something special to have good, quality time with your family. It's the little things that matter most. Sure doing activities is great. But it isn't a prerequisite to quality time with family. Just be....and appreciate each other.
15-Oct-22

Recycle all your plastic bags to the supermarket, I even use potting mix bags, cut off top and bottom, & one side, put on the line and brush off dirt when dry. It is amazing how much you get in just one week, I dry frozen vegetable bags on the line too. Every little bit you can do will help our planet. I also wash eggshells & let dry then when I have lots I blend them finely and add to garden, excellent calcium which rots down slowly.
Pearlz
Goodness me. I don't have enough time to go to those lengths. I recycle as much as I can but some of the symbols are quite difficult to see. I wonder why there are so many. I feed the food the cats leave to the neighbourhood fox and birds and I compost all tea bags, egg shells and veggies peelings and garden waste so I feel I pretty well do my bit.
16-Oct-22
We are going through yet another tough time in our family-extremely serious. I am curious-what do you draw strength from when things are scary, bleak, or overwhelming? I myself am a Christian, and I do believe prayer helps, but I also keep my friends and family very close. Not trying to be controversial....it's on my mind right now. It's awful when you are having it come from more than one direction. That's it. Thanks and take care of yourselves.
Gigi
Well, Nancy, whatever is hittin you hard right now, I'm very sorry you are going through such turmoil. I'm Christian too and the only place real peace and coping comes from is our Father in Heaven and His Son, Jesus Christ. Christ knows your heart and situation because He knows you intimately and there is a reason behind what you're going through. You've got to keep praying and putting one foot in front of the other and cry and let your pain out that way if it helps. I'm going through incredibly tough times too, so I can empathize with you and feeling like you have nowhere to turn and that your burdens are too heavy. My husband is young and term ill. He's dying before my eyes, my sweet loving husband who is a wonderful man, which is hard to find these days... but that's beside the point. I just can't stand the thought of losing him soon and the wrenching my heart will go through. I have a severe debilitating disability myself and it's difficult to care for him when I'm having such a hard time. But it is a privilege to care for him and have the little time I do have left. Just remember that you are not alone. There are people in your life that I know must love and care about you immensely and don't want to see you suffer. Try to put good things, (books, movies, positive talk) into your head so you are feeding your soul positivity and not negativity. Stay close to your God. He's there, I know He is. I wish there was a magical answer to going through tough times, but really there isn't. I only know what I try to do to help myself through mine. I find that focusing on other people and doing acts of service for others always helps me to feel better and focus on others who are hurting too. I will remember your name and what you've written here and include you in my daily quiet time that I take to talk to my Heavenly Father. I don't know you, except what you wrote, but I assure you, your Heavenly Father sure does. I am your sister in life. Please know you are loved. Peace and clarity be yours.
12-Oct-22

I have recently become disabled with arthritis in my knees, back and most other spots. I walk with a walker and probably not far from being wheelchair bound. I am grossly overweight now I have found out that most places of business have sitting chairs with arm rests on them. So disabled people have problems sliding onto a chair with arms, let alone an obese disabled person. Sitting on a walker is not comfortable, and I think not meant to be for a long time. I have often...
mary c
I try to do a pre check of any place i am going with hubby. He drives a power chair-he only has minimal use of thumb and forefinger in left hand so has a joystick control. But boy does he plough his way through a shop and if something is in the way the chair will get through...he doesn't care if his presence is made known. I hate scenes so run ahead making way. Can be v stressful. Some shops are so cluttered and aisles tiny..it sucks and makes me so mad. Esp shops such as 2$ shops- where we would like to go since we no longer have money- but they are terrible for w/chairs and walkers etc. Have complained to Mall but they said it was the shop owners responsibility. Sigh. We don't have an issue with seats as hubby has his w/chair at least. And if a seat is in the way at a cafe table he will nudge it out of the way with his w/chair. Going out is quite nerve-wracking. We never go into our previously loved 2nd hand shops- too cramped and crowded- and he drove out once with a clothesrack accidentally attached to the back of his headrest..sounds funny now but not at the time. Also he rammed into a giftcard carousel on purpose after the shop owner (another 2$ shop) told him off for accidentally knocking something in the over crowded store. He backed up his chair like a bull and started driving towards it..i knew he couldn't be stopped and i hid around the corner.
14-Oct-22
What are green, there are lots of them, they won't give you anything and they keep coming back....
APB
Are you having a day off?
there was a bit of drama on the bongo page
...I didn't have anything to do with it...well not directly...but it was a lot of fun....and I got told off for joining in...as you can imagine..I am deeply shocked....what me?
12-Jun-22

Are we being prepared for contact with aliens? Just with the government's releasing footage of odd unknown aircraft and many sightings reported on the news, and no one is getting locked in the loony bin anymore if they say they had an encounter?
Jeneral
We've been conditioned for years. They're already here amongst us. You've only got to take a look at the WEF's Mr. Schwab, his snake sidekick and the likes of Zuckerberg to know this. We are only even told the truth when it's old news.
14-Oct-22

The weather seems to be getting much colder in Winter and hotter in Summer - Is this Climate Change or just that we feel it more in our bones etcetera as we get older?
Christina C 466456
Our bodies change a lot over the years so no doubt we will feel a lot different at varying ages. Our ability to repair, hormone differences, body composition and even the weather contributes to how we feel. So there's a lot of factors.
As for arthritis it is an 'inflammation' disease and we know that there are a lot of lifestyle changes we can make to improve and sometimes eliminate the issue. Firstly changing diet can have a dramatic effect for some people. Did you know that turmeric has such powerful antiinflammatory chemicals in it that it matches nonsteroidal anti inflammatory drugs? There are a number of other foods that reduce inflammation as well like foods rich in carotenoids/beta carotene or vitamin A - a powerful antioxidant. Vitamin E is also good not only for it's antiinflammatory properties but also due to its role in collagen production which we all know is important for joints. Good sources of vitamin A are sweet potatoes, carrots and leafy greens - basically all the bright, vibrant fruit and veggies. For vitamin E there nuts like almond but also cold pressed extra virgin olive oil is one of the best sources of vitamin E you can get. Also vitamin C is a powerful antioxidant and also crucial for collagen production. Another good food for joints is gelatin which is basically denatured collagen - have about 20 grams of gelatin powder (the regular/plain/unflavoured gelatine powder that you use to make cheesecake/jello etc that you find in the baking section at the supermarket) a day which should give adequate levels of glycine for good levels of collagen production. I prefer food source of gelatin over supplements industry products as the food industry has much more stricter quality control than the supplements industry which is not as heavily scrutinised, which is one reason why most registered dietitians recommend getting your vitamins/minerals from your diet over supplements.
Another important factor is body composition, particularly the type of fat that is in your body - white fat (stored fat) is highly inflammatory while brown fat (fuel) is antiinflammatory. So losing excess fat should be top priority for joint pain management. We can either exercise, diet or get cold/start shivering more (up to 13°C seems to be the magic number where your body starts using white fat as fuel to try and keep warm) to convert white fat to brown/metabolically active fat. So the cold is actually good for you in this case!
Another method to manage inflammation is intermittent fasting as fully fasting (zero calories) contributes to repair and antiinflammatory processes within the body.
Finally moving more/cardio and building muscle helps to support your joints by strengthening muscles and bones so that they can handle some of the load.
Hope this helps :)
21-Aug-22
An observation and a question.... I am on many survey sites and social media, and I find that the aggressive, acrimonious comments put me off a lot of forums and sites. Rewardia leaves me amazed-people are respectful to each other, can discuss different views and opinions, there is a lot of kindness and understanding. This is definitely a place I feel comfortable being fully involved in! The question being: what is it...
mary c
I think its the 24 hour happy hour policy- and if you don't really partake in liquor it can be a chocolate hour..
10-Oct-22
I learned to ride a motorbike at 51 (and boy, do I wish I'd done it sooner!) What, if anything, do you have on your bucket list?
blunder boy
I love to make people smile, try to do it once a day, I have had such a great life in reflection, I was a gnome kidnapper I always returned them with presents and photos, I learned to surf, I marched with 40-odd naked guys in tweed heads back in the 80s, had countless little adventures throughout my life but the greatest thing I have ever done is create a smile and as long as i can do that don't need a bucket list
10-Oct-22

Our house is packed of stuff we don't need. I am really thinking about downsizing the house and also stuff we collected over the years. My spare room is full of stuff we bought online for great price, and we never really used it. And that just made me think how many belongings we need for day by day living? How do you keep on the top of your stuff? What are your tips? What stuff should go?
Roses
So is my house … stuff from my daughter still here after she got married and moved out over 6 years ago … toys from grandchildren that they have grown out of … and oodles of other stuff that just seems to accumulate over time … I just haven’t got the energy to sort it out and get rid of it ??
12-Oct-22

I was looking at one of our wonderful retirement "resorts" (they are not called villages anymore...perhaps, so they can charge more...a resort sounds good too doesn't it?...oh I'm just retiring to a RESORT)...the entire place was coloured in shades of beige...EVERYTHING was beige...is this so that residents look around themselves and see everything in Sepia...and it looks like the old photos in their photo albums?...so they feel at home?....or is it that any hint...
Robert L NZ
Hi APB I live in a Ryman Retirement Village called Keith Park in Hobsonville in Auckland. We have a 3 bed apartment, two bathrooms, and a patio, total 112sq meters and we have two car parks. Our village will not be finished for at least another 12 months, We are ground floor for our two cats who also enjoy living here. There is nothing beige here, the building look bright and modern. Google us to see. We have so many activites Ryman have employed a full time person to organize them. We play bingo on Monday nights. Nothing depressing here it is all go go go. Nothing is too much bother for the staff they even water our patio garden when we are away. It is way better than some hotels we have stayed in. With their security there is little chance of a break in or your car being stolen. That gives you cheaper insurance, all in all its a WINWIN situation.
10-Oct-22

In this technological world, where machines are replacing by human power in each corner of life. We are surrounded by machines, and now restaurant owners want to replace staff to robot servers.
Christina C 466456
Yeah why not. A robot wont cough/breathe covid onto my food, pass on hepatitis or be rude.
In Japan they have these robot waiters which are remotely connected to customer service people - some of which have disabilities, so it gives them a job plus merges the human aspect of customer service into the android. I thought that was quite neat.
11-Oct-22

When it comes to music, what decade do you think the best music like bands or solo artists come from, *1950's , with Buddy Holly and the Crickets, Bill Haley and the Comets, Elvis Presley, *1960's, The Beatles, Cream , Led Zeppelin, Jimmie Henricks *1970's, The Eagles , ELO , KISS ,AC/DC Alice Cooper *1980's,, Robert Palmer, INXS , Motley Crue, Madonna 1990's.... 2000's.... 2010...
writerrochelle
I was born in 1947, and graduated high school in 1965, so I really loved the 60's the best! There were also the Kingston Trio, and the other Folk Music stars of that era! I Loved Folk Music, also Bob Dylan, Donovan, Mama's and Papa's, ABBA, just to name a few. Good Ole Days! ;-D
09-Oct-22

For me, it's getting into my cosy bed at night and hitting the laptop - YouTube and more so of late Rewardia!! E-book reading has taken a bit of a downturn
Pearlz
The best part of my day is after I have fed my cats, made the bed, had breakfast, done the dishes, swept the floor, dusted, done a couple of loads of washing and hung it out, ironed, either walked or used the treadmill, had lunch and cleaned up, pulled a few weeds, gone shopping if I need anything, fed the cats, prepared dinner, checked my emails, done the dishes, checked the bills, had supper then lights out. Then I may be able to go to bed without any cats, in which case I am able to sleep in any position I want. Tomorrow is another day.
01-Oct-22
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