Discussions of the day

What was the most embarrassing moment of your life, and how did you react to it?
Julie K 348980
Being told I had to give a speech to 500 people I told my boss I could not as I fear public speaking. He insisted (many times) so on the day I got up on the stage and said “hello, my name is Julie” and promptly threw up.
09-Feb-23

I'm sure that everyone has seen or at least heard of this movie 'Groundhog Day'. Story of Phil Connors, who becomes trapped in a time loop, forcing him to relive February 2 repeatedly in Punxsutawney, Pennsylvania. Remember? So, let's imagine that you've been forced for one year to relive the same day. Time loop for a year. What time do you want to come back to? Which day of your life would you choose?
BLACK LIVES MATTER
1998 - the day before I got shot in the eye - on the job - by a sorry excuse for a human being (aka a cracker)
10-Feb-23

Has anyone ever noticed how the models in the anti aging cream ads don t look old enough to have wrinkles. When are the sponsors going to wake up to the fact that women of Australia are not stupid, only elderly women have wrinkles not 40-year-olds. If they want us to believe these ads, then use models of 60 + who would have wrinkles and see if these creams actually work, or maybe they don t want us to know the truth .
Gigi
Silliest question ever. Of course they don't want us to know the truth. That's called MARKETING. And our skin has protective layers, and these creams can't even get to the layers that need restorative therapy in the first place. So disappointed in how the women of the world are so caught up in any fad, no matter the cost, to stay looking young. Hey, you!!!!!!! If you are old enough to have wrinkles, I'm smart enough to see them. No matter how much of that cream you put on everyday to make your insecure self feel "younger". Age is a number, not defined by grey hair or lines on your face. It's called natural degeneration and IT'S NOT YOUR ENEMY. Wisdom of life is far more valuable.. You'll never find me falling for STUPID, no matter how it's advertised. So wake up humans and grow a brain. Read more. You'll be much more beautiful for being able to carry on a conversation and having a great personality. Not your eye cream that's not helping, and not your clothes label hidden where no one can see what it says. Your not impressing me. Btw, I'm 52 and look fabulous and am beautiful and don't throw my money away. I'm as God intended me to be.
05-Feb-23

Mad wars. Plagues of destructive viruses. People are out of control. Philosophy and logic downgraded. Science outranked by mythology and religion. Religion that does not even follow its own basic teachings.
JANET R 328390
No I don't think we are in the dark ages. I think we have just had our eyes opened to how much corruption there is in the world and the consequences of political systems where leaders get too much power. I don't think it has ANYTHING to do with religion - but people will always blame that...............
21-Mar-22

My wife used to get swiss chocolates...and just give them to me...then slowly...because I ate them...I was supposed to like them, and everyone sent them to me... I had to recycle them....now I have a favourite whisky ... it isn't that expensive ... so everyone is buying me the special limited edition ... because it costs almost one third more ... and it is really horrible... Everyone is now sending me this one you don't want to sound ungrateful....what can I do?
Luke W 72035
Showing them what you wrote on Rewardia should do the trick...You may never hear from them again however.
30-Dec-22

I was just thinking today and I have definitely noticed that every time it rains there doesn't appear to be any flies around at all. Why is that, I wonder, do they not like the rain.
BLACK LIVES MATTER
I don't MISS not having flies around and I don't care if flies don't like rain (for whatever reason). Who cares?
03-Dec-22

Australia s agricultural industry is booming, forcing small farmers to get big or get out. What do you think does this mean for smaller farms and the communities they help build?
Jan H 753322
Multi purpose croping is the way to go and opting for native croping as well. We need to change with the times
27-Nov-22

There are more women in Australian prisons than ever before. And once they're out, they're very likely to reoffend and end up back inside. Why are so many women going to jail these days?
Christina C 466456
Never heard about this. Maybe it's mental illness on the increase? Perhaps alcohol and drugs? Is it really increasing or is it just increase in population (more people = more criminals though the proportion may still be the same).
16-Nov-22

My name is ***. I am from the country termed "the giant of Africa". Hope you know the country? Guess you know. Just relocated to Canada, and been a black and a visible minority, how will I blend with the norms in Canada. I need your advice.
Rebecca B 614374
Just be you, be polite and honest, and you are sure to find friends soon enough. Most people are quite happy to accept others as they are. Any that do not are the ones with the problem, not you.
19-Nov-22

Why are the Hospital Insurance Funds pricing us out of being able to afford the insurance? Is it deliberate, because as we get older, we need more medical care, or do they just not care about us older, loyal customers. We have been loyal members of our Hospital Insurance fund for over 50 years and are now paying over $400 per month on a pension. This to me is so wrong! When we become pensioners, our payments should be adjusted accordingly, especially for anyone...
Paul B 522937
Save the money and invest it in a term deposit then if you need it it’s there for medical expenses if your not sick use it to have a holiday
08-Nov-22

I became a caregiver 4 and a half years ago. I had to give up any chance of working. A caregiver is on call 24 hours a day. There are flexible hours, but I needed to be at home all the time. Especially in the beginning. If it wasn't for survey sights, I would have gone broke and crazy. Why don't governments help caregivers? What can be done to give them a living wage?
Paula J 395266
Some years ago I sprained my ankle, 2 weeks later I broke my knee, 2 weeks after that during a routine X-ray the doctor found my ankle was broken. My cast was getting bigger but just as I was starting to feel better renewed pain in my foot sent me for another X-ray and the other side of my ankle was broken. As I was very incapacitated my husband had to take time off work without pay and we felt it very unfair that we weren't entitled to any form of Government assistance. So no pay and loads of medical bills while other people manage to get heaps of assistance. All caregivers should get some sort of assistance.
06-Nov-22

If so, what did you see hear smell or feel that couldn't be explained by the five senses. What was your response? Did you share your experience with others?
Paula J 395266
I have never had a Paranormal experience but I do sense things. I will go to the letter box and know that a certain letter that was not expected is in it. I also know who people are despite never having met them or even seen them before. I used to know who was on the phone when it rang, now it tells me so I don't know if I can still tell who it is. My daughter and I would go shopping in different places but when we got home we would find we had been in the same stores but in different suburbs, and bought the same things. There are other weird things like knowing what people are going to say on TV or know the plot way ahead of time. I don't think it's supernatural or anything like that, I just put it down to being super attentive and noticing things other people don't.
03-Nov-22

My mother was living in a nursing home for 4 years but in all of that time my brother and his wife visited her only once and the rest of his family didn't visit at all. Neither did my mothers nephews or nieces. I visited weekly and even during the lockdowns I would stand outside and wave to her. I took my grandchildren as often as I could and some family friends also visited. My mother's funeral was last week, but my brother and his family didn't attend the funeral, but I...
Roberta E 611945
It’s disgraceful behaviour it makes you wonder if they are hoping for a handout or just feel they have to attend to stop their guilty conscience.
01-Nov-22

Have you ever been to a nude beach or the nudest colony? Is it something not acceptable to you, or do you find it to be natural?
Carolyn K 714554
In Tasmania an American came and saw a beautiful valley, bought it and arranged to have some cabins built. With a big privacy fence. He returned to open a nudist camp in May to find snow and freezing wind. He never opened his camp.
21-Oct-22

With the shortages of staff in hospitals, wouldn't it be a good idea to bring back some of the matrons that did hands-on training in hospitals. As I remember, we had some really great nurses trained in this way. Instead of sending them off to University, they could be trained in the same manner as apprentices. It could help fill the hole that we have now, with shortages all over Australia.
Paula J 395266
The problem is that nurses are sent to university then into hospitals. In the old days you started emptying bed pans before you decided whether or not it was the profession for you. Now they are sent to university then have to empty bedpans. Wouldn't it be a bit of a shock after years of schooling? Why would anyone spend years studying then perform back breaking work, changing dressings, wiping bums and the like when they could be earning much more in the corporate world. Starting at the bottom then studying your way to the top is always the best way to fill the ranks.
05-Oct-22

If you knew tomorrow was going to be your last day on earth, what would you spend today doing?
Dang Ling-bits.
Slowly killing the guy who run over my pet frog Jumpy. That happened when I was 5 and I have never forgotten my little mate Jumpy.
07-Sep-22

We are both in our fifties. Have grandchildren. Thinking life would get more slower but no. Had a great car but needed to upgrade to a 7 seater, as now I have days when I have all 4 grandchildren that need to be dropped off at school & daycares, and they all need car seats. But I m loving it. How many other people have been thinking life would slow down or be more flexible?
Pauline T 68358
In your fifties, that is young, don't worry, by the time you get to almost 90, you will have slowed down!!!!! Guaranteed !!!!!
02-Apr-22

Wondering why this time of year, I see bunches of buck deer, some make me like WOW, this morning was one of those mornings, then in season, I do not see any at all. I think some people start hunting before season, is why I don't see them in season, what do you think?
Dang Ling-bits.
We have tadpoles here. Herds of the damn things. They grow into gangs of nasty frogs and annoy the living hell out of me. I will happily trade a deer or two for all of my frogs. Let me know if you are interested.
03-Sep-22

The Australian government has made a proposal to bring about the possibility of IDENTITY.. to access the internet. Our prime minster said it would reduce bulling on social-media. It's only being discussed at this stage. Do you think this would be a good idea if it's given the go ahead? We have to use ID for many situations, like opening bank accounts, so why not the internet as well. If it passes into law will you be bothered by this, or not?
Paul
I have reservations about this one! Seems like a sledgehammer to squash a flea. My immediate reaction is a bit like the essential basis of democracy going back many centuries being "The Seperation of Church and State". Yes, I'm comparing "Church" to "Internet", which will offend many people! But more of us spend more time using the Internet than participating in faith based social activities. Having said that, I had a friend/client scammed out of several thousand dollars by an internet fraudster who also tried to get his wife' identity, scan of Drivers Licence, Birth Certificate etc. Bullying IS a serious thing, in any form but I am uneasy about Government involvement in our privacy. More "Traditional" Policing methods & education of legitimate users to know what to look out for seems less draconian. Happy Monday!
28-Jun-21

Surveys often want to how many painkillers and cough medicines you buy in a year....if you say none you are instantly flung out...and on TV there is a constant barrage of adverts telling which painkillers and cough medicines to buy...who is buying all this stuff?...if you are buying it regularly...like groceries...do you think that is normal?...why aren't people going to see doctors?...this industry is raking in millions of dollars...what do you think?
Elizabeth A 807208
I am 85 and have never had a headache in my life feel so soorry for those
who have them regularly. For coughs my mother used to give me hot water with a teaspoon of whisky and some honey - it sure worked quickly on coughs and colds
13-Aug-22

If you had the chance to go anywhere - or travel back in time to see your favourite bands or singers performing, who would they be even if they are long gone? Hard to choose Pink Floyd and Steely Dan up there for me, Tears for Fears back in the day, def Alan Parsons
Janet B 835001
I saw Paul McCartney when he done his tour and he was absolutely fabulous and I would love nothing better than to be able to see him in concert again he was spectacular ???
22-Jul-22

There is a lot of spin coming out of the red meat industry about how beef and lamb production can be climate neutral or even climate positive. Do you believe these claims? What evidence would you need to see?
Victoria 315341
All animals and plants including us human beings. Are carbon bases life forms. Climate change is a myth, the earth has always heated up and cooled down. Its a blatant money grabbing exercise for the UN and other powers who want to dictate what we say and think. Just blowing off some stream.
06-Aug-22

Interested in when people decide to write a Will is it when you start a family?
Charmaine R 571208
Not having a Will is being extremely selfish expecting your children to clean up your mess. My MIL died a year ago and refused to ever make a Will, she was the absolute worst hoarder in NSW, we're still clearing the property it's an absolute nightmare then there's Letters of Administration to file in the Supreme Court, if she just thought about anyone else but herself it would have been a lot easier.
26-Jul-22

Getting married once is stupid enough but getting married twice, three times, five times .. did these people not learn anything? Love is certainly blind and unintelligent as well.
Edith v
I have 58years of marriage & love the changes the twists & turns .The 2 children ,6 Grandchildren ,3 great grand children.It is a full rewarding journey thru life .
25-Oct-20

As if things weren't bad enough, I have today received an e-mail from AGL informing me that they are taking away their 5c feed in tariff (and probably all other utility companies are doing the same.) This has to be nothing more than pure greed. I am pretty sure they will weather the hard times we are going through better than their customers will.
Janet B 835001
My husband and I have discussed solar panels and decided that should we ever get them because yes I believe that are a great idea but we've come to the conclusion that unless we can afford to buy a battery to store any excess power that we won't use at the time it's not worth it cause you just get ripped off by greedy power companies because they buy it off you for next to nothing then sell it back at huge profits.
02-Jul-22

Diesel alone is $2.11 per litre in Hervey Bay, what's it like everywhere else?
Jania S
If everyone stopped using their car for one week or longer and used other transport, the prices will drop...
25-Jun-22

I wish to do different things and not what I used to do when young. I tried lawn bowls and really thought I would enjoy it but gave up as it is not for me. Thought about going to the gym, but am too slow to motivate myself. Yesterday thought I would enquire about tap dancing. Too far and not comfortable driving the distance like I once was. Would love to travel in a campervan and just stop anywhere that sounds fun. Do you have a bucket list?
IdentifyAs
I don't see a lot of hope for the rest of my life, and I'm sick of making lists I can never hope to cross off.
06-Jun-22

We didn't want to shut down over COVID-19 because we would lose money...we started opening up too early, so we could make more money....we cannot stop global warming in time because it would cost too much and our "economies" would suffer...we cannot apply proper sanctions to Russia because they are supplying everyone with power...it would cost too much to stop all death and murder going on in their current invasion... Britain hasn't applied the same sanctions...
Evie
We did not open too early; we shouldn't have shut down. We didn't shut down for Swine flu, bird flu, or any other health issue. The problem isn't money, it's rampant inflation due to an idiot who shouldn't be in charge. For anyone who hates capitalism, I do hope you live in (or move to) a socialist county. Let me know how well that works out for you LOL
20-May-22

Do you ever lend money to family and friends, and if you do are you expecting them to pay you back or not to pay it? My experience has been that whenever I have lent money to friends I always get it back, as for family they just disappear for a while and when they do show up somehow they completely forget about it. So now I just don't lend family any money and if I do in certain dire circumstances I don't expect it back. What are your opinions on it.
Viola
I've lent money to my sons now and again. It's usually my idea to do it and often I end up telling them not to worry about paying it back. One example was my eldest son one day telling me he was going to get a solar system installed and how much it was going to cost paying it on a plan. Worked out double the cost so I said I'd give him the money and he can pay me back when he has that amount saved up. Then my other son needed money for something some time later and I gave him money for that. In the end I told them both not to worry about paying it back. I have a fair bit sitting in the bank. We don't need much to live on because our house is paid off. We aren't big spenders going on holidays etc and the money will be theirs not so far down the track when my partner and I are no longer here so I figure why not let them have some of their inheritance now. One thing I always do though. If I give to one I give the same to the other so there's no favouritism.
25-Mar-22

Do you think that the property market will keep rising, and if so, how do you think the generations today and upcoming will be able to afford housing?
gordy
If you are in the market, you buy you sell the dividends are the same. Future generations are unable to buy property because everyone the older generation is investing and negative gearing with portfolios connected to their super. The cost of buying and keeping up with technology is eating up our money with iPhones and internet connection and also smart technology. The aged care sector has bought all the small home units that use to be a way for first home buyers to enter the market. Whose responsible? the Government are always involved.
20-Mar-22

Growing older isn t what it used to be. With a longer life span, and free from the restrictions of work and family, older Australians are bucking the trends of the previous generations. Are you determined to live your best life, regardless of age and societal expectations?
Linda C
Unfortunately, money and poor health is a problem so I cannot live the life I would like. I do not have any friends as my sisters were my friends and they have passed. It is a bit lonely and at times I also feel very invisible to people around me i.e. in shops etc. and I really do not like being treated as some idiotic insignificant person. When I go to the doctors and explain my symptoms it is usually brushed off with Oh it's your age or gender. I would have loved to travel more as I enjoyed every country I visited. I have traveled extensively also around Australia but some areas I have not yet seen and would love to.
I do think you need someone beside you who has similar views on life and you can enjoy it with them.
19-Mar-22

What is your opinion...people using ... after a few words... Do you find it annoying? I know I do...
David C 471262
Punctuation is an essential part of language, In the passage from Dickens' used it's appropriate. It implies pace and importance to what would otherwise be just words,
12-Mar-22

Breakfast Shows Does anyone else find the presenters annoying? I think they should be renamed the Giggle Shows. It doesn't seem to make much difference which channel you watch. I get that they need to be upbeat to start the day, but it would be nice if they were sincere at the same time instead of just laughing at themselves.
Darren S 116121
I used to watch bet then realised they are really just big ads foe whatever and are really very biased to one point of view so have not watched foe years
11-Mar-22

I am feeling really fearful about the forecast that omicron is going to infect many, and to be prepared for many people to be off work. Who on earth will look after our people who are in care if the trained and specialist staff are all off sick? I don't know who will be able to care for my husband and the others in his Care home. They are always short-staffed at any time. I don't know how Specialist care facilities are coping in other countries.
Paula J 395266
This is a very sore point for me as my mother is in a nursing home and as you say they are usually under staffed but when they mandated the vaccine almost 30% of the staff left including the entire management team. It took ages to hire more staff and now the place is nothing like it was previously. The new staff don't really care about the residents and things go left undone and they have demarcation lines where only one person can attend to something. My mother was left with a UTI that went untreated for between 12 to 16 weeks and it was only detected after she had a heart attack and was transported to hospital. The infection was cleared in a couple of days but she now has a heart condition. With only 34% of staff having had the booster more will leave again with the new mandate. I don't for one minute believe unvaccinated people catch or spread Covid anymore than vaccinated people and I would much have preferred that the staff who had worked there for more than 20 years had been allowed to remain working there vaccinated or not. For some very odd reason people seem to have lost their minds over Covid and think that people in nursing homes etc. should be protected from Covid at all costs, even if they die from neglect. I don't agree. Of all the deaths in Australia in 2021 only 1% was from Covid. In 2017 almost 250000 people in Australia caught Influenza, and on one night 17000 were hospitalized because of it. Did you hear that on the evening news? My father fell ill and was admitted to hospital and after a week he was doing well and was about to be discharged but he caught the flu despite being vaccinated. Just after midnight on his 91st birthday he passed away. That wasn't on the evening news either, but if it had been Covid you would have heard about it. People should get a grip, stop listening to the alarmist news media and worry about the elderly and disabled being fed, washed and cared for rather than who has or hasn't had the "jab".
24-Feb-22

Would you prefer to text before arriving at someones place? Or just show up unannounced? Or would you ring before turning up? My friend thinks it's rude but I don't have a phone and we usually just knock and if they are there they are there
Aisha A 379399
I hate unexpected visitors, especially when I'm not in the mood or feeling sick. The very last thing I want to do is entertain other people.
04-Feb-22

Always wondered but never quite got the awnser, what does cheating mean to you. Everyone looks at things differently in life and has there own opinion but can anyone even clarify what's the terms of cheating.
Judy CH
The worst thing is having someone cheat on you and when you ask them they lie and make you feel as if you are in the wrong, and when found out and they leave it is worse than when someone close dies, the one who dies doe not leave you by choice and then quite often the one they took up with rubs your nose in it. You can forgive but you can never forget, even after 30 odd years certain things make you remember and hurt.
07-Feb-22

The AMA, Australian Medical Association, is concerned about the state of our current hospital systems. Even before COVID19 hit our shores there were major issues, but COVID has made it even worse ... and there are fears it will only get worse. Longer wait times in our public hospital system. What can be done to improve the system? Your Views?
Bugalugs
Here's a thought. Make it possible for EDs to Charge - Not Bulk Bill - people who clog up EDs for no good reason. If it can be shown there is a Real Emergency then the ED Bulk Bills to Medicare. Hitting even the most selfish people in their wallets and purses with No Recourse to claim from Medicare would have an immediate effect. This Fee would amount to being a Fine for Time and Resource Wasting - I have yet to hear of anyone being issued with a Fine who has been able to claim the cost of it on any form of insurance or tax dodge!
31-Jan-22

In a recent interview with Elon Musk the question was put to him, when does he see his company landing in Mars? To my great surprise he answered, best case scenario 5 years - worst case scenario 10 years. To my even greater surprise, he then said that his intention is to build a self-sustaining city there. Who would put their hand up when people are being sought to live in this city on Mars?
David C 471262
Who would not want to be the next Niel Armstrong?? Dull as Mars looks (it's not as interesting as the green of Aotearoa) it would be cool to be fist there, wouldn't it???
13-Jan-22

Another year over, almost. Another year to come! How do you think 2022 will pan-out for the WORLD? As per usual there will be the normal disasters ...that will befall the WORLD .....world famous deaths... The usual scandals. Political issues... Covid perhaps still lingering for some months yet? What's your Forecast?
Linda C
Agree with all the above. A bit dismal isn't it. Perhaps we can have a laugh on this discussion panel along the way over the coming year.
Happy New Year everyone and let's hope it's a good one.
01-Jan-22

I knew a few kids that were adopted when I was a kid! One couple... had a few kids that they adopted, her being a neighbor of ours! At high school..a few kids were adopted that I knew as well. What's your view on adoption? Should people when they are old enough, be allowed to or encouraged to find their real parents?
Henrietta
I am one of those children who got adopted. I don't know the reason(s) why my birth mother put me up for adoption but I have no regrets because the two people who adopted me when I was 13 months old, were the most loving parents any child could have. It was during the 2nd World War when my adoption happened so there are so many reason why I was put up for adoption. I had a very happy childhood. My new father's family accepted me, so I had aunts, uncles & cousins to be part of. My new mum & dad always managed to go away for a week's holiday every year to the seaside. At Christmas time, there was always plenty of food on the table & lot of presents. I did try once to try & find information by applying for a copy of my Birth Certificate & as I used to work near Somerset House in the City of London. I requested that it be sent to where I was working at the time, but it was sent to my home address. Of course, mum & dad knew the return address on the envelope so got quite upset & it was at that time, that mum & dad opened up about my adoption & how I became adopted. It was sad but at the same time I got to get my questions answered. After that, I never thought to try & find out anymore information about my background. Why would I when I had been rec'd into a loving family. Years later both those wonderful people, offered to foster a child from Dr Barnardo's because her mother was unable to look after her. So I had a sister. Yes, I still do agree with couples adopting a child or children if they are brother & sister.
26-Dec-21

Do you collect sentimental objects? If so, what is your most sentimental possession and why? If you are not the type to get attached to object - like myself - do you have a sentimental memory that you cherish instead?
Carol S 657195
I have many things that I have had since I was a little girl. I would love to keep them in the family, but I have no children. I have nephews and nieces, but they show no interest in my family tree which I've worked on since 1970! I'm heart-broken!!!
31-Oct-21

Do you have a massive regret in life? Perhaps it's something you wish you did, but have never got around to doing, or something you did, but wish you hadn't.
Michelle S 553303
We ALL have regrets I'm sure but not lebe arning from those stupid, idiotic things that you did do would be my greatest regret of all. I wish that I would have listened to my FIL when he pleaded with me not to sell the home we had built on land he'd paid for. It was perfect for us and my 5 children and would have been for years to come, but I had been bequeathed a 3/4 share in a home which belonged to these elderly sisters I helped to care for in the community and whereas I could simply have paid off the animal welfare organisation that they bequeathed the other 1/4 to and paid my share of the lawyers exorbitant fees and then, after the sale was completed, I could have paid the mortgage on the home we had built, bought my now ex and I a car each and then STILL had money left over. We moved in the weekend my mother died and because the home phone had been switched off at our old residence for a few hours before going on at our new address my mother had passed away of cancer. I missed being with her AND my father was alone with her when she died. He'd been trying to call the home number but couldn't get on to us so he eventually rang my mobile. We'd spent the whole weekend moving houses and my plan had been to go and stay with her that Monday after I got the kids off to the bus stop and remain with her when she died. My old home was officially sold that Thursday and for some reason we had to be there to hand over keys or something, but we were over an hour away from the Chapil where my mother's funeral was to occur at 11am and I still had to pick up the wreath along the way. We were late of course and my father knew that something fishy was going on that week but I didn't want to tell him what we'd done because he'd told me in no uncertain terms NOT to move into the sisters home. I would NEVER make such a mistake as that now, but hindsight is a wonderful thing. We spent over $70K repairing the home as the sisters hadn't been able to afford to fix all the things that needed replacing and tearing down. That "tearing down" happened later that year when my my marriage broke up and a year after that when I couldn't sell the now lovely renovated home and 3/4 of an acre of land within walking distance to town and public transport, the bank came and foreclosed on it. So in 2 and a half years I destroyed my family's finances that we'd built up over 18 years or so and ended up bankrupt. It was, ALL of it, the most difficult experience to go through and the ONE decision out of ALL of life's bad choices that I wish I could change. I know it is shameful and worse because I hurt the very person that had helped me the MOST of anybody in my lifetime, but if anyone reading this can possibly get a family member or another loved one NOT to make a similar disastrous mistake then it's worth it. Thanks for reading.
07-Oct-21

Is getting into property becoming harder and harder? Sometimes I wonder if there are more people out there who home multiple properties then people who don't own their own home. I know I'm in the no-home category for now and the foreseeable future.
Gaza
I honestly can't understand why people pay rent and not own their own home, hard work and sacrificing a lot of luxuries is the only way to go. It will pay off in the end.
25-Sep-21

I was wondering if people who retired would be able to give some advice about when it is the right time to take his / her retirement: at 55, 60, 65? What is a good guideline? So the question would be: - When do you know when it is time to retire?
'smee,SWQ!
I was forced to retire at 60 when a raft of medical conditions culminated in my first heart attack...lost home, lost everything and now just on a Disability Pension - Rent alone takes more than half of that a fortnight - If you have the luxury of planning when to retire do it when you own your home and have enough in your Super or Savings to see you through to your expected Expiry Date!
02-Aug-21

If you choose between your partner and your job, which do you prefer? And why?
Sandra C 12043
I would seriously think that if you had to really consider that, then you had better find another girlfriend, she's not the one for you.
24-Mar-21

In your opinion, have we entered it? Strange Happenings. Complexities occurring. Do you feel, what was otherwise "weird" years ago, is now becoming more commonplace? Detaching "non-ordinary" into something that is now a part of our everyday.
Dang Ling-bits.
Yes of course, one of my houses is built on the site of a former leper colony. I have seen ghosts in there for the last 20 years. However they do not steal my beer so I am fine with them hanging out in the place.
26-Jul-21

Do you notice how often doctors tend to put up their fees? Do you think they charge the public too much? I heard that more people would visit a doctor if they didn't charge so much. Why do the fees vary so much? Should they not be capped?
Jenny B 109832
Doctors are forced to charge high rates so they can cover their university fees plus staff wages and other general business fees. Also every time they attend a routine status upgrade session to improve their abilities, they have to pay to this - so they need to cover this.
14-Jul-21

All mistakes are just learning experiences, right? That mistake are made by everyone, some big, some not, regaurdless, there is a difference between taking accountability and being sorry. Taking accountability is easy. after your caught up. But truly being sorry means that you have to change that behavior. I never say Im sorry, unless I really am sorry. Nor did I , ever make my child alologize,i f he didnt mean it, I say dont say it, if you dont mean it.
Richo
ask a politician this question and sit back and listen to the crap that would pure from them ALL.....
08-Jul-21

Since the dawn of the Advertising World we have been met with Salesman. Now, enter the Technology Age, and we have modern day salespeople, known as: Social Media Influencers. Would you buy a product, because they have given their influence? Do you think they are necessary? Are their product endorsements legitimate enough for you to go out and buy a product? Let us know, in the comments below.
Rose S 88496
Self centre, self absorbed, egotistical nobody’s who think their opinions are of importance to the world …. What a load of rubbish these people gush …. So wrapped up in themselves and people are stupid enough to make them a fortune by taking notice of the rubbish they tout … give me a break people get a life ??
21-Jun-21

When I was young, kids did as we were told, no questions asked. We were never exposed to the conversations of adults. When visitors came for afternoon tea, us kids were sent outside to play. We never questioned the rules that were set by our parents. Kids nowadays have a lot more to say about how things should be done, both inside and outside the home. Do you think this has gone too far?
The dog house
Children should not be exposed with adult issues. Let them be children and free from stress for as long as they can. Outside is better than indoors. Children have too much internet time and less exercise.
10-May-21

I am! Me and my girlfriend now have a 8 week old baby boy I'm a proud daddy!
Christina D
Congratulations to you but no. In the second week of January, on the Wednesday my FIL was diagnosed with bowel cancer, on the Friday my father was diagnosed with inoperable lung cancer and on the Sunday one of my cats passed away suddenly. And I'm still unemployed after 12 years
09-Apr-21

Do you ever think about your existence? Who created you, where do you go once you die, who gave life? I always had an wondering about afterlife and whether Heaven and Hell were actually real. Share your thoughts and experiences!
Russel B
I think about existence and the wondrous subjects of creation
and of life after death. I also think very much about mortality. Where do we go
after death, if we go anywhere? These are all challenging thoughts and the
older you get the more you think about it. Your emotions come rushing to the
surface of your thoughts.
In most of us we are taught to believe in a God, or higher
power; someone or something that created life and put us on the Earth to exist
and live a normal life. Of course, the kind of life we live is coloured or
influenced by our environment and again, by our upbringings and circumstances, education,
and beliefs. We should remember that for every action and decision there are
consequences.
Most religions nearly always come to a similar conclusion at
the end of life. I do not include the fundamentalists who persist in taking a
severe approach to matters and doing things to society against the accepted
norm (actions and consequences).
In 2015 I was conducting a criminal case in Sydney that was
moved from the Downing Centre to the Central Criminal Court. On my way to the
Central Court, I was crossing Castlereagh Street and a few paces before I
reached the other side I had a Cardiac arrest. I remember going down and my
secretary screaming but that was all. Apparently, a young man caught me from
behind and proceeded to administer CPR. I came to and was taken to RPA Hospital
where after two Angiograms I had a Defibrillator implanted. This was a quick
way of letting me know that it was time to retire. I was 74 at the time.
I still think very much about that day and how lucky I was to
survive. Despite it all, there was nothing on the other side to relate; there
was no bright light or rushing wind like near-death stories talk about. But
perhaps I had not died in the true sense of the word? The experience has made
me think about all these things very deeply and realise we are here on Earth
to look after one another as best we can. I have three adult sons, a darling
wife of 54 years of marriage, and 6 Grandchildren.
Perhaps we weren’t meant to know all about our own existence and
mortality? It may come later...I wonder.
02-Apr-21

Or maybe death suffering and rebirth? What will you be doing at Easter?... I'd rather celebrate either way!
Ruth 404159
whether with family or not, i want to think about the reason we celebrate Easter and be thankful for the sacrifice that was made for us.
03-Apr-21

Are you concerned about low interest rates and how badly they are affecting many people? Banks are generally paying most -customers much less interest than even a few years ago. Have your savings dwindled down - lower, and lower as time goes on? Low interest rates have been great for mortgage borrowing, and investment. The downside is that it's also forced the cost of buying a home. Many people can't get a foot in the door because of much higher property prices. Do...
Anneliese
The government and banks should just let the market crash normally so prices of houses can go down. This fake businesses of propping up the housing isn't good for people trying to buy their first home. It's only helping those with investment properties.
12-Mar-21

Same are happy having a child. Same of us don't want to have kids. They are peoples out they don't feel a needed to have a child. Peoples think something is wrong of me not having a child. Will change in years to came.
Lones
Your choice, and no body else’s business. Some would give anything to be a parent, some shouldn’t be parents, others live with regrets, and most of us wouldn’t change a thing and the learning curves that come with being a parent. Follow your wishes
24-Feb-21

A lot of children and teenagers, don't understand the dangers of what is lurking around online. Children are quite often cyber bullied, or fall into online grooming. A lot of them aren't even aware they are not cyber safe. Should we teach them more about the dangers out there?
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Do children and teenagers need to be more cyber-safe - YES (quite obviously). However, this is strictly the responsibility of a PARENT(S) - law enforcement becomes involve after the damage is done to a child or a teenager - the parent responsibility is to stop the problem before damage is done to a child or a teenager - (because we all know predators are everyone - especially online - and predators prey on the weak and/or unaware!!!!!!.)
19-Feb-21

How are you going to celebrate your Valentine this year?
Henry W 362692
As far as I’m concerned every day is Valentine Day with the love of my life every day is special,57 years together love her dearly
13-Feb-21

I really did not use what I learned from school into my growing years, It was more of a 'learn as you go' situation for me which I hated so much, I would have liked more lift skills. What would you like to see replaced or included in the children's education?
Jacqueline R 353303
Agree we need to go back to basic maths, spelling and sounding the alphabet. Just crazy how kids work out sums I can't help my grand-kids and when I do I get the answer so much faster than them. Need to learn how to cook basic things & sew on a button. Algebra was the most useless thing I learnt, never had cause to use it.
06-Feb-21

The word happiness is overused. A better goal would be contentment that allows for the fact that you cant always have what you want. Result should be less stress along with better physical and mental health.
Katzeye
Happiness is not a false goal at all,happiness is a term used for what and whoever makes you happy,eg: I feel great happiness and joy whenever I spend time with my children.
13-Jan-21

Currently in most countries around the world, only rich women can access IVF treatments which is absolutely unjust. IVF should be made affordable for all women!
Arthur
It may seem harsh but a law should be introduced to stop junkies and lifetime dole bludgers from having offspring altogether, some folks need to have a licence to have kids otherwise deformed and neglected, unwanted kids will be permanently dependent on welfare
20-Nov-20

Anyone else struggles to get there teenaged to go out anywhere? It s like we re punishing them to go shopping or to the pool for the day?
Sarah G 76834
Keep an eye on your teenager's mental health. My son had depression and was suicidal but he was usually in his room and I didn't realize until someone at my church put him onto headspace. Staying in your bedroom and not talking is not normal teenage behaviour. Also look out for lack of interest in things they used to love.
30-Jan-26

I am pretty open with finances only with my best friend. That being said, we are both in similar financial situations and have similar mindsets towards money. What about you? How often do you discuss personal finance with your close friends?
Cocoabeansmom
I don't discuss finances with anyone but my husband. I never talk about anything personal with friends.
23-Jan-26

People who never apologize often struggle with fragile egos, deep-seated shame, low self-esteem, or a rigid belief they are always right. We all know people who just can't apologize, why do you think that is?
EMJM
Rude. Narcissists. Got no time for 'em. Life's too short to argue with ego's. Let them go.\u270c\ufe0f
13-Dec-25

Depending on which half of the hemisphere you live on, you either have a summery or wintery Christmas. My whole life, I have only experienced summer Christmases. Do people who have Christmas in winter even realise that the other half of the world is in summertime? You see Christmas products in shops and everything is based on a winter Christmas. The real question is... which one is better and why?
Sheree T
It doesn't matter if it is Winter or Summer where you live, Christmas\ud83c\udf84 will always be Christmas no matter what the season.
24-Dec-25

Sometimes I wonder if it is really necessary to host a Christmas dinner. I love spending time with family, but organizing everything can feel stressful and expensive. Many of my family members are busy too, and it makes me question if a big dinner is truly needed or if a simple gathering would be enough. I m looking for others' thoughts. Do you think hosting a Christmas dinner is important, or is it okay to celebrate in a smaller, easier way?
Jan R 542056
I think Christmas should be spent however you want. If hosting a dinner is it then by all means. The stress can be alleviated by turning it down a notch or two.. It doesn't have to be elaborate. The whole idea is the sharing and caring as we get together and celebrate. Get family members involved. They can contribute by bringing something.
15-Dec-25

Traditions often shift and adapt when they cross borders. For example, Christmas in Australia blends European customs with summer barbecues and beach gatherings, while Lunar New Year celebrations vary widely between China, Vietnam, and Korea, each adding unique foods, rituals, and symbols. Even ancient practices like Yule have been reinterpreted into modern holiday traditions.
Linda C
If different traditions enter through new family members what is wrong with that. You can keep yours and just add theirs. We are all immigrants or ancestors of immigrants. We used to be mainly English traditions which did not suit our climate anyway. I never saw snow until my teenage years, so a snow scene scenario is not my tradition. A roast in Australia during 30 plus degree temps. is just ridiculous so a BBQ or beach setting with seafood etc. became the rule for us although many still keep up the UK traditions. Each to their own. It is basically all about family isn't it?
09-Dec-25

I am grateful to members of my family who have helped my husband and I during a recent move. They organised rubbish removals, helping with lifting and cleaning and provided extra transport to the new property as well. Is there anyone in your life who is an invaluable help and comfort to you during these events?
Lachelle B
Give family date of move, organise truck, pack one room, cull as you go, boxes in the garage, clean room, shut door. Takeaways for last two days so you're not doing dishes all the time. Last day males move, women at the other house unpacking. Organisation is key including weather reports. Pets are the last to be moved.
04-Nov-25

Do you have siblings? Do you get along with them? My older brother and I used to play together all the time as kids. But as we grew older, we grew apart. Now we hardly talk and when we do, it's awkward. I'd love to reconnect, but our interests are very different, and we live in different states, so it's difficult.
KAREN J 796020
I have one sister younger than me. We are very close our mother died in childbirth and my sister, and I are very close, I'm 12 years older I love her so much she is my angel and gift from God .
23-Sep-25

Everyone has a different idea of what success means. For some, it s having a good career and financial stability, while for others it s about happiness, health, or strong relationships. Success doesn t always look the same for everyone. What does success mean to you, and do you think your idea of success has changed over time?
Greg B 520364
My wife still loves me. I have 2 daughters who love me. 3 Grand daughters who love me. And 1 grand son who loves me. Success.
26-Aug-25

With the rise of social media, messaging apps, and remote work tools, it's easier than ever to stay in touch with people across the world. But at the same time, I sometimes wonder if all this "connectedness" is actually making us feel more alone. Are we really connecting in a meaningful way, or just filling the space with digital noise? I ve heard some say that while we have more ways to communicate, the quality of our interactions has gone down and that face-to-face...
writerrochelle
As I only have a landline phone, a desktop, and a laptop computer, I can honestly say technology hasn't isolated me. But, when I look around and see families in a restaurant with their attention on their phones instead of each other, I'd say people are more isolated 'together'... ;-(
14-Jun-25

What time period would you choose?...let's see...go back for more than 50 years, and you are just starting to struggle with the language 200 years, and you are almost totally lost and everyone else is tiny...all these fun new diseases that no-one can cure...at some point no-one speaks any language you understand...and go back to the dinosaurs, and you would be unable to breathe the atmosphere...going back in time?... I wouldn't go back much further than when I was...
Paul B 522937
I would love to go back to 1066 when my ancesters came from France and took over the running of England, it must have been a very interesting period.
02-Apr-25

Is there an experience you wish you could relive as if it were brand new? Maybe it's the thrill of your first roller coaster ride, the excitement of discovering a favourite book or movie, or the joy of a special trip. What s something you d love to experience again for the very first time, and why?
BLACK LIVES MATTER
IF I could go back in time: I would address regrets, I would address personal reflections, and I would address philosophical considerations. Unfortunately, I STILL would make the same mistakes over and over, just like societies (COUNTRIES) do over and over again (LOL)!
21-Mar-25

Scams are everywhere these days email, phone calls, SMS, and more seeking personal details for identity theft, investments, deep fakes, security, and romance scams. People lose millions globally. An older family member had her accounts hacked when someone stole her phone, even attempting to steal her pension by changing bank details. Luckily, they got nothing but the phone, though they took her confidence and security. I regularly get scam messages and block them, never...
Glenys H 310155
I called in on a friend and she was on the phone and sat in front of her computer... She acknowledged me, and indicated she was on phone so I put the kettle on for a cuppa and went back to the lounge which is where her computer was... suddenly realised she was about to give someone access to her pc, and I jumped in and got her attention, she told me what was happening and I advised her to call technical support herself if she was having problems cos it sounded like a scam to me. She ended the call immediately, she made the phone call and it was a scam. Thank goodness I dropped in when I did.
20-Mar-25

I used to read magazines, and one of the reasons I lost interest is because you can't be sure of what's claimed to be factual. I had read an article on Americans and work, and it stated that, given the choice of having more free time for family and friends or more time working, the majority of Americans would prefer to work. (????) While I'm sure there are some people who would feel that way, I find it hard to believe that the majority do. It makes me wonder how valid...
Linda C
If I ever do read any it is with skepticism at best. I saw a photograph of Nicole Kidman in 3 magazines but from different angles. Different story for each unrelated to each other as well. People tend to believe the written word these days more than ever. The internet is rife with falsehoods.
16-Mar-25

I wanted to catch an Uber to a large Restaurant...they quoted $56... I order the Uber to go to a nearby location without a restaurant...3 minutes walk away...$26......in another example...my son caught an Uber in the early evening today and the journey cost $26...when he wanted to come home later...the return journey was $56...HOWEVER the same return journey to a nearby house was $26... So if you are going out somewhere good it is expensive....an...
Jack M 393074
Duh! Do not use Uber or Door Dash. Most folks have driving licenses and cars (I do not so I walk places my friends with vehicles cannot take me) and with an intelligent prez and veep in the White House again, fuel prices are coming down fast! Our local Turkey Hill gas prices drop by a penny a day and have ever since Harris opened her big mouth to bad-mouth Vance and Trumpy! The reason for the high Uber prices? The Uber drivers are fixing their own 'guesstimated' rates! Too many of us are just plain too damned lazy! You drive to a gym and exercise for an hour and then drive home again or to work! How re walking to the gym and then back home? I walk about 6 miles a day to and from our local parks and I am 75 years young!
17-Jan-25

Do you make New Year's resolutions? If so, do you stick with it? After indulging in all the goodies and good foods at Christmas, I always make my resolution to exercise and lose the extra pounds I've gained. I do stick with it and I do lose the extra weight, however, I sometimes indulge in treats now and then throughout the year.
Bugalugs
Most of us sdeem to failwhen we make these. For 2025 we can make some which only Habit stops us ftom keeping.
There is Climate Change and Plastic Pollution, with some scientists saying the latter is every bit as dangerous for it is finding its way into the Food Chain and, a bit like Heavy Metals such s Copper Chlorophyl, once in our bodies it never, ever can be renoved.
So why not resolve to stop using Household Plastics such as Gladwrap, Clingwrap and use either Waxed or Greaseproof paper? Stop using Bin Liners. Is it really so hard to hose out the big bins? Wrap Food Scraps in old newspapers and Freeze until Garbage Day. Most Supermarkets have Service Delicatessens and now you are allowed to bring your own, Washed, containers instead of everything being wrapped in huge Plastic Bags? All it takes is a bit of effort to start with and then it becomes a habit. Shopping Bags? You do know that those so-called Green bags are just more plastic? We can buy Cotton ones which can be tossed in the laudry every now and then to keep them clean and nice for the Checkout staff to use.
31-Dec-24

Whenever I see my family happy, it feels like the most fulfilling moment of my life. I truly believe that witnessing the joy of loved ones is the greatest gift anyone can receive. Besides that, what personal experience brings you the most happiness? What has been your happiest moment in life?
BLACK LIVES MATTER
When I got divorce, and I get alimony from my 'beloved' ex-wife - PURE HAPPINESS - for the rest of my LIFE!
25-Oct-24

Try again when a child pushes you away, be patient. Wait a bit and try again. It is important that children know that they are worth pursuing. Talk Keep conversation open, children don't always know why they are doing the things they are doing, they need your support to understand themselves better. What are your thoughts? What to do when your child pushes you away?
Jania S
The AI need to learn to speak English. A little grammar would be great, But a stupid question no information and loads of rhetoric... Try rewording
12-Dec-24

What is your favourite Christmas Carol/Song and why? Mine is Jingle Bell Rock because it's a reasonably modern song with a happy sound to it.
Edith v
Silent night!! .I was a kid in England & with a couple of friends we wood go door to door & sing at the door & they often gave us a penny or two .I would use mine to buy Mum a pretty Hankie
10-Dec-24

What about stepchildren who break up families with their selfishness and lies. I have had enough of that, especially with my husband's spoiled grown daughter who is almost 40 and still expects daddy to pay her way. She manipulates him and makes him feel guilty so he will give her money, even though she can afford to drink and smoke cigarettes and eat out all the time.
Bugalugs
Maybe you should have thought about that before you married him. His daughter won't have suddenly become as you claim she is. What about people who set out break up families with THEIR Greed, YHEIR Lies, THEIR Selfishness? How many families have THEY Destroyed as a direct result of THEIR actions?
04-Dec-24

Often times, when I eat at a restaurant, go to a clothing store, or visit any type of business lately, the staff member tells me to be sure and give them a 5-star review online. I had a waiter bring out a QR code for me to scan with my cell phone in hopes I'd go online and give a 5-star review. I told him I didn't want to do the review now, I'd do it later. I hadn't even left, and he's trying to get me to do a review before I leave! I understand how important the...
Scott R 947830
I'd rather have them say something like: "If your experience was anything less than 5-star, please make sure to tell us so we can work on improving"...
20-Nov-24

I was taking my dog to our local dog park to help with socialisation, but one day, I noticed a dog becoming more aggressive toward other dogs. As a result, I took my dog and left. Trainers and vets often discourage the use of dog parks. They say it can become violent or spread sickness. What do you think is a dog park bad or good?
Tracey 1419192
If you have a dog breed that needs to run around to burn energy they are great. Otherwise, a nice walk should be great for their needs.
11-Nov-24

If you bought a brand-new plain white T-Shirt, then what words or pictures would you have printed on the front of it?
Von
I saw a photo of a couple wearing the following...one reads "I Come in Peace"
The partners T-shirts reads "I'm Peace"
10-Oct-24

As I enter my 60s, I am now interested in making a bucket list. I feel that having a bucket list is a personal decision. If you have a bucket list, what s the number one item on it?
Sonya F 68771
Just travel as much as we can my bucket list was set foot on all 7 continents which i have achieved it was amazing
04-Sep-24

One day chocolate was suddenly poisonous to dogs (that would have been a surprise to my first three dogs who ate it and lived until at least 13 year of age)...best buy them dog treats at $10 a packet... AND you should not give them sticks or bits of wood they may splinter and be swallowed (but you can buy a stick shaped dog toy...made of wood...in the supermarket...for only $19!!)...oh and bones...cooked or uncooked...can splinter and be swallowed too now...or damage...
Denise C (Qld)
Yes it's a big business - and don't forget the flea shampoos and heartworm tablets and doggies day care centres and vet bills that are more expensive than human services.
20-Aug-24

We have really good dog like robots...ones like birds...and otters. Why not make robots TO hunt? Some people are totally obsessed with outsmarting and killing things....some people have stopped eating animals...why not stop killing them for no reason too? We could even make smarter "animals" that would make "hunting" more exciting for those with guns....they could be disabled and "die"...then just restarted for the next "hunt". What do you think about that?
Pato Lo Duck
Great idea, then we could have a robotic duck season and I wouldn\u2019t have to hide in my nest anymore\u2026
09-Aug-24

I have seen a lot of these products on the shelves what is up with inventors they come up with odd things which are not safe for children at any age I saw a cotton candy flavoured putty or something which I don't think is safe for kids and a lady had chap stick or lipstick which is not safe for kids and the mom gave it to her 6-year-old. What do you think?
Izabelle 1457992
I grew up in the 80s and all our toys were hazards. I had a barbie once, roller blading barbie, she had flints on her rollerblades, so I'd drag her across the floor or carpet and sparks would shoot out! I can't imagine something like that being sold today haha!
10-Aug-24

Considering the shortage of tradesmen and other educated people, should post-secondary training and education be free?
MoB
Education is never free, the question should be, should taxpayers pay for all education or should parents pay for some of the education their children get.
06-Aug-24

When we get married or involved in a committed relationship, we also become part of our partner's family. Have you experienced a mother-in-law and/or father-in-law who are rude to you? You know they don't like you, so interactions become awkward. How do you handle it? Do you confront them? Do you find out why they don't like you and try to change to get them to like you? Do you ask your partner to intervene? Or do you just keep quiet to keep the peace? ...
Norman PSBHRJ
You shouldn't change for anyone, especially your inlaws. Your husband should talk to them and let them know if they are rude to you, they are being disrepect to you and your husband, if they can't behave and be grown ups then they need to stay away. Your husband married you for who you are, why change that to please his parents.
31-Jul-24

A nutritionist on the morning news has warned that ALL soft drinks are REALLY bad for you. There are NO good ones, you should wean yourself off them using fizzy flavoured spring water, and then supposedly just drink water. So at the moment you can only be safe and responsible if you drink water and eat vegetables...everything else either really bad for you...or really bad for the planet...when they remember that there is also credible evidence that plants feel...
Izabelle 1457992
Me and my kids were hooked on pop for years . But the last few years we've been drinking water and juice pretty exclusively.. I think we just got sick of pop! Especially in the summer nothing beats cold water!
12-Jul-24

After picking up a parcel at night recently, the front bumper bar of our Landcruiser caught on a section of a digger in front of us. No matter what we did, we could not free the car. Within minutes a neighbor came to assist to no avail. Then, just as we were going to call for help, a team of neighbors from three houses came and lifted the car free. We were relieved and very grateful that no damage was done. Their response and assistance were admirable. I am always...
Danielle R 478487
Yes,there is a lady I know well. She is an angel. Drove me to hospital when my son was taken from school via ambulance. Cancelled her day schedule of work,waited for hours and took us both home. Always happy and happy to help. I am so profoundly grateful there are people in this world like her.
02-Jul-24

How do you go about with helping your kid who's being bullied at school and the teachers won't do anything about it? My daughter doesn't want me to confront these kids as it will make them bully even more. I feel lost in trying to support her
Danielle R 478487
Schools are very unwilling to acknowledge this unless it happens right in front of a teacher. Perpetrators are smart,they pick their moments. That being said if the school won't help you there are a few things I found with my youngest son helped. Listen, so they feel heard and validated,talk about your child's feelings.
Try and work out who is who in the zoo,your child's friends,the bully's as well as those that stand by do nothing . Encourage your child to avoid, those that harass them ,so not to be in an area of the school yard,walk away when being verbally harassed,ignoring them as bully's get bored pretty quick and move on if they can't get the reaction they want. If it gets physical they must report it to the teacher. Specifically in my son's case it got to the point where I told him to retaliate and stand up for himself as the teacher had no interest in his problems and would move him on. I told rhe school this, they weren't happy,but it made the bully think twice about tripping him over and pushing him down rhe stairs again. Finally I got a private councillor. After consulting my sons g.p he was put on a mental health plan* to support him and to get 5 sessions free of private councilling with a child specialist of my choice. Best thing I ever did. He had someone else to talk to,was given great advice,talked about coping with stress and bullying. * the session involved together councilling as a family and part individual which was confidential. Things rhe councillor thought I should know was discussed with my son and then we talked about it together. He continued going for 3 years. Now,he is 18,and happy,doesn't care who likes him or not and actually has had many of his ex bully's apologise to him. By the way ,when school found out about the councillor,they contacted them,but was told they couldn't discuss anything with them. The school offered a councillor for him,after 4 years of ignoring my son,we refused.
24-Jun-24

We have seen many settings for soapies from all over the world. Beaches, Vineyards. Airlines, apartment buildings, cafes, restaurants, cotton plantations mafia involvement etc. Can you suggest other interesting or provocative ideas for a new soapie in your country?
Kymberleigh R 733541
I would like to see people that live with physical disabilities on Soapies as there is not enough diversity on these types of programs.
I like watching Neighbours and Home and Away, Neighbours currently has a young lady that has Down Syndrome, (I can't remember her name)
A new Soapies could be the trials and tribulations of NDIS.
It would give the wider community a real understanding what people with disabilities and their parents/carers and siblings have to do deal within real life.
Another idea is a hospital setting with all the patients living with various disabilities needing medical treatment.
04-Jun-24

While some of the claims about running shoes...without any scientific proof...sell products...it really becomes laughable in "sports" where whatever shoes you are wearing Golf?...really golf? These guys don't use their footwear to achieve anything you think if you buy a pretty pair of shoes with blue bits on the sole, you might play better golf?...come on
Conny 1314879
shoes do not make the person, however, if they are comfortable, they can improve the personality. . .
10-Apr-24

Well the first multi-story car park recently collapsed it would seem because it was not designed to carry the full weight of all the cars that were parked in it. A building that was perfectly safe when parked full of cars in 1970...had to carry vehicles at least one third heavier by 2020....and now we have loads of electric cars that weigh a minimum of one third heavier than even that again some double that weight or more that's something to think about...eh?...we...
BLACK LIVES MATTER
One, I don't drive (vision issues). Two, not my issue. Three, reads like municipal (city) civil service building inspectors ARE NOT doing their jobs! Last, we need to pump more 'money' into public transportation (long-term cheaper than building more multi-story car parks to accommodate ever increasing heavier automobiles)!
23-Mar-24

To ensure you're prepared to turn your setbacks into success, make sure you... what do you do exactly? How do you rebound after failure?
Susan KTC
\u201cImagine yourself 5 years from now, you\u2019re in the best shape, happier than ever, you\u2019re with your soulmate and financially successful. The only way this becomes a reality is if you work for it, don\u2019t wish for it, work for it!\u201d A quote from a man I really admire, Morgan Freeman.
19-Mar-24

These days, people are so impatient, especially on the roads. Who cares if it takes you a few extra minutes to get where ever you need to be. Is it really important to save those few minutes, as I don't? There is no reason that anyone can't wait for a minute. In my opinion. Isn't safety weighs more than running? These people who cause road rage, they do not stop to think that their reactions can cause a major accident. Is this what they want? Any driver on their own or...
Roslyn A
I always give a thank you to other drivers - I even acknowledge with a friendly wave when they cut me off or do something stupid - makes them do a double take trying to figure it out.
27-Feb-24

I am getting sick and tired of companies just using chatbots on both phone (if you can get a number) and computers. You have trouble explaining to them the problem, and then you have to wait for ages for a real person to get back to you. If ever. What do you think of them?
Stephen 1449391
Maybe someone could start a course to teach people to just talk like a chat bot. New job opportunities?
21-Feb-24

A multi-storey car park in New York has recently collapsed...they generally don't do that...and a report in the UK advises that the weight bearing capacities of our car parks needs to be substantially revised....most cars have become a lot heavier over the last 30 years...and all the new electric models weigh at least 30% more...often double or more...many current carparks were never designed to take this kind of weight when full.....scary stuff?...
Bugalugs
Just what is this obsession people have with buying these huge, heavy vehicles? vehicles designed for Off-Road use are being bought but never do morwe than take the children to and from school, do the weekly shopping. General Motors released a Monster Vehicle called RAM, a vehicle which dwarfs all others, designed for heavy Duty Work but like the smaller, but still massively heavy and big, are never used for Work but also to take the chhildren to and from school and go to the Supermarket. Not only do they tear up the roads but they eat fuel and, in Australia where they are being dumped because other countries are banning their sale they pump out more emissions than any others. I was in a Supermarket car park the other day and one of these monster vehicles took up Two parking spaces.
Do people buy these tanks because they have such low self-esteem they make them feel bigger and better than everyone else?
Governments should ban their sale becuaes, for the most part, they are totally unnecessary.
10-Feb-24

Having a pacifier on hand is very handy to have, or maybe not. I see & understand when a baby or a child needs one, but if you can even better if they are not used to it. In my opinion, I would never introduce this to any child or baby for many reasons. I was so lucky that my children never had it. What I really find that is disgusting when you're in public & you see a child about 3 4 yrs old & still have one. Don't parents know it is really bad for their gum & new teeth...
Maria C 93828
Many people come on here talking crap. I do not believe what some people say. They think they are perfect. Just everyone is different and what is not good for many, it maybe good for others.
25-Jan-24
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