Discussions of the day

Women have come a long way from being thought of as 2nd class citizens. I am all for all the gains we have made. Women are leaders in all aspects of life, Be it politics, business or generally in the work force. But I can't help but feel we have also lost so much. Such as self-respect and respect from our male counterparts. We can swear as good as any man! Not so sure if this is a good thing! Men never used to swear in front of woman, but now it seems...
Michelle S 553303
I truly believe that women in general have less rights now than they did when I was growing up in the 1960's. My mother was able to stay home and raise my brother and I and not forced to leave her home AND her children to afford the mortgage money for the house my father and her purchased together. They had 2 solid years working together at a factory before my mother fell pregnant with me and retired from the paid workforce and she was able to rest during her pregnancy and prepare for my arrival enjoying that time. Even on one income back then we had meat every night for dinner because back then you could afford it, not now! My mother taught me SO many valuable lessons of how to cook well but cheaply, how to sew and how to run a home. I, however, did not think that these lessons were valuable until I got older and unfortunately I bought into the feminist hype of the working woman being able to "do it all"! Absolute BS BTW as all I did was get on a treadmill for 25 years without stopping trying to be everything that my changing society told me was my right but ultimately missing out on some of the most important things in my 5 children's lives. I sent them along to Daycare because I was told it was as good as me caring for them and they'd be well socialised, but they cried when I left them and I abandoned them to a place of noise and no love. They will say to me today "Mum, do you remember when" or "do you remember so and so" and I have no recollection of those events or people because my headspace and I were somewhere else. I wish that I had realised the feminist lies back then and stayed at home raising my children myself and teaching them things of value. You can NEVER reclaim those moments you lost and I regret it deeply. I believe that we are less "women" now than we were before we had the right to choose whether or not to bring to term the children we carried in our wombs and we started trying so dang hard to be as good as men when we already were but in a different way! We got robbed of a lot of simple pleasures of watching our children play or having kids come home with our kids and ask to play in the backyard because there was always someone home back then. These days women, mothers especially, have to coordinate schedules and are often absent from the home and need to organise formal play dates with the other equally busy and exhausted parents of their child's friends. If THIS is what was meant by "progress" for women then we collectively were sold a lemon! Thanks for reading.
16-Oct-24

Never judge a man (or woman) until you realize the (or lack of) choices that man (or woman) had available at that life-changing moment. Or are you the type that goes with the current and that ship (moment) has sailed (and you are always RIGHT)?
mary c
It must be well past your nap time M1364377...your comments and calling people B****es and retard is inappropriate and offensive. I hope you are removed from here by the time you wake up and are packing your lunch for school.
30-Jul-23

Do you think it is right for small communities to put off fireworks by neighbours with no license or permission? What are the dangers of fire and also of injury doing this?
Greg B 520364
I have never heard of putting off fireworks. If you are going to put them off you don't need a license. If you let them off you might just BLOW your hand off.
13-Jul-24

Is it just me, or has there been a rise in people who in insist on correcting other people's Spelling and Grammar?? (even now, I'm sure I've probably put a full stop in the wrong place or misspelled a few words) Is this a battle worth fighting or just plain Jerky, what do you think?? By the way, it annoys the crap out of me
Suzanne H 324959
I do editing and proofreading for work, and I never correct spelling and grammar when I’ve not been asked to do so. I think it is rude and can be a form of bullying and belittling someone. If the spelling or grammar is wrong but the meaning is clear, there’s no need to annoy the writer with corrections. And if no one ever made mistakes, I would have a lot less work!
12-Sep-22

It seems of late that all we hear is how we should eat plant foods and not meat or dairy products etc. Almond milk is not as nutritious as cows milk and should not be given the children? It is also produced with pesticides and heaps of water to grow them. I was watching a cooking show last week and the vegan chef said h I also feel that a acre of plant food will give the grower more money they a cow or sheep would over a year. However, if the environmentalists...
Bugalugs
What I don't like, in fact I loathe, about Vegans and Vegetarians is thet they adopt the attitude that they are so much better than everyone else. yet these are the same people who want all their "Flesh" replacement meals to taste just like the Beef, Chickem Lamb, Turkey, Pork, Salmon, Barramundi, Herrings etc. they used to eat before they became so much better, more Environmentally Conscious and overall Much Superior Citizens than the rest of us.
The next time you are in the Supermarket have a good, close look at the Ingredients Label on all this Vegetarian, Vegan food. You will be surprised, very possibly, and justifiably, shocked at the amount of Laboratory-produced "Nature Identical" Flavours, Colours, the amount of Sodium, NaCl, and other Artificial Chemicals which are used to make those Meat Free Sausages, Mince, Steaks etc. taste just like the real thing!
It is a bit like those people who say they have stopped using sugar, the Cane or Beet variety and have switched to No Calorie, No Fat Artificlal Sweeteners all sold under trade names but which are, in truth, produced in laborarories and some of the ingredients have been shown, no, Proven to be Carcinogenic!
You don't have to adopt any of these extremist fads such as Veganism, if you want to reduce the amount of Meats you eat, just do so and increase your Vegetables including Potatoes!
For the extremists they all seem to think they are better than everyone else, they are so arrogant, so smug, they really have no idea what problems they are setting up fopr themselves after eating all that Artificial rubbish. They won't eat Cheese, drink Milk, eat Eggs and try to imply that this is contributing to cutting down on Animal Cruelty. Garbage, utter garbage because the Cows will still be producing milk, chickens still laying infertile eggs and they do it al Naturally.
07-Jan-24

Local bylaws say no bikes or skateboards...my own street says 5ks and hour all of that is ignored. Down in the park there is one small sign says "dogs on leads"....also ignored...the same with odd parking rules...nobody wants it...nobody obeys it...nobody enforces it...so what is the point?...someone is getting paid to do this...what is going on?
allin3/24
And the sign said
"Long-haired freaky people
Need not apply"
So I tucked my hair up under my hat
And I went in to ask him why
He said, "You look like a fine upstandin' young man
I think you'll do"
So I took off my hat and said, "Imagine that
Huh, me workin' for you"
28-Jan-24

2023 has been quite a ride for most people, but what are you looking forward to in 2024? Maybe a job change, or a trip? Perhaps retirement for some people?
Priscilla R 316016
I am hoping that 2024 will be better than the last few years and I will find a purpose for living again.
31-Dec-23

Do you think all companies should offer Paternity Leave as well as Maternity Leave?
Bugalugs
No. People Choose to have children so they should plan accordingly. The cost to business and, where the employer is a Government, the Taxpayers is enormous. This is justb another form of Welfare just as the endless demand by people that the Taxpayers should pay for all their children's Child Care - Early Pre-School Care, After School Care, Holiday Care - it is just Welfare. Why should the Taxpayers, the vast majority of whom are on incomes of less than $100,000.00, pay the cost of Child Care for people who have incomes of $180,000 all the way up to $500,000 and more?
If people want to have children that's fine BUT they must plan and if the Father wants time off during the very early days then let him take his Annual or Long-Service Leave, he would still get paid but it would be money he is already entitled to and his employer would have already budgeted for that expense.
11-Jul-21

Conversations surrounding political correctness and wokeness are buzzing on the internet. Do we have the right to say what we want, even if it offends others? Does a push for diversity lead to tokenism? Have the ever-shifting boundaries of political correctness gone too far?
Craig S 1050522
Yes it has gone too far and plans to go even further.
But then I'm nearly 67yr old and came through the 70's and 80's which were not PC at all.
03-Apr-23

There is a plethora of arguments for and against the above. Towards the end of his life Charles Darwin became skeptical of his theory of evolution. Science is knowledge gained from observable facts. Theory is how we try to link facts to make a story. Given that new facts (evidence) can dramatically change the story should we still see evolution and creation as either/or argument.
The dog house
If we came from the monkeys why has the ape population not evolved yet. I believe we were created in God's image.
19-Sep-21

Constant fatigue (feeling tired all the time) is a common, often chronic symptom, not a condition itself, usually caused by lifestyle factors (poor sleep, diet, stress), mental health issues (depression, anxiety), or underlying medical conditions like iron deficiency or diabetes. Are you also tired all the time?
Maiava A
Our modern society is designed to make us tired all the time so it can kill us early. Life was a lot simple in the 80s and 90s.
No 24 hour Television or steaming services,
no stores open 7 days a week,
no internet or social media,
no notifications from your mobile phone,
no mobile phones that ring anytime of day or night,
no 6 or 7 day work weeks,
no cancers or heart diseases,
no overly processed foods,
no hundreds of fast food restaurants,no vaping,no bullies,
no bill board ads in your face 24 hours a day,
etc...Did I miss anything else?
08-Feb-26

It seems like everything from food to cars to electronics to homes have skyrocketed in price since 2020. What's the underlying cause here? Why or how are people still able to buy these things for their inflated prices?
Beth
Two words: corporate greed. Granted covid, wars, inflation etc have some effect, it's not anywhere as pronounced as new set prices would have you believe. Corporations have milked these things to hike prices and get away with it and are continuing to do so.
01-Feb-26

Yesterday I was taking my bin out to the curb in the evening...a young guy walking past stopped me...he said a couple of doors down...there was a car parked at a slight angle on the driveway...with car door open...that he had tried banging on the front door but no-one answered...so I went down there...banged on the door...there was a Bollywood movie playing really loud in the lounge...nobody home all the lights on... I noticed their bin wasn't outside...and the side gate...
Somebody Kinda Loopy
Arjun finally got Anushka to say "OK Arjun . .let's go upstairs now " !!! . . . . . . "OK" said Arjun . . "Just let me put the bin out and shut the back door and gate" . . . . . "Now or never" said Anushka. . . . "I am to be happy" said Arjun !
19-Jan-26

Most people seem to believe that the weather is at least changing massively and that pumping carbon (and far more worse things that are being totally ignored) into the atmosphere is not helping.... We have aging power stations all over the world that need replacing...be it renewables...Hydrogen...Hydro..solar...wind thermal or Tide (what happened to tide generators?)..or nuclear....or if we go back to coal oil and gas) ... whatever we do is going to cost masses of...
Mary 97420
All a lot of Crap Same weather for hundreds of years Nothing to do with Climate change . I have so far lived a long time to already know this
26-Nov-25

Can divorce really be better for the whole family, including (especially) children, and what are the best ways to support children during a divorce? What's your experience?
Val B 69099
I stayed with my husband for the kids and it was the biggest mistake because my kids suffered in the long run
30-Oct-25

The space program costs billions and billions of dollars. There has been talk about new moon missions, missions to Mars, missions to other planets or their moons in our solar system, and missions out of our solar system. For which mission or missions should all of that money be spent? Should we not spend so much on space missions and instead focus on fixing Earth and its problems?
BLACK LIVES MATTER
I don't believe 'we' (governments cooperating together on this planet - solving our environmental issues and natural resources issues, etc.) have enough money to solve earth's many issues - all created by mankind. Might as well have a Plan B - exit this planet (Earth) and start our destructive human behavior pattern on another uninhabited planet ('still') it is a dirty, rotten shame we are condemned to repeat our history on another uninhabited planet in the universe (LOL))!
01-Nov-25

Are you ready for the Christmas rush! Every year it seems to arrive faster & my preparations are not nearly as good as they used to be! Have you started your Christmas shopping? Maybe you have made your Christmas cake. Do you still celebrate with family or friends, or does Christmas pass by without recognition? Old traditions seem to be dying out. What do you think?
Cristina 1672579
DO NOT LIKE THE MADNESS OF CHRISTMAS. WE SEEM TO FORGET THE TRUE MEANING OF CHRISTMAS AS EVERYONE GOES CRAZY AROUND THIS TIME OF THE YEAR.
02-Nov-25

Common disadvantages of homeschooling include a lack of real-life socialisation, limited access to resources and facilities, the demanding load on parents, and potential legal challenges. What are your thoughts on homeschooling?
Joanne D 124129
I come school my child. I do not believe that children need to attend a main stream school. Parents can access so many different resources and facilities. Homeschooling allows kids to learn without disruption, without all the waiting. Kids queue to enter a school classroom they wait while students organise themselves, they wait while instructions and resources are distributed. Waiting to ask questions plus all the rest. Homeschool kids have access to as much socialising as mainstream school students if not more. This depends on the parents and locations. We do group sporting, Homeschool group activities, play sessions, group library activities activities. The difference i find with my kid is that they are socialising with kids of a wide variety of ages, stages, and walks of life.
I have found Homeschool kids to be more friendly, they actually think more, are kind and great well rounded kids. I've not come across bullying and harassment behaviour. We live how we attend a monthly science activity. The kids get together and start group games. No parental instruction and they support younger kids or kids that may have disabilities and adjust things to include kids. These kids do this without any adult direction. Talking to the kids they take each kid individually likes/dislikes and all abilities. There has to my knowledge no restricting or isolation of any kids. They have been happy, confident, caring and intelligent kids. The kids can adjust attitudes and behaviours if they are playing games with toddlers, thru to high school kids and even adjusting games to include kids in wheelchairs or crutches, blind or other disabilities. They don't make a fuss of adjustments. An example was 12 boys (aged between 8 and 15 ) playing with a ball kicking it from one side to another. Then allowing some toddlers to have a kick of the ball and encouraging the little ones to be part of the game.
28-Oct-25

A family name is usually carried by a man, which has been for such a long time when this world was created. To me, a man is a man that brings his name forward with pride to his wife/partner & children & makes decisions & is the main bread winner of your home. Now these days, life & family meanings & structures are changing a lot. Many men now are adopting their wife/partner's name instead of keeping his name. How do you feel when this has been done? It brings the...
Elizabeth T 396096
"taking a man's name" is antiquated and sexist. It is easier (legally) and cheaper to keep your own name (especially these days when people are in the habit of remarrying).
When I was married, I always earned MORE than my husband so I find it offensive when people say "the man is the breadwinner" and I am talking decades ago (when we first married) right up until recent history when we divorced.
14-Oct-25

I hate group homes. There are people who love to steal and don t admit it, so they don t have to pay back the person they stole from. One or more bathrooms have bad plumbing, messy bathrooms, not enough of them. People bothering people, staff accusing people, they even talk behind people s backs. They tell certain people they can t use the clean bathroom with good plumbing. Certain people get held down. All day long and all night you hear annoying beeping noises on all doors and...
APB
well I have no idea what you are talking about..what is a group home?..is this an American thing?...what country are we talking about please?
08-Oct-25

Throughout my years, I could never understand how Families could get to the stage where they would not speak to each other. That so much hatred could come between them. Understanding that yes always the arguments that occur but no matter what it is the love that is always there. Do we choose to ignore things that are said or done which would not be tolerated if coming from someone else? Throughout My Years I Could Never Understand This, But Now I...
Ruth 1496373
I used to believe family was everything. Life has taught me otherwise. Doesn't seem to matter with some how nice you are or what ever you do! You just keep getting abused and used. Friends you can choose!
19-Sep-25

What is the voting age in your country, and is it compulsory to vote? In New Zealand at the moment, there's a push to lower voting age from 18 to 16 years It has been stated "it's against human rights not to lower the age" wish someone could explain that one to me!!
Dave P 857147
I wasn't eligible to vote until 21 and that really is the age the human brain starts to gain a bit of sense and maturity, the left want a lower voting age because the kids can be controlled in their thinking at school and have no idea of the realities of surviving in the adult world
24-Nov-22

I'm a good person who likes to help others. However, it seems to me that humans have changed in the past 5 years as I've been used, and then I'm kicked to the curb once they've gotten what they wanted from me. I've helped someone learn how to use technology as she was leaving her partner of 30 years and did not understand technology at all. I give up my time twice a week from hiking (which I thoroughly enjoyed) to assist her. I helped her with her move. She moved and never...
Meggan 1691859
In today\u2019s world, good people are often misunderstood. Kindness is mistaken for weakness. Empathy is seen as na\u00efve. And those who help without asking for anything back are sometimes taken for granted, used, or dismissed as \u201ctoo sensitive.\u201d
But the truth is: good people are the quiet strength holding everything together. They show up when no one else does. They forgive when it's hardest. They keep choosing love in a world that sometimes celebrates cruelty and selfish gain.
Being good today isn\u2019t always rewarded, and it can feel lonely. But that doesn\u2019t make it any less powerful. In fact, it makes it more rare \u2014 and more necessary.
Because in the end, it\u2019s the good people who change lives, even if the world doesn't always notice.
28-Jul-25

We 4WD and Camp all over Australia, when Camping in the Northern part of Northern Territory one evening I hear and saw a woman aged about 25 screaming as she entered her tent, she never zipped her tent closed and a common green tree snake got into her tent. The common green tree snake is not dangerous, and I removed it from her tent (she was from the US) for her. What has scared you when camping?
Smiley
The evidence of a Drop Bear attack to a teacher during a school camp. You've got to be careful of them, they attack when you least expect it.
29-Jul-25

When faced with something as life-changing as a cancer diagnosis, the path forward is never simple. Chemotherapy, alternative therapies, or even choosing to let life unfold naturally none of these are easy or wrong, just deeply personal. The truth is, we can only choose what we know. And if no one tells us about all the options, or if we re too overwhelmed to ask, how can we truly say we chose at all? It's not about rejecting one path or glorifying another....
Len G
Having had testicular cancer 20 yrs ago and deciding on what form of treatment to do was tough. .i chose radiation and in the end it worked out. But like many times and things in life one size definitely doesn't fit all
27-Jun-25

What do you think about your Country going cashless? There are thousands of older people who are not doing digital banking, or even have computers, let alone "smartphones." My local branch has closed all their teller's, so now we have to use the ATM...
karen M 876336
I think to go cashless they will have to change the law as what will be "legal tender' I am now in my eighties. I hope I die before this happens
26-May-25

Believe it or not, living frugally can actually make you happier than living lavishly. Living a frugal lifestyle isn't necessarily about pinching pennies and denying yourself things you want. It's about making your life easier and worrying less about money. What would you say? Are frugal people happier?
Susan KTC
I\u2019m also of the mind that \u2018happiness comes from within\u2019 living one\u2019s life with Gratitude \ud83d\ude4f and with Joy in everything you do, attracts happiness and abundance!
21-Apr-25

Sometimes we hear, see or experiment something that is not normal. We try to find a rational explication, but can't find one. Maybe was the wind blowing, maybe was the of house pipes, maybe were my child playing during late hours or my dogs barking. Sometimes is not ourselves the ones one live those experiences. Maybe you know someone who had this kind of encounters. I personally haven't this kind of experiences, but there's a lot of people out there that say yes, and...
Lachelle B
My partner of 24 years passed suddenly on the 30th January. We had him lying in state at home and a fantail flittered outside the window behind him. Two weeks later a fantail flew into the lounge and sat on the ceiling pendant and continued to follow me throughout the house as I opened all the doors and windows to let it out. It wasn't frantic or chirping, I sat down back down in the lounge, said thank you and it flew in front of my face and then left. Being Maori it is meant to bring news of an upcoming death but my mum who's 75 said it was my partner visiting and regard it as a blessing. So I looked it up and the first article I clicked on was written by a person called Stewart (his name), later that day our son got the mail and there was an envelope addressed to him with a $200 grocery voucher and no return address. Probably a logical explanation but I like the idea that it's him and not conincidental.
25-Feb-24

For me, it is a no. Once you ve seen a bunch of beaches, a bunch of mountains, a bunch of cities, how many times do you need to do those things again? What is your experience? Is dedicating your 20s to world travel wise?
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Is dedicating your 20s to world travel wise... hm... It will help you decided what you want in life. Fewer physical attachments equal more freedom and more travel. You'll get street smart. It will make you a more interesting person. You'll grow culturally. You'll learn to develop your independence and how to be responsible. You'll learn how to manage your money early in life. You won't resent it later in life (not travelling). Last but not least - because you 'really' deserve it (to travel earlier in LIFE).
16-Jan-25

One of the key reasons why the world feels chaotic is technological advancements. Technology has revolutionized nearly every aspect of our lives, from communication to transportation to healthcare. While these advancements have brought numerous benefits, they have also created new challenges and complexities. What are your thoughts? Why does the world feel so unstable right now?
Perry 1310449
There have been so many stupid people, with such fragile egos, out there and everyone wants to prove they have the biggest d@*k! So you have whoever it is who is running the White House, because we all know that Biden couldn\u2019t find his butt with both hands and a flashlight, who is pushing all of the LGBTQ+++++ crap, destroying the future of America, who is pushing the hatred between Jews and Arabs, Russia and Ukraine, China and the World, and doing everything they can to line their own pockets, with no care whatsoever about the Nation! Then you have the Europeans, who have been such big powers years ago, who still think they are top of the mountain, when they can\u2019t even take care of their own people! The New World Order, funded by Soros and his Ilk, who have way more money than they can ever spend, and are just bored to death and decided they want to play in politics to get back at every perceived insult or slight that has happened to them in their lives, just spoiled 80 year old \u201cspoiled children\u201d, who have decided that if \u201cYou won\u2019t play by the rules I just made up, I will take my ball and go home!\u201d Sheer stupidity! If the governments of the world would just work together, there is enough money, assets and skills to give every person in the world, clean water, good food, a roof over their heads, abd safety from the ills out there! But no, EVERYONE wants to be in charge and control their own little corner of their world!
09-Jan-25

Playing old music to dementia patients seems to bring them "back" to be massively helpful.... I have a fairly large collection of CDs... I put one on, and I am transported to when I was 19....or 24...and everything else about being there ALSO comes rushing back too...people...names...masses of stuff it can be really emotional too....not to sure if our current youth will have this resource...maybe a video rather than real experiences connected to each song...mixes and...
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Last Night, a DJ saved My life is a song (a very popular song released by an American Musical Group - called Indeed in the dying years of Disco in the USA) - sold over 1,000,000 copies on 45 formats. I use music to link 'pleasant memories' in my mind - the safest place to hold fond memories that are near and dear too ME - in MY MIND - because I CAN visit my fond memories in my mind at any time (day or night).
28-Dec-24

I know I will get a lot of negative feedback for this and if someone is alone, I can understand them treating their pup like it is their child, but dog clothes are expensive and unnecessary. That money could be put to much better uses, like feeding hungry children.
Sylvia Y
I think it is dreadful to do this to intelligent animals be they dogs or cats and it should be treated as animal cruelty
17-Dec-24

It's that time of year again - just need to keep breathing ... - but seriously, what are you all making for the Big Day? Will it be lunch or dinner, or, (the one I'm considering), the full day meal. This is just, basically, food on the table and people help themselves whenever to whatever is there. I'm kinda planning on roast chicken with roast potatoes and veggies, then salads galore (ie rice, tabbouli, pasta, garden, Asian slaw, coleslaw), bread slices for DYI...
BLACK LIVES MATTER
The Big Day is JUST another day (when it comes to food) 'for me' (not into celebrating ANY religious holidays - which is the norm 'for me' - LOL)!
15-Dec-24

When is it time for an elderly person to be in aged care? Should it be up to the person themselves, or should their children help them decide? My Dad lives on his own and is happy, but he has recently had a fall, and I am not sure if I am happy about him being alone. What do you think?
BLACK LIVES MATTER
I was never close to my parents or my immediate family on my father side or my mother side. I went on to become a runaway when I was a teen-ager - and never saw my parents or immediate family EVER again! Anyway, a very bad warning health sign is you stated your father recently fell - you need to schedule an appointment with a geriatrician and neurologist ASAP. After the health data comes back from both medical doctors - you and father need to have a heart-to-heart talk about his living on his OWN and any adjustments NEEDED for him to continue to live on his OWN! FYI: I turned 79 - yesterday - I see a geriatrician and neurologist - once a year - to make annual adjustments pertaining to the status of my health - so I can continue to live on my OWN!
30-Nov-24

I don't know what happened to manners and being well-behaved in public. When I hear young people throwing around the f-word, I am annoyed and insulted. I was taught to respect people around me and not just talk like I was raised in a ghetto. Shouldn't people be more respectful of those around them in public?
BLACK LIVES MATTER
How someone verbally express themselves doesn't imply that 'they' were raised in a ghetto (GHETTO is Jewish word, and you are DELIBERATELY misinterpreting the use of the word GHETTO). Furthermore, I have heard the f-word used most often by WASP (White Anglo Saxon Protestant) on my federal government job as a secretary for over fifth teen years before I retired! WHAT IS YOUR POINT....are you advocating for the elimination of FREE SPEECH...
28-Nov-24

There are a few countries that provide school children with free food. Even teachers are allowed to have it too. However, so many developed countries don't intend to do it. What is your opinion? To have access to free food at school is support for children and parents, as well. It is interesting to hear different opinions and facts from the residents of different countries.
APB
Australia should have this nationwide...there is no excuse...we waste our taxes on rubbish...lets feed and love our kids
16-Nov-24

Christmas is coming... Soon enough. Only 2 months away and the final countdown will be on. There are certain Christmas items that are a must-have for the stocking every year, for some it may be a certain candy treat or a favorite chocolate bar, perhaps socks and underwear the possibilities are endless. My thing is a 3 pack red package lidor chocolates, they are delicious. I have already picked them up, 1 pack for each stocking. What are your favorite stocking stuffers that...
Jania S
It is amazing how money wasting the western people are. Christmas is not about stockings or wasting money. BUT to each his own.
29-Oct-24

Lately, renting has become very high. When it comes to food or clothes, one can save up. But renting is something that you depend on others. The cheapest renting in Canada is $2,000 for a family. It takes half the budget. Even if one wants to rent places with low price, it doesn't work as it is wished.
Lee b 979050
Renting is a problem when you let to many foreigner into a country who buy up properties and leave thise homes empty.. you know who these people are.
30-Sep-24

The other day, I noticed an elderly woman shoplift in a grocery store. I felt sorry for her - she must have been low on money to buy food, and so she was stealing. Would you report an elderly shoplifter or let it go OR maybe offer to buy the item for her?
Imperia S
there are plenty of places for people to get food for nothing eg. Food Bank, Salvation Army, etc.there is no need for stealing, they set bad examples to the younger crowd
26-Aug-24

I am a ten-year survivor of stage three bowel cancer. It seems every second person has some type of cancer, or someone has just died from cancer. One day doctors will have answers for this the water, soil, plastics
Anita D
Believe me, they have a cure. They just don't want us to have it. It is a multi billion dollar cash fall for pharmaceutical companies. They would lose it all, if it was cured
02-Sep-24

Some scientists believe that Climate Change is bogus. It's not real according to their analysis. Some of these Climate change sceptics have done analytical studies and --couldn't find real evidence of it. The earth is always changing, and nothing remains the same for too long. But if these other Scientists are right and this has all been a lie, then what would be the reason for this? Why would so many want to believe it and insist it is happening?
Paula J 395266
Stalin once said if you tell a lie make it a big lie because people will believe a big lie. Darwin came up with the theory of evolution, and it was only a theory as there has never been any proof. With the advances in DNA this theory has been blown out of the water and yet it is taught in schools as a fact. What did Darwin gain from what is a lie? Fame! Climate change is another lie that started as Global Warming but when it became evident that the world was not warming it was changed to climate change. The CSIRO know it isn't a fact but if they announce that the money tap will be turned off. Malcolm Turnbull pushes climate change, and why wouldn't he as he and his son are making a lot of money from green technologies. As with anything, follow the money. Just look at the money being made by people making and installing solar panels, electric cars and batteries. And all this rubbish needs replacing every 10 or 20 years. It is one huge con and many people have been sucked in either because they didn't really think about it or are too afraid to disagree. How on earth can mankind change the weather? There is the sun and moon with all their effects, undersea volcanoes spewing hot water that heats our oceans altering the currents which effects the rain we get. Climate change has been blamed for the recent floods which is totally incorrect, they were caused by El Nino which has been known by the South Americans for thousands of years. People should ask questions and not simply accept the rubbish pushed as FACT.
08-Jun-22

Young adults are taking more time to marry, and cohabitation has become a popular alternative to marriage. People may also not want to marry if they have previously felt intensely controlled by others. What are your thoughts? Why do some people never marry?
Lachelle B
Was with my partner for 24 years (he passed this January) and we both never felt the need to get married. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.
15-May-24

Some research suggests that loneliness can increase stress. It's also associated with an increased risk of certain mental health problems. For example, depression, anxiety, low self-esteem and sleep problems. My anxiety and depression isolates me from people and stops me from being able to do the things I'd like to do. What do you reckon? What does being lonely do to a person?
BLACK LIVES MATTER
I am NOT a people person - I enjoy being ALONE without ever feeling LONELY! Furthermore, there is a BIG difference between ALONE and being LONELY!
22-May-24

Well wow this discussion can hit on so much nerves. I can fully understand a life between 2 adults, but when children are involved that is too much to take in. If you live in a dysfunctional life or in an abusive situation, I also can fully understand, but when especially a mother to decide to leave your family & especially children, in my opinion it takes the cake. I find this to be so selfish on your part to up root your children's lifes for what you think for a better life. It...
Leonie 705004
We have no right to judge anyone as we do not know the complete story. There could be many reasons for a mother to leave, she may be putting her kids first, who knows? It would be such a hard decision. We have not walked in their shoes. Anybody who has made the decision deserves our support as well as the children and other parent. The last thing they need is others judging. How will that help a family?
04-May-24

Do you think seniors cause more car accidents than young people?
Robyn C 1009255
I received my licence at 19 & am now 82, I have never had a speeding ticket, only a small dint in my car in our car park misjudging how close I was to a pole. Another scratch on the front must have been done by someone else when my car was in the shopping centre. Will have to go for my license in three years & not looking forward to it, my husband is due for the second time he passed there last one in flying colours. How many young people with have a record like this, all my children & now grandchildren have been picked up mostly for speed limit fortunately not drink driving, one G Child lost his license for three months after loosing all his points, was rather expensive , fines as well as difficulty in getting to work.
05-May-24

Lately, if I am not director or CEO of a company, or I don't have own company, I am scanned out of surveys. I mean, be realistic - would really the owner of a company have time for online surveys? Or someone with income greater than 150k a year would spend time to do online surveys about groceries stores? I don't think so. That requirements of being even able to do some survey is almost impossible lately. What are your experiences?
Richard M 407933
Like a lot of others, I get screened out of countless surveys - certainly there are far more outs than acceptances. There is absolutely no doubt that the main reason I get the 'cold shoulder' is my age. I am 77.
Being rejected used to annoy me but I have come to accept that the so called marketing experts aren't interested in considered opinions from us older folk and believe that the world functions around the upwardly mobile with more money than sense. That's okay, they pay their money and get what they want but I wish they wouldn't waste everyone's time in this manner.
04-Nov-22

How much are we eating, and we don't know it. Starting to notice warnings on a few foods, what do you guys know about it?
Carol S 657195
I think we have no idea what we are eating. How could we know? We aren't there where our food is grown or even worse where it's produced, handled and packaged. Unless you grow your own food and raise your own livestock, you don't know what you're eating. Even then, what part does the environment and the feed for the livestock impact the final product? Almost everything from the air we breathe to the items we interact with to the food we eat affects us. I'm more concerned with the electronics and all the things we can't see. I have proof that the electricity in our homes can kill us, even our pets and trees. Now there is so much more than just the electricity we use. All the devices we use affect us, and I feel we are forced to use them out of necessity. I hate mobile phones, but almost every company wants you to download an app which I think is for tracking purposes, but they make it appear to be for out benefit. When do companies EVER do anything just to save us money? That doesn't even make sense. I feel like we are lambs being sent to the slaughter and everyone just follows along. I try not to, but sometimes we HAVE to in order to do what we have to do. They assume everyone has a cell phone and internet. We should be able to make that choice and not be forced into using things that we don't even understand how they work! Maybe I'm just too old for this. Does anyone agree or am I paranoid? I've been around long enough to know not to trust everything. You can't even believe what you hear and see now with the AI which is another subject I'd like to avoid!
19-Oct-23

Has anyone heard of the 'Bulla Rescue' in Australia which involves horses? I watched a documentary about rescuing Race horses that were left to starve to death by a trainer. There were many reports sent to the RSPCA, but it was not investigated. They found over 20 horses dead or dying from starvation. 23 horses were rescued, but 3 had to be put down. If you report something serious, shouldn't it be investigated. In the end the police were also involved.
Mooi
So much goes on in the racing industry. It is all about money and greed. It happens with horse racing and greyhound racing, rodeos and any form of animal exploitation. It is always about the money they can make out of an animal and when it is spent and considered no longer profitable, it is discarded. These animals are sentient beings, not commodities.
15-Aug-23

Some medical expert in Australia has just been saying that the days of a fat happy Santa should be over (Channel 10)...and that Santa needs to give up the cookies and milk and eat carrots like the reindeer ... come on guys ... this should be a good one ... what do you think?
Katzeye
I would much rather sit on a fat soft jolly Santa's knee then a bony hard knobbly one..Oh wait I forgot you can't sit on Santa's knee anymore because that too has been taken away thanks to the woke police.
21-Dec-22

Like almost everyone else, I'm living pretty scarcely and still aren't saving much. I was hoping everyone could put their little tips and tricks in the comments, just to help each other out. Doesn't have to be about money, just any random stuff that'll make life a little easier. Any tips?
shirley 1727097
we eat all our leftovers now. anything left in the pot like a few spoons of uneaten carrots goes in a tupperware container in the freezer, just on top of the other stuff that has already been layered in over the weeks. then when full we make a soup stock and dump the container of veggies, pasta bits etc. that we have saved up. that gives us 2 days of soup lunches, just add bread. feels like a free meal or two, stuff that in previous years I didnt pay much attention to those little bits of veggies or 20 pasta noodles left in the cooking pot, they just went in the garbage.
1 week ago

We've moved to a new area in the past eight months, and met some amazing people whom we now call friends. Good friends are people we can talk to without them judging us, we can count on them for assistance when needed, and they can count on us as well. We enjoy gatherings and fun times without any static. We can go hiking and have conversations. What are good friends to you?
Von
A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though they know you are slightly cracked ....\ud83d\ude35\u200d\ud83d\udcab
25-Feb-26

An article on the French News this morning said the quantities of cadmium lead and other metals aluminium too in French food were steadily going up...with Adults having as much as 44% more of these in their bodies than the recommended maximum....and young children having around 76% (they could recycle people to make solar panels and smartphones?)....but the good news was the total of all harmful materials in food had dropped by 15%...so that's good isn't it....do those...
Greg B 520364
Drink more beer, wine. eat extra chocolate, more ice cream. At least you might have some idea what is killing you.
21-Feb-26

How do you feel when companies cry poor and tell employees that they should tighten their belts and cannot afford pay rises and must cut wages, conditions etc yet the next thing you see in the media is the CEOs and executives getting huge pay rises, bonuses etc?
BLACK LIVES MATTER
It is called CAPITALISM (furthermore capitalism corrupts EVERYTHING it touches) :-( (. FYI: Capitalism is NEVER going to change (Examples: From the Start of Capitalism (in the Dark Ages (enough said)) to Jeffrey Epstein (Files)) - LOL.
22-Feb-26

You could talk about the things that you find funny in everyday life or human behaviour, what should be off-limits as far as joking goes, tell funny stories about your past or discuss your favourite comedies and comics. Having a sense of humour can also mean being able to laugh at a bad situation Can you laugh at yourself ? Why do we laugh when people fall down or hurt themselves? What are your favourite comedians or comedy TV shows? Laughter is the best medicine
Steve 327816
British clever humour. The 2 Ronnies, Are you being Served, Porridge, Frank Spencer, Dave Allen, Hyacinth Bucket, Tommy Cooper, Benny Hill. So many great classics.
12-Feb-26

The housing problem is terrible...there aren't enough houses....what can we do?...blame earlier Governments?...deport people...ban immigration and not allow nasty foreigners to buy any?....we could build big complexes so we have cheap housing where people work?....no..everyone wants a house with a garden...we could just build loads of houses everywhere...and connect it all to hi-speed trains...no hi-speed trains cost too much...and everyone who has already bought a house...
IdentifyAs
We had no problem until the Liberal Lite woke asses came in and then Labor. We need to stop immigration. Send back those who are out to hurt the rest of us and dont assimilate. Climate change is just some crap from the WEF, WHO and all those acrinyms. We need to band together as aussies Im voting One Nation, if you dont agree with me just shut up.....
06-Feb-26

By now I have travelled more than 15 countries, have met people from a lot of different countries. I think that the people in Indonesia are the sweetest. What would you say? Which country in the world has the nicest people to tourists?
Andrew C 287196
No idea. Never been a tourist. People are people, and countries are countries - there are good, bad, and stupid people in every country.
02-Feb-26

I have heard it said quite a bit lately that it is much harder to make friends as an adult, than as children or young people. School and extracurriculars are options for children and Uni/ Tafe or work, parties and hobby related activities are often places young people make friends as well. As we get older sometimes the opportunities to make new friends are more limited. Has this been your experience? Do you make new friends? If so where did you meet them? Was it...
BLACK LIVES MATTER
As I get older (I am eighty years old) - it became EASIER for me to make friends (as I became less judgmental in my social (personal)) life!
06-Jan-26

I am not much of a storyteller, but in this case I will make an exception. A few weeks ago I had the pleasure of making a new acquaintance (male, obviously) over a social network group at a fairly prestigious venue. We exchanged a phone number, but that was it. A few weeks later, for some reason, I connected with him over the phone. Long story cut short, we met up for lunch on a weekend, which was very pleasant. After that, we parted ways. I learned that on that...
Darren S 116121
I think men these days are over it,we have women that look like rhinos with 5 kids to different dads saying men need to be a list of things that are in fantasy land.We also have men that are accused of being stalkers for even saying hello to a lady they see.In essence men are just over the whole dating scene.its very sad actually
15-Nov-25

Now that I've got another year to upgrade, I'm trying to decide what's best. I'm fine with Windows 10, but then I hear how much better Windows 11 supposedly is. I also hear the downside, like insufficient disk space to upgrade, programs not running once you make the change, and all kinds of other stuff. What I'd like to know, is how many of you have upgraded and what you think of Windows 11? Was it worth it?
Robert F 1161011
My laptop doesn't meet the requirements for the upgrade so I'm gonna just keep on using it as long as possible. If it starts having issues I'll buy a new one with the newest version of Windows.
26-Oct-25

There is nothing wrong with it, other than it probably won t give you the status you were assuming would come with the car. It s a terrible reason to buy a car and sooner or later, you realize that the people that you think care, don t. In fact, it has no influence in anything. What would you say? Is there anything wrong with buying a car for status symbol?
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Is there anything wrong with buying a car for status symbol? NO (your money - you do 'whatever' you please with your money)!
18-Oct-25

What are your thoughts on Education? Is the system too rigid and doesn't cater to individual students needs, or do you feel it's too loose and has no real meaning anymore? It may be what you remember during your years at school, or the experience you have/had sending your children or other children in your care to school.
Paula J 395266
The education system is nothing more than a left leaning brain washing scheme. The teachers have no authority over the pupils who do pretty much what they like. There is no discipline or routine and nothing worthwhile is being taught. One of my children had a subject called pastoral care. I thought it was spelt "pasture" and wondered why they were learning about animal husbandry. I never did find out exactly what he learnt but his children have been taught about the stolen generation, how we stole their land, the world will burn up via climate change and you can be gender neutral or gender fluid and that there are more than 2 sexes. When I told my 10 year old grandson he might like Mork & Mindy he was quite concerned telling me many old TV shows aren't appropriate today. Fancy loading that on the shoulders of a 10 year old. In my opinion it's nothing more than child abuse. They are children and should be able to enjoy a childhood free of concern and unnecessary worry.
20-Oct-25

We went to the big hardware store yesterday (Bunnings) and they have started to put out Christmas decorations. Is it me, or is it getting earlier each year?
LA
At this rate, by 2030 they\u2019ll be putting up Christmas decorations right after Easter. I\u2019m half-expecting to see Santa riding the Easter Bunny down aisle 3.
05-Oct-25

I am a single mum of 3 children, I have tried too hard to keep up to date with rentals I have been in, absolutely skyrocket prices. I have luckily been selected by government housing which gives me oppoyto provide a stable roof over our heads, help with 25% of rent and bills. Grateful for this opportunity and I wish that all other people in my situation could be lucky as myself. Don't get me wrong it's hard to get a rental being single and income is government income only also...
Allan 1713395
why are you single with 3 children, didn't your parents teach you how to keep your legs closed. I would have thought you'd have applied for after just one child.
22-Sep-25

In my humble opinion, Prime Minister, Anthony Albanese, should be congratulated for his efforts to ban social media for 16-year-olds. Will it work, though? Young people (year 10 students) I have spoken to recently seem to think not. There are too many sad stories. Something has to be done.
Squeekums
We will be ignoring it, we will help our kid get around it
Social media hasnt been bad for her
My kid was bullied out of school and NONE was online
They knew that left a trail we could take to the cops
They did it in person, in front of school staff and nothing would happen, she got told by staff that being told to off herself wasnt that bad and to turn the other cheek cos the bullies have a hard home life
So tell me where and how this will stop bullying?
All it stops is kids being informed
Stops them being connected
Stops them interacting in the modern world
Stops them from accessing hobby groups, like art or my kids venturer group communicate on discord
Stops kids forming social opinions that governments dont like
08-Sep-25

With AI and self-service being the new darling for many businesses and the scourge for customers, do you have any suggestions for businesses on how to ACTUALLY keep your business? 1. Instead of outfitting your staff with body cameras, how about having MORE STAFF available to serve you? All cameras do is prove who did what after the fact and do not help anyone when help is actually needed. 2. Train your AI/chatbot to ask: "Would you...
Andrew C 287196
Get rid of the plethora of unnecessary over-paid management types, and lower the product / service prices.
Don't waste piles of money on ridiculously priced advertising company campaigns that tell customers nothing about the product / service.
Don't buy / rent hideously over-priced buildings to operate from (including NOT renting shops in over-priced shopping malls).
Don't get greedy #1: Stick to the business' core products / services. Don't try branching out into other weird sidelines that have nothing to do with the business.
Don't get greedy #2. There is no need for any company to "take over the world". The business does not need a billion branches all over the country / world.
06-Sep-25

Does anyone who struggles in financial stress experience hard out depression? Work part-time. Trying to get more hours. Can't live comfortably, and it's starting to mentally affect me where I feel like I'm going crazy. My money goes to rent and food, and I have barely anything left. Makes me wonder, what is the meaning of life? :(
boy blunder
as grandparents we moved in with our daughter to share the costs and help her with the grandkids, putting us in a position where occasionally we can help others, if you are in Australia I know there is plenty of help if you ask, don't be ashamed of struggling everybody is, the meaning of life for me is the little things, when I retired some 5 years ago I made it a mission to be the reason someone smiled Everday, I have succeeded so far but for me its a great way to cope with the world we live in
11-Aug-25

I plan to retire in hopefully 10 years. But I will need much more money to retire than I currently have. Everything is getting more expensive, and I don't know if I will have insurance for my medical needs by then. I don't know if medicade and Medicare will be available to me in 10 years or social security. I am scared I will not be able to for retirement in 10 years the way the economy is trending right now unless they Republicans and democrats fix things together...
Charles VIC 3044
I live in Australia and I don't understand why an ordinary citizen like myself who has worked his whole life and never received any sort of government benefit has to apply for a pension and yet a politician gets one automatically when he/she retires without having to do any sort of means test. Is this fair or unfair?
04-Jul-25

Why does every Tom, Dick and Harriet (and their children) have to own a car? Isn't the world full of too many cars? As an older person that no longer owns a vehicle, it seems ridiculous why 17-year-old Junior must have a car and Mum/Dad will get it for them. Many households in NZ have multiple cars, this is excessive within the cities when buses run and people can carpool. "Must own a car" for my independence mentality is wrecking the planet What is your...
Ian 1561638
everyone should ride motorbikes - less costs, less congestion, easier to park. They would be better car drivers at the end of their time on a bike too, through more awareness of other road users
17-Apr-25

I am wondering, as I live way out in the country, and I was seeing drones flying at night. What concerned me is I also saw the medivac in the same area as these drones. I let the Sheriff know seems for now the drones are not flying. My Blink door cameras were picking up all the activity, and it was going on night after night after night. Do others see drones this often in the country?
Alison B 579466
No I don't see them. I would have thought that unless you have a special permit you wouldn't be allowed to operate them at night. It sounds like there might have been an illegal activity going on.
05-Jun-25

Education is something that can never be taken away from you. Once upon a time, someone said to me, Your education is something that no one can ever take from you." That has stayed with me all these years and I realize why this is one of the most famous educational quotes. It's not only true, but also yours to own. What would you say? What is something that can never be taken away?
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Here is MY list of a few things, society cannot take from you (but will try). Your fire, your life skills, your effort, your ideas, your common sense/street smarts, your reactions, your perspective, your life experiences, your determination, your self-respect, your knowledge, your uniqueness, and your poise under pressure!
29-Apr-25

Most people live on high credit that will take forever to pay off due to living on higher means than what we can afford. Bad enough having one credit card, but many have a few, which make you go into a spiral life of credit & you never can get out of. I believe one card is bad enough, you shouldn t be able to obtain any more to stop you from getting out of control. Do you feel banks should stop this to stop people s lives from getting out of control?
Victoria 1304258
I honestly don't know. I am trying hard to pay off our cards, but our debt did not come from living too well, but simply having to pay bills. My husband had to have operations & could not work or get unemployment because he had his own business, so we accrued debt from medical & other bills. I worked, but it wasn't enough. I can't wait until it's all paid off!! I look forward to that freedom!
05-Mar-25

The price of cigarettes in New Zealand has now hit $50 a packet., of which 80% is tax. Successive governments have pushed the tax up to try to reduce the incidence of smoking in the NZ population. It has spawned a black market, some of which is illegal importation, others have come onto the market as a result of corner shop burglaries. What is the experience of other countries? Are your smoking stats reducing? Why?
Andrew C 287196
The number of cigarette smokers is dropping, but the number of smokers is actually rising thanks to the silliness of allowing sales of electronic cigarettes / vaping (which are not any safer nor healthier than regular cigarettes). \ud83d\ude44
04-Apr-25

Being the polar opposite of my siblings in every way shape and form and never having the dad/daughter connection, I always wondered if me daddy were indeed me daddy. It ate away at me for years. I asked my mother many times. I got to a point in my life where I needed to know I did Ancestry D.N.A .BOOM! my gut instincts were spot on Finally got my truth At 70, I found another brother I don t regret any of it, but boy, what an emotional roller coaster.
Lorne M
I understand your need to know but it's important to realize you are likely not the only person whose life may be upset needlessly with any disclosure. There may be many reasons you weren't told, including your mother having been the victim of rape, incest or long-denied or hidden indiscretions.
How badly you may need to resolve this has to be weighed against the hurt the truth may cause, wounds re-opened and marriages undermined.
11-Apr-25

Do you agree with this? In my opinion, if AI can't do even simple things (distinguish between genuine emails and spam/scam emails and Microsoft is the WORST OFFENDER for not being able to do this even when you tell it this one is ok and this one is not) and giving wrong answers when searching for things (not just search engines but within sites when you are looking for specific products, and you even give it the brand, product name product code etc). ...
BLACK LIVES MATTER
AI is in its learning phase of its usage - which is not an excuse (just a fact). However, operating on the assumption (you presented in your 'discussion of the day') - if AI is DUMB - then how 'dumb' are humans (including me) for using AI??
12-Apr-25

Certain TV shows and movies are sexist, unrealistic, ridiculous or something else that is awful about them, yet they are popular, WHY? Why do some disgusting food and drinks become popular or a certain ingredient all of a sudden is deemed in so it is put in everything? What are some things you have noticed that either are popular now or were popular in the past, and you are surprised they are or were?
Pamela B 862973
Nothing is whole some any more. Can't even watch a TV series where they promote homosexuality. Not every one is for this.If it wasn't for my husband would not have a TV !
05-Apr-25

If I want to protest, complain or even compliment I put pen to paper and send it either by snail mail or email, but others glue themselves to roadways, make a racket at a function, block waterways or interrupt speeches etc. which inconveniences others. When I write they have my name and contact details, someone reads it and in 99% of cases I get a reply. This does have advantages because I am then on their list of contacts, so I get newsletters as well as information as to...
boy blunder
If the pen is mightier than the sword why do actions speak louder than words, personally, I take action if I feel wronged by never using the service or company again, I have walked out of jobs for wrongful accusations,i have stopped shopping at certain shops because of management changes, would I ever stoop to violence no, I've written letters before never had a reply, i once wrote a letter to the minister of housing here in sa because they were paying me to clean house that they were demolishing, that cost me my job ,
27-Mar-25

Research shows that certain strategies can help build up self-control around spending and saving money. The advice is to make one financial decision at a time, to track your spending. What else? How do I train my brain to stop spending money?
boy blunder
I have all my money in jars, I don't touch them until they are full, I don't have any credit cards and there is never money in my bank, it isn't the Bank of Pop it's the Bank of Jars, I have 17 different jars all different sizes all different purposes, it is amazing how much you can save by putting your change away and I also save my 5 dollar notes for the bigger purchases
19-Feb-25

You may feel lonely because many of your friends are at work. You may be bored. The activities you try may not challenge or engage you. Many retirees feel they have lost their sense of purpose. What are your thoughts? Why is it so hard to retire?
Jennifer 1540583
Many reasons mainly the cost of living. I agree with a panel member that the Govt don't want you to retire so change the goal posts as frequently as they can get away with. The Govt needs our taxes more and more as people either choose not to have children or can't literally afford to with housing and cost of living. A totally sad state of affairs as it changes peoples' lives so the rich can get richer and tell the middle class which will become almost extinct that they are lazy or didn't work hard enough. Totally unjust and immoral. We absolutely have to choose the best Govt in May this year to serve the ordinary working people of this country. Let's unite together there is absolute power in numbers!!!
02-Feb-25

Should adults be paid to exercise in order to improve their health and fitness, or receive s rebate from their health fund for exceeding?
Manel 1271300
No! Every adult should initiate exercising themselves to protect their health. Why should someone else take that responsibility?
26-Jan-25

The joy to cost ratio can be a way to get a clearer perspective on the relationship. Likewise, many joys are unrelated to money, too. What does it mean to you?
APB
and now all the Christians have joined in too...even though this has nothing to do with them..nice!,...how about some bible quotations?...cannot get enough of those suckers...apparently...
30-Jan-25

There is some scientific evidence indicating that even moderate alcohol consumption can increase the risk of several types of cancer. What are your thoughts on this? Do we need cancer warnings on alcohol bottles?
Tupulua S
we all die one way or another, sickness, accident, murdered, run over by a horse. I grew up in the alcohol {home Brew} enviroment for sixty years, and started drinking at the age of 12, and still not out at 70
27-Jan-25

On the one hand we hear on the news that children are conducting more crimes such as ram raids, teenagers deliberately serving half cooked chicken nuggets (raw on the inside) to kids in fast food restaurants etc. On the other hand, mental health issues are on the rise, and it seems as though people are less resilient now, with more depression and anxiety. Do you think we are raising our kids to be too soft or too uncaring?
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Do I think people are raising their kid(s) to be too soft or too uncaring (good question) ...hm. One, I always 'thought' kid(s) were carbon copy of their parents when it comes to pernicious behavior. Two, if kid(s) are too soft or uncaring (that is not on society, but on their parents - aka parents not doing their job - since their parents got the kid - HERE). Last, I don't have any kids (not my issue or concern)!
21-Jan-25

I don't care for sports other than the Olympics. I don't follow sports of any kind and do not watch them. I certainly would not pay an outrageous price for tickets to see them live. It is absurd what they pay professional athletes; they could do so much good with that kind of money. Many athletes end up broke and don't know how to earn a living any other way.
Peter L
i like these singing shows butt i don't like how the show the background story it always show how something terrible happen in there lives or got a sickness in their family it a bloody singing contest not a contest to see who got the worse story
18-Jan-25

In our family, every year we would give the same presents. My Dad would wrap up a potato in lots of newspaper and put it under the tree, one for me and one for my brother. He then did this for my daughters as well. We always had one fun gift, One daughter always got a coffee mug, she has quite a collection now. The other always got funny underpants. I would search all year for both. My husband still gets a cigar (his one a year) and I get good chocolates. ...
mike B 1066235
WHAT I DO NOT UNDERSTAND ABOUT CHRISTMAS WHEN SOME PEOPLE HAVE TO HAVE A TREE THAT HAS BEEN CUT DOWN.EVERY TIME I HEAR WELL MOST OG THE TIME GROUPS OF PEOPLE GO OUT TO PLANT TREES TO HELP CLIMATE CHANGE SO WHY NOT BUY A TREE THAT CAN BE USED FOR YEARS
22-Dec-24

I am an only girl in a family with four brothers. My mother lived to be 88 years old and had dementia. I moved her in with me and cared for her for the last three years of her life. Only one of my brothers came to see her, the others didn't even call to check on her. Mom was a good mother and took good care of us growing up. We had an alcoholic father who cared more about his liquor than about us, but Mom made up for it by giving more of herself. I know of other families...
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Gender is not the issue, more like family dynamics is the issue combined with the stereotyping of males. Furthermore, your sample size is too small to draw valid conclusions on gender. In addition, under the scenario you described you can draw invalid generalizations about males. Which has led to the 'myth' of girls (women) are more responsible than boys (men)...hm - even in these politically correct times - males are winning custody of their child or children from their ex-wives - for the first time - in the history of democracies!
21-Dec-24

Has anyone noticed that the weather outside is colder than usual for this time of year, especially here in California where I live? It feels like I m living in Wisconsin, where it s not sunny most of the time. Even when the sun comes out, it s not hot. Winters in Wisconsin often reach 50 below zero, and the weather can change dramatically it might rain, then shine, and then snow, which is quite strange. Also, I really dislike group homes and their regulations....
Manel 1271300
Hello Lisa thank you for the Californian weather perspective. In Melbourne the weather is similar, it's colder and hotter during this time of the year, than the past few years. Climate change and its effects are quite obvious. Regarding your plight of living with house mates is a bit daunting, but what can you do? When you cannot afford a home by yourself, some sacrifices have to be made. I pass a positive compliment to you. If you are the one who is appearing in the photo, you look quite young and smart, why not try a career advancement to buy your own place? Just a suggestion! This is what I did when I was young: work harder to climb the ladder to achieve career development. It was hard but, it solved a lot of life problems. Good Luck! \ud83d\ude00
03-Dec-24

I am sitting over here in Adelaide Australia and the sun is shining, and believe me, I know how lucky I am, I want to send as many blessings as I can chalk up with the big fella upstairs and send them over to the hurricane-affected areas, all I can say is Hellene is a [bad word], and Milton is an [another bad word]
The ghost
We should all consent to politicians having a sabbatical trip to form a barrier to areas that are about to be hit by hurricanes, volcanic eruptions, earthquakes and any other natural disasters, with only a bottle of listerine to sweeten the smell of bullshit coming out of their mouth as they get hit by nature.
11-Oct-24

It is something that Brands REALLY want to know...you know brands, right? They used to make things and were responsible for them...now they outsource the manufacturing process to someone else ... make MASSES of money ... sell you T-Shirts with their name on them (in the 1970s these were given away) and try desperately to make themselves cool and trendy by spending millions of dollars on sponsorship and advertising. Vacuous...like the Emperor's...
BLACK LIVES MATTER
It is called 'a fool and his money syndrome' only available in capitalistic countries at premium prices aka Pourquoi folie persiste-t-elle - Je ne sais pas pourquoi.........
24-Oct-24

Should offenders be jailed for the rest of their lives without parole, leaving the bill to the taxpayer, which amounts to over $100k annually? Or should we just implement the death penalty? The only reason offenders receive these sentences is for the protection of the community not financial protection. If the death penalty were applied to severe life-without-parole offenders, both the community and the taxpayer would benefit. In either case, the offenders aren't stepping back...
sunflower
you are forgetting those who are wrongly imprisoned and later found not guilty. once you kill someone it's not possible to fix such cases. and there are too many of them these days.
05-Sep-24

While growing up during the Cold War, I was repeatedly taught that a big difference between us and the USSR was that the USSR banned books while we, in the free world, wouldn't do such a thing. Today, we are seeing many books banned in parts of America. Personally, I never thought that I'd see the day when books would be banned in America!
Shawn B 1061185
NO! Banning books is how the "absolute coward" tries to exercise control over what the truth is and who can access it.
Remember, you are your own "censor control board." if you don't like what your reading, put the darn book down so someone else may learn about what you turned down.
24-Aug-24

What do the men think about woman boxing? Is it a man's sport? And shouldn't be practice by females?
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Women boxing (women) and men boxing (men) is not a sport (under any set of twisted circumstances - PERIOD) and should have been permanently banned in all countries - decades (or is it centuries) ago (so much for humans capable of the doing the 'right thing' under any circumstances when capitalism principles are involved aka always about the money - LOL)!
17-May-23

We used to buy records (that we owned) and cassettes and videotapes we used to buy software that we owned too...the software got way too expensive...and people were making copies of tapes... videos and software so they just very gently removed the equipment AND technology. You used to have a DVD/CD burner/player in your computer, everyone did, where did that go? Cannot afford $2,500 for Photoshop or AutoCAD? Don't worry you can now rent...
Bugalugs
the massive promotion of AI - Artificial Intelligence fills us with horror.If the reports are correct then AI will start making all the decisions for us, decisions dictated by the people creating this monster. We know its minor but how about thodse emails, letters you write on your PC etc.? We are now told our spelling is incorrect simply because it does not fit in with the Bastardised, incredibly Lazy, American version of how the Americans think English should be spelt. Our computers etc. come with a built-in Default "English S pelling (US version). Try to change that to suit your wish to use Correct, Original English Spelling. We have tried to make English Spelling our Default it initially workd but when we shut doen for the day and boot up the next day what do we get? The Horrible American Spelling. If Americans want to use their appallingly Lazy way then that is up to them. Why should people who want to use Real English Spelling be denied that Right? It is beyond time the ASmericans stopped being the World's Number One BULLY, we have Putin, Netanyahu, XI, and Kim of the Not-so-Democratice People's Republic of North Korea, in reality like Putin he is nothing more than an autocratic bully who are all trying to replace them.
25-Jun-24

I went into the city for an appointment and stopped into a Cafe to get coffee. It was a tiny place with a big, heavy glass door. I noticed from the 6 customers crammed in there, one man was needing to take a lady's mug of coffee to her outside (in her wheelchair) So I went and pulled the door open and held it for him to go out to her I may well have been a door stopper. He didn't even glance sideways, let alone thank me. Yes, I was all in black And I am only small...
Shawn B 1061185
The worst experience I've had with being invisible was a few years ago. I had recently been released from hospital after an accident. I was on crutches and struggling to get into a local mall to do some Christmas shopping. Well, some jerk actually pushed me out of the way so he could go first. Talk about angry, but what was I to do?
18-Jun-24

They are so big and car parks are designed for cars not 4WDs that are virtually as big as a truck. Look at the Ram or the LandCruiser
888
Maybe it's time to remember that country people need bigger vehicles to successfully run their farms, be they meat, fruit, vegetable or other. Without our rural industries the NZ economy would be in a total mess. And of course you are right, big vehicles don't fit in little car-parks and rural people do not go out of their way to annoy town-people so let's just be a little more tolerant please
28-Apr-24

What can anyone do? Be Kind Show respect Be happy with what you already have If Christian remember the manger Remember some people are wealthy and some are poor Be the solution not the problem Remember all humans struggle with life events Do not tolerate conflict Do not encourage war Stop fighting Build your family Everyone matters There must be a higher power than us Pray to what you believe in
Manel 1271300
As long as politicians and journalists are there, World will never experience true PEACE! Because if there\u2019s true PEACE in this World, those two sectors have nothing to do!
25-Dec-23

There are many places in the world that provide school lunches (in Japan it is included in their school fees for example) and in various parts of the world breakfast is provided either by schools and/or charities. In Australia, many parents are used to child care centres usually providing meals (or certain ones) and including the cost in their daily fees. With our busy society - more families having both parents work and the increase amount of obesity, do you think it would...
Jania S
I think it is amazing how many parents are not prepared to be parents and want other people to work for them. More and more areas. Maybe parents who want this should give their children away to someone who will care for them 100 %. BTW we in Australia dont get paid or work the hours in Japan or other countries.
PARENTS are 100% responsible for their children. THIS IS FACT and anyone who get 'offended' can just ignore this comment.
06-Dec-23

Some places around the world have Army on the streets. We have that here in Australia (Sydney). What is your opinion about that, is it OK to have it in Australia but not OK in North Korea and why?
Beverley S 383001
If all people obeyed the lockdown rules there wouldn't be need of extra law enforcement. So sad for NSW friends who are doing the right thing but are subject to more and more lockdown.
21-Aug-21

I was in a serious relationship 2 years ago (we literally paid off an engagement ring etc) and it was all going great, but then he couldn't put up with his mother demanding he marry a Punjabi Hindu girl anymore. We broke up. I'm not mad at him - it's unfortunately still a cultural thing in India. I found myself in a situationship with a Sri Lankan Muslim guy. My problem is that my mum is getting excited thinking I might end up with this guy simply because I'm almost...
Michael B 384408
Wouldn't you rather be 40 single with no unwanted obligations because you haven't met the right person? or 40 and single after having to get out of a relationship with the wrong person and responsibilities that need to be sorted out? When and if you are ready - until then take your time and enjoy your life.
04-Nov-23

Australia is in dire need of workers. From healthcare and teaching, to farms and the factory floor, the country is in the grip of a national labour shortage. Regional towns like Griffith, in central NSW, are crying out for more workers while those still in jobs struggle to shoulder the burden. Across the country, 470,900 jobs remain unfilled, and job vacancies have jumped 40 per cent in the last year. The federal government has promised to speed up...
Maureen M 941354
Hi I am 70 years of age - was in an IGA store a few weeks ago - noticed signage mentioning CHECKOUT OPERATORS NEEDED - went home made a phone call - have done 2 four hour training shifts and today I am now on the pay roll. HIP HIP HOORAY FOR IGA??
21-Nov-22

You can't tell the difference....it is saving the planet...it stops animal cruelty.....and this runs against... you can taste the difference...it is made of vegetables, so why does it cost twice the price of meat...if you are going to stop animal cruelty there are better ways...........surely being a vegetarian means eating no meat, so why do you need a meat substitute? Are you missing your dead animals? What do we think?
Carol S 657195
I see no point in humans becoming vegetarians. What do we do with the animals that we have on the planet? Cows have to be milked, and there's nothing better than beef in my opinion. People are not herbivores. Why do we think we are so civiilized that we are too good to eat meat? God put them here for us to use, but not to abuse! There are humane ways to slaughter animals. I think it's more important to focus on people slaughtering other people! What the hell is going on there? We need to figure that out ASAP! Get rid of the drugs, cults and mental illness and automatic weapons. The founders of this country did not mean for us to be armed like the armed forces. The US is the worst country for murder, why? Are we too spoiled that we are bored and are looking for love instead of drugs or material things? I think it's a combination of drugs and working and divorced parents. Homes are broken!
01-Jul-22
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