Discussions of the day

Will it change the way you use social media? I am so grateful the documentary was made, it can be the beginning of accountability and change. It s incredible that none of the computer scientists who created social media allow their children to use it. They understand how damaging it is, I guess.
lippy loo
Not on social media and have no children on it either. The little I know of it though it sounds scary and dangerous.
30-Oct-20

Does loud chewing irritate you? It drives me crazy. I mean were these people brought up in a cave? Where are their manners?
Imperia S '' PIER''
I personally have no problems with the way people eat their food, so long as they enjoy the meal and thank the person that cooked it. And does anyone realize that in some Countries it is considered OK to burp at the table or if they lick the plate after a meal, It shows the provider that the person appreciated and enjoyed the meal. In Australia, we are so "Would Bes" that we frown at everything
07-Sep-20

I would rather be eaten by a crocodile than die in a plane crash. The thought is truly terrifying. But because I travel a lot, I've had to learn how to cope. I find copious amounts of wine helps calm my fear.
Amensch1
Have flow alot, but the only time was when the plane attempted to land the weather was wet & the plane slid over the tarmat so scary
03-Sep-20

Has it got to the point in our evolution where we can't string a bunch of sentences together coherently? The other day, I received a text from the opposite sex that basically spoke in full emoji and I had no idea what they were talking about. Perhaps we should give up speaking all together and start grunting.
lippy loo
I have seen people sitting next to each other speaking via their phone text messages. Utterly ridiculous. Still see them texting whilst driving. Can't put the things down for 5 seconds. I agree, these emoji's confuse me also. Maybe English should be taught in schools again like it was 50 years ago.
22-Aug-20

Have you become more creative and resourceful during lockdown? What have you learnt most about yourself? I have found different ways to express myself and connect with people through the digital world, what about you?
BeeUnikay
Definitely more creative and resourceful during lockdown, in a lot of ways it has put things in perspective for me and has changed the way I view the world...I'm more outspoken and has reminded me of just how precious each day can be, it's the little things that matter most
29-Jul-20

When I overuse social media I really feel a lull in my mood. Sometimes it can lead to a major depression. Other times I just feel really anxious. I have given up social media many times throughout the years and always feel my life force come back. Perhaps it's time to deactivate or delete again?
Autumn
I'm not on Facebook or Instagram. I don't know the names of the other ones. Rewardia is the closest thing to social media that I'm involved in. I don't feel the need for the approval of people who feel they have the right to abuse me because I don't know them. The whole idea seems ridiculous to me, but I know that children can be harmed by things that they see on social media.
23-Jul-20

I suffer from Endometriosis and was recently told by my doctor that CBD may help. I've read heaps of articles on the internet, that say the oil has changed their life. I am thinking about trying it. What are other people's experiences with it?
Bugalugs
The problem really is that it is called Hemp and some silly people immediately associate this product with Illicit Drug Use when in fact it contains none of the drug associated with smoking pot/weed etc.. I would certainly try it if I had an issue with severe, on-going pain.
28-Jul-20

Apart from the fact one mostly sees overweight people drinking it. If you're going to drink Coke at all, why not drink the real thing? I've read that artificial sweeteners are really unhealthy for your body. Diet coke? No thanks!
Sand
Diet coke is very unhealthy and actually makes people gain weight. The original Coke Formula "7X" was manufactured outside in a 44 gallon drum by a pharmacist. So from crap Coke to Diet coke I don't touch the stuff.
15-Jul-20

Once upon a time, to be considered beautiful, meant you had won the genetic lottery. Now any ordinary person who's had plastic surgery makes the grade. As far as I'm concerned, if it's artificial, it doesn't count!
Katzeye
Not a chance and there is no way I would ever get botox or any enhancing surgery on my face or my body for that matter.If you live a balanced healthy lifestyle and look after your skin there is no need for work to be done.The best thing you can do for your skin,use sunscreen daily even in winter.
10-Jul-20

In the 80s I used to go to Bingo with my grandpa, the numbers were called out slow and the game was nice and relaxed. In 2019, I went as a joke with a friend after a bottle of wine. And we couldn t believe how fast bingo had gotten. It was like an Olympic Sport. It seems life sped up and so did the bingo halls.
JoeB
It used to be fun but now it’s like a chore and all about the money. The fun is gone, the social side is gone...bah!!!
21-Nov-20

YouTube is a wonderful resource for DIY activities. So quirky and inventive. Creators making acrylic nails from toilet paper or designing lookalike celebrity fashions from thrift shop bargains. Do you watch DIY videos on youtube? If so, what are your favourite channels?
JoeB
Some things are ok but You Tube has a penchant to shunt you to a porn tube after about 5 clicks....annoying
31-Oct-20

So many people hate individual sports such as tennis, they find it boring. I m the opposite, I think it's more exciting than team sports. It's about tactics and the individual. Are you a tennis fan? Do you prefer individual sports to team sports?
CILLY0
Think it is great to watch and to play. My 86 year old neighbour still plays twice a week - not a Federer game these days, but she still gets round the court very well.
23-Oct-20

I recently purchased a swisse ball for crunches. Great buy! My abs are finally starting to get some definition.
Wazzahen
My last fitness equipment was buying a bike which I use everyday weather permitting don’t need any other gear
25-Sep-20

I did once and I still feel guilty about it. But I couldn't find a parking spot and I was majorly stressed out. Sometimes it's nice to play the rebel.
lippy loo
Yes I have a permit but it does really annoy me to see people with no sticker do it. Self important morons
15-Aug-20

I love reading, so the thought of an author of a book reading to me via an audio book makes me want to vomit. Podcasts are the same, I haven't given them a proper go yet and maybe I should. In the 90s, audio books were more targeted to the elderly audience. So the fact that millennials buy them on Audible is a shock to this Xennial
JoeB
Different strokes for different folks. If you don’t like something then just don’t do it, no need to get your lingerie into a gordion knot
31-Jul-20

Actually, in all honesty, I find it offensive. A day for conglomerates to make money out of the contrivance of romance. If I love someone, I don t need a special day, set out by society for me. Love is far too evolved for a day where people exchange red roses and cheesy greeting cards. Yuck!
Henrietta
When Valentine's Day first started (in America, of course!!) it was just a small gesture to the person you loved but now it has lost it's meaning & come too commercialised & something we now don't need.
27-Jul-20

Digital theater, opera and cultural events are booming with lockdown and restrictions globally. Art and culture is now being consumed online. Have you watched digital theater, art installations or opera/musicals online? If so, how did you find the experience?
Rosemary E 383382
I have watched some sports that have been televised via webcams such the motorsport where they "drove" the cars on computers.....and some broke a few rules. Some were penalised the same as if it had been real life racing.
24-Nov-20

Is anyone else a huge fan of coconut oil? I promise you, once you discover it's versatility, you'll never go back. You can use it for cooking, as a hair treatment. Seriously, I could not live without it!
Duckfoot
Used it on my hair and skin my partner is an islander it's part of their beauty treatment for centuries
01-Nov-20

I couldn't wait to get my first set of satin sheets. I considered them to be luxurious and sensual. Boy, was I disappointed! You literally slide across the bed. There is no grip. Perhaps this is the allure? There are better ways to do sexy.
Sammi
l think they are a waste if money. They are cold in the winter and hot in the summer, they don't breath so there is not circulation. The blankets slide off the bed and so due you, how can that be sexy but the look sexy.
05-Sep-20

I kid you not, I have never spoken to a real person at Facebook. It's all bots and generic messages and emails. It's disgusting, with all the money they make, they should provide customer service. It's the least they can do.
Carmel C 103964
Absolutely love Facebook...and despise a few things that the admins are really crap at. FB has opened up my world and let me communicate really easily with all my family and friends who are scattered around the world. IT has linked me to many groups which I use daily. It saves me time and allows access to so much that benefits ALL my hobbies.
Yes I hate some things about Facebook BUT there are far more good things about it than bad though.
Lately I've been reporting fake business accounts who are trying to scam people...and only getting automated replies that fail to fix the issue. Replies that tell me the fake accounts aren't breaking any of their rules! What the!!!!!!
So I have had to take it upon myself to start posting warnings in the Newsfeeds. It is greater than disappointing that Facebook is choosing to treat the real businesses and their Followers like that.
Will Facebook survive without better customer service? Yes, it will....but not in a manner that the Facebook admins want it to
19-Aug-20

I used to save but in recent years I've adapted a more easygoing perspective. Money comes and money goes. I might as well enjoy it.
Imperia S '' PIER''
as a pensioner money does not go very far, so when I can I squirrel away a few dollars for the days I need a holiday
08-Aug-20

Sometimes it feels like it. If you're not famous, well then you pretty much shouldn't have the audacity to exist. At least that's what it feels like to me.
Anwyn W
You need to differentiate between being famous because you have achieved something noteworthy (invention/discovery/etc) or just "famous" with some sort of celebrity because you have so many followers on Twitter etc.
24-Jul-20

It can be anything for the home, office or garage for storing goods. For example, I recently purchased a 27 litre plastic storage container
Phyrephly
...a sewing machine cabinet with plenty of space for "stuff" - converts to a side cupboard when sewing machine is not in use.
14-Jul-20

Does anyone have a blog or website that is really easy to use? I am going to set mine up this week, so if you love the site you use, please let me know and also drop a referral link if you get a bonus for referring someone!
Arthur
I created my own website using Xara web designer pro (it has heaps of templates) then I searched for cheap web hosting and domain name, the cheapest I found was Hostso, as my site is personal (not business) I did not venture into the referral link
28-May-22

This year marks 50 years since the hijacking that changed air travel. The FBI have removed the casefile from the active to the inactive. It is a felony, so there is no statute of limitations. But there remains so many unanswered questions to this day. Is he still alive? Does the government know the truth (they cover up so many events, why not this one)? And....where is he if he is still among us?
BLM
Not fifty years (ago) - will be fifty years (ago) on 11/24/2021. It did lead to enhanced security for boarding an airplane in the US - you can not carry a gun onboard (on any US airlines) - unless you are a Sky Marshal (US Marshals Service - at the federal Level). I hope when he (white male terrorist) parachuted off the airplane - he broke his legs, starved to death (he never got caught), and NEVER got the opportunity to spend any of the money he attain (illegally). Since he knowingly terrorized a plane load of innocent passengers for monetary gain. Furthermore, when he parachuted off the airpane - he put the airplane crew and passengers lives at risk (airplane carrying passengers - are not set up for a passenger to parachuted from the airplane)!
05-Apr-21

I'd be lost without my diary. How do people that don t use diaries or day planners keep their life organised?
CILLY0
Most these days seem to use their phone or computer calendar. It seems the days of remembering things like phone numbers and appointments and even shopping lists have long gone. Pity that the brain doesn't get used to keep the grey matter working efficiently too.
30-Sep-20

Overdosing on prawns, crayfish and mussels always seems like a delightful idea at the time but the intense headaches and tremors that can follow such a binge are ghastly.
Sand
I worked 7 years in the fishing industry and ate many different things from fish, crays to abalone. I have never felt ill/had headaches. I think mercury would only be a concern in such things as big game fish like marlin, or shark where it is more concentrated..
26-Sep-20

I would turn to Eastern medicine. Western medicine tends to focus on the 99 that died rather than the one who lived -- they don't mind prescribing addictive drugs either. I like that Eastern medicine is natural and holistic.
BLM
I was born in western civilization and was programmed (ruthless) to take a dim view of eastern medicine. However, too much MONEY is involve in western medicine (which has lead to corruption). Furthermore, MD(s) has no qualms about prescribing addictive drugs to you (which means you have to ask questions)! LUCKY ME - I have not been sick in over four years (and counting) and I have not seen an MD in over four years (and counting). Therefore, I am open to trying eastern medicine (based on its approach: natural and holistic)!!
02-Sep-20

Procrastination is such an unhelpful state to be in and I hate it when I procrastinate but I am human and it happens. It happens before gym workouts, it happens before massive career decisions. It happens before cleaning the house. But I always feel better after any task is done and often wonder why I procrastinated in the first place. Surely others feel like this too?
lippy loo
No I am the type that if it needs doing, do it. I do believe one has to think on big issues that might affect you, others, finance, job etc. before making such a major change or decision but to dither for ages is not a good state to be in for yourself or others it might affect. I usually go with my gut feeling and it has not steered me wrong yet and I am in my 70's.
29-Sep-20

I still do. I love writing out Christmas cards and sending them. I think it's a nice touch in this digital world we are living in. I don t care if it s traditional and old-fashioned. It brings me joy.
LESLEY S 385154
Every year I make my cards and send them to family and friends for Christmas and birthdays. They really enjoy receiving them.
08-Sep-20

I've tried everything for insomnia. Counting sheep, meditation, medication. Nothing works. Any fellow insomniacs got some tips on how to get to the Land of Nod?
Carmel C 103964
Get lots of daylight as soon as you get up in the morning, lots of exercise during the day, then lowered lighting for at least two hours before bed
07-Aug-20

I love online shopping. Whether it's clothes shopping, grocery shopping or even electrical goods. I do it all online. I love the convenience of it
Kristyanne R
I do click and collect for shopping but try to by local most of the time covid has made things a struggle for our smaller stores
18-Jul-20

I never would have believed, I could part with my belongings. But I got tired of lugging around boxes of stuff and decided to minimize. It s not easy saying goodbye to things that have been in your life for decades. But in the aftermath you feel lighter. It's freeing.
Bugalugs
Nah! I like my bit of clutter! Must say though that now I am getting on - well just a bit! - I have started using the really good things I have collected. I used to entertain friends with regular dinners - with all the trappings good crystal, china etc. and it only got use then. Now they are all dead and I use it all every day 'cos one day so will I be!
25-Jul-20

Meditation is a fairly new ritual for me but I have found it has improved my state of mind. Do you use guided meditations on apps or youtube? Do you meditate to music? Or in silence?
Metachair
Don't listen to others. I find out you needed to listen to your soul and understand them. The inner voice and do as you think its rights. Going to church is a great ways to meet peoples and talk. I vold church as my mother hates its once i go i find my soul
01-Aug-20

I mean, a lot of scientists around the world believe we are and these scientists study reality for their livelihoods. Do they know more than us?
JoeB
Yes of course. We can only be in a simulation or in a not simulation. Either way God is getting a good belly laugh
22-Jul-20

What do you find more soothing? Heat Bags are obviously quicker to organise when you re in pain or feeling cold. But I ve found hot water bottles keep their warmth longer
BLM
I will admit I am old (not dead - yet - I do have one foot in my grave) - I do not use either (my guess will be heat bags would be safer). If I am feeling cold - I will reset my smart thermostat. If I am in pain - I will scheduled a video chat with a nurse (with my health plan)! Unfortunately, you can't take your money with you when you die - I will spend my money making my last days (or years) enjoyable!
04-Nov-20

I am thinking about selling artistic products that I have made. Is it a good platform? Would you recommend it? A lot of folks seem to make decent money from it
Maria B 89860
Only heard the name.
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23-Aug-20

I have been drinking more wine during lockdown than prior to my life pre-lockdown. It's really concerning. But when there is a pandemic happening, wine can feel like a good idea -- for me anyway
Edienz
No. Why would I need to? I find prayer more effective than alcohol to find peace in the middle of a pandemic, but I understand that not everyone has discovered that yet.
17-Jul-20

I ve never written anything myself but I quite enjoy reading certain subreddits, they can be pretty funny. How about you?
JoeB
No I don’t reddit, blueit, greenit or any other colourit. I am a media hermit...lol. Called having a life
24-Sep-20

If someone had told me seven years ago that I would give up tangible print books all together, I would have laughed in their face. But eBooks are so easy to store. I carry hundreds of books around with me on my phone. It's perfect. Plus real books clog up one's house and space
Squizzer
I love a good book that provides page turning suspense. The are fully recyclable, as in being able to pass them on to friends and family and when finally too tatty to read, goes in the recycling bin no waste there. Electronic devices are not fully recyclable so land fill here we come.
12-Jul-20

I use it when I'm working out. I use it when I'm relaxing. I walk with it. I catch public transport with it. It's as if we are married. Do you have a Spotify addiction too?
Carolyn C 364157
Amazing...who would ever have thought there was something so good, everything one could ever want in the way of music at you fingertips! Unbelievable. I use the Free version everyday
26-Jul-20

Don't lie now, be honest. Have you? I ll go first. Yes, I confess I have sung into a hairbrush several times during my lifetime. Now your turn.
James
No, but i played air-guitar on a cricket bat while jumping on the bed (Until i broke a lamp!) KISS was to blame, not me! ;-)
18-Oct-20

If you're a gamer, what's your preference? Do you prefer offline campaigns? Online multiplayer? Or local co-op? I personally prefer offline single player campaigns because I like to play at my own pace.
lordofthekitchen
life, the greatest game of all, put down the gadgets, go out side,, live you never know you might like it, there is a big beautiful world out there, go on enjoy the game
19-Nov-20

I recently purchased a Rode USB mini Microphone and some headphones as I intend to create a podcast
Yiing S
Never. I am indifferent to the price of any headphones. As long as I can hear properly and most importantly, it is comfortable on my ears. Husband does all the purchasing in this area.
09-Aug-20

Perhaps you ordered something healthy? Perhaps you ordered alcohol? Or perhaps you don't order via home delivery? I'll go first: My last home delivery cuisine was Vietnamese and it was delicious
Liss
I got Noodle Box combination noodles with extra chicken and prawns. I don't usually get home delivery, but Uber gave me $30 to spend to try the Uber eats app.
07-Jul-20
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