Discussions of the day

As tax season in Canada approaches and the talks of higher GST payments (for those that actually qualify for it) I wanted to give a little of my advice. Invest some money back into yourself (household) plant a veggie or herb garden even if it is a small one done on a patio or window sill or both. These are items that you can use over and over again for continuous personal food. Make small purchases of items that reduce single use items, which in the long run also keeps money in...
BLACK LIVES MATTER
'Invest in yourself' concept is the same as 'pay yourself first - always' concept. The name of the concept is not important - the message of the concept is IMPORTANT (take very good care of yourself (first) on a mental level, a physical level, and a monetary level)!
03-Feb-26

Whether $60 a week is enough for groceries for one person depends on a variety of factors, including location, dietary needs, food prices, and personal habits. In many parts of the world, basic grocery costs have risen significantly due to inflation, supply chain pressures, and higher costs for fresh produce, meat, and staples. How is it where you live? Is $60 a week enough for groceries for one person?
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Is $60 a week enough money to buy groceries for one person? Don't know. I am single (and I only have one mouth too feed - ME). I am a vegetarian (and I do not buy meat). I do not buy convenience foods (too expensive). I do not buy brand-name foods (I do buy store brands). I spend seventy-five dollars a week on groceries (for now). Furthermore, residing in San Diego (CA) - San Diego is one of the most expensive cities to reside in the 'USA'!
25-Jan-26

Many plants considered to be non-native are classified as invasive weeds, which need to be removed to prevent their proliferation and degradation of the environment. Surprisingly, they have not been banned by authorities and are available to buy in plant nurseries. Examples of these are English ivy, honeysuckle, gazania, agapanthus. Would you knowingly buy these sorts of plants and put them in your garden because you like them?
Melinda B 311794
Ivy and wisteria are out the front in my garden. The ivy we cut right back and it has regrown from nothing! The wisteria overtakes everything and it is infuriating. Every summer!
04-Dec-25

Whenever I'm out and about, either walking or on my bike, if I see rubbish on the ground I will pick it up and bin it. Especially if that rubbish is near a water source such as a river or beach. There is already so my pollution and rubbish in our oceans. If we all took a little bit of time to do the same, it would make a big difference. We have to respect our world and keep the planet clean to future generations.
Che 1725508
I grew up an army brat in a large family and we spent a large amount of our free time outside - exploring! If we ignored rubbish outside and my parents found out, we would get extra chores (usually picking up rubbish) and would lose our allowance for a week. Those were the days!!
15-Jan-26

My granddaughter, after working for 2 years, lost her job last night. She was fired because at 15, she smelled of cigarette smoke, she lives with her nana [who smokes] she works [worked ] in a deli where the other 5 people smoked and the boss who smokes told her she smelled of smoke so therefore, she smokes, She hates smokes and hates the smell, has asked people in our home to please smoke outside including nana has defriened friends because they had taken up smoking yet...
Paula J 395266
Are you in Australia, if so the employer has broken the law. Your granddaughter can take them to the tribunal for unfair dismissal, and if a person who gets fired for stealing can get their job back because the employer didn't tell them they were under surveillance, a non-smoking person should certainly get their job back because they smell of cigarette smoke. I hope you can get some satisfaction.
05-Jan-26

The dreams I had when I was younger were shaped by innocence and imagination. I believed life would follow a straight path, and success would come at a certain age. Back then, everything felt possible and simple. As time passed, experiences, responsibilities, and realities changed those dreams. Some goals felt unrealistic, others no longer felt meaningful. It wasn t failure, it was growth. Life taught me more about myself than any plan ever. Sometimes letting go of an old...
mike B 1066235
AT MY AGE NOW, DO NOT MANY AT ALL, BUT I DID A LOT WHEN MY WIFE DIED, AND A LOT OF FELT THAT SYLVIA WAS WITH ME BY HEARING THINGS AROUND THE HOUSE. AND THAT WAS SO GREAT, MIKE
01-Jan-26

My thoughts are that it is a good idea. The big question is how they can police every 16-year-old and under from using a mobile phone, maybe not in public but at home
Daniel T 626103
Actually my 14yr old has one, its a good way to keep her safe while out by herself or with friends etc.
05-Dec-25

I was wondering if you have started a new hobby. You may have recently retired, or you have more time on your hands. This extra time has led you to begin a new hobby. One that you never thought you'd take up. But here you are playing and doing it. For me, I took up Chess. I never thought I would be learning chess, but I am, and I'm really, really enjoying it. What new hobby have you taken up?
Amanda 1566927
I like to start making candles I have everything to start it I lost my husband about year ago \ud83d\ude22 an been depressed I just need a boost \ud83e\udd26\ud83c\udffc\u200d\u2640\ufe0f\ud83e\udd37\ud83c\udffc\u200d\u2640\ufe0f someone to get me started I guess \ud83d\ude0c
16-Nov-25

What's the weirdest food combo you secretly love, but would never admit in public? I'm not talking garden variety stuff like pineapple on pizza, but ones that others in your life have told you are odd or that you think strangers might think of it that way. E.g. peanut butter and mayo ... Soy sauce on vanilla ice cream Bacon dipped in chocolate or maple icing Pepsi + milk
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Food Crimes and Culinary Confessions - Innocent - (LOL). Still, in a moment of utter madness I tried sliced cucumbers and honey which to my surprise tasted DELICIOUS!
12-Nov-25

With the advent of so many big four-wheel drives on the roads now, I think it's time to widen parking bays. Every new car park should have wider bays. A couple of times, I've come back to my car and had to hop in the passenger side, as there was no room for me on the driver's side. Perhaps start to widen the bays in the current car parks.
Hanno.
I don't have any parking worries anymore since I had to pension my car off because of the rust issues. But on walking through most carparks I have found that the standard of parking is atrocious.There are a lot of drivers out there who should not be allowed on the road.
09-Nov-25

We are packing up and leaving the city after 40 years. We are moving to a small beach community near the coast. It is heartbreaking leaving an area after so long. I'm ambivalent. My husband wants the change, but I still have many doubts about the long-term success of this venture. Have you been through this? What are your thoughts?
Angie
Yes, I have been through this exact thing several times, and after my divorce I sold everything and moved to a small beach community where I have spent the last 8 years. It was the best decision I ever made. My daughter (9 at the time) and I loved every minute of our time here.
She did leave home at 16 for a better education back in Auckland and lives with her amazing Dad.
So life for me up here now is no longer what it was. Plus I took on an extremely stressful job, which has recently been too much and I walked out last week.
So now, Elizabeth, I am doing it all again. Packing up, selling up and moving on.
With the money I get for the sale of my property, I am buying a camper van and hitting the road, and hoping my money will last for a very long time as I have no intention of going back into a job I hate.
Maybe I might go fruit picking along the way!
27-Oct-25

My grand-children came for a visit for a few days, which I was happy for. However, the 11-year-old boy, was out of control. He started sliding down the banister, turning the lights on and off, playing with the radio station and setting the alarm clock to go off at 3 a.m. His mom didn't discipline him. My partner and I spoke up, and she just made up excuses for him. We all went hiking, and the 11 year old was breaking branches and leaving them on the sidewalk....
Rusty .. (vic)
Our grandson had ODD, which is Opposition Defiant Disorder. to get around this, we dont ask or tell him to do stuff, but say, if you clean your room, we can do this or that. If he asks when are we going to do it, I will say, when your room is clean. Its his choice, then, and saves a lot of arguing.
13-Oct-25

I think security guards should be given more power. They can't touch anyone, and I think they should be able to stop shoplifters. Maybe allow them to carry tasers. A case in Woolworths where a staff member reported to a security guard that some people had walked out without paying. He confronted them, they swore at him, and kept walking out. What could he do? What does everyone think?
Chosen
Just let them all have one big angry dog at their side. Shoplifters will be more scared of the dog than the security guard.
15-Oct-25

I have some psychic ability which manifests itself in being at locations where something serious will happen shortly after, mentioning obscure subjects that become topics on the radio, talking about rarely heard songs that suddenly play on TV or the radio, and many other incidents. I believe that there is psychic energy floating about, much like ultraviolet radiation and gamma rays. I also believe that some people are strong receivers of that psychic energy. Do you think that...
Mrs Invictus
Loved this read Thomas, thank you.
Psychic is diverse in meaning, believer or not everyone has their own definition.
For me its Guidance and I believe in Karma, what you put out The Universe gives back to you 10fold be it good or bad.
10-Oct-25

My husband and I are planning to downsize from our family home. Do you have any tips for planning such a major lifestyle change and ways of copying with living in a smaller space?
Linda C
Depends on the size of your home now to the one you are going into I guess. I go through my home every year and throw out, give away or take things to the charity shop that I think I no longer need or use. So decluttering is something I have always done.
Number one - be very sure you want to downsize first.
Number two - make sure you are financially better off as even a small move to a new place costs fees, removalist, taxes etc.
and this can add up to $1000's
Number three - make sure you love the new area you move to, and it has all the amenities, hospitals, etc. you require
25-Aug-25

Should we keep the school year as it has always been, or should children attend school year-round? What are your thoughts?
boy blunder
I would love the kids to attend more school than they do but I really would love to see them learn more by using their brain not google/computers and such, basic schooling writing/spelling and life skills have fallen by the wayside a touch I feel,
20-Aug-25

The underlying assumption was that if you worked hard enough for long enough, you would succeed. However, this advice misses one big point: Most people fail not because of a lack of effort, but because their effort was misdirected or misaligned with their interests. Don't get me wrong. Hard work matters for success. What would you say? Do people who work hard really succeed in life?
boy blunder
Started work at 16, I remember my first pay packet, 36 dollars. I was rich, I could conquer the world. For 2 years, I paid my mum board, bought what I wanted, and saved. When 18, life discovered me, and I had a lot of fun for a few years. We toured Australia, did a lot of things I shouldn't, got into the credit system, discovered booze/girls, and by 26 i had a baby and a wife, life stopped as i knew it a new life had begun, at 62 i am living week by week i have 3 kids and 3 grandkids i do some volunteer work at the local schools,,,i have never been more happy or successful i have no desire for money i have prepaid my bills out 6 months ahead have a reasonable garden, i want for nothing except smiles on my grankids faces, I've worked hard,played hard ,had lots of coin but i have never felt more successful when i see my grandkids laugh when i see them use manners when i hear what wonderful kids you have there
14-May-25

When you're looking after someone else's child in your care & they do something wrong, you as a carer, do you have the right to discipline that child? I believe yes to some point, by not being harshly & by speaking to them & explaining to them what they did & how to make it better. Also, if hurting another child, you can give them time out for 5 10 mins to defuse the situation & speak to their parents. When it comes to being outdoor, I believe you have no right to speak to...
Cynthia 1521546
I'm sorry but I'm a speaker and it takes a village to raise a child. I come from a time when you did something wrong your mom has eyes everywhere!!!!
15-Jul-25

Up until the age of electronic ignition and fuel injection I always did my own servicing. Nowadays, I hardly recognise anything under the bonnet except the dipstick, the radiator cap and the windscreen washer reservoir. How about you?
Rebecca B 614374
I agree. Once upon a time cars were pretty simple and even Blind Freddy could take care of most things. Nowadays you need a science degree to figure out anything with them. Perhaps I'm just cynical, but I do wonder whether that was the idea - to make things so difficult and high-tech that people are forced to part with more of their hard-earned dollars just to get the most basic things done.
20-Jun-25

Now that we're in 2025 and so much of reading and research has gone digital, do you think libraries should evolve into more community-entered spaces for things like coworking, events, tech access, or even mental health resources? Or should they stick to their traditional role of housing books and offering a quiet place to read? Curious how others see the future of libraries!
David 1634933
Yes, but I have a vested interest in them staying. We offer many services at no cost to the public. We also provide workshops that help the community. We encourage life long learning and a love of reading.
22-Jul-25

When someone says to you, 'Act your Age'! What does that mean to you? Does it get you angry? Does it get you confused? What does this really mean? And why do people persistently use this term? Judgemental much? I have never known what to do in this situation, because I have just acted my 'normal' me?? Is there an expectation how someone should at when they are 66? As opposed to when you are 15? Yes, I am confused.....
Manaia 1693487
\u201cAct your age\u201d is often more about the speaker\u2019s discomfort than your behavior. It\u2019s a phrase rooted in expectation, judgment, and often an outdated sense of decorum.
You, being yourself\u2014at any age\u2014is not only valid but important. Life doesn\u2019t come with a personality timeline. Playfulness, curiosity, humor, and even rebellion don\u2019t expire at 40, 60, or 80.
18-Jul-25

One of the richest men in the world and founder of Amazon, Jeff Bezos, married his long time fiance last weekend in Venice. A who's who of Hollywood was flown in to share in the festivities, which included hand made Pizza's to suite the theme days and parties. The wedding dress was skin tight with a huge train and along with all the other extravagances came to a grand total of $70 million AUD. So does this huge sum of money guarantee a long and happy...
Bugalugs
No, As we have seen so often these high profil;e marriages often end in very bitter divirce. Though nowhere near as rich as Bezos check out the English Royal Families record! the late queen had 4 children. of them only one. dspite their enormous wealth, has remained married to their first, Edward has remained with his wife. Anne married, dicorced, married, Andrew Married, Divorced but still allegedly in some sort of relationship with Sarah, Charles forced into an entirley inappropriate marriage with Diana, this despite Charles having been in a relationship for many decades with Camilla, that marriage ended in a very bitter divorce and evantually Charles was allowed to marry the only woman he ever truly Loved, Camilla. You may noy like this but I think the late queen was largely responsible for all this unhappiness within her family. First, she would not allow her own sister, Margaret, to marry the only man she ever really loved. Why? Because the Anglican Church, of which Elizabeth was the head, disapproved of Divorce - strange that because the reason for the creation of it was so that the syphilitic Henry XVIII wanted a divorce. Just look at the disaster Margaret's life became. That ban by Elizabeth was downright cruel because Margaret by that time would never, ever have come to the English Throne. Charles' only True Love was Camilla but Elizabeth would not, as the head of the Anmglican Church, allow Charles to marry a Divorcee and the only rerason this Control Freak of Control Freaks gave in was because she knew that as soon as she died Charles would probably marry Camilla anyway. She, reportedly one of the Richest, if not the Richest Woman in the World, condemned Charles and Diana to a life of misery. Why? Because Diana was a Virgin.
Just think of what all those $US70 million Bezos wasted could have done to help so many of those in desperate need of Food, Clean Drinking Water and Medicines.
17-Jul-25

With the exponential boom in all manifestations of AI, almost any question can be answered. Generative AI means we don't need to learn; only to ask, ask, refine and ask again. And the more we keep asking, the better the AI answers become. Does this mean the world no longer needs teachers?
boy blunder
I'm 62 and I'm learning every day from the people around me, I'm learning things AI will never know because they are not human, you cannot teach compassion, you cannot teach respect you cannot teach humility you learn these things by living and experiencing life, not by entering facts and figures into a machine,
09-Jul-25

Relationships and money go hand-in-hand. Here's how you can improve in both areas, from experts. Money can't buy happiness, but it can definitely impact your romantic relationships. What would you say? Can a relationship work with no money?
Janet 1621979
HERE IS MY STORY: i had been divorced for several years and I eventually met a man ON LINE (don't laugh) who just lived a few streets from me - AND we were driving IDENTICAL CARS. Same colour everything. I HAD 20 wonderful years with this man - we travelled to quite a few different countries - so many wonderful memories. We each did our own thing with money - paid our half for holidays and both lived in our own houses. Money was never an issue. Unfortunately he ended up dying of cancer - OR I WOULD STILL BE WITH HIM. I will GUARANTEE you this - MONEY would never buy what I had - IT IS CALLED RESPECT.
05-Jul-25

I've come across a lot of surveys that I need to use my camera for. Has anyone done these surveys? And what exactly are they wanting the camera for? I'm a paranoid person, ha ha
Marietta M
They sound creepy to me. I always check the box that says I don't have a camera so I get screened out.
01-Jul-25

Spending holidays separately can offer couples unique opportunities for personal growth and reflection. You may find that time away from your partner allows you to reconnect with family traditions or pursue individual interests. What would you say? Should couples spend holidays together or separately?
Debra D 624780
I think they should always go on vacation together. That is the whole point of marriage, to be together.
26-Jun-25

I was raised to always use please and thank you, elders and children are first, always hold the door for the person behind you, is it just me or are people these days are just rude and disrespectful. I am going on 50 YRS old, and I still see young ones on the transit bus just sitting there while elders or pregnant or injured ppl standing up. Bring back those manners, nice words or gestures could make someone's day more pleasant. Thank you.
Val 1394045
I am in my 70's and I see how the young people. Not only do they not give up there seats but push in a line to get on bus first. I called one girl out and told her to wait her turn. Entitlement is what the kids think.
25-Jun-25

There is a massive lack of housing and housing is too expensive...no-one can afford it.....everyone says removing Government red tape and giving first time buyers subsides or help is the answer...OF COURSE IT IS NOT!....in downtown Tokyo they took away constrictions...demolished large parts of the city and built massive apartment blocks... Tokyo is now the cheapest Capital city to live in... The UK released a report on how normal house building was way...
Linda 1473555
Hmmm. Houses built and assembled fall over very easily when a hurricane or cyclone visits. I will stick with bricks and mortar. Build your home on a strong foundation. Look at the homes collapsing when hurricanes go through areas like USA and other countries.
23-Jun-25

I have a very ill husband, heart issues and cancer, and so I decided to have installed door cameras at each of my doors. Now that I have done this, I have purchased an iPhone and so now any movement is recorded, and I can see it on my phone when ever I am at a doctor's office or where ever I am. I have found that the cameras also work great for me to see my husband when he is outdoors in case he should have a fall. I no longer have to continue to go outside to check on him....
HOT PANTS HARRY
I HAVE THIS FEATURE AT HOME, BUT I AM NOT A HAPPY CAMPER.JUST THIS WEEKEND GONE I LOCKED MY DOOR KEY AND CAR KEYS IN MY HOUSE.MY WIFE AND DAUGHTER WE IN MELBOURNE AND HAD NO SPARE KEY TO GET IN.MY NEIGHBOR AND I DECIDED TO REMOVE A SMALL WINDOW PANE NEXT TO WHERE THE INSIDE DOOR HANDLE WAS SITUATED.WHILST IN THE PROCESS THE POLICE ARRIVED BECAUSE MY WIFE WAS WATCHING WHAT WAS GOING ON ON HER IPHONE AND THOUGHT THE HOUES WAS GETTING BURGALED..HOWEVER WE WERE NOT LOCKED UP.
10-Jun-25

I was reading an interview with a great musician recently. He said that when he was 12, he wondered. Was he mad, or was he a genius? They were not locking me up, and putting me away, so in my mind I was a genius, he then said he thought genius is a form of madness, and we are all that way, but I'm just a little coy about it. So if there is such a thing as a genius like me playing my guitar, then I am one, if not, I don't care...........words from JOHN...
Shawn B 1061185
To be different is as bold and crazy as you can get. Creativity can so easily be controlled or confined it takes great courage to pursue what you love regardless of who cares or not. Some people call this courage crazy and others call it genius. You pick.
17-Jun-25

As a family, we don't get together as often as we would like. But, on the special occasions that we do, Christmas, birthdays etc, there is always one family member who ends up "sick" on the day & never turns up. This happens constantly. The partner always comes with his children. Is this a next generation occurrence? Does this happen to anyone else?
Teri 1282723
I think "sick" may stress out over seeing someone in particular there. This could be an issue, or maybe "sick" can't stand a crowd. "Sick" can cover a whole lot of things. Also, if this person is suffering from stress or anxiety, they may be giving themselves a headache, body aches, throwing up, all kinds of physical ways that mental stress affects us. I suggest you contact "sick" and ask if a crowd is too much or if it's personal with one or two people. If it's personal you can suggest they talk and fix it, and if it's the crowd be understanding and give the space. Maybe people can meet up in small groups of 2 or 3 people just to keep contact without causing anyone grief.
Personally, my first family doesn't get together so much anymore. A couple of them are Trump cult members and anything they don't agree with about him is seen as fake news and he's a good Christian man. Blugh. I meet up with the sisters and brothers that I DO want to see and can have conversations with. I just met up with my daughter and one of hers and spent several hours together. The other granddaughter had to work but we'll get together again soon. I really appreciate any time I can get with my kids and grandkids even if it's not on the specific holidays.
09-Jun-25

One of Australia's richest men jumped onboard the intermittent power gravy train and began buying shares in one of our power companies then when he became the majority shareholder got rid of the board and filled it with his yes men. Then the power company announced they were getting out of coal and closed it's power station, the result being load dumping on very cold or hot days. He was building a huge solar farm in the NT the size of the ACT but has walked away...
Teri 1282723
Actions. Jesus said you'll know what kind of a tree you're looking at by the fruit it bears. We're seeing a lot of rotten fruit in the world right now of old, white men who say they're Christians and act not at all Christ-like. Always judge by actions. Words are so easy to speak.
30-Mar-25

How often do you think you should see your significant other when dating? Is it expected to see each other every day or once a week? Is there such a thing as seeing them too much? Do you need to give them personal space?
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Different strokes for different individuals - when it comes to personal relationship etiquette behavior (how much time the two of you spend together)!
12-May-25

A couple of years ago I tried to buy my dog a leather collar...people looked at me funny...no pet shop stocked them... I had to import one on Bay...a non-leather belt lasts a couple of years...a leather one maybe 20 years....non-leather shoes don't last me a year ...leather is BAD...buy an unending list of different stuff that you need to throw away on a regular basis....so what happens to all the animal skins that we now aren't using?...landfill?..what happened to...
Hanno.
All our Leather Goods are Good. APB I have bought leather belts at Aldi a few times, black and brown. Available about twice a year, made in China and they have eyelets so that they don't stretch. I think that they cost about $10.00 each. Leather belts are also available at R M Williams but they are expensive.
24-May-25

In some workplace such as Government office, it is often that supervisors/team leaders sit side by side with computer and monitor and observe work. This is a common procedure in many workplaces. However, if someone uncomfortable to work side by side with their supervisors, can they decline side by side monitoring ? There are other way they can evaluate their work, of course. I need suggestions from Rewardia members whether this is appropriate to let my team leader...
Daniel A 2
Or then again is it because the new generation of workers is so obsessed with facebook they need to be monitored at work, to make sure they are working.
22-May-25

Overspending. The interest-free installments and smaller payment amounts can make larger purchases seem more affordable than they really are. This can lead to a temptation to buy more stuff than needed, increasing the risk of debt, defaulted payments, and lower credit scores. What else? Is there any downside to buy now, pay later?
Glenys H 310155
if you cannot afford it don't buy it is our mantra, too easy to over commit yourself and go into debt. have to remember Wants not Needs.
08-May-25

With so many product and services that we use, everything is expected to be done online these days, it is getting increasingly frustrating every time you need a password reset. The rules regarding passwords are for our protection, but they are also really counterproductive as it makes it near impossible for us to remember said password when things MUST be a minimum of 8 12 characters, MUST contain at least 1 uppercase letter, MUST contain at least 1 number and...
sherrydp USA
I hate being told what my password should include. It's MY password and if I'm stupid enough to want it to be 12345 then that's my business. Not that I would but I just hate being told what to do. \ud83d\ude21
27-Apr-25

While no conclusive evidence has yet been found of extraterrestrial life, scientists are seeking out worlds like K2-18b with hydrogen-rich atmospheres that astronomers believe to be covered in liquid water. And it's not just government space agencies like NASA that are avidly involved in that work. What are your thoughts? How close are we to finding alien life?
Victoria 315341
I am sure the money spent on space trips etc could be better spent on things here on Earth ! What a blatant waste of tax payers money, The only inhabited planet is the one we are on. They have trashed the Heavens with tons of space junk. Sorry, but its what we humans do here on Earth.
24-Apr-25

Trying to get transportation to a larger hospital when you cannot drive there and get your pets cared for is almost impossible. What do others do? Rural Area.
Aussie Aussie Aussie
Maybe the hospital has a Social Worker that will assist. Make the Hospital and your doctor aware of your situation.\ud83d\ude0a
18-Apr-25

Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health condition in which people have an unreasonably high sense of their own importance. They need and seek too much attention and want people to admire them. People with this disorder may lack the ability to understand or care about the feelings of others. What would you say? Is narcissism a choice or a disorder?
Brandy Yining Z
I think NPD is in the DNA. My previous partner is NPD. He knows how to manipulate and abuse me, both emotionally and financially. He shows the inflated public image as a generous and kind person to the others. Therefore nobody knows what he did to me behind the closed door. I tried to help him out but ended up being put in a vulnerable position myself.
Ironically, he now is single, poor, does not have any friends, does not have a job, does not have his own place to live when he is almost 50 years old. He appeared to have trouble securing the next supply (new victim) except his own mother after we broke up almost 20 years ago. He is a lot worse now especially the monetary exploitation aspect.
Set the healthy boundaries with the others. Look after yourself and stay safe.
25-Mar-25

From my perspective, levels of politeness had decreased overwhelmingly over the decades. What would you say? Are people becoming less polite nowadays?
Lachelle B
1. Technology is contributing to less socialisation. Kids are put in front of screens before, during and after school. Self checkouts - no need to talk to anyone. Landlines - becoming obsolete. Shopping - online no interaction. 2. Political correctness. You are what now? My joke offended you? What does that term even mean? We don't want to speak up in case we offend someone or something. Yes we are less polite, we're creating it.
28-Mar-25

Struggle teaches you prioritisation and helps you realise. What Is Really Important. Prioritisation means choosing what matters most. When you face multiple tasks and responsibilities in life, they will compete for both your time and resources. What would you say? What struggle teaches you?
Gaza
Life in general keeps coming up with problems that have to be solved. The day I stop learning is the day I die.
29-Mar-25

Do you think it is harder to find employment as you age? Do employers look at experience or at the potential employee's age?
Linda 1473555
Definitely the age. When I was working I didnt get interest until I left out my birthdate, dropped off the date of early jobs and covered the grey.
30-Apr-24

For the last 2 Weeks here, we have lots of people here on Holidays and Tourists. Most of these people are speeding in our Village, the legal Speed Limit is 50kph, some people have been driving at around 70kph. Why?
Debra Jay 1237276
Speeding is very common in my area of Oz. They tailgate you if you\u2019re sitting on the speed limit, overtake when they can, and I catch up to them at traffic lights. So they have achieved nothing. That can only be called stupidity!
05-Jan-25

We recently sold our house and are currently renting back while we build. You'd think as tenants in a property we owned up until recently and have been in for 7+ years, the landlord/agent would be pretty easy to deal with, but it has been anything but. We're fortunate to not be worried about 'having a roof over our heads', but I worry for the tenants that come after us. Has anyone ever been in a situation where you didn't 'make waves' about genuine issues with a...
Linda 3
I have owned my house for 30 years now. Before that we rented and the rent didnt go up even though we lived there 6 years They were a nice older couple and if something needed fixing they got on it right away. . These days everything is different and rent prices are ridiculous.
07-Feb-25

A happy life is one filled with contentment, positivity, and loved ones. It's a life where problems don't overwhelm you, where you rarely feel lonely, and where failures don't keep you down. You learn to rise again and achieve your goals. A happy life is consistently filled with positive energy. What do you think? How would you describe a happy life?
Edith v
I should add I have reached 87yrs & my husband 90yrs .We eat well, sleep well, & respect & love each other & all our differences
26-Feb-25

With all the discussions about carbon footprints lately in the media, I have tried to reduce mine. I buy secondhand if I can, have reduced car trips by carpooling and walking. But for me, the biggest hassle is food packaging, mainly plastics on food products, most of this plastic is not recyclable and ends up in the bin. I'm at a point now, where I choose not to buy certain food products because of packaging, however I do go to refillable places like the bin in where possible....
Denise C (Qld)
In Australia I hate the meat packaging that goes on in Woolworths and Coles whereby you need a pair of scissors or a very sharp knife to open the hard plastic covering. Why they introduced this is beyond me.
22-Feb-25

How many times you enter any shop & purchase anything & you choose to pay by card as it is easier than cash. I do via my debit card which is my own money not even via a credit card, anyway as it is safer, gives you a acknowledgment of a receipt of what you have spent & you always have a tally of where your money for that day has gone. What I always like to do is many times check the receipts against your bank statement & you find out that most shops end up charging you a...
BLACK LIVES MATTER
I paid for daily items by cash (if a business entity doesn't accept cash - the business entity will lose a customer - me). I pay for MAJOR items (maintenance fees, telephone, electricity, internet, etc.) by USPS.money orders. Slightly more expensive but I am trying to leave a small digital trail as possible to AVOID DIGITAL SCAMMERS.
09-Feb-25

I have always helped out my kids if I can. But recently, various ventures have started to strain on finances a bit too much. When is it time to say that it is right to cut the apron strings?
Angie
Never too much for me\u2026 I\u2019ll put my daughter\u2019s needs before my own till the day I die. Isn\u2019t that what being a parent is\u2026? If you can\u2019t make sacrifices, then don\u2019t breed
03-Feb-25

My husband after 25 years decided to quit his job in Sept. He hasn't filed for UIC. Just lays on couch all day and does nothing. When l ask him to do something while l'm at work he doesn't his answer I forgot about it. Any ideas how to get him moving again?
Christina C 466456
Is he going through a midlife crises perhaps? Dealing with grief etc? It's not normal for people to just want to sit on a couch and do nothing all of a sudden, unless he's just started retirement and wants a break for a little while. Otherwise there may be depression or some underlying problem.
If you want to help him then do things to help him boost his confidence and challenge himself. Perhaps further study or reassessing what career he's passionate about. Even something as simple as learning another language is good as it's useful in everyday life as well as job prospects. Remind him that he needs to maintain skills to keep them - if you don't use it you lose it as the saying goes and same goes with our physical health like muscle tone - we've all seen images of the stereotypical couch potato. Remind him he needs to look after himself enough so he doesn't slacken.
It sounds like something may have happened in his job maybe. That maybe a good start to getting to the bottom of what's going on in his life. Perhaps he was fired and didn't tell you? Maybe he had a toxic boss or co worker that forced him out of the job. People don't just quit their job for no reason if it's a good job. Maybe ge needs to do some soul searching and is tired of that career path. You're gonna have to figure it out with him.
01-Feb-25

A survey among general practitioners revealed that a daily intake of wine larger than 600ml for men and 500ml for women is considered harmful by some healthcare professionals. This further supports the notion that 750ml of wine each night may be excessive and potentially detrimental to health 3. What would you say? Is it normal to drink wine every night?
Andrew C 287196
These silly, highly flawed studies, are ridiculous. There's a new one every other week that contradicts the previous one. One week a silly study "proves" something is good for you, the next week another silly study "proves" it is bad for you. The idiotic way the media reports these silly studies simply adds to the confusion and potential health dangers.
The reality is that for most food and drink, consuming them *sensibly* is fine, but having excessive amounts of anything is dangerous (including plain water). Just eat and drink whatever you want sensibly, and do what your doctor tells you to.
19-Jan-25

In Australia, they used to advertise for Secret Agents in the Papers...how wild is that?... I applied twice but didn't even get an interview I also applied twice to go out and work on the ice stations at the South Pole ...you do a six month "tour"....but no joy there either...how about you? I would have had a go at the oil rigs too when I was younger!....but they didn't advertise....
EILEEN W 310556
My daughters saw an advertisement for someone to host a new T.V programme and secretly sent in my photo and form. I was surprised to receive an interview and audition but turned up to feel like I was everyone else's Mum. There were models, lycra clad fitness fanatics and glamorous 'wannabes'. I turned to leave but got called back by the receptionist to go into the studio. I played it all for laughs, having nothing to lose. I got the job!!! Hosting a daytime current affairs programme. Today (40 years on) I now train hopefuls for their auditions in Film and TV.
22-Jan-25

Conflict resolution can be challenging, but we all have our unique approaches to navigating difficult situations. What is the go-to phrase or action that consistently helps you de-escalate tensions or reach a positive outcome? Share your experiences and insights to inspire others!
EILEEN W 310556
There is no point arguing or wasting breath on someone who is so blinded to reality they cannot accept any other point of view.
29-Dec-24

I just did a survey where they clearly expected you to be paying monthly fees for a whole range of services. From the software you use...for all the music you listen to...to all you watch TV or your movies....leasing cars is another big contender too even for your food...REALLY! It's been gently gradual, and met no resistance so far. Easy money ... it's a perfect Corporate Future ... we are always in their debt, and we own nothing. THAT'S why they are...
Jennine 1587631
It is what the new world order wants but they are unrealistic in that many people are on low incomes and are not going to be able to afford their fees. There will be push back and there will be refusal and making do and doing without. Some of us lived without cellphones, and computers for several decades and we can do it again. We have skills and knowledge that will help us get by. People in the city and burbs will be more controlled but a lot of rural areas are left and people are not going to move willing into the city or suburbs. We will survive There has actually been resistance in some regions and areas around the globe. People can live without a lot of things they think they need but they are just wants not needs however if they don't have the skills, knowledge and wisdom they will not do so well. We will have a cashless society soon and the NWO will implement compliance or we cannot buy or sell. But there is barter and trade. Many people will not survive and die. Some from famine /starvation, some from diseases and sickness, some will be enslaved, some murdered. Some from floods, and hurricanes and bad weather or fires. NWO wants 15-30 minute cities as well. We might not have electricity to play movies or music. Better buy books, games, cards, and musical instrumants that can be utilized for entertainment. Learn to can, dry and preserve what food you can and to gather food as well. I know and have those skills and knowledge as do my adult children and some of my grandchildren as well. Do you know edible wild food and what is poison or not. Yes mushrooms, berries, catkins, and how to fix them. Wild game as well is another thing to trap or use other means for food, having a water source that is year around is also imperative. Do you know how to make food from scratch? Beans and Legumes and Rice and Oatmeal and Cornmeal or something you will need and flour, honey, sugar, salt, spices, Canned foods of various type and dried goods. Peanut butter and canned milk, powdered milk. Pastas are all important. The only perfection is for the elite wealthy everyone else will be their servants this has been desired for a couple centuries to get back to Lords, Ladies, Kings, Queens, Royalty and serfs and peon's. If you refuse they will consider you a criminal and you better know how to survive. They will leave some alone to the elements thinking they will die but not everyone will there will be survivors. The so called future the powers that be desire will not last they have never lasted. They will be overthrown an conquered as well. If you have no faith or belief you will comply if you have a faith you will survive and will not comply. It is not paranoia it is being prepared and ready for anything.
19-Dec-24

With Halloween just around the corner, I started thinking about ghosts. Do you believe in ghosts or paranormal activity? There are millions of people that testify to seeing things with their own two eyes that cannot be refuted. Do you have any personal experiences you'd like to share? With so many believers, how could ghosts and ghostly experiences not be real? Ghost hunting and paranormal investigating is a huge business these days.
Jennine 1587631
I do not believe in "ghosts" but I do know there are evil demonic spirits that impersonate loved ones. We need to be very careful about such things. Scriptures says to not engage them and command them to depart in The name of Jesus Christ.
31-Oct-24

I love to hang out my wash outdoors to dry fresh, smells so good, and love to bring them back in with the freshness from outdoors. How many others still hang out clothes? So many these days use dryers for convenience, I have a dryer, but I prefer fresh air and sunshine.
Laura W 363255
Always fresh air as don\u2019t have dryer. Sheets feel so good & fresh! Australia has the best fresh air.
02-Oct-24

My father opened a door for two girls in their late teens or early twenties. One of them snapped at him, we re not handicapped you know, we can do that ourselves . Dad replied, I m dreadfully sorry, I was clearly mistaken in that I assumed you were both Ladies . One of them stormed ahead, while her mate collapsed in giggles. What is your story? What is the most polite rudeness you've ever witnessed?
APB
there is the story about the stewardess at gate 19 in the airport (I was told she worked for Virgin)...who was having an argument with a customer over his ticket...he said "Do you know who I am??...she lent forward turned on her microphone and "we have a passenger at gate 19 who doesn't know who he is"...she brought the house down!
29-Sep-24

Do you feel that the weather impacts your mood and daily life? In the cold months you are less energised and prefer to stay home compared to warmer months when you might go to see a show. I feel the weather and seasons definitely impact me, but I push myself to get out there and do things it just seems less enjoyable in the cooler weather
Woofers
Of course it does! Hasn't anyone ever heard of SADS disorder?
It is a well known recognised disorder that some people suffer from.
24-Sep-24

"Stay positive no matter what happens." That's one simple piece of advice that changed my life. I learned the importance of this advice the hard way when my life was travelling along just nicely. What about you? What is one piece of simple advice that actually changed your life?
Carol S 657195
I had heard it for years but had no idea how to do it. My advice was to love myself. Finally, I realized that I was no worse than anyone else. We all have skeletons in our closets, but my depression would not allow me to forgive myself even though I knew I was a good person with a heart full of love for everyone. Finally, I figured out why I had done the things I was not proud of, and I realized anyone would have done the same in the same circumstances. Now I love myself, and it has changed my life completely!
23-Sep-24

Op shop shopping, has become very popular for all ages. I donate regularly when I have a "clean up." It is a great way for organisation's to make money. But, I have also noticed as the popularity has increased so have the prices! Would it not be better to keep prices low & guarantee more turnover? Have others noticed the changes?
Glenys H 310155
My husband and I manage a small op shop run by our church. We are all volunteers and with money raised (once overheads are paid) we donate a large portion to local groups and 2 international projects started by ladies living in our local area. Some of the major charity groups now employ coordinators, and pay some staff members and this is reflected in the pricing. We regularly have sales specials and reward our loyal local shoppers with a loyalty card giving a discount on their 8th visit. We have standardised pricing most clothing items are $4 each, childrens clothing 00000 - 14 are 5 items for $1; new items with tags and better quality items are priced accordingly and are on separate racks. We also have an understanding with local employment agencies whereby their clients going to a job interview can access clothing for the interview free of charge. Try to look for one of the independent op shops in your area because I am sure you will find that the prices are more reasonable and support your local area to a greater extent.
21-Sep-24

I came from the age where spankings were a normal form of discipline. It was never severe, and we barely felt it. I feel that is made us respect our parents in a way that children don't do anymore. Perhaps I'm wrong, but did a gentle spanking do more than hurt our feelings because we knew we did something wrong? In school, I believe some type of discipline should be implemented other than yelling! I don't care for the idea of yelling at children, especially in front of...
BLACK LIVES MATTER
I thought disciplining children was the JOB of the parent and educating children was the JOB of the teacher. Maybe parents should start doing their JOB! Furthermore, donald john trump is from the spanking children school generation. Would spanking trump when he was in school - would spanking do him any good...hm...
09-Sep-24

Tomatoes mmm tasty...BUT NO....not a vegetable...it's a fruit...when ripe it is full of fructose a bad sugar...rots your teeth and makes you fat...it gets better...part of the deadly nightshade family too...can cause inflammation and gout...but it's a major part of the Mediterranean diet...that is so good for you...who do you believe?....
Bugalugs
Everything in moderation. Too much Salt (NaCL) = Hardened Arteries & heart problems. Too much Fat = Heart problems, obesity. Too much Sugar = Obesity, Type 2 Diabetes. Read the Labels if you value your health. Watch out for all those Chemicals with weird names you can't pronounce or just Numbers both of which are meaningless. Want to cut down on the Sugar.Fructose intake? Then make sure there are NO Artificial Sweeteners such as Aspartame etc., some of which are highly Carcinogenic. Stay away from those so-called Natural Sweeteners with No Calories such as Stevia. they may not make you Fat, Ugly and Obese BUT they do nothing to reduce your Addiction to Sweet things, they just keep the Addiction going. Apply this to those Soft Drinks too. The makers proudly claim "NO Sugar", "ZERO Sugar" but they don't want you to stop drinking them so they sweeten them artificially to maintain Your Addiction to Sweet things.
01-Sep-24

Society in the West seems to be generally the majority ganging up on some smaller groups and targeting them...making them feel outcasts...dirty...people who need help...from the "Experts"...who can then save them from their terrible lives...a bit like the Witch hunts really...... The Spanish Inquisition....my doctor described me as a miracle (while laughing) I was the only patient she had met...at 68... who did not take any prescribed medication on a regular basis...and...
Paula J 395266
I agree that you are living a clean healthy life but you are wrong when you say the majority picks on the minority as it's quite the reverse. The people demonstrating for Palestine are a minority, the people pushing man-made climate change are a minority, the people who claim a man can be a woman are certainly a minority and the LGB and whatever other letters they have are a minority. They all scream and shout while the silent majority keeps their heads down and gets on with it.
23-Aug-24

I am calling it a deep cleaning of my house. I am getting rid of anything I have acquired over the 20 years living here, donating to worthy causes, and making my house easier to clean at the same time. Likewise, I wondered, what do others think of this idea?
Kim L 88315
I'm attempting to do this too. We have such a small house and often trip over things left on the floor. We dont have any broom cupboards or linen cupboards or a garage so things get stored inside.
15-Aug-24

Some people are just more sensitive, introspective and thoughtful, and tend to have more angst and ennui about life in general than others. Plus, everything else can be perfect, and you can just get unlucky and have something terrible happen that you could never have imagined or prevented. What are your thoughts? Why is life harder for some people?
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Racism, sexism, sexual orientation, physical disabilities, mental health issues since birth, and abusive parents - just to name a few things that happen every day in the 'real world' - which makes LIFE harder for some people on an everyday basis!
30-Jul-24

In view of the current economic situation that most people are experiencing higher living costs. What s your best saving hacks?
catherine 1489090
I learned to always give a little bit more on my bills until Im 1payment ahead, Goal is 2 have one month 'credit' on my bills, that is same 4 me as saving bcoz if something happens I know Im in good standing one month in advance. Many times in low seasons, I also pay a smaller bill in QTRly amount, like the water bill, than adding that 2 the bigger bill. In Spring and Autumn, I pay extra 2 compensate 4 the Summer/Winter bills, It really helps also 2 do surveys online while eating lunch of a snack. Lastly, everyday, I look at my bank balance, I save the change in an account instead of a jar. Both work but its auto. If I spend 31.99, than my saving change would be .99cents. That realy adds up and is FUN 4 me 2 have different ways.
27-Jul-24

I am enjoying participating in surveys and play games. Also, it is not just for nothing; Rewardia gives some points, which is a grand gesture. Before I did some surveys there and there, no platform was good enough and not so much fun. Maybe, I chose the wrong ones. However, I found Rewardia and decided to stay here. I am not doing so much, no time, but I keep going. Yes, sometimes I screened out, sometimes errors happen, but I keep going because it is fun and I do not...
beverly w 540992
i love rewardia, i do the surveys and the games, but i get a little upset because they send surveys to me in nz, at 2am when i am in bed, so when i go on to do it, i have been screened out or it has been filled. i do the sudoka,patience and scramble, though i am getting a little pissed off with that lately.can anyone tell me how you pronounce psi as a word,yet a word like reap is unknown. but i still enjoy doing everything as it keeps the old brain in use, and as i live alone it stops me from being lonely.
07-Sep-21

I dated a felon & he is the nicest guy I know. Do you have a friend that was a felon?
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Former POTUS Donald JOHN TRUMP is a convicted felon - Do you believe he is capable of learning from his MISTAKES or can any unknown 'convicted felon' learn from her/his mistake. ... hm....
16-Jun-24

Some members complain about things...others love everything ...others would like changes...when you come onto the Rewardia site, what are the things that you go to first...that you feel you NEED to check?...or that you want to do and "clear away" first?...what are your favourites?...do you even do the surveys?..it would be really great to find out wouldn't it?
Jillian S
I like doing surveys, but hate being screened out part the way through or comes up with blank page and miss out on points even when I’ve worked on survey for at least 10 mins, complete waste of my time and effort
01-Mar-21

When my daughter turned 1 year old, July 20, 1969, men landed on the moon. I have been against the space program from the beginning, and I'd love to know how others feel. My thinking is, if the Billions of dollars spent on the space program over the past 55 years would have been spent on this earth, not one person would be without anything! We would all have everything we need including a place to live, plenty to eat, clothes on our backs and medical care. Also,...
Julie K 348980
At first glance it seems like a lot of money has been spent on the space program. However, when you look at it in total, many amazing scientific discoveries have been made.
Camera phones. Scratch resistant lenses. CAT scans. LEDs. Athletic shoes. Water purification systems. Dust busters. Home insulation. Jaws of Life. Wireless headsets. Memory foam. Baby formula. Artificial limbs. Computer mouse. Portable computers.
20-May-24

There are many rewards programs and offers out at the moment, some have been around for a while and some are newer on the scene. Some come with credit cards or airlines, while others are with groceries. A clear favourite would be Rewardia for doing surveys etc, which one of the main reasons we are here. What are some of your favourites and why and if you are happy to share what do you like to get as a reward for yourself.
Linda C
I do surveys to receive ecertificates which I use to supplement my grocery purchases because without them I would not eat much. I thank them very much. I also have flybuys and Woolworths cards which I scan every time I shop and these too add up but not as quickly as they used to. I am surprised many people do not use them as the cost is built in and they would probably save much more than I do.
21-Apr-24

Many people seem to not worry about planning for their retirement until it is just around the corner and panic starts to set it. Those with a plan from a professional or have completed their own research and planning themselves at a younger age can retire with a lot less worry and stress when the time comes. Interested to know have you started planning years ahead of your retirement and if not why is this the case (e.g. don t know where to start, which professionals to...
writerrochelle
Have I got a story for you! Forced to retire at 62 because my "husband" took my car, I started drawing Social Security, until he demanded it too. Left without my car and my money, I spent 3 1/2 years "imprisoned" by him, unable to even buy groceries. He took me out once a day to a Mexican restaurant where I ate everything I could and I went up to 208 pounds on my 5'4" body. In 2013 he moved me to WA state where we were to retire together, but he left me at the Navy Lodge on base like a bag of garbage and he returned to Texas. They let me stay from May 21 to July 3 when I was evicted owing over $3000! Well, I went back to work at age 66 and retired, again, at age 72, when COVID-19 hit. I saved up over $10,000 in those 6 years, now living on Social Security, Section 8 housing, food stamps (EBT card), grants for electricity and a $30 discount for the internet! I now weigh 135 pounds, am 5'2" (yes, we do shrink!), and am healthier and happier than I've been in my life! Yes, I still have my savings and am allowed to have it! AND, I went to the government and got my permanent military ID card WITHOUT my "husband"! God is Great! God is Good! ;-D
06-Apr-24

How people cope with the cost of living costs which includes food (i.e.) fruit and vegetables and meat And how people cope and deal with the prices of rental properties which also includes power internet and how people are able to purchase clothes and shoes and other appliances for their rental home If people own their own home or homes how do they get on paying there mortgage and maintaining there property but also how do they deal with the high interest rates...
Kirsten 1469233
I am struggling with the cost of living, hence do as many Rewardia surveys as possible which I cash in for Woolworths vouchers
25-Mar-24

MedsCheck is a government program. For reviewing customer's medication to ensure individuals are informed about their prescription and taking the right combination of medicine. This service is performed by the pharmacies to the public and it's free. But the Canadian health Ministry reimburses pharmacies up to $75 per call. Canadian province Ontario's Ministry of health said, it already paid out $60 million for MedChecks in the 2022 2023 fiscal year but...
Priscilla R 316016
Hope this doesn't happen here in Australia. The big Pharma companies would have an even greater field day.
03-Mar-24

McDonald's restaurants have poor customer service, food usually is cold you get less for what you pay, these self-serve machines to order are ridicule half the time they don't work. The restaurants are always messy. I won't eat inside cause of the filthy. It's not fast food service anymore, should bring it back the way it uses to be. You got your food right away it was fresh and hot, you had to order at the counter and it was good service. They always had workers cleaning...
Brandy Yining Z
I live in New Zealand. We have nice fresh food, clean restaurants and good customer service in McDonald's here. I only go to McDonald's occasionally but I appreciate the good experience there.
30-Jan-24

I am 47 years old and have been dyeing my hair for years, as I didn t think I was old enough to age gracefully. Now I am wondering if I should let the grey show on top or not my hair is long and the grey is not all through I don t want to look like an old lady, but I don t feel like a silver fox
Janet H 854956
Don\u2019t call it GREY! I refer to mine as VINTAGE BLONDE. Another 28 years and I will change it to ANTIQUE BLONDE! \ud83d\ude01\ud83d\ude01
18-Jan-24

Who actually does love holidays with family. They seam to be more than a headache then they are actually worth. In today's world, people have changed so much, it is not like the olden days, where they gather around a huge table eat, drink, talk & share. Everyone seams to want & want, but never give anymore. A simple card to acknowledge has also gone out of the door & has been replaced by texting or sending a GIF through messenger. Where is the love of actually buying...
ROBERT K 1065766
I love Christmas and miss when I was young and would get together with most of my aunt and uncles. We would all get together at grandmas home. I miss those days,
01-Jan-24

In 2019, it was quoted that Australia had the 8th best standard of living. The USA came in about 17. Norway was number 1. Do you think the statistics are really the truth? It's possible that they are inflating them to make them look good on paper? In Australia, at least...in might make the government of the day look good! Your views?
Michelle S 553303
I think it's important to reflect on what measurements were used to come to this determination. I'm old enough to remember Bob Hawk's promise that 'by the year 2000 no child would live in poverty in Australia " whereas the truth is that was NEVER going to happen! Today more children are living in poverty than EVER before and the rate will continue to rise. When you have families paying more than 20% of their total net income on housing, whether rented or mortaged, one of 2 things will occur. Either the family will reign in spending on non essential items or they will use credit to continue the standard of living without really being able to afford it. Many people, especially those with families, will often just use more credit because they don't want their children to miss out on things. Unfortunately, when interest rates go up, which is inevitable, people will NOT be able to continue gaining MORE credit to continue the cycle and either refinance their existing mortgage to gain equity in their home and have available funds for take out meals, holidays and education amongst other things or, if their home is foreclosed on they'll lose everything! Some will reign in spending but I know from personal experience that I'll say to myself "You'll have enough for that" only to discover something else comes along and I can't pay for this thing. I remember hearing at one time a butcher telling someone that in his expensive zip code there were FAR more people buying sausages than steak. But kids in family units where the annual income is only 20K are going to suffer WAY more. I have worked with people in poverty and although there are functional family units that put the children's needs above their own there are too many families where kids get the "scraps' quite literally. I FEEL for these disadvantaged children who often have poor educational and job prospects and a diet lean on nutrition and high on fast food or a diet of frozen fish fingers, which I enjoyed as a child, pies and chips. I once knew a family and those kids came into my home to stay for a while and when I served up fresh beans and other "exotic" vegetables these children didn't recognise them! Because a standard of living, to MY understanding, includes the total sum being measured which is then added together, divided and a mean average taken, there is going to be those living the life of Riley and others struggling to survive! I will ABSOLUTELY concede that measured against Afghanistan, Syria, Yemen and Madagascar we in Australia, even those of us on pensions, live like kings. Finally, I do not own a home anymore but rent. Women in my age group, the later 50's, are the fastest growing group to end up homeless. It makes me grateful that I have a place to live in instead of my car or even the street. I'm going to take care that I live within my means! Thanks for reading this.
14-Feb-22

Who's excited for Christmas? I know I am. Haven't had a Christmas with the family for 2 years due.to being overseas but this time for sure I'm making the most of being in my home town
Catharina 1274733
Who cares whether it\u2019s religious or not \ud83e\udd23 it\u2019s time for a family to get together. Be happy and let\u2019s get the ball rolling \ud83e\udd73 \ud83e\uddd1\u200d\ud83c\udf84 \ud83e\udd17
28-Nov-23

I think it's real sad the government is trying to get rid of cash payments. What about children who get pocket money for little chores etc. I remember getting coins from my parents, to go grab a treat from the dairy. Controlling human beings with technology these days.
Sheree T
One would think the government would have a lot more important things to concentrate on. Everything seems to be out of control such as the cost of living in general it is absolutely ridiculous what you pay in groceries now not to mention everything else.
If I have cash in my purse and a store did not want to except it, I would never shop there again.
17-Aug-23

Homelessness is becoming a big thing no matter what country you re in? Is the governments really doing enough, or are there other countries we can look at that have in place things that are working towards a better future for those whom are homeless and vulnerable in our societies?
Lee b 979050
The rich get richer the poor get the picture... homelessness is the responsibility of all not just governments. You see many people on the streets yes but have you ever spoken to one? Battered bruised abused mental health issues untrusting all the results of what these people have been put through. It is hard for them to come back from the wilderness without proper care attention and medication.
Yes governments could do more but we as a society must do our bit as well. By that I mean working the soup kitchens providing essentials clothing food etc. Sparing a little fir thise in need does a lot
06-Oct-23

Has anyone here purchased a hybrid car? If so, what are the pros and cons in your opinion? Thinking of upgrading
APB
I've got a hybrid dog...half sheepdog and half poodle...but I've had my renault locked up in the garage with a porche for months and still no result...maybe they just don't like each other......
17-Oct-23

The "average" family has more than $20,000 in consumer debt. Can you believe it? Are you in debt? What do you do to help keep your family out of debt? How do you pay it off?
Christopher F 213467
the only debt we have is a mortgage which is literally a debt till death. Pay your credit card in full every time as debts like this grow exponentially. If necessary go hungry or this debt will eat you!
20-Oct-23

We are all eventually going to live in a cashless society. I really don't like this idea at look, because so many little things we do will be scrapped out, as cash will not be around. Jobs will be lost & more banks will close their doors. We need banks, banks keep our society to communicate. It is hard on many people to do everything via online & ATM machines. Neither service is 100% safe. Take the elderly people, they were not brought up on neither technology. They...
Martin D
The Maquarie bank in Australia is going cashless by 2024. This means that you won't be able to draw cash from your account through the ATM.
This is all about control of the people. The shops & business' are charged by the banks when you use your card to pay for goods & services. These charges are being passed onto the consumer by business' because of the crippling costs.
I'll leave you with these thoughts..... The Commonwealth Bank in Australia made something like $10 billion profit for the first half of this year. What interest rate do you get on your savings in the bank ?
BTW negative interest rates will be introduced very soon, like they have in some European countries. That means the banks will be charging you to keep your money there, money that you can't withdraw in cash.
The banks operate illegally, the governments know they do, the banks put money aside to pay the fines & everyone goes on their merry way !
19-Sep-23

I often have seen options in screening questions that are obviously fake and designed to weed out robots or people that randomly select answers without really reading them, but I had to laugh out loud when I saw "Raktajino" as a possible answer to select on "what do you drink regularly". For those who are not Trekkies, Raktajino is a fictional Klingon coffee drink often chosen as the goto pick me up across the galaxy. Though there are "recipes" on the internet for...
Chosen
They often first ask if I am male or female and when I answer " male " they then ask if I am pregnant............. Ummmmm.
30-Aug-23

Some believe aliens are getting ready to invade, others think they've been here among us for millions of years. What is your belief?
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Do I believe in Alien Life Form (aka ALF)? DEFINITELY! FYI: ALF can also be spelt as: D O N A L D J O H N T R U M P.
26-Jul-23

I have been doing work as a genealogist for my family and friends for Over 10 years. I have used DNA test results for myself and also for my parents and my adult children, etc. It has proven invaluable for me in my research. I feel the positive outweighs the negative. How do others feel about this?
Michelle S 553303
I have no desire to give my DNA to ANYONE for ANYTHING! I don't believe that many people are aware that DNA is the new information source of the 21st century and that companies get paid big money for DNA samples from people who donate their genetic samples, thinking that their privacy will be maintained and that they still have a say in what their DNA is used for, but the industry is far more nefarious than that. I certainly have no intention of having MY DNA sitting in a database in China but China DOES have millions upon millions of genetic sequences from people around the 1st world who wouldn't themselves have consented to such violations of their genetic property.. The future is targeted vaccines and biological warfare,and bioengineering and DNA can tell a Scientist SO much!. Whether it's determining how to use racially diverse or gender specific targeting for "health care", the creation of organs through the creation of stem cells from the DNA and creating a '"cloned" organ, which IS possible within a laboratory setting, the use of DNA in Science would simply blow many people's minds. Whether it's buccal cells from the cheecks, mucosal samples from the nose, sperm, ova or blood, genetics can be manipulated in labs in Communist nations without moral or ethical safeguards we here in the West would anticipate and expect. I UNDERSTAND that people have a curiosity about their ancestral linage and good for them, but for me there are 2 reasons why I won't do a DNA test through 23 and Me, Ancestry. com or the other companies out there. The first is that I have ZERO interest in opening up a can of worms, which I believe would be the situation in my case and secondly my distrust in exactly where my DNA would end up! Science has given us many, many benefits over the years but we've gone too far with our curiosity and that can be a very bad thing! Thanks for reading.
05-Mar-23

Having siblings or no siblings has a major impact on how we turn out. There are pro's and con's for both scenarios, for example scarce resources but large social network in big families or loneliness for single child families but better resources. How do you think your family situation has shaped you?
allin3/24
on my own until 17, no siblings, joined the army, 8 year infantry,, raised 2 boys, life is good most of the time,,, when you have to learn life on your own, the hard way, you appreciate life more, you try to help when help is needed, as i got help when i needed it, so i pass it on, i have no use for narcissistic people, people that start unfounded conspiracy theories, i reckon that includes those that like their own posts as nobody else will, lol,, folks that constantly complain,, they should just be happy to have a roof over their head, a lot of folks in this world do not,, people dividing the USA with their far right conspiracy crap, but i reckon they have that right to be buttholes, as someone's son/brother/father/mother, gave their all so y'all can
17-Jun-23

I have struggled to: 'squeeze whilst pushing down AND turning' a toilet cleaner lid, that once finally off, I left off! What do you think are the worst 'childproof' lids to get off / containers to get into?
Andrew C 287196
Not "child proof", but the tin cans with the pull tab lids are often extremely difficult to open. :-(
12-Mar-23

Air travel is creating so much pollution. Can it be avoided ? What will happen?
Sharon T 891767
That would be crazy to ban Air travel you know how many people who be out of jobs. And Cities & Countries would lose Tourism.
02-Jun-23

We have been through Covid, and it's still around, of course. The other day, the WHO Organisation, mentioned the recent outbreak monkeypox. Which is a bit similar to smallpox and chicken pox, having expressed their concerns. It's been spreading into around 15, ---countries or so... simultaneously. They can't rule out another pandemic, but think it's less likely than Covid to spread everywhere. It can kill, but in most cases people get better. They are uncertain as...
Aisha A 379399
All these viruses seem to appear suddenly. The pharmaceutical companies must be making a lot of money. It would help if GPs want to see you, because people end up in the ER of a hospital and have to wait for hours. That's really bad especially when you are in a lot of pain.
04-Jun-22

It is your assistant, it buzzes vibrates and bleeps telling you how much you need it. It now may have your credit card, loyalty cards and any number of other things like your driver's licence ... vaccination records ... references from past landlords and employers ... every phone number that you may need ever ... and it wants more and more because that way it is irreplaceable ... BUT ... what happens when you lose your best buddy? For anyone reliant, this can be a major life...
Daniel A 2
In no way. I don't use Smart phones. Though I did loose my little 15 dollar mobile I bought at big W, that is annoying to loose all the contacts, though I still keep a lot of Em written on a peice of paper not all of them but, and I know it a hassell putting it all on again. Found it again.
Don't use smart phones they are part of a sceem to take over the world for the eleite. waste of money.
05-May-23

I do not make a habit of going to the Emergency Department as we call it here in Australia but in this last week while on a short break (the first in years) I noticed that my foot, which had been a bit sore prior to my short break, was becoming progressively worse in that it was becoming more inflamed looking and swollen each day. So I took myself off to Emergency on a Saturday night. I was spoken to very courteously by the Triage Nurse. After sitting there for...
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Question(s): Where you in danger of permanently losing use of your foot (trained medical staff at that rural emergency room came to the conclusion you were not)? Are you in danger of losing use of your foot - NOW? You were using a rural emergency room for a non-emergency issue. Rural emergency room are understaffed, and you should have set an appointment with a MD in your community/neighborhood for an initial diagnosis of the severity of your foot problem - which you did not do. I don't see a basis for a complaint - based on the information your provided in your post! Furthermore, I never understood why people use 'emergency rooms' for 'non-emergency ' medical issues which lead to horrendous 'wait" time.
20-Mar-23

There are a lot of people out there who know the answer...come on please help!!!
Debbie W 69651
Stop anyone that is not an Australian Citizen from buying property in our country. The cost of property has sky rocketed over the last few years making it hard for people to buy their own home. Lots of other countries won't let non citizens purchase homes and it is about time the Government stepped in.
21-Nov-21

We all have our differences when it comes to raising children, what are your views on public & private schooling? Do the pros outweigh the cons when you're looking at a much bigger price tag for education?
Lorraine M 1109115
All my children went to public schools, and both have good careers, PRIVATE schools are way way over priced and I believe the education isn't really focused on the real issues of today like (1) trade subjects, (2) Business Management and more, private schools are more into religion and that's not important in getting a real career, teachers are more dedicated to helping the kids in the public school system too. PUBLIC schooling gets my vote.
04-Mar-23

I was arrested and interviewed for 2 and a half hours. My ex is a policeman and has an avo out on me, I sent text messages thru a court appointed app about our children, no swearing, no threats just related to our children. Just because he's a policeman, I get arrested and now could get a charge because he's offended that he feels I'm questioning his parenting skills. The police in Australia are using the system to bully and harass their ex-partners.
Pat C 618241
AS A YOUNG ADULT I HEARD ABOUT POLICE TAKING BENEFITS FROM SMALL BUSINESS, things like lollies, cigarettes all to be handed over for free to police, also the overwhelming corruption in the treatment of prostitutes by the police, I thought this had been corrected as I grew up but the last few years seem to show that such is not the case, some people cannot be trusted even with small powers because it leads to belief they can do whatever they want just by the power of wearing the uniform.
25-Feb-23

I'm the mother of a bride to be, so I'm a little put out that I spend money, and yet I'm invited to the wedding? Would have thought that could be taken for granted. Am I being silly?
Micheal M (WPASSR-US)
Yes. Give me their number. I'll call n have them uninvited you. You're old enough and smart enough to get over it.
08-Jan-23

It's that time of the year again when we say goodbye to another year and welcome in a new one. So how has 2022 been, and how will you remember it? I was glad to see the end of restrictions and mask wearing and to be able to catch the shows that had been put off the year before. My daughter moved from the country to the city, so I see her more now. Her husband had to give up his license, but is able to catch public transport while he tries to get a job. My...
Michele B 208102
Am praying for a better year in 2023 as the last 3 years have taken its toll on everyone in one form or another
29-Dec-22

Although farming generally isn't entirely environmentally friendly, is it as bad as the media portrays? Have you done your research? Have you weighed up the environmental impacts of farming vs cities? Most farmers, especially in New Zealand, care about the environment and animals and feel misunderstood by people who don't understand what we try to do for the environment or how much we care about the land. What have you heard about farming? What do you think about it?
Sarah G 76834
Farming is an ancient and noble profession. David was a shepherd and Jesus was a figurative shepherd.
31-Oct-22

Has modern society destroyed relationships between men and women irreparably? The growth of radical men's groups encouraging men to give women a wide berth are gaining popularity in this time of political correctness while in Japan, men and women are choosing the single life in growing numbers. What do you think is the solution?
Paula J 395266
It's all about selfishness. It's all about me, me, me and not us. I have watched as people care far more about themselves now and their feelings. How else do you explain so many relationship breakdowns? People have no respect for one another, or integrity, honesty, manners or loyalty. I met my husband when I was 16 and at 18 needed my parents permission to marry him. When we tell people we have been married for almost 55 years instead of congratulating us people make jokes such as you don't get that long for murder. Shouldn't a marriage that has lasted that long be valued or even admired instead of denigration?
14-Sep-21
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