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It's never too late to start, but you should focus on finding your purpose and life task that is relevant to a certain job. Perhaps you're really good with numbers and need to be an Accountant or Financial advisor. Or you have a lot of empathy and love helping people, and perhaps should become a Therapist. What would your advice? Is it OK to start life at 40?
keimanzero
No, I restarted life at age 35 and now I am 75 years young and have been forced in 2008 at age 59 into an early retirement. I do online surveys to augment my stipends of SS and pension each month (Less than $1700 of which rent is $700).
01-Jan-25
2025 is one of those rare years that is mathematically special in a number of ways. 2025 = 45 x 45 2025 = (20 + 25) x (20 + 25) 2025 = (1+2+3+4+5+6+7+8+9) x (1+2+3+4+5+6+7+8+9) 2025 = (1 x 1 x 1) + (2 x 2 x 2) + (3 x 3 x 3) + (4 x 4 x 4) + (5 x 5 x 5) + (6 x 6 x 6) + (7 x 7 x 7) + (8 x 8 x 8) + (9 x 9 x 9) More complicated mathematical reasons...
APB
I've got nothing to add to that...
03-Jan-25

What are your plans for 2025? I try not to make resolutions as they never stick... 2025 for us is going to be all about getting back to basics, decluttering and minimising how much "stuff" we have around us and what comes into the house ... With the cost of living these days going up and up, we need to find better ways to deal with what we have and use each week. Cooking more at home, buying less stuff and making more space in our lives for each...
Secret Squirrel
I suppose I got a bit of a head start on everybody else. Earlier this month I moved interstate back to sunny Victoria( well sometimes it is). I left a d.v relationship with basically my clothes and my youngest son and his things to be with family. So decluttering DONE. Now just focusing on my health mental and physical as well as slowly saving to replace all I left behind. Pretty proud of myself at this point as I thought previously the only way I would get out was in a wooden box. I look forward to a better year than many more previous ones.i know for sure it can't possibly be worse. For the first time in quite I while I love my life. Hope everyone else out there has a reason to smile this coming New Year and sees us all better off than the last.
30-Dec-24

When does everyone take their decorations down after Christmas?... Mine are usually packed away on the 1st January
Maria B 89860
European Tradition used to be to take them down after the 6th January when the "Blessing of the Waters" are performed .. still stick to that but prolong it a bit as they are so pretty and brighten up the place! Yes, maybe I am just a big kid at heart!
03-Jan-25

Can anybody quote some of Murphy's laws and rules. Such as, Never argument with an idiot as people may not be able to tell who is the idiot. The golden rule, he who has the gold make the rules. And there are many more that I can t think of right now.
Andrew C 287196
The most famous Murphy's Law is (as others have said below): "Anything that can go wrong, will go wrong" or similar wording.
But there are quite a few other "Murphy's Laws" as well, although whether or not they were all actually said by Edward A. Murphy Jr. or just other people making up their own, is unknown. There's a long list at https://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fgandon/miscellaneous/murphy/
02-Jan-25

It'll be interesting and fun to see what your answers are. For me, it is the mobile phone. At home or out and about, look around you. I rest my case ...
writerrochelle
Everything that does our thinking for us, including calculators, and that's quite a long list. When we quit using our God given brains, and let machines do our thinking and creating for us, we're dehumanizing ourselves. You may agree to disagree, but please be kind. I was born in 1947, before technology. I love living simply, and using my own brain! ;-D
06-Dec-24
My favorite TV series is 'The Night Stalker' (1974 - 1975). My second favorite TV series is 'The Prisoner' (1967 - 1968). My third favorite TV series is 'The Avengers' starring Honor Blackman (1961 - 1964) - she left the series after the third season. The TV series 'The Avengers' ran from 1961 - 1969!
PatCat
My whole family were fans of the "Vera" series. I've seen some of them again recently and found them much more "real" than any of the new cop series. Seems just like what has happened to the ABC. They take away more and more of their funding and they can't afford good writers and actors to play them. My brother-in-law still chortles over " Fawlty Towers", and "Life of Brian" endlessly.
28-Dec-24

Working too hard - it s true, we all seem to be chasing something. More money, higher status, the plush corner office, you name it. I see so many people trading countless hours of their lives to buy stuff they don t want to impress people they really don t like. End this madness. Invest in yourself. Take a break. Go on a vacation. Life is too short! What would you say? What are some bad habits people develop in their 30s?
Rosemary E 383382
For some it is buying everything on credit card, getting into heavy debt instead of saving for the items first as I was taught to do. To me doing that was a reward to myself. I have never had a Credit Card
02-Dec-24

To become mentally and emotionally strong, just set small goals, practice mindfulness, develop a growth mindset, surround yourself with supportive people, embrace discomfort, prioritise self-care, and regularly reflect on your progress. What is your advice? How do I become mentally strong?
writerrochelle
Read God's word the Bible daily, meditate on what it says, follow it's instructions, pray and always be humble and kind! ;-D
26-Dec-24

Playing old music to dementia patients seems to bring them "back" to be massively helpful.... I have a fairly large collection of CDs... I put one on, and I am transported to when I was 19....or 24...and everything else about being there ALSO comes rushing back too...people...names...masses of stuff it can be really emotional too....not to sure if our current youth will have this resource...maybe a video rather than real experiences connected to each song...mixes and...
BLM
Last Night, a DJ saved My life is a song (a very popular song released by an American Musical Group - called Indeed in the dying years of Disco in the USA) - sold over 1,000,000 copies on 45 formats. I use music to link 'pleasant memories' in my mind - the safest place to hold fond memories that are near and dear too ME - in MY MIND - because I CAN visit my fond memories in my mind at any time (day or night).
28-Dec-24

I love making things for people at Christmas. I spend a lot of time and sometimes money doing the right thing for the right person. Some people don't like getting homemade things as they think they are cheap. Sometimes it costs more to make something than buy it. Which do you prefer?
Pongo
I think Christmas has become too comercialised it a religious Celebration
PLease try to keep it that way or the meaning will be lost
25-Dec-24

Hi I would like to discuss climate change, I am really sorry for bringing up this topic, I realise everybody is sick of all the news about this problem, but if man does not get it together in this lifetime recycle, garbage in our oceans, littering, cutting down our beautiful forests just to built luxury homes, protect our waterways for our water fowl, just think about what we are leaving the next generation GOOD LUCK with that.
Len G
I believe climate change us being blown out of proportion. Yes there are some issues tha definitely need to be addressed but it's not the gloom and doom certain people are saying. Look at the Al Gores yhe John Kerry's and the Leonardo De Caprios. They go around in their private jet's burning mor fossil fuels the u can imagine.period.
31-May-24

I'm hoping this is allowed as a discussion because I think it will be fun. Let's create a story. I'll start with a sentence, then the next person adds a sentence, and so on. It will be fun to see what we come up with. The rule is to try to keep it to one sentence, however, you can go back and add another sentence later, but please don't add one sentence right after the other, wait until someone else adds a sentence. Here is the start of our story: I was awoken by a...
Liane H
I've really got to cut the whiskey down in his eggnog next year she thought as she flurried along picking up scattered packages ...
27-Dec-24

In our family, every year we would give the same presents. My Dad would wrap up a potato in lots of newspaper and put it under the tree, one for me and one for my brother. He then did this for my daughters as well. We always had one fun gift, One daughter always got a coffee mug, she has quite a collection now. The other always got funny underpants. I would search all year for both. My husband still gets a cigar (his one a year) and I get good chocolates. ...
MIKE 1
WHAT I DO NOT UNDERSTAND ABOUT CHRISTMAS WHEN SOME PEOPLE HAVE TO HAVE A TREE THAT HAS BEEN CUT DOWN.EVERY TIME I HEAR WELL MOST OG THE TIME GROUPS OF PEOPLE GO OUT TO PLANT TREES TO HELP CLIMATE CHANGE SO WHY NOT BUY A TREE THAT CAN BE USED FOR YEARS
22-Dec-24

As Christmas nears, it is a time to reflect on your life over the past year. Good & bad decisions made & your hopes and dreams for 2025. I enjoy reading my new year horoscope, do you? What are your dreams for 2025? Good health, wealth & happiness would be ideal.
BLM
What is my dream (no need to be greedy) - for 2025 - to be ABOVE ground (let the 'good times' continue to roll) - ROFL!
24-Dec-24
I've had tradesmen using a drone to film and survey my roof top. What else have you guys seen to do with drones?
Grommie
Wars. Kill the other bloke but not your troops. But taking a line of fish hooks past the surf is a nice peacetime use.
22-Dec-24

Try again when a child pushes you away, be patient. Wait a bit and try again. It is important that children know that they are worth pursuing. Talk Keep conversation open, children don't always know why they are doing the things they are doing, they need your support to understand themselves better. What are your thoughts? What to do when your child pushes you away?
Jania S
The AI need to learn to speak English. A little grammar would be great, But a stupid question no information and loads of rhetoric... Try rewording
12-Dec-24

I am an only girl in a family with four brothers. My mother lived to be 88 years old and had dementia. I moved her in with me and cared for her for the last three years of her life. Only one of my brothers came to see her, the others didn't even call to check on her. Mom was a good mother and took good care of us growing up. We had an alcoholic father who cared more about his liquor than about us, but Mom made up for it by giving more of herself. I know of other families...
BLM
Gender is not the issue, more like family dynamics is the issue combined with the stereotyping of males. Furthermore, your sample size is too small to draw valid conclusions on gender. In addition, under the scenario you described you can draw invalid generalizations about males. Which has led to the 'myth' of girls (women) are more responsible than boys (men)...hm - even in these politically correct times - males are winning custody of their child or children from their ex-wives - for the first time - in the history of democracies!
21-Dec-24

I just did a survey where they clearly expected you to be paying monthly fees for a whole range of services. From the software you use...for all the music you listen to...to all you watch TV or your movies....leasing cars is another big contender too even for your food...REALLY! It's been gently gradual, and met no resistance so far. Easy money ... it's a perfect Corporate Future ... we are always in their debt, and we own nothing. THAT'S why they are...
Liberti_Jones
It is what the new world order wants but they are unrealistic in that many people are on low incomes and are not going to be able to afford their fees. There will be push back and there will be refusal and making do and doing without. Some of us lived without cellphones, and computers for several decades and we can do it again. We have skills and knowledge that will help us get by. People in the city and burbs will be more controlled but a lot of rural areas are left and people are not going to move willing into the city or suburbs. We will survive There has actually been resistance in some regions and areas around the globe. People can live without a lot of things they think they need but they are just wants not needs however if they don't have the skills, knowledge and wisdom they will not do so well. We will have a cashless society soon and the NWO will implement compliance or we cannot buy or sell. But there is barter and trade. Many people will not survive and die. Some from famine /starvation, some from diseases and sickness, some will be enslaved, some murdered. Some from floods, and hurricanes and bad weather or fires. NWO wants 15-30 minute cities as well. We might not have electricity to play movies or music. Better buy books, games, cards, and musical instrumants that can be utilized for entertainment. Learn to can, dry and preserve what food you can and to gather food as well. I know and have those skills and knowledge as do my adult children and some of my grandchildren as well. Do you know edible wild food and what is poison or not. Yes mushrooms, berries, catkins, and how to fix them. Wild game as well is another thing to trap or use other means for food, having a water source that is year around is also imperative. Do you know how to make food from scratch? Beans and Legumes and Rice and Oatmeal and Cornmeal or something you will need and flour, honey, sugar, salt, spices, Canned foods of various type and dried goods. Peanut butter and canned milk, powdered milk. Pastas are all important. The only perfection is for the elite wealthy everyone else will be their servants this has been desired for a couple centuries to get back to Lords, Ladies, Kings, Queens, Royalty and serfs and peon's. If you refuse they will consider you a criminal and you better know how to survive. They will leave some alone to the elements thinking they will die but not everyone will there will be survivors. The so called future the powers that be desire will not last they have never lasted. They will be overthrown an conquered as well. If you have no faith or belief you will comply if you have a faith you will survive and will not comply. It is not paranoia it is being prepared and ready for anything.
19-Dec-24

In your dreams, whose home would you love to be invited to for Christmas. I have been tuning in of late for a bit of inspiration. After watching Nigella Lawson Christmas shows, she goes to the bottom of the list. Being prediabetic, she would tip me over the edge with the first mouthful. I wouldn't mind being invited to share a meal cooked by Gordon Ramsay or Jamie Oliver. Merry Christmas to all.
Andrew C 287196
The only reason to visit Gordon Ramsay would be to wash his mouth out with a ton of soap!! The guy shouldn't even be allowed on TV constantly swearing. \ud83d\ude20
20-Dec-24

I know I will get a lot of negative feedback for this and if someone is alone, I can understand them treating their pup like it is their child, but dog clothes are expensive and unnecessary. That money could be put to much better uses, like feeding hungry children.
Sylvia Y
I think it is dreadful to do this to intelligent animals be they dogs or cats and it should be treated as animal cruelty
17-Dec-24

It's that time of year again - just need to keep breathing ... - but seriously, what are you all making for the Big Day? Will it be lunch or dinner, or, (the one I'm considering), the full day meal. This is just, basically, food on the table and people help themselves whenever to whatever is there. I'm kinda planning on roast chicken with roast potatoes and veggies, then salads galore (ie rice, tabbouli, pasta, garden, Asian slaw, coleslaw), bread slices for DYI...
BLM
The Big Day is JUST another day (when it comes to food) 'for me' (not into celebrating ANY religious holidays - which is the norm 'for me' - LOL)!
15-Dec-24

Parental/carer mental ill health can, in some circumstances, lead to an inability to look after the child's physical and emotional wellbeing. This is often for a short temporary period, however for some individuals it can be more prolonged. What is your experience? How does a parent's poor mental health affect a child?
Bugalugs
Of course it does. it can lead to neglect, wsexual, physical and mental abuse. Of course things like alcohol and drugs don't help do they? We have an increasing problem in which children, some as young as 9 years old, are roaming the streets late at night committing crimes, being arrested and then the bleeding hearts come out and accuse the Police and all but those responsible for the problem!
The Police and othes are so scared of being accused of racism that they dare not ask the Most Important Question of All.
Where are the Parents whilst their children are running amok?
I'll tell you where they are. They are at home blind drunk or drugged, both are mental health issues.
16-Dec-24

We drink it. We bath in it. We wash our clothes with it! The UNITED NATIONS says, by 2050, around 5 Billion people could face water shortages. Everyday in rich countries like Australia, we take water too much for granted. In times of drought we probably appreciate water more, when there is less rain. How do you think your nation would cope if you had to drastically cut back on water consumption?
Bugalugs
It is easy to not use water if you just think a bit. Yes, the makers of automatic dishwashers try to convince you that they use less water than Hand washing but then they would wouldn't they? They are trying to sell them. Do you really need to Pre-Rinse dishes before putting them into that Water and Energy sapping machine? Do you Really need to have your dishes sterilised? Do you really need to have them heated to boiling point to dry them? The answer is: NO. We wash our dishes ONCE a day, by hand and we use, at most 8 litres of water and enough Energy to have the Water at about 45C.
01-Aug-21
Should there be a limit on how many questions can be asked for qualification? I just tried a survey and qualification took about 8 minutes and about 40 questions only to be screened out. This is way too much. What are yout views on this.
Secret Squirrel
I agree. Surely your demographic, age and sex would be enough. More than that and I assume that I am being screened out because my opinions conflict with the answers THEY want,which defeats the purpose of quantities social research and not a true indication of public opinion. Just saying...and i always give true,concise answers so shouldn't be screened out for making silly remarks that aren't relevant to topic.
13-Dec-24

What is up with people whose In Charge of rating movies, because there are a lot of movies out there, I've watched and think they're the wrong rating like for instance the original little orphan Annie. That movie I think should be rated R because ms Hanagan is drunk and also wanted to hire bad people to go and get her and one wanted to kill her. Also, what is up with movies that are a new version of the previous movie which the second and or more seems like not as...
BLM
Ageism, anti-social behavior, sexism, racism, (intolerant) religious viewpoints, vulgarity (in public), etc.; all started before the moviemaking industry got a toehold in 'western civilization'. Yet, your solution to the 'ills of western civilization' is to RATE movies harsher. I 'always' thought it was the job (responsibility) of the parent(s) to install morals, principles, scruples, and values in their children (silly me) - 'NOT' THE MOVIEMAKING INDUSTRY!
14-Dec-24

United Nation should involve in imposing laws or make amendment to existing laws to look after endangered species of wildlife both on land and in the sea. People from all over the world are killing these endangered animals just to make money. But on the other end these species are vanishing in an alarming rate, which means not long they won't be around for our next generation to see. Therefore, I suggest United Nation should discuss this issue and address it appropriately...
teresa b 607654
United Nations? Who's listening to them on a multitude of issues? It's up to individual countries to protect their own.
11-Dec-24

Does having snow at Christmas make it more like Christmas for you, or does it really matter? I am from the Caribbean and enjoyed the warmth at Christmas. I moved to Canada over 40 years ago, now I cannot see Christmases without snow. My children enjoy tobogganing which, in turn, I enjoy. Hiking in the snow is also a lot of fun. Do you enjoy Christmas with or without snow?
BLM
"Does having snow at Christmas make it more like Christmas, or does it matter. Do you enjoy enjoy Christmas with or without snow." Not into snow (cold weather) - moved to Southern Sunny California over forty years ago. Furthermore, I am an atheist - not into Christmas or any Christian religious celebrations. FYI: The LAST TIME anyone in my family celebrate Christmas or any Christian religious celebrations - my ancestors were slaves in a supposedly a 'CHRISTIAN NATION'!!!
13-Dec-24

What is your favourite Christmas Carol/Song and why? Mine is Jingle Bell Rock because it's a reasonably modern song with a happy sound to it.
Edith v
Silent night!! .I was a kid in England & with a couple of friends we wood go door to door & sing at the door & they often gave us a penny or two .I would use mine to buy Mum a pretty Hankie
10-Dec-24

Are high profile actors today paid too much money for their profession when the current cost of living is so expensive for the average population. Would you consider paying $25+ for a cinema ticket to go and watch an actor who has been paid $20 000 000?
GeeDee
Cost of living is totally irrelevant to what actors are paid. Only idiots pay 25 to go to see a movie, there's plenty of cheaper options
01-Dec-24

What are your thoughts on fireworks? I see many petitions on social media to push the ban on fire works for the safety and well-being of animals/pets.
Linda 1473555
Been banned in Western Australia for decades. A lot of human eyesight injuries, etc., been avoided. Not to mention accident fires.
15-Nov-24

I have always said crooks are really dumb. To prove my point, people shoplift and them brag about it on social media. They also break the law in other ways and either brag to their friends and get turned in or involve people in the crime who can't keep their mouths shut. Crime doesn't pay any way you look at it because if someone does get away with it for a while they won't stop when they have enough because they will never have enough.
BLM
The Banking Scandal of 2008 proved how smart criminals are - especially WHITE-COLLAR-CRIMINALS. WHITE-COLLAR-CRIMINALS 'ripped' the world off for trillions of dollars - and 'none' of the money was recovered. However, every government on this planet had to payout trillions of dollars to stabilize CAPITIALISM - or CAPITIALISM will have collapse. Furthermore, in the late 19th century - ROBBER BARONS' stole and looted a country in broad daylight for decades - it is known as USA these days, and ROBBER BARONS are known as OLD MONEY these days. History has proved on numerous occasions that WHITE-COLLAR-CRIMINALS - always get away with the money and NEVER get CAUGHT! Other words - crime pays very WELL - lol!
09-Dec-24

Yesterday, there were 4 deer here, would have been so easy to get, however, an elder friend of ours came today, don't see any deer anywhere today. The four yesterday were not afraid at all, they ate here all day, but today the guy is here, and we have not seen a deer all day. Are the deer intelligent or what?
BLM
Hi Debra D 624780. Should there 'still' be a deer hunting season...NO. Unfortunately, human beings have not evolved from our hunter-gather past as deer hunting season is unnecessary and inhuman at this point in humans' fight for survival on this planet. However, I have a bias viewpoint. I am 95% to 99% of the time (when it comes to food) - a VEGAN!
08-Dec-24

Children growing up in wealthy families may seem to have it all, but having it all may come at a high cost. Wealthier children tend to be more distressed than lower-income kids, and are at high risk for anxiety, depression, substance abuse, eating disorders, cheating, and stealing. What are your thoughts? How does money affect personality?
DAphne 1604241
I'm surprised to hear this. The kids I knew from a higher income bracket seemed more confident than many others.
07-Dec-24

From barking dogs to bizarre behaviour, we've all had our fair share of neighbourly annoyances. Share your most outrageous neighbour stories. What's the wildest thing you've seen or experienced?
BLM
I am the problem neighbor in my neighborhood - I play my music to LOUD only on FEDERAL HOLIDAYS - lol!
04-Nov-24

Has anyone noticed that the weather outside is colder than usual for this time of year, especially here in California where I live? It feels like I m living in Wisconsin, where it s not sunny most of the time. Even when the sun comes out, it s not hot. Winters in Wisconsin often reach 50 below zero, and the weather can change dramatically it might rain, then shine, and then snow, which is quite strange. Also, I really dislike group homes and their regulations....
Nel
Hello Lisa thank you for the Californian weather perspective. In Melbourne the weather is similar, it's colder and hotter during this time of the year, than the past few years. Climate change and its effects are quite obvious. Regarding your plight of living with house mates is a bit daunting, but what can you do? When you cannot afford a home by yourself, some sacrifices have to be made. I pass a positive compliment to you. If you are the one who is appearing in the photo, you look quite young and smart, why not try a career advancement to buy your own place? Just a suggestion! This is what I did when I was young: work harder to climb the ladder to achieve career development. It was hard but, it solved a lot of life problems. Good Luck! \ud83d\ude00
03-Dec-24
I don't usually write or post stories on social media as I am fairly skeptical about them. On this occasion I feel compelled that I should because I am sure I am not alone in this type of experience. If anyone out there has please feel free to leave a comment or reply. As I was sitting in a well know mall or shopping centre in the city area I was approached by a young male who mentioned the name Elon Musk whom I have heard and read a little about. No doubt he is a wealthy man...
allinyourhead
not sure, i fell asleep about half way through it, y'all let me know if was something important,,,\ud83d\ude36\u200d\ud83c\udf2b\ufe0f
27-May-24

When is it time for an elderly person to be in aged care? Should it be up to the person themselves, or should their children help them decide? My Dad lives on his own and is happy, but he has recently had a fall, and I am not sure if I am happy about him being alone. What do you think?
BLM
I was never close to my parents or my immediate family on my father side or my mother side. I went on to become a runaway when I was a teen-ager - and never saw my parents or immediate family EVER again! Anyway, a very bad warning health sign is you stated your father recently fell - you need to schedule an appointment with a geriatrician and neurologist ASAP. After the health data comes back from both medical doctors - you and father need to have a heart-to-heart talk about his living on his OWN and any adjustments NEEDED for him to continue to live on his OWN! FYI: I turned 79 - yesterday - I see a geriatrician and neurologist - once a year - to make annual adjustments pertaining to the status of my health - so I can continue to live on my OWN!
30-Nov-24

What about stepchildren who break up families with their selfishness and lies. I have had enough of that, especially with my husband's spoiled grown daughter who is almost 40 and still expects daddy to pay her way. She manipulates him and makes him feel guilty so he will give her money, even though she can afford to drink and smoke cigarettes and eat out all the time.
Bugalugs
Maybe you should have thought about that before you married him. His daughter won't have suddenly become as you claim she is. What about people who set out break up families with THEIR Greed, YHEIR Lies, THEIR Selfishness? How many families have THEY Destroyed as a direct result of THEIR actions?
04-Dec-24

For 80% of people, happiness continues to rise with income past $75,000. But for an unhappy minority, those individuals' unhappiness diminishes as they make more money but only up to about $100,000 (about the same as $75,000 adjusted for inflation). How is it with you? How much money would make you happy right now?
Tipps
no amount of money can make me happy . Money is the root of all evil. Yes I am one of those people who are struggling to put food on the table for my family. When I see them happy then that will make me the happiest man on earth
29-Nov-24

I don't know what happened to manners and being well-behaved in public. When I hear young people throwing around the f-word, I am annoyed and insulted. I was taught to respect people around me and not just talk like I was raised in a ghetto. Shouldn't people be more respectful of those around them in public?
BLM
How someone verbally express themselves doesn't imply that 'they' were raised in a ghetto (GHETTO is Jewish word, and you are DELIBERATELY misinterpreting the use of the word GHETTO). Furthermore, I have heard the f-word used most often by WASP (White Anglo Saxon Protestant) on my federal government job as a secretary for over fifth teen years before I retired! WHAT IS YOUR POINT....are you advocating for the elimination of FREE SPEECH...
28-Nov-24

Regarding the elderly people, should they have a donated time slot to do their shopping? In me opinion definitely no, but I can t believe the polls are asking normal people in a survey to separate the elderly, because they are slow and very talkative, which slows everyone else through the isles and checkouts. To me, this is really discrimination for them. This people need to be treated with respect at all times. We all will be in this position one day. How would you feel if...
BLM
Equality has NEVER existed on this planet - you will FACE some form of discrimination (ageism, racism, sexism, sexual orientation, religious beliefs, lack of religious beliefs, social economic status, etc.) - before you DIE on this planet!
26-Nov-24
Just curious how many people buy regularly from temu and shein.? I myself have purchaes over 100 orders just from temu alone... so very curious
Chosen
..... and I have tried and tried to get rid of their stupid invasive adverts popping up ALL the time on and over my screen trying to flog off their low cost junk to me. The more they do it the less likely I am ever going to spend 1 cent with them. The old story and saying is - You get what you pay for.
27-Nov-24
"Pluggers" are defined as rural, blue-collar workers who live a typical working-class lifestyle, accompanied by a mentality characteristic of the G.I. and Baby Boomer generations. If you think you are a "Plugger", what is it that you do, that makes you think you qualify?
Gigi
You know Aussies and Americans have very different ways of saying things. Constantly am I confronted with a word I'd have no way of knowing in which context you are using it in......like Plugger. Lol
25-Nov-24

During the Great Depression, the American government commissioned large-scale artworks to support both artists and construction workers. These artworks enhanced the value of public buildings and beautified cities. Do you think this is still a worthwhile use of taxpayer funds?
BLM
NO! It was a bad idea during the GREAT DEPRESSION, and it is a worst idea during these ongoing tough economic times - because the money should be spent on feeding kids!!
24-Nov-24
I do it makes me feel what do you guys think?
Andy B 2142638
ANOTHER EXAMPLE OF SOMEONE BOTHERING TO START A DISCUSSION PAGE, BUT NOT BOTHERING TO WRITE A COHERENT SENTENCE. BETTER EFFORT NEXT TIME LORRY... I HOPE YOU THINK MORE WHEN WRITING THOSE CARDS!
27-Nov-24

My trust in Dr's is going down. Do you trust them? Lately they just seem to push unnecessary medication/pills when in reality all I had to do was take up exercise and change my diet
BLM
All doctors are not created equal. I see a General Practitioner (GP). I completely trust my General Practitioner. When a health issue that is not part of her in-depth area of medical expertise - she will immediately refer me too the appropriate MD (example: Heart and blood vessels concerns - she will refer me to a Cardiologist - which she has done). Furthermore, she has been my GP for 26 years and counting!
25-Nov-24

Did you ever give or receive a compliment and realise it's also an insult? What are some you've heard? Why can't we just give each other a compliment without ruining it. Here are a few common ones: You look good for your age. You're just my type, I prefer someone with meat on their bones. You're pretty smart for a woman. You're a good cook for a man. Or perhaps these are insults that can also be compliments! How do you respond? Do you just take it as a...
Susan KTC
I\u2019m of the opinion now at my stage of life where I only respond to what I feel is fair and good for me, otherwise I just don\u2019t respond, as noted filter! And also important to have a sense of humour, don\u2019t take life to seriously\u2026
06-May-24
I always try to hold the door open if someone is coming in when I am going out. I think it makes the other person feel good. I know I always say thank you and then I hold the door open for them. Today I was at an event and I had been talking to this nice women and I opened the door for her and I know that she liked it and then we went through another door and she waited for me to open tat door as w ewere having a conversation while we were going in and then we sat...
Holly Cat
If she says thank you while you're holding the door and you don't like her voice, do you let the door go on her?
17-Nov-24

The report reveal that Gen Z (aged 15-24) are unhappy. Young people these days are the most discontent, with many experiencing 'midlife crises'. What is your experience? What is the most unhappiest generation?
writerrochelle
This one, for sure! They don't know what 'play' is anymore, just iPhone games! They are probably the least happy and healthy generation we've ever had in history! They went through COVID-19, and isolation, they are bullied and body shamed on Social Media! My God, please save them from themselves! \ud83d\ude2d
21-Nov-24

We just learned today of total lies being told about my husband, who is extremely ill. People having to do with our mail, said he was laying down in front of the mailbox, and they are making fun of him AFTER they took away our medical mail delivery to our home. They did this after the doctors filled out new medical papers saying we should still continue with our medical delivered mail. My husband has had three strokes. It is obvious the mail people here do not...
Susan KTC
This seems like a horrible dilemma, having been an aged care nurse and community co ordinator in NZ, their are health services available, ie age concern, district health services, be pro active yourself or reach out for support through your GP, all the best. You don\u2019t mention family!
23-Nov-24
Do you think it's deliberate when they time you out of surveys once you have answered all the questions? That way they don't have go give you points. I've completed many and then they say I don't qualify of timed out and when you question where the points are, only to be told it's a 3rd party so we can't confirm you completed the survey
APB
Some of these are carried out on behalf of Universities...who paid for them...they would be horrified if they knew they too are being ripped off by some cowboy survey company
...
19-Nov-24

We mostly look back at the past as somewhere better ... "Ah if I could only go back and live in those times again"... but your mind plays tricks. When I was six, every day was warm and sunny, we had two days of snow a year, but it never rained at all....if you remember the 1970s...do you remember going into a pub or onto a bus and the cigarette smoke being so thick it stung your eyes...and you couldn't see much? I bet you don't....and we all change too...you would...
Marietta M
I prefer to think of a time where all the good stuff from the past combines with all the good stuff from the present, and there's reincarnation so I'll get a chance to live there. As corny as it sounds, I'd love for a time where all the nonsense stops and everyone has a chance to really be happy.
22-Nov-24

Often times, when I eat at a restaurant, go to a clothing store, or visit any type of business lately, the staff member tells me to be sure and give them a 5-star review online. I had a waiter bring out a QR code for me to scan with my cell phone in hopes I'd go online and give a 5-star review. I told him I didn't want to do the review now, I'd do it later. I hadn't even left, and he's trying to get me to do a review before I leave! I understand how important the...
DocR
I'd rather have them say something like: "If your experience was anything less than 5-star, please make sure to tell us so we can work on improving"...
20-Nov-24

When a chronic disease is diagnosed in a member of your family, it can be overwhelming, especially when choosing treatment. Do you choose the public system and suffer the extreme side effects or go private, which will take a large portion of your retirement savings, however give better quality and longevity of life?
Tipps
family love is the best treatment one can have . Yes money is everything, but does not buy love. I have a friend who needs help every week for his appointment Make it my mission to take him to his appointment and bring him back home for love.
19-Nov-24

We used to have milk bottles that were washed out, refilled and used for years (delivered on electric floats to your door) TVs, fridges, computers, household appliances ... shoes and clothes ... that were easy to repair and lasted for many years, if not forever. Now we have very cheaply made rubbish (often from our friends in China) that has to be thrown away when it stops working or wears out ... it is either impossible to fix or just massively cheaper to buy a new one...
Rod R 101788
The 2 are not necessarily the same things. Many houses used to reuse supermarket shopping bags as rubbish bags. Now we buy rubbish bags that can be made of recycled materials but still can't be recycled.
The laminate on the kitchen & bathroom benches in the house we rent are fading where they get wet, but my parents' kitchen benches were solid wood & lasted for more than 40 years.
I still use my Dads electric drill & it still works because the only plastic parts are the trigger & handle cover. It has outlasted 2 rechargeable drills.
The handsaw I use has a wooden handle & I sharpen the blade with a file.
Apparently I recently "upcycled" an old solid wood door we bought to replace a broken modern one. It's still being used as a door - it's been refurbished & reused, same as my Grandmothers' dresser made in 1908.
Some things are made to last & some aren't, it's all about money, sometimes for multi-national multi-million dollar companies yet most people reading this rant aren't millionaires.
15-Mar-21
Yes ,well everyone around here loves a dead person apparently... So thought we should celebrate the stars that burn so brightly and so fast ,then so sadly are taken from the limelight. However ,they leave their mark on our musical life journey and give us a memory in time . A fun reminder of our youth or a painful torturous scar of love lost .. whatever yours is u can put one here.. no squabbling! No politics or B.s :) ( Or if unable to post videos just name...
Holly Cat
This young man passed recently, wasn't familiar with his music, but wanted to share. Rich Homie Quan, Got Yo Wings...
https://youtu.be/j3pleJTp5Sc?si=jOZKx6jYZq3Ag52X
06-Sep-24

The subject of shells was raised on this site, with some people feeling all shells should be left at the beach. I returned from overseas once and had to go through immigration and customs in Darwin, where the customs officers walked along the line of passengers with a large plastic bin asking for shells and coral. Shells considered too small were kept along with all coral, but the coral jewellery was sold in jewellery shops in the country I had visited, and the shells...
allinyourhead
the shells could be naturally contaminated, or even still have a live invasive species in it is probably the reason
17-Nov-24

As I have got older, I have sometimes felt that I haven't been "successful" at anything throughout my life. I am not a lawyer, or a doctor, I don't have a University Degree, I am not rich, I have no specific "talents," have won no awards for anything, don't own property or flash cars. I am just an ordinary human being, who tries to live a "good" life (whatever that is!) as I move along this journey between birth and death. How do you define "success?" Do you measure...
Saara F
I guess we all think that way at some stage in life. We have not moved mountains so we think we have not achieved success however success is not based on what we have not done. Success is being happy. Success is confidence. Success is raising healthy kids. Success is much more than being top of the class. Success is getting through life in one piece and so much more.
18-Nov-24

Our perception changes as we grow older. What's something you realized about a family member once you got older?
Teri 1282723
My second daughter wanted to (very cruelly) cut ties with me around 15 years ago. It really hurt me and I tried for years to fix things but then over time realized how abusive and manipulative she really is and has been for most of her life. I was finally able to let go and it feels really good to acknowledge that now I have 3 kids and not 4.
12-Nov-24

There are a few countries that provide school children with free food. Even teachers are allowed to have it too. However, so many developed countries don't intend to do it. What is your opinion? To have access to free food at school is support for children and parents, as well. It is interesting to hear different opinions and facts from the residents of different countries.
APB
Australia should have this nationwide...there is no excuse...we waste our taxes on rubbish...lets feed and love our kids
16-Nov-24

A friend did this: She got a piece of paper and folded it in half and anytime she thought of a reason to have children, she wrote it down on one side. And anytime she thought of a reason not to have children, she would write it on the other. When she had her doubts about not having children, she would look at the list, and it would remind her that the decision she made not to have children was right for her. Any advice? Will I regret not having kids when I get older?
Dee Jay QLD Oz
I won\u2019t comment on whether people should or shouldn\u2019t have children. It\u2019s very much a personal choice. I\u2019m a Baby Boomer, now 66. I still clearly remember the day my in-laws visited, and MIL announced in no uncertain terms that couples who decided not to have children were the most selfish people in the world. I was 25 at the time, and had been married 6 years. We went on to have children, but I was disappointed that she had voiced her view in such a way, and created an \u201cexpectation\u201d in our relationship. Children are everywhere (nieces, nephews, children living in care, neighbours, friends\u2019 children \u2026.. ), you can quite easily have children in your life that aren\u2019t your own, and they are just as special.
10-Nov-24

We often hear about the negative aspects of the internet and online activity, and they are all valid. But for me, the positives outweigh those negatives. I am 64 and have been "online" for at least 30 years now. These are a few of the positives for me: Connection with family and friends, especially when the connections cannot be in person. Educational - the internet has opened up huge opportunities for learning, through online study, easy access to information,...
BLM
The internet allows us to shop online for things we need. The internet allows telecommuting options for employers. The internet provides us with plenty of entertainment options. The internet provides us with online job opportunities. Last, everything you mentioned in your scenario. Question: Since you mentioned you have been online for at least thirty years - Did you start off - using dial-up internet or high-speed internet. I can still remember using dial-up internet in the earlier 1990s :-)).
14-Nov-24
As the Australian ambassador to the USA ,should he be returned to Australia be cause of his statements regardless if you like the incoming president or not ,Rudd needs to remember the monkey on his back is pink batts, ,
The ghost
It\u2019s silver foil on his back, and we would be happy to supply you with all the politicians we have, on the condition you pick up the tabs.
13-Nov-24
Just wondering if others feel the same way I do with the dishonesty in the survey invites. eg..survey invites 100 of Rewardias miserably cut back points for a 10 minute survey and when you get to the survey it states expected time of 20 minutes. It annoys me no end!!! The newest one is the survey invite that is now 2 surveys instead of one and you don't realise the one you are doing is a NON PAID survey until you finish it and are directed to the real...
APB
A survey by a major financial institution...after pages and pages of questions about fraud.. final questions..."what else do you expect the bank to do in response to fraud"..."offer a full refund"......"it appears you have done this survey before"..and its bye bye and no points....so you don't want my opinions recorded??...Banks...what's not to love about them...eh?
02-Oct-24

Women have come a long way from being thought of as 2nd class citizens. I am all for all the gains we have made. Women are leaders in all aspects of life, Be it politics, business or generally in the work force. But I can't help but feel we have also lost so much. Such as self-respect and respect from our male counterparts. We can swear as good as any man! Not so sure if this is a good thing! Men never used to swear in front of woman, but now it seems...
Michelle S 553303
I truly believe that women in general have less rights now than they did when I was growing up in the 1960's. My mother was able to stay home and raise my brother and I and not forced to leave her home AND her children to afford the mortgage money for the house my father and her purchased together. They had 2 solid years working together at a factory before my mother fell pregnant with me and retired from the paid workforce and she was able to rest during her pregnancy and prepare for my arrival enjoying that time. Even on one income back then we had meat every night for dinner because back then you could afford it, not now! My mother taught me SO many valuable lessons of how to cook well but cheaply, how to sew and how to run a home. I, however, did not think that these lessons were valuable until I got older and unfortunately I bought into the feminist hype of the working woman being able to "do it all"! Absolute BS BTW as all I did was get on a treadmill for 25 years without stopping trying to be everything that my changing society told me was my right but ultimately missing out on some of the most important things in my 5 children's lives. I sent them along to Daycare because I was told it was as good as me caring for them and they'd be well socialised, but they cried when I left them and I abandoned them to a place of noise and no love. They will say to me today "Mum, do you remember when" or "do you remember so and so" and I have no recollection of those events or people because my headspace and I were somewhere else. I wish that I had realised the feminist lies back then and stayed at home raising my children myself and teaching them things of value. You can NEVER reclaim those moments you lost and I regret it deeply. I believe that we are less "women" now than we were before we had the right to choose whether or not to bring to term the children we carried in our wombs and we started trying so dang hard to be as good as men when we already were but in a different way! We got robbed of a lot of simple pleasures of watching our children play or having kids come home with our kids and ask to play in the backyard because there was always someone home back then. These days women, mothers especially, have to coordinate schedules and are often absent from the home and need to organise formal play dates with the other equally busy and exhausted parents of their child's friends. If THIS is what was meant by "progress" for women then we collectively were sold a lemon! Thanks for reading.
16-Oct-24

I can't talk about everyone, I can talk only about myself. Marriage has proven itself as a dangerous institution to me. It puts me in a situation in which my boundaries are not honoured, and I lose control over my salary, I am expected to accept someone else s religion, and do everything he says. But my needs are not respected. Men claim ownership on me what I marry them. It feels like I sign my rights away when I get married. What is your experience? Why people don't believe...
Sandra H 2204 NSW
We celebrated our 54th wedding anniversary in January. I have never experienced any of your issues, though marriage is something that needs to be worked on. Unfortunately I lost him in August.
01-Nov-24

Becoming a caregiver to a family member is a big responsibility, and not a decision that should be taken lightly. While it can be immensely rewarding, it comes with significant challenges, and can often be detrimental to the health of adult children looking after elderly parents. What would you do?
HarryT
Depends upon your relationship, their level of physical activity, their cognitive ability and what your other responsibilities are.
13-Nov-24

I was taking my dog to our local dog park to help with socialisation, but one day, I noticed a dog becoming more aggressive toward other dogs. As a result, I took my dog and left. Trainers and vets often discourage the use of dog parks. They say it can become violent or spread sickness. What do you think is a dog park bad or good?
Coverdalegirl
If you have a dog breed that needs to run around to burn energy they are great. Otherwise, a nice walk should be great for their needs.
11-Nov-24
I will answer your questions to the best of my ability (or inability).
BlkPantha
why when I get email offers for 500 bonus for completing Lime surveys there no Lime surveys available ? Do you also experience this ?
08-Nov-24

I have noticed that young children cannot go to the park or the beach or have a day out without a "snack" box! Has anyone else noticed this? They tend to need to graze on food, that interrupts the activity they are doing! This is so true with our grandchildren. I wonder how they get on at school?
H.S
I guess they need the energy and motivation to do all the activities. I know that running around at the park and shopping exhaust my kids.
09-Nov-24
How to handle emotions when the boss lies to your face and you can't argue, either he will fire you or will say a lie after a lie.
APB
Work some place else....
its the best option.... as it is usually really hard to get rid of the body...(or so I've been told)
09-Nov-24

Debt can be a double-edged sword for many young adults starting their careers. With lower wages, fewer savings, and limited access to safety net supports, young people often struggle to achieve financial stability. What do you think are the main reasons why young people are struggling with debt?
Tippy
Because their money is paid into an account it is only a number. They never actually see the cash as in the old days when your pay was in an envelope and you could see it!!
08-Nov-24

I am sitting over here in Adelaide Australia and the sun is shining, and believe me, I know how lucky I am, I want to send as many blessings as I can chalk up with the big fella upstairs and send them over to the hurricane-affected areas, all I can say is Hellene is a [bad word], and Milton is an [another bad word]
The ghost
We should all consent to politicians having a sabbatical trip to form a barrier to areas that are about to be hit by hurricanes, volcanic eruptions, earthquakes and any other natural disasters, with only a bottle of listerine to sweeten the smell of bullshit coming out of their mouth as they get hit by nature.
11-Oct-24

After the first long term study of using gas cookers...the researchers have concluded that 40,000 people a year, in Europe alone, die as a consequence of using gas cookers (twice the number killed by cars)...it also says that the connection between using gas and heart and lung problems...had already been well established "over many years"...(DW News story)... All we get in Australia is adverts for and by Gas companies telling us how wonderful they are! When...
lys
The is always data somewhere that will tell you something will hurt you. I paid $16,000 for solar panels and now only I get 3c a kw feed in and still have electricity bills. I am not getting rid of any of my gas appliances only to have nothing as a back up during furture blackouts when too many people go over to overloaded, unreliable renewable systems. They are not nice I lived with organised black and brown outs in Qld not doing it again.
06-Nov-24

You can make each other laugh. You're both comfortable with each other's touch and proximity. You remember the smallest details about one another. What else? What are the signs of mutual attraction?
77ccusmc
For my marriage it is helping each when you are sick. We have been married 43 years my husband got hurt at work then got COPD and emphysema, then I had 5 strokes was paralyzed after my 3rd stroke. He takes very good care of me. I\u2019m glad he knows how to cook. It was good before but you know it\u2019s real after.
05-Nov-24

They're everywhere now. On the roads and footpaths as well. Riders un-helmeted, passengers too and at the speeds the youngsters are riding them it is only a matter of time before there is a fatality of either the rider, the passenger or a pedestrian. Should they be registered and/or the riders licensed?
Grommie
Not the tyres that are the issue, it's the power rating of the electric motor.
I wouldn't be surprised if some of them actually rate as a motor bike that needs to have a rider with a motor bike licence.
Fatalities are an inevitable consequence. You cannot legislate stupidity out of our lives.
07-Nov-24
I'm guessing there's a few Rewardians not happy today, but the results speak for themselves. I have some hope for the world again. (If the current presidencial power doesn't push the US into a war before January). What's everyone else thinking about the president elect and the future of America?

Have you ever played a practical joke on someone? If so, share what you did. What was the outcome? Or has anyone ever played a practical joke on you? What happened, and how did you react? When I first moved to my current state and family and friends from out of town came to visit, I'd tell them I was taking them to the most beautiful beach since I live in a tropical climate near the ocean. I'd take them to the nude beach! It gave us a good laugh and we enjoyed the...
Liane H
My parents bought me a present from duty free once and wrapped it up for Christmas. I opened it thinking what the hell is this ..a can of Pal? ( Dog food!) Actually they had just wrapped the label around the tin of the Jean Paul Gautier perfume \ud83d\ude00
03-Nov-24
Looking for those who believe in God and Jesus Christ and study the bible and scriptures. Also who pray and sometimes need prayer. Especially if you are a 7th day keeper of the Sabbath. I started a group so if interested let me know. Jennine D
The ghost
Sorry not for me, you have a right to your own opinions ( as long as the government and so called do Gooders say you can) but it\u2019s not something I want forced on me.
03-Nov-24

Life is very different now than it was in the past, when leaving your children an inheritance was common practice. I still see many adult children who seem to consider an inheritance an "entitlement" whether or not their parents can realistically afford to leave them one. People are living much longer these days, and many find themselves needing to move into residential care of some kind, in their latter years. Some choose a retirement village setting, others need a higher level of...
Dee Jay QLD Oz
Neither of our children communicate with us, so they won\u2019t be inheriting what they think they are \u201centitled\u201d to inherit.
02-Nov-24

Christmas is coming... Soon enough. Only 2 months away and the final countdown will be on. There are certain Christmas items that are a must-have for the stocking every year, for some it may be a certain candy treat or a favorite chocolate bar, perhaps socks and underwear the possibilities are endless. My thing is a 3 pack red package lidor chocolates, they are delicious. I have already picked them up, 1 pack for each stocking. What are your favorite stocking stuffers that...
Jania S
It is amazing how money wasting the western people are. Christmas is not about stockings or wasting money. BUT to each his own.
29-Oct-24

I can vividly remember being about 5 or 6 years old and my dad calling and giving me a present. It wasn't my birthday or Christmas, so I was totally surprised. Mum did all the household admin in our house, including organising presents, so it was doubly surprising that dad was the one to give the surprise. It was my very first Barbie doll. I loved that doll with a passion. It did not compare with the glamorous ones that are available today, but It was the prettiest,...
BLM
My family doesn't believe in giving physical gifts. Have ever I still have a lot of very fond memories of my step-grandmother (I do not have any fond memories of my birth mom, biological father, stepfather, stepmom, stepsiblings, siblings, DNA relatives or non-DNA relatives except one) - when I think of my step-grandmother - she STILL brings a smile to my face and an ache in my heart - EVEN in the year 2024 - she was the only person in-my-so-called-family - HAHA - who ever care about me when I was a kid! My step-grandmother explained to me more than once - lol - YOU DO NOT GET TO PICK YOUR FAMILY, THEREFORE BE VERY PICKY WHEN IT COMES TO PICKING YOUR FRIENDS!
30-Oct-24

With Halloween just around the corner, I started thinking about ghosts. Do you believe in ghosts or paranormal activity? There are millions of people that testify to seeing things with their own two eyes that cannot be refuted. Do you have any personal experiences you'd like to share? With so many believers, how could ghosts and ghostly experiences not be real? Ghost hunting and paranormal investigating is a huge business these days.
Liberti_Jones
I do not believe in "ghosts" but I do know there are evil demonic spirits that impersonate loved ones. We need to be very careful about such things. Scriptures says to not engage them and command them to depart in The name of Jesus Christ.
31-Oct-24

1st-time parents have many questions, what advice would you give them? For me: I let them know that babies cry a lot and hugging them gives babies comfort.
Peechy
enjoy them no matter what because they will be grown and gone sooner than you think. that time will only go fast once you realise they have their own lives/families
28-Oct-24

I made my first Christmas Cake for this year yesterday and realized that I have been making this cake for 60 years. I have made it so often. It has been a birthday cake, a wedding cake and of course every year I make a lot of them to give as gifts for Christmas. What's the recipe you have been making the longest? Then there is my Nana's Christmas pudding recipe. I took over making that for the family 30 years ago. I still have to make 3 each year. I don't know how...
Angie
I made a wicked as beef mince and mushroom Lasagne.. layered up between homemade tomato sauce made with loads of garlicand melted cheese between pasta sheets & home grown tomato paste \ud83c\udf45ditched meat recently, and so then started making a mean as vegan lasagne \ud83d\udc4d\ud83c\udffc and also my fav... Lentil soup
27-Oct-24

How long do you go to putting effort in a friendship before giving up? I have a group of friends who never seem to have time for me but will always make time for each other. Is that just a hint that I'm not even wanted?
Catherine 1495271
People cross our paths for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When we recognize which it is, it's easier to understand why some relationships/friendships do not last
26-Oct-24
Seen an ad for reusable toilet rolls (cloths). $49 for 24. Would you use them. Also similar for dogs but more expensive. I guess its in line with cloth nappies many years ago. But not for me.
Holly Cat
Next someone will be selling eco friendly leaves you can use and throw outside when you're done :). They clean you and can be used as fertilizer, good for the garden.
23-Oct-24
IS IT ME or are there now so many ads it is interferring with the enjoyment of REWARDIA? I realise I have a choice I can just stop using Rewardia as the amt of work to get points now is getting over the top. Majority of surveys I get screened, the Advertising is slowing my pc down, and interferring with the games I play to keep mind active - to the point that games freeze. Questions are getting assisine, cant use firefox have to use Chrome...
APB
I find Chrome isn't very good...I use WaterFox...I find it much better and faster...see...even when you are grumpy and rude...people still want to help you....
25-Oct-24

I love to hang out my wash outdoors to dry fresh, smells so good, and love to bring them back in with the freshness from outdoors. How many others still hang out clothes? So many these days use dryers for convenience, I have a dryer, but I prefer fresh air and sunshine.
Laura W 363255
Always fresh air as don\u2019t have dryer. Sheets feel so good & fresh! Australia has the best fresh air.
02-Oct-24

I have always disliked my name, Sierra, and I would love to change it. But my family would be upset, so I never pursued the legal name change. How about you? Would you like to change your name, and if so, what name would you prefer to use?
blunder boy
my trans son/ daughter has gone from Brian to Brynn it did upset me quietly as he was named after my father but it is his life, as a parent I have honored that but I do find it hard to address his /her name and tend to use terms of endearment,it has been 10 years since his change, I still miss my son although I love what he/she has done with her/his life since the change, it has been a really tough thing to deal with its like going to a funeral but no one died
20-Oct-24

With the way things are so different today, would you push your children to go to University or College versus guiding them on becoming their own boss? If they choose to go to post secondary, they accumulate a large debt and are not guaranteed employment. As well, artificial intelligence is taking over so many areas that the chances of securing a good position in your related field of study are lessened. However, if you follow the trends today and utilize social media...
BLM
I think college, trades, and university will become a thing of the past - when AI reaches its full potential. I think going into the military for twenty years and getting a livable pension will become the norm - as their will be more wars over dwindling natural resources and ever-increasing population. Also, becoming a police officer will become your second mandatory option for twenty years which will give you another livable pension - crowd control will become an issue as the fight for dwindling natural resources will become more intensified with an ever-increasing population. The not-so-distant future will be a dark and ugly place for the overwhelming majority of people - not because of AI - but because humans are incapable of learning from our past mistakes and our luck as a specie will finally RUN OUT!
19-Oct-24

Our new neighbour is in his mid 80s and is up every morning at 6 am. He starts cutting wood to burn and disturbs us early in the morning. As we are new in the neighbourhood, we do not want to cause any trouble, so we remain quiet. Would you ask the elderly man not to cut wood so early because it disturbs you, or would you stay quiet?
Valerie S 478525
This is hard for you. I avoid confronting people even in a nice way. Invite him in for a coffee and have a general get to know you chat. He might explain why he does it so early and every day without you even asking him. If he is doing it every day then he must not be doing it for very long. It might be a routine from an earlier part of his life. I can\u2019t imagine he needs to do it every morning. In a general friendly chat you might be able to suggest he only does it once a week. Just do the get to know you first before you leap in and contact the council or start to tell your neighbour to change his ways. I feel for you. This could become increasingly more irritating.
22-Oct-24
loved watching the Brits waving their Union Flag.... Yes Flag, not Union Jack, it is only the Union Jack when it's flown from a jackstaff. But, it's easy to get the Union Flag wrong way up, and many of the Brits waved it wrong way up. A national flag flown upside down is a distress signal.. So was their waving their national flag upside down a prescient signal of distress....? Or just plain ignorance?
Andrew C 287196
Hopefully the government / city councils in New Zealand are not stupid enough to bother with hosting the next one here. This type of event is nothing but a waste of tax-payer money - I don't think *any* have ever made a profit for the host country (partly due to the massive amount of money wasted getting ready for them), that's why the Commonwealth Games struggled to find a host city / country.
24-Oct-24

All throughout our lives, we are always getting advice given to us by others, whether we ask for it or not. Though some advice given to us is not very good, there are a few pieces that someone passes along to you that are actually really good, but we still decide to not follow it and end up regretting not following the advice later down the line ...
LindaB
When I first joined the Navy, my mother told me to save a deposit and buy a house in Devonport on the north shore of Auckland and get flatmates in to help pay the mortgage. At 19, the last thing I wanted was a $200,000 mortgage!!! Those $200,000 houses are now worth in excess of $3mil.
23-Oct-24

It is something that Brands REALLY want to know...you know brands, right? They used to make things and were responsible for them...now they outsource the manufacturing process to someone else ... make MASSES of money ... sell you T-Shirts with their name on them (in the 1970s these were given away) and try desperately to make themselves cool and trendy by spending millions of dollars on sponsorship and advertising. Vacuous...like the Emperor's...
BLM
It is called 'a fool and his money syndrome' only available in capitalistic countries at premium prices aka Pourquoi folie persiste-t-elle - Je ne sais pas pourquoi.........
24-Oct-24

The Australian Government appears to be investigating whether they can introduce floor pricing to the sale of alcohol...at a minimum $1.50 per standard drink....they say that this will stop the sale of cheap drinks...which they argue cause most related problems to drinking...however due to massive taxes which go up annually...the only drink this will affect is wine...leaving the cheapest bottle wine costing $10.50.....NOW if we have to pay $10.50 for a bottle...
KARL-HANS B
we have one of the most costly alcohol in the world and the add more cost on it the leave in a LaLa land
21-Oct-24

Kia Ora My fellow Rewardians... help me out here ? I know there have been a lot of AI discussions in daily polls/general discussions etc lately But how do we really feel about AI? Actually doing a half-arsed good job? Sometimes? I've added loads of new songs to my playlist recently, (thanks to y'all) and now I also get random suggestions of songs I might like and I'm so here for it! The songs take me back and bring me Joy ? Loving AI/Algorithms rite now...
writerrochelle
I'm mostly worried about the children growing up with so much technology. When I subbed, I saw kindergartners given tablets to "DRAW"! What about the smell of a crayon, and learning to mix paint colors to make different ones (green+red=brown)? They aren't using their BRAINS anymore! ;-(
17-Oct-24

Artificial intelligence and robotics technology would likely improve efficiencies in the day to day management and operations, so what does that mean for us? Will roles then be less physical and more creative, and do we need to re-skill and relearn
APB
Just train for future jobs...there is a long list...just sit back and think for a while..that's what I told my sons...if you are bright and/or organised you will be fine.....same as it everwas...
same as it everwas
...don't be a truck driver...train or tram driver...cab drivers...even specialised medical staff are in real danger...JUST THINK ..and you will all be fine.....
we can all have a fantastic future...its coming anyway...fingers crossed!
06-Oct-24
I was looking up something tonight and thought - What have women invented? I was really surprised at their ingenuity but not surprised that men had taken the praise for some of them. Some things women invented: Windscreen Wipes, Dishwasher, rotary engine, coffee filter, disposable nappies, computer software, Wi-Fi, radioactivity, anti-fungal antibiotic, airplane muffler, Apgar score, glass aquariums, beer, Barbie doll, birth control pill, Bra, Bullet...
PatCat
"Jest plain old inter sex jealousy". If you look back in history and we had been given the chance we might have helped with some of the messes men have made in the troubles and wars of yesteryear!
18-Oct-24
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